The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door

Conversation with survivor-leader Abby Wade, MHS

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 06 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT

In this first of two episodes, we explore the neuroscience of developmental trauma with survivor-leader Abby Wade who is a neuroscientist specializing in child maltreatment and institutional responses to trauma. Abby is also a survivor of family controlled sex trafficking.

Part 2: What makes family based trafficking different?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 26 Jun 2022 13:46:49 GMT

In this episode we continue to unpack the details that make familial sex trafficking unique and highlight the unique needs of survivors.

What makes family-based sex trafficking different? Part 1

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 19 Jun 2022 13:04:28 GMT

In this episode we start to unpack the unique realities of familial sex trafficking

The Power of the People: Systems Fail but People Persist

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 28 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode we take a deeper look at some of the systemic failures both in the Epstein case and our experience. We celebrate the ways that victims and their advocates have been struggling and persisting to bring the reality to light. We will rage....and celebrate....in equal measures (sort of)....

Are you part of the solution or part of the problem?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 02 Nov 2024 12:15:00 GMT

Wow....it's been a minute! In this episode we share what Mezzo Allies, Inc. has been passionately pursuing. We also talk about the importance of being willing to be uncomfortable...to speak up when injustice and ignorance are staring us in the face. We are either part of the solution or part of the problem.....there isn't much in the middle.

Words of Encouragement

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 12 Nov 2024 00:04:58 GMT

In this episode, we consider recent events and how to deal with the emotional impact. Bottom line.....we ALL have a mission.....to stand for the vulnerable.....so we STAY.ON.MISSION. As we consider this we look to the example of Miep and Jan Gies....the Dutch couple who protected Ann Frank and her family.

Entanglements and Connections

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 28 May 2022 02:02:30 GMT

In this episode we share more details about the enormity of the sex trafficking organization in WNY and the bits of information that have come to us from listeners corroborating Kait’s experiences.

Conversation with Miranda Pacchiana of The Second Wound

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 12:00:07 GMT

In this episode we talk with Miranda Pacchiana who is the author of many of the posts we have shared from The Second Wound platform. Join us as we talk through the impact of the failure of people to hear the disclosure of victims and survivors and support them well.

How Can We Help?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 04 Mar 2023 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the question of how to be the person that can help a child get help and how to show up for a survivor. We specifically look at the gap in awareness of family controlled sex trafficking.

When The Middle Collapses

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 10 May 2026 22:30:00 GMT

In this episode, we continue our discussion of the Epstein case, focusing on what it may signal to victims about what to expect when seeking accountability through the court system. We explore the many ways systems can—and too often do—fail victims, and the lasting impact of those failures.

Step Up

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 04:00:00 GMT

In this episode we unpack the painful….and empowering….reality of how regular people make the difference. Thank you to the Butfalo Bills for taking a stand for the vulnerable even if it means a sacrifice….Go Bills!

Action and Reaction

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 14 Jul 2023 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the reality that every action we….and others….take triggers a reaction. While this is obvious it can also be complicated because the nature of this situation makes it difficult for others to fully appreciate the reaction that might be caused by their action….or lack of action.

Survivor Re-Exploitation

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 11:03:57 GMT

In this episode we talk about the idea of survivor re-exploitation….the ways survivors can feel compelled to share details of their experience that are unnecessary and for the curiosity of people not in harms way.

be uncomfortable

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 29 Nov 2023 00:05:00 GMT

In this episode we encourage….and challenge….ourselves to be willing to be uncomfortable in the pursuit of showing up for those around us

Response to Liberty University Title IX/Clery Act Fines

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Thu, 07 Mar 2024 02:26:00 GMT

In this episode we share an unscripted…sometimes raw…perspective on the Liberty University Clery Act settlement of $14 million dollars (plus $2 million in new campus safety improvements)

...so others don't need a podcast

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Thu, 26 Oct 2023 18:10:23 GMT

WE'RE IN BOSTON, MA!!!

In this episode we share about our experience in Boston, MA sharing information with child protection staff and leaders about the reality of Family Controlled Exploitation and Organized Sexual Abuse. Thank you for everyone who has made this possible!

Building the Bridge While Working Against the Tide

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 20 Jan 2024 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode we share how Mezzo Allies is growing in spite of the continued efforts made by the offenders, their flying monkeys and the naysayers.

#beaGEORGE

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 09 Jun 2026 23:38:57 GMT

In this episode we share more about what we've been up to over the last three years and our plans for the podcast. We also share about our experiences advocating for the passage of an anti-trafficking bill in Albany including our excellent experience with Assemblymember George Alvarez.....and we encourage every one to #beaGEORGE!!

