<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[ArmChair Verdict Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Got a fight nobody in your life will settle? Send it to us — we'll give you the truth, even when you won't like it.</p><p>Every episode, one real story from a real person: family feuds, money fights, in-law problems, workplace drama, friendships gone sideways. Kevin and Esther hear it cold, argue it out, and each give an honest verdict. Sometimes they agree. When they don't, the audience breaks the tie — and the results get read the following week.</p><p>Kevin taught school for 18 years and served in two branches of the military. Esther was raised overseas, spent her career in mortgages, restaurant management and medical school administration.. No sugarcoating. No taking your side just because you wrote in. Names are always changed. Stories are always real.</p><p>These are opinions, not professional advice — two people in armchairs, not counselors, lawyers, or therapists.</p><p>Got a story? Send it (anonymous welcome): <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6</a><br />New stories every week. Watch on YouTube: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi4tY7YSZm3UI1qSy66clDA" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi4tY7YSZm3UI1qSy66clDA</a></p>]]></description><link>https://riverside.com</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2026 19:56:46 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/qEn3hodo.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[Armchair Verdict]]></author><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2026 14:14:47 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 Armchair Verdict]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Society & Culture]]></category><category><![CDATA[Self-Improvement]]></category><itunes:author>Armchair Verdict</itunes:author><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Got a fight nobody in your life will settle? Send it to us — we&apos;ll give you the truth, even when you won&apos;t like it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every episode, one real story from a real person: family feuds, money fights, in-law problems, workplace drama, friendships gone sideways. Kevin and Esther hear it cold, argue it out, and each give an honest verdict. Sometimes they agree. When they don&apos;t, the audience breaks the tie — and the results get read the following week.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kevin taught school for 18 years and served in two branches of the military. Esther was raised overseas, spent her career in mortgages, restaurant management and medical school administration.. No sugarcoating. No taking your side just because you wrote in. Names are always changed. Stories are always real.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These are opinions, not professional advice — two people in armchairs, not counselors, lawyers, or therapists.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Got a story? Send it (anonymous welcome): &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;New stories every week. Watch on YouTube: &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi4tY7YSZm3UI1qSy66clDA&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi4tY7YSZm3UI1qSy66clDA&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Armchair Verdict</itunes:name><itunes:email>thesaltymarine1@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"/><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/logos/60ed81c7-9a09-45a9-9ee5-8d3407ada1a5.png"/><item><title><![CDATA[She Charged Her Son For Babysitting.  Now She Can't See Her Grandkids]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Was she wrong to ask her son for money after two years of free childcare — or only wrong to ask for it after the fact?</p><p>Grandma retired after 31 years in hospital billing and watched her son's two kids ten hours a day, three days a week — for free, for two years. Then came the Maui trip, the new refrigerator, and a spreadsheet: $200 a week going forward, plus $6,400 in back pay. Her son's answer: "If it's a job now, we'll hire someone." Now she sees her grandkids every other Sunday.</p><p>Kevin hears this one cold. We argue it out, we each give our verdict — and then it's YOUR turn. Two questions this week: the $200 a week, fair or not? The $6,400 in back pay, fair or not? Drop both answers in the comments. We read your verdicts on camera next week.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c6050f01-c341-44b0-99b2-013dd4d144ba</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Armchair Verdict]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2026 11:34:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/776512bd11f90932160c8ccf8414a868ebe45ce51b2a356601672a49f785fc3a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjNjA1MGYwMS1jMzQxLTQ0YjAtOTliMi0wMTNkZDRkMTQ0YmEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIzNGIxM2UyMC1jMWJhLTQ5OGMtOTQzMi0wMjc1MTU1MjQzNDIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRkMDAxNGE0MDNiMWI0NmMwMTIxYzkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE2Yzg2MTUzZDQ4MWIzNzdiMmJjOTYyL2FybWNoYWlyLXZlcmRpY3QtY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi03LTMxX18xMy0yNS05Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="31660556" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/episodes/c6050f01-c341-44b0-99b2-013dd4d144ba/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Was she wrong to ask her son for money after two years of free childcare — or only wrong to ask for it after the fact?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Grandma retired after 31 years in hospital billing and watched her son&apos;s two kids ten hours a day, three days a week — for free, for two years. Then came the Maui trip, the new refrigerator, and a spreadsheet: $200 a week going forward, plus $6,400 in back pay. Her son&apos;s answer: &quot;If it&apos;s a job now, we&apos;ll hire someone.&quot; Now she sees her grandkids every other Sunday.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kevin hears this one cold. We argue it out, we each give our verdict — and then it&apos;s YOUR turn. Two questions this week: the $200 a week, fair or not? The $6,400 in back pay, fair or not? Drop both answers in the comments. We read your verdicts on camera next week.