What starts with Power Rangers, Gemini chaos, and straight men in livestream chats turns into a deeper conversation about being queer online, building real connection through social media, and trying to protect your peace while still showing up authentically.

Siren shares updates on polyamory, co-parenting, and building a new relationship dynamic at home, while Wendy brings her usual mix of blunt honesty, emotional support lesbian energy, and absolutely zero patience for nonsense.

And because it’s Tongue First, things eventually spiral into dingle hoppers, body hair, hygiene, and sapphic sex talk. You know. As they do.

This episode explores:
• queer relationships and polyamory
• TikTok Live creator burnout
• parasocial relationships and online community
• religious trauma and coming out
• emotional boundaries and creator life
• queer identity, body honesty, and going tongue first

If you’ve ever built real friendships online, felt overwhelmed by social media, questioned your place in queer community, or tried to keep your life together while everything is changing… this one’s for you.

Follow the chaos on TikTok:
@Sirenegade_440
@WendyReeves81

New episodes every Monday.

Until next time — stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly.

This week, Siren and Wendy are joined by everyone’s favorite sweet little baby angel, Jared from the Internet, for an episode that somehow spirals from Sniffies and gay bars into queer identity, creator burnout, parasocial relationships, chosen family, and the emotional chaos of building real connection online.

The trio unpack their experiences as queer TikTok live creators, what it feels like to form genuine relationships through the internet, and the strange vulnerability of being perceived by thousands of people every day. Along the way, they swap stories from New Orleans, talk dating apps, polyamory, queer labels, internet drama, community, and what it means to actually show up authentically — online and off.

There's also:
• beignets
• powdered sugar everywhere
• gay hand motions
• Wendy threatening trolls again
• Jared accidentally revealing he has game
• and at least one existential conversation disguised as chaos

Some episodes feel like a podcast.
This one feels like sitting on the floor with queer friends at 2am while someone passes you fries and overshares emotionally.

Still playful. Still heartfelt. Still a little unhinged — but now they mean it.

Follow the hosts on TikTok:
@Sirenegade_440
@WendyReeves81

And go show some love to our guest:
@JDreamer1995

Until next time — stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly.

In the Season 1 premiere of Tongue First, Siren and Wendy are back — this time off TikTok Live and fully in their element — catching up on everything that’s happened since Season 0. And yeah… things escalate quickly.

From a chaotic, connection-filled trip to New Orleans — where eye contact turned into makeouts and makeouts turned into something a lot more complicated — to navigating open relationships, unexpected feelings, and the moments that make you stop and think, “wait… what is this?”

This episode explores:

• queer intimacy and attraction
• feeling seen in ways you didn’t expect
• open and evolving relationships
• and what happens when connection goes deeper than planned

It’s funny, unfiltered, a little unhinged, and honest in a way that might hit closer than you expect.

So whether you’re here to feel seen, feel a little exposed, or finally hear someone say the shit you’ve been thinking…

Welcome to Season One.

Let’s get into it.

hosted by Aubrey Jones & Wendy Reeves

💋 Episode Description

Welcome to Tongue First, the podcast where curiosity is sexy — and consent is hotter.

In this teaser, meet your hosts Aubrey (Siren) Jones and Wendy Reeves as they introduce what Tongue First is all about: honest, hilarious, and heartfelt conversations about queerness, love, gender, sex, and self-discovery.

Whether it’s a laugh-out-loud confession, a deep dive into identity, or a spicy take on taboo topics, Tongue First invites you to join the conversation — and maybe discover a few “ohhh moments” of your own along the way.

Episode 1 launches next week, so hit subscribe wherever you get your podcasts and get ready to stay curious, stay queer, and (of course) lick responsibly.

🧁 What to Expect

• Flirty, thoughtful banter between two queer besties
• Honest talk about gender, sexuality, and relationships
• Themed segments like The First Course, The Second Course, and The Last Lick
• Listener stories and “Queer-piphany” moments
• Plenty of laughs, heart, and consent

This episode gets beautifully real about gender, identity, desire, and the messy magic of introducing a queer partner to your kids.

In The First Course, Siren opens up about her gender awakening — the thousand tiny moments that whispered, then demanded, the truth. Wendy shares her own journey of expression, comfort, and androgynous attraction. Together, they explore the difference between wanting to be her… and wanting to kiss her.

In The Second Course, it’s Queer-piphany time as the hosts listen to your community-submitted stories — raw, emotional, funny, and deeply relatable. From crushes to cooter tingles, every epiphany offers another angle of what it means to come home to yourself.

In The Third Course, they get honest about queer love and parenthood: — introducing your partner to your kids for the first time, — navigating blended families, — honoring boundaries and communication, — and modeling authenticity so children grow up unafraid.

Plus: The palate cleanser gets unhinged (ear-licking??), the chat gets feral, and Siren and Wendy roast their younger selves’ fashion choices without mercy. And finally, they wrap it all up with a juicy Last Lick featuring their L Word crushes… some of which get very passionate.

Recorded live on TikTok, where the chaos is delicious and the community is loud.

Until next time — stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly.

Tagline: The queer curiosity podcast with bite.

Episode Description: Welcome to the debut episode of Tongue First! Hosts Aubrey Jones aka Siren and Wendy Reeves kick things off by introducing themselves, their chaotic chemistry, and the queer curiosity that started it all.

From TikTok lives to podcast mics, they explore trans awakenings, lesbian stereotypes, love, laughter, and what it means to live out loud. Expect heartfelt confessions, hilarious detours, and that unmistakable Gemini energy that makes Tongue First impossible to ignore.

New episodes drop every week — until next time, stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly. 💋

Credits: Tongue First is written and hosted by Aubrey Jane Jones and Wendy Reeves. Produced and edited by Aubrey Jane Jones. Recorded live with our TikTok communities — where chaos and curiosity collide. Special thanks to our TikTok moderators for keeping things running smoothly, and to Brooke Dale for the intro and outro voiceovers.

Tagline: The queer curiosity podcast with bite.

Episode Description: Siren and Wendy are back, serving up another round of sapphic chaos, laughter, and way-too-honest conversation. In this episode, they dive Tongue First into three pillars of queer discovery & disaster: red flags, butt stuff, and friendship after break-ups.

From deal breakers and a tattoo of an ex's face to emotional maturity and healing through humor, this one’s equal parts sex ed and group therapy—with plenty of giggles, real talk, and a few forehead kisses along the way. Recorded live on TikTok, the community joins in to ask the spicy questions and share the chaos in real time.

New episodes drop every other week — until next time, stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly. 💋

Credits: Tongue First is written and hosted by Aubrey Jane Jones and Wendy Reeves. Produced and edited by Aubrey Jane Jones. Recorded live with our TikTok communities — where chaos and curiosity collide. Special thanks to our TikTok moderators for keeping things running smoothly, and to Brooke Dale for the intro and outro voiceovers.