Chasing Records

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 04 Jul 2023 18:02:47 GMT

In this episode, we explore the frustrating experience of working to gather background information to corroborate allegations.

Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC)

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 17 Mar 2023 16:34:01 GMT

In this episode we address the issue of the extremely damaging and inappropriate counsel offered by ACBC to victims, offenders and churches about how to respond to allegations of abuse.

The Enablers

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 01 Apr 2022 18:41:21 GMT

In this episode we address the painful truth that abusers will continue to abuse as long as the enablers enable. If we are waiting for the toxic people to suddenly wake up and decide to stop then we are going to wait forever. What if individuals and organizations like The Chapel at Crosspoint decided to stand firmly for the victims instead of enabling?

Counting the Cost

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 07 Oct 2023 00:54:00 GMT

Trigger warning: In this episode we have a conversation about Gretchen who was abused within the same network as Kait and was was lost to suicide on New Year's Day 2023. We are joined by Margaret, Gretchen's sister, and Emily, one of Gretchen's closest, long time friends.

A Tale As Old As Time: The Epstein Files

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 21 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

This series of episodes about the Epstein case will draw parallels between the experiences of victims in every community and Epstein's victims.

In this episode, we will share a general overview and some of our thoughts. Future episodes will include systemic responses, considering the role of parents, how victims are experiencing this process, the power of journalism and community outrage and, most importantly, how victims have bravely persisted for each other and with each other to be heard.

My Two Worlds

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Thu, 17 Feb 2022 19:28:08 GMT

How does a child live simultaneously a “normal” suburban childhood while being sex trafficked? The only way to survive that is to have a complete separation between one reality and the other.

Trauma and Faith

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 21 Feb 2022 00:02:26 GMT

In this episode we explore the question of faith and the relationship between trauma and faith

The College Years

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 22 Apr 2022 19:29:28 GMT

In this episode we address the experiences Kait had during her college years. What she hoped would be a fresh start and an opportunity to reinvent herself turned out to be another time her abusers proved that their reach was long.

Majoring on the Minors

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Thu, 12 Jan 2023 01:57:59 GMT

In this episode we unpack the phenomenon of 'staring at a pebble while the parade passes by'....otherwise known as 'majoring on the minors' or being distracted from what really matters by details that are irrelevant to the central message. Updated since we have to triple and quadruple think every single word and sentence

The Ethics of the Podcast

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 06 Apr 2024 13:42:51 GMT

In this episode, we unpack in detail the ethics of the decision to move from social worker-client to podcast partner then to non-profit partner.

Finding My Voice

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 11 Feb 2022 21:00:00 GMT

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door tells the story of a suburban, middle class girl who was trafficked and sexually exploited for decades starting even before the age of 6 years old.

In this episode we introduce ourselves and begin sharing what it means to have a voice.

Hopeful and Afraid Part One

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 17 Sep 2022 13:31:52 GMT

In this first part of a two part series, we unpack how a criminal investigation is experienced by the survivor.

Where were the parents?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 08 Mar 2026 23:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we consider the role of parents in the Epstein exploitation ring. We know that children as young as 4 or 5 have been identified as victims but yet we are not hearing about family-controlled sex trafficking. How could a child that young....or even 9 or 10....possibly be victimized in these extreme ways and a parent not be involved or at least criminally neglectful?

Advancing in the face of adversity

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 05 Aug 2023 23:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we talk about all that we’ve been doing to build the army of supporters while standing strong in the face of challenges.

Advocacy and Abuse in a Church Environment

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 19 Aug 2024 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we have a conversation with Abbi Nye and April Sochia about CFCtoo. CFCtoo is an organization committed to creating a safe space for survivors of Christian Fellowship Church in northern New York State. CFCtoo is also advocating for the passage of legislation requiring faith leaders to be mandated child abuse reporters in NY State.

Making an Impact with PowHERhouse Nicholle Overkamp

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 21 Feb 2024 19:57:06 GMT

In this episode we have a conversation with Nicholle Overkamp of PowHERhouse Money Coaching and Wilcox Financial Group about her upcoming "Becoming PowHERhouse" Summit on March 8th....International Women's Day.

Corroboration

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 24 Mar 2023 13:53:01 GMT

In this episode we respond to the claims by Cornerstone that there has never been corroboration offered to support Kait’s allegations…..complete ridiculousness.