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:16:29</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/logos/60ed81c7-9a09-45a9-9ee5-8d3407ada1a5.png"/><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>She Charged Her Son For Babysitting.  Now She Can&apos;t See Her Grandkids</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Am I Wrong For Skipping My Sister's Wedding]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Am I wrong for refusing to go to my own sister's wedding because my dad won't give my girlfriend a plus-one - or is my family playing favorites and expecting me to smile and take it?</p><p></p><p> His dad is paying for the whole wedding and left the plus-one off his invite - three months isn't serious enough, he says. Except the cousin's two-month girlfriend made the list. So he drew a line: if she's n</p><p>ot welcome, neither am I. Now his sister isn't speaking to him and the whole family says he's holding the wedding hostage.</p><p> Kevin and Esther each give their honest verdict - and this one splits them. Sometimes we agree, sometimes we don't. Either way, YOU give us your verdict in the comments: does he show up, or does he skip it? We go through your verdicts next week.</p><p>These are opinions, not professional advice. We're two people in armchairs, not counselors, lawyers, ortherapists. Names are always changed. Stories are always real.</p><p></p><p>Got a fight nobody in your life will settle? Send it to us (anonymous welcome):</p><p><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://forms.gle/EnGPYN2wL4AVqkK77" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/EnGPYN2wL4AVqkK77</a></p><p>New stories every week.</p><p></p><p>Send us your story: [FORM LINK</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">077212b1-05f3-4ffd-bf2e-d06d9e2713ca</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Armchair Verdict]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 12:47:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/99b45a6155894244b8d9509172afa6d69a72593e2249fdd31be8c9079ba2c7ed/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNzcyMTJiMS0wNWYzLTRmZmQtYmYyZS1kMDZkOWUyNzEzY2EiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIzNGIxM2UyMC1jMWJhLTQ5OGMtOTQzMi0wMjc1MTU1MjQzNDIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRkMDAxNGE0MDNiMWI0NmMwMTIxYzkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE2YThlMjU3M2QxNzZlYWMwMWI3MmQ1L2FybWNoYWlyLXZlcmRpY3QtY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi03LTMwX18xLTM1LTAubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="26182783" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/episodes/077212b1-05f3-4ffd-bf2e-d06d9e2713ca/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Am I wrong for refusing to go to my own sister&apos;s wedding because my dad won&apos;t give my girlfriend a plus-one - or is my family playing favorites and expecting me to smile and take it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; His dad is paying for the whole wedding and left the plus-one off his invite - three months isn&apos;t serious enough, he says. Except the cousin&apos;s two-month girlfriend made the list. So he drew a line: if she&apos;s n&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ot welcome, neither am I. Now his sister isn&apos;t speaking to him and the whole family says he&apos;s holding the wedding hostage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Kevin and Esther each give their honest verdict - and this one splits them. Sometimes we agree, sometimes we don&apos;t. Either way, YOU give us your verdict in the comments: does he show up, or does he skip it? We go through your verdicts next week.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These are opinions, not professional advice. We&apos;re two people in armchairs, not counselors, lawyers, ortherapists. Names are always changed. Stories are always real.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Got a fight nobody in your life will settle? Send it to us (anonymous welcome):&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://forms.gle/EnGPYN2wL4AVqkK77&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;https://forms.gle/EnGPYN2wL4AVqkK77&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;New stories every week.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Send us your story: [FORM LINK&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:13:38</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/logos/60ed81c7-9a09-45a9-9ee5-8d3407ada1a5.png"/><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Am I Wrong For Skipping My Sister&apos;s Wedding</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Family Raided My Dad's Apartment Before The Funeral]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>A son three states away while his father lay dying. A family that made sure he couldn't get near the decisions — and cleared out the apartment before the man was even buried. This week's story: a dad passes, and the son who lived far away comes home to find his aunt and cousin had frozen him out of the hospital, told staff he wasn't "competent," and hauled off carloads of his father's things. He paid for the funeral. They took the rest. We landed in the same place on the aunt and cousin. But there's one piece we're handing to YOU — the brother, who checked out completely. Take a side in the comments; next week we go through your takes. These are opinions and entertainment, not professional advice. We're two people in armchairs — not counselors, lawyers, or therapists. Names are always changed. Stories are always real. Got a fight nobody in your life will settle? Submit it (anonymous welcome): <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://forms.gle/Qqo8sPQAEGmQwWga8" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/Qqo8sPQAEGmQwWga8</a></p><p>New stories every week.