Whiplash

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 14 Apr 2023 11:39:27 GMT

That whiplash feeling…

Happy Anniversary to Us

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 10 Feb 2023 13:00:00 GMT

How can this be? One year ago on February 11, 2022 we launched our first episode. In this episode we unpack the journey from then to now…..and the bright world/dark world reality of “anniversaries”

The Science of Deception

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 14:27:40 GMT

In this episode we interview Zachary Carr, PhD and consider how the science of deception informs our understanding of sex trafficking

Decades of DARVO

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 19 Oct 2022 12:49:55 GMT

In this episode we address recent events….and the repeating pattern of DARVO and it’s impact

Peripheral Puzzle Pieces

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 19:11:11 GMT

In this episode, we talk about the details that have been filled in for us since the podcast began. Thank you to all of you who have volunteered your experiences.....it has been illuminating.

Keeping our kids safe

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 09 Mar 2022 12:59:53 GMT

So….if we can’t be sure we will spot someone who poses a risk to our children HOW DO WE KEEP THEM SAFE?? The answer is to give them a deep sense of their own power and voice that will help them to protect themselves.

Cork Board

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Thu, 13 Jun 2024 18:48:57 GMT

In this episode, we talk about the reality of the web of the network of offenders in organized sexual abuse and how difficult it can be for victims to break free. Listen to our raw and real feelings following the creation of the cork board.

DARVO

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 11 Jun 2022 11:52:45 GMT

Deny, Accuse, Reverse Victim and Offender (DARVO)….the playbook for responding when you’re accused of sexual abuse

Hopeful and Afraid Part Two

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 20 Sep 2022 00:29:36 GMT

In this episode we continue the discussion of how investigations feel to the survivor. We will specifically be addressing private/non-law enforcement investigations and their emotional impact on the survivor.

Counting the Cost......Of Reporting

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 26 Apr 2026 22:30:00 GMT

In this episode we continue to explore how the Epstein case shines a light on the painful journey victims/survivors are on when they make the desperate choice to engage with the systems that are meant to help.

Podcast Preview

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 01 Feb 2022 14:44:42 GMT

In this episode, we share a high level overview of the whole of Kait’s experience leading up to the creation of the podcast. This is a great place to start for newcomers and an opportunity to share the basic overview with others.

Trigger Warning: I Am Not Alone

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 20 Jan 2023 22:54:51 GMT

In this first episode in a two part series, we have a conversation with Alicia Cohen who is a survivor of family controlled sex trafficking and the founder of SAFE (Survivors Against Familial Exploitation). Join us as Alicia shares her experience of sexual abuse and exploitation at the hands of her father who who used the church to hide his crimes. Alicia also unpacks her very frustrating attempts to leverage the criminal justice system to address the very real ongoing safety concerns for current day victims.

It Was Fun…until it wasn’t

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 05 Mar 2022 22:06:49 GMT

Skiing with my family is one of my favorite things…but then ski patrol happened. In this episode we explore how common life experiences become more complicated when you have trauma.

The Good Shepherd

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 30 Dec 2022 14:09:53 GMT

In this episode Laurie has a conversation with Darrin Folger, former Executive Pastor of The Well in Amherst, NY about what God has to say about a shepherds response to a predator among the flock

Abuse in a Caregiver Relationship

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 06 May 2023 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the short and long term impact of abuse that happens at the hands of the primary caregivers in a child's life.

Why Is This So Difficult??

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 16 Nov 2022 21:01:19 GMT

In this episode we share an authentic and sometimes raw look at what it is like to keep pressing forward when so many forces seem to be pushing against us

The Memory Wars

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 08 Apr 2023 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the question of repressed memory and address the topic based on current day brain science.

Q&A: Part 2

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 25 Jul 2022 00:15:04 GMT

Listen as we continue talking about and answering many of the questions our listeners have asked.

We Keep Going

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 09 Apr 2022 16:33:44 GMT

In this episode we share some of the impact this journey has had on us….and on some of our listeners. It has not always been easy or seamless...in fact its often messy and hard... but we keep going. We keep going because it matters.

Tear Down This Wall of Silence

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 18 Nov 2022 19:09:07 GMT

In this episode we hear from Pastor Dale Ingraham who challenges the church to be who God calls us to be….a people who boldly stand for the vulnerable and bring hope to the hopeless.

Conversation with Amberlee and Tim

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 22 Apr 2022 23:45:21 GMT

In this episode we give you a chance to hear directly from a woman who shared her experience of bringing allegations to The Chapel in 2018/19 regarding sexual abuse of her then 3 year old daughter.

How is this so hard….part 2

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 17 Dec 2022 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we share how the investigation has been going….or not going.

Never Empty Threats

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 16 Mar 2022 23:30:24 GMT

In this episode Kait shares more details about the threats that kept her from being able to tell the whole of her experience all at once rather than in pieces.

Child Abuse Prevention Month

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 21 Apr 2023 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the question of the long term impact of unresolved childhood trauma. Specifically we consider how difficult it can be for people with unaddressed trauma to really show up for a child who is vulnerable.

2 years ago…1 year ago…TODAY

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 31 Oct 2023 19:22:50 GMT

In this episode we talk about the dichotomy between where we were this very week 2 years ago- hurt, scared and without help…. 1 year ago- begging Cornerstone Church on Grand Island to keep NAMED SEX OFFENDERS away from children …. And today…training up an ARMY of helpers in the world. The difference is wild. Don’t miss this episode!

Response to the Congregational Statement

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 00:34:24 GMT

If only the words and actions matched….this episode would not have ever been recorded. We so so wish it were not needed but it seems to be. In this episode we address the comments made in the congregational statement published by The Chapel this week.

Where Did It All Begin?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 07 Jan 2023 16:31:41 GMT

In this episode we will talk through the churches involved and some of the offenders there.

Escape attempt

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 26 Feb 2022 01:43:38 GMT

Brace yourself….this one is hard….middle school is messy enough without all this

The Eye of the Storm

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 12 Nov 2022 15:18:56 GMT

Also known as the messy middle….in this episode we will address some recent events and more about the reality of what it’s like for survivors trying to get help.

The Second Wound

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 22 May 2022 11:13:41 GMT

In this episode we address the issue of The Second Wound. This happens when instead of support and protection, a survivor experiences victim blaming, denial and other damaging responses when they come forward with their trauma. Survivors are left feeling re-traumatized, confused and isolated. Listen as we unpack this very real and harmful phenomenon and discuss many of the second wounds that have occurred in Kait's story.

Investigations

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 02 Mar 2022 11:09:10 GMT

In this episode we explore the damage done when untrained individuals attempt to investigate allegations on their own.

Naming Names

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 04 Dec 2022 13:53:57 GMT

In this episode we address the questions about naming names….Why now? What are the factors that affect the decision for us to name an offender and what is next?

Escape Attempt 2

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 12 Mar 2022 19:38:08 GMT

What happens when a child attempts to tell and isn’t heard? What would it take for her to try to tell again? In this episode Kait shares the painful truth of the fall out of her second attempt to be free of her abusers and finally be safe.

Q&A: Part 1

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 11 Jul 2022 02:33:49 GMT

You asked and we are answering! In this episode we answer some of the many questions we have gotten from our listeners since starting the podcast.

Conversation with Christiana💜

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 31 Jul 2022 13:49:12 GMT

In this episode we talk with Christiana Christiano about her own experience with the church that much of Kait’s abuse happened in, her own sexual abuse story, and her choice to get involved in The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door.

What Should Happen

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 06 May 2022 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode Kait and Laurie unpack what they wish for in an organization’s response to allegations of misconduct. They also directly address what they want to see from The Chapel.

Why Don't You Just Move?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 01 Mar 2024 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode we address a question that is asked frequently....sometimes with concern...sometimes with curiosity...and sometimes with a hefty dose of skepticism. The question is Why Don't You Just Move?

Suicide Prevention Month

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 22 Sep 2023 21:03:54 GMT

**Trigger Warning** In this episode we talk about September’s Suicide Prevention month, the statistics and Kait’s journey

….and then there were two

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 03 Feb 2023 12:35:11 GMT

In this episode we have a conversation with Emily who was Kait’s childhood friend. Emily shares her own memories of abuse and experiences with Cornerstone Church and some of the people there.

Where is Law Enforcement?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 29 Apr 2023 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we will explore this frequently asked question.....where is Law Enforcement?

Building the Middle

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 14 Jun 2023 11:59:37 GMT

In this episode we share our experience connecting with the anti-trafficking community in Boston, MA. We also talk about the needs of survivors of family controlled commercial exploitation of children (FC-CSEC) and the impact how different communities address those needs.

Fear of the Podcast

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 10 Dec 2023 12:16:28 GMT

In our last episode, we encouraged us all to be willing to be uncomfortable….to be uncommon. In this episode, we talk a bit about what it takes to be a person who makes a difference to the status quo or to an individual person. Spoiler alert….it does not include being MORE afraid of being called out on the podcast than failing to stand for the vulnerable.

Introducing… YouTube!

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 14:35:08 GMT

Today we are sharing about our new youtube channel- The Ugly Truth About the Girl Next Door. We will use this platform for longer videos to share information about family controlled trafficking. Check it out!