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4bf590f6-3534-4ccc-97df-bec58d468117</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Armchair Verdict]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2026 16:44:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/df0a20fa010f49f47126b92ffd6cace6801d358c8c0e6dc1605b69675db7ea16/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI0YmY1OTBmNi0zNTM0LTRjY2MtOTdkZi1iZWM1OGQ0NjgxMTciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIzNGIxM2UyMC1jMWJhLTQ5OGMtOTQzMi0wMjc1MTU1MjQzNDIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRkMDAxNGE0MDNiMWI0NmMwMTIxYzkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE2NjI4ZDU2ODA3M2Y5YzYwN2U1ZGU0L2FybWNoYWlyLXZlcmRpY3QtY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi03LTI2X18xNy0zMy00MC5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="40884079" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/episodes/4bf590f6-3534-4ccc-97df-bec58d468117/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;A son three states away while his father lay dying. A family that made sure he couldn&apos;t get near the decisions — and cleared out the apartment before the man was even buried. This week&apos;s story: a dad passes, and the son who lived far away comes home to find his aunt and cousin had frozen him out of the hospital, told staff he wasn&apos;t &quot;competent,&quot; and hauled off carloads of his father&apos;s things. He paid for the funeral. They took the rest. We landed in the same place on the aunt and cousin. But there&apos;s one piece we&apos;re handing to YOU — the brother, who checked out completely. Take a side in the comments; next week we go through your takes. These are opinions and entertainment, not professional advice. We&apos;re two people in armchairs — not counselors, lawyers, or therapists. Names are always changed. Stories are always real. Got a fight nobody in your life will settle? Submit it (anonymous welcome): &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://forms.gle/Qqo8sPQAEGmQwWga8&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;https://forms.gle/Qqo8sPQAEGmQwWga8&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;New stories every week.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:21:18</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/logos/60ed81c7-9a09-45a9-9ee5-8d3407ada1a5.png"/><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>My Family Raided My Dad&apos;s Apartment Before The Funeral</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Their Son Is 24 And Jobless. Which Parent Is Right?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Their son is 24, living at home, no job and no plan — and his parents can't agree on what to do about it. Mom wants a deadline. Dad wants to give him more time. Which one of them is enabling him?</p><p>A mother wrote in signed "Divided in the Middle." Her son isn't a bad kid — he's respectful, he helps around the house, he's never been in trouble. He also hasn't held a job, isn't looking at careers, and doesn't seem bothered by any of it. Dad says he'll find his way when he's ready. Mom says six years of patience has become the problem.</p><p>Kevin taught school for 18 years and served in two branches of the military. Esther was raised overseas, spent her career in mortgages, restaurant management and medical school administration. They didn't land in the same place on this one — so the audience breaks the tie.</p><p>This one's a split, and the vote happens on YouTube. Head over and tell us who's right in the comments — link in the show notes. We're reading your verdicts next week.</p><p>Send us your story (anonymous welcome): <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6</a></p><p>Opinions, not professional advice. Names changed. Stories real</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a7a8fb49-f0f9-4b4b-ae5e-ff53fcd2095d</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Armchair Verdict]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2026 14:25:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/5682cebafff6c30e5457f15aab6e6cff13038ceeb954cabf4b0f03f3999d826e/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhN2E4ZmI0OS1mMGY5LTRiNGItYWU1ZS1mZjUzZmNkMjA5NWQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIzNGIxM2UyMC1jMWJhLTQ5OGMtOTQzMi0wMjc1MTU1MjQzNDIiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRkMDAxNGE0MDNiMWI0NmMwMTIxYzkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE2MTYwYWY2OTRmMWQ0ZWYxN2RkYjRhL2FybWNoYWlyLXZlcmRpY3QtY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi03LTIzX18yLTMwLTM5Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="32809108" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/episodes/a7a8fb49-f0f9-4b4b-ae5e-ff53fcd2095d/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Their son is 24, living at home, no job and no plan — and his parents can&apos;t agree on what to do about it. Mom wants a deadline. Dad wants to give him more time. Which one of them is enabling him?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A mother wrote in signed &quot;Divided in the Middle.&quot; Her son isn&apos;t a bad kid — he&apos;s respectful, he helps around the house, he&apos;s never been in trouble. He also hasn&apos;t held a job, isn&apos;t looking at careers, and doesn&apos;t seem bothered by any of it. Dad says he&apos;ll find his way when he&apos;s ready. Mom says six years of patience has become the problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kevin taught school for 18 years and served in two branches of the military. Esther was raised overseas, spent her career in mortgages, restaurant management and medical school administration. They didn&apos;t land in the same place on this one — so the audience breaks the tie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This one&apos;s a split, and the vote happens on YouTube. Head over and tell us who&apos;s right in the comments — link in the show notes. We&apos;re reading your verdicts next week.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Send us your story (anonymous welcome): &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;https://forms.gle/bvpfZE4RF9ZxZ89U6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Opinions, not professional advice. Names changed. Stories real&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:17:05</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/34b13e20-c1ba-498c-9432-027515524342/logos/60ed81c7-9a09-45a9-9ee5-8d3407ada1a5.png"/><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Their Son Is 24 And Jobless. Which Parent Is Right?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>