Conversation with Kait’s husband, Patrick

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 23 Aug 2022 17:26:00 GMT

Listen as Kait and her husband, Patrick, talk about what it’s been like for him as he has walked this road with Kait. They share a little insight into their dating life, premarital counseling, and marriage❤️ as well as how it has been for him as the puzzle pieces have come together and the boxes have opened. If you are a spouse or loved one of someone who has experienced trauma, this is a good one to listen to!

The Paths to Safety and Justice

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Tue, 13 Dec 2022 21:12:26 GMT

In this episode we talk through some of the potential paths to safety and justice and how these paths can intersect and happen in parallel.

Conversation with actor Anthony Edwards and author Stephen Mills

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Wed, 19 Feb 2025 10:09:00 GMT

In this episode, we have a conversation with Stephen Mills, author of Chosen: A Memoir of Stolen Boyhood and actor, producer and director Anthony Edwards who some will remember as Goose from the movie Top Gun or Dr. Greene from the television show ER.

We are grateful for the authenticity and courage of these men as they share their experiences of sexual abuse as boys.

Please join us as we discuss the long term impact of childhood sexual abuse, institutional coverups and the unwillingness of "bystanders" to take a stand.

Why now and escape attempts….how does it all go together?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 01:20:08 GMT

In this episode we talk more about memory and Kait’s experiences of trying to break free

The Women

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode we answer the question of "where were the women?". We also unpack the impact on a child when a mother is involved in the abuse.

Conversation with Kimberly Haight from NY State Children's Alliance

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 19 Jul 2024 23:12:01 GMT

In this episode we have a conversation about the current state of NY State laws regarding child abuse and the need for reform

Conversations with John Gannon

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 17 Apr 2022 01:58:29 GMT

Listen to John Gannon (Kait’s father in law) talk about his perspective not only as a dad, but also as a long time member of The Chapel. John has been a volunteer, board member and staff member at The Chapel and gives some great insights into what this has been like as he has watched it all unfold.

How Memory and Trauma Work

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 18 Feb 2022 22:15:24 GMT

Sometimes people are confused about how it is possible for someone to be unable to access some factual details of a traumatic experience. In this episode, we are hoping to share some brain science information to show how it makes complete sense based on the science.

Where is God?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sun, 10 Apr 2022 21:42:54 GMT

In this episode, Laurie attempts to unpack the question of God’s presence in the heartache of this life

Episode Recap

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Mon, 22 May 2023 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode we share a high level look at Kait’s experience. If you’re new to the podcast we hope this will give you a place to start. If you’re a long time listener feel free to share this with others….and thank you for hanging with us!

Conversation with Lisa Goldblatt Grace Co-Founder and Director of My Life, My Choice (MLMC) Boston

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 16 Feb 2024 17:01:08 GMT

In this episode we have a conversation with Lisa Goldblatt Grace, LICSW, MPH who co-founded MLMC in 2002 after a teen was murdered by her exploiter. Join us as we talk through the factors that make a difference in the lives of the victims and survivors as well as the lives of the helpers.

My ACBC Experience

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 25 Mar 2023 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode we share Kait's personal experience with ACBC "counseling"

What is Justice?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 20 May 2023 11:57:10 GMT

In this episode we explore several paths to justice for survivors and consider the impacts.

Introducing Mezzo Inc.!

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 02 Jun 2023 21:28:33 GMT

We are so excited to announce the beginning of our new endeavor….Mezzo, Inc.….the space between victim and survivor

What is CONSENT and why does it matter?

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 29 Jun 2024 12:21:22 GMT

In this episode we speak with Joyce Short who is the author of Your Consent – The Key to Conquering Sexual Assault and a TEDx Talk Presenter and Nina Lucas who lead Consent Awareness Network (CAN).

Joyce and Nina are on a mission to educate the public and legislators about the critical importance of having consent defined in our laws. Click the link to visit CAN's website https://consentawareness.net

How I Know

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Sat, 26 Feb 2022 14:24:00 GMT

What are the aspects of a disclosure that provide clarity about the accuracy of the report?

Trigger Warning: I Am Not Alone Part Two

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 27 Jan 2023 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode we continue our conversation with Alicia Cohen, familial sex trafficking survivor and advocate.

We Keep Going…..still

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door — Fri, 22 Dec 2023 13:00:00 GMT

Truth moment….we’re tired….and we’re determined….we’re bold and we’re stressed. In this episode we talk about the momentum and the ways organized sexual abuse networks work to make that momentum hard to maintain.