<![CDATA[Liz Yaps]]>What happens when you enter a faith, experience its internal dynamics firsthand, and find the clarity and courage to deconstruct and walk away? Well, you go through absolute hell, but you reclaim your voice and come out even stronger.

Hosted by an ex-revert Liz who started by yapping on Tik Tok, LIZ YAPS brings a sharp, insider-turned-outsider perspective to Islamic deconstruction, religious control, and female autonomy. This space provides an unfiltered, analytical look at theological misogyny, scriptural mechanics, and the journey toward radical feminine sovereignty.

Whether you are navigating your own deconstruction, questioning dogma, or simply done taking permission from religious gatekeepers—this is your sanctuary for raw clarity, unapologetic truth, and complete self-ownership.

]]>https://riverside.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Mon, 26 Oct 2026 01:14:44 GMTMon, 05 Oct 2026 18:39:49 GMT60Liz<p>What happens when you enter a faith, experience its internal dynamics firsthand, and find the clarity and courage to deconstruct and walk away? Well, you go through absolute hell, but you reclaim your voice and come out even stronger.</p><p>Hosted by an ex-revert Liz who started by yapping on Tik Tok, <b><strong>LIZ YAPS</strong></b> brings a sharp, insider-turned-outsider perspective to Islamic deconstruction, religious control, and female autonomy. This space provides an unfiltered, analytical look at theological misogyny, scriptural mechanics, and the journey toward radical feminine sovereignty.</p><p>Whether you are navigating your own deconstruction, questioning dogma, or simply done taking permission from religious gatekeepers—this is your sanctuary for raw clarity, unapologetic truth, and complete self-ownership.</p>episodicLizlizyapstiktok@gmail.comyes<![CDATA[Is Divorce in Islam the Divine Right We Think it is?]]>*Requested episode* Note: This video features a lot of lag I didn't notice until editing. Please disregard! Support my efforts by buying me a coffee, please! buymeacoffee.com/lizyapping

In this episode, I’m tackling one of the biggest talking points thrown around in dawah spaces: the claim that "Islam gave women the right to divorce 1,400 years ago." But is conditional permission really a "right" when a man can end a marriage with three words, while a woman has to buy her freedom or prove extreme suffering to a male judge?

I’m breaking down the actual legal mechanics and societal stigmas surrounding divorce—from unilateral talaq and the financial ransom of khul' to court-ordered faskh and post-divorce custody traps. We’re cutting through the apologetic spin to look at the massive power imbalance built into these contracts, why you shouldn't need a catastrophic reason to leave a relationship, and why true autonomy is an inherent human right—not a privilege granted by an institution.


Takeaways

  • Divorce is stigmatized in Muslim communities
  • Men hold more power in divorce proceedings
  • Divorce processes differ significantly between the genders
  • Women's rights in divorce are limited


Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction to Feminism in Islam
  • 02:43 Divorce in Islamic Context
  • 06:26 Stigmatization of Divorce
  • 11:51 Secular vs. Religious Divorce
  • 13:35 Men's Control Over Divorce
  • 22:21 Patriarchal Collusion in Counseling
  • 29:18 Hadith and Women's Rights
  • 35:31 The Replaceability of Women in Marriage
  • 39:15 Divorce in Islam: A Closer Look
  • 46:47 The Process of Divorce: Men vs. Women
  • 01:03:24 Understanding Khula and Tafwid al Talaq
]]>e177b8e4-a924-4ee7-a24f-c9fe53348410Sun, 18 Oct 2026 13:07:53 GMT<p>*Requested episode* Note: This video features a lot of lag I didn't notice until editing. Please disregard! Support my efforts by buying me a coffee, please! <a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/lizyapping" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">buymeacoffee.com/lizyapping</a></p><p>In this episode, I’m tackling one of the biggest talking points thrown around in dawah spaces: the claim that "Islam gave women the right to divorce 1,400 years ago." But is conditional permission really a "right" when a man can end a marriage with three words, while a woman has to buy her freedom or prove extreme suffering to a male judge?</p><p>I’m breaking down the actual legal mechanics and societal stigmas surrounding divorce—from unilateral <i><em>talaq</em></i> and the financial ransom of <i><em>khul'</em></i> to court-ordered <i><em>faskh</em></i> and post-divorce custody traps. We’re cutting through the apologetic spin to look at the massive power imbalance built into these contracts, why you shouldn't need a catastrophic reason to leave a relationship, and why true autonomy is an inherent human right—not a privilege granted by an institution.</p><p><br /></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Divorce is stigmatized in Muslim communities</li><li>Men hold more power in divorce proceedings </li><li>Divorce processes differ significantly between the genders</li><li>Women's rights in divorce are limited</li></ul><p><br /></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Feminism in Islam</li><li>02:43 Divorce in Islamic Context</li><li>06:26 Stigmatization of Divorce</li><li>11:51 Secular vs. Religious Divorce</li><li>13:35 Men's Control Over Divorce</li><li>22:21 Patriarchal Collusion in Counseling</li><li>29:18 Hadith and Women's Rights</li><li>35:31 The Replaceability of Women in Marriage</li><li>39:15 Divorce in Islam: A Closer Look</li><li>46:47 The Process of Divorce: Men vs. Women</li><li>01:03:24 Understanding Khula and Tafwid al Talaq</li></ul>no00:50:27Is Divorce in Islam the Divine Right We Think it is?full<![CDATA[Smear Campaigns, Inayah Beldeen, Fatima Begum, Veterans, and a Brief Journey Through Islam]]>Wow this was a huge yap session! Today I discuss smear campaigns, the lies spread by Inayah Beldeen's slander, Fatima Begum/Besobeti. We also talk about my brief journey through islam, reclaiming my blackness, and take a peek into the Quran to remind everyone of how to properly find and disseminate information about others. This one is a wild one so buckle up!


Some Key Highlights

  • 00:00 Introduction to Cultural Exposures
  • 02:19 The Smear Campaign Incident
  • 04:31 Understanding Hadith Rejection
  • 08:15 The Role of Women in Religious Discourse
  • 12:01 Emotional Responses and Racial Dynamics
  • 18:08 Discourse vs. Echo Chambers
  • 24:00 The Impact of Social Media on Influence
  • 25:31 Debating the Hijab's Significance
  • 27:12 Community Projection and Emotional Responses
  • 28:53 Navigating Identity and Acceptance
  • 30:42 Performative Islam vs. Genuine Belief
  • 32:32 Critique of Hadith and Scholarly Discourse
  • 35:26 Personal Journey and Spiritual Disillusionment
  • 39:49 The Role of Discourse in Islam
  • 40:11 The Impact of Social Media on Perception
  • 42:45 Addressing Personal Attacks and Integrity
  • 46:40 Cultural Expectations and Ageism
  • 49:57 Body Image and Self-Acceptance
  • 53:23 Functional Fitness and Health Goals
  • 55:21 Unmasking Online Personas
  • 59:05 The Dangers of Doxxing and Stalking
  • 01:02:01 The Impact of Honor-Based Violence
  • 01:05:41 The Role of Healthcare Professionals in Community Safety
  • 01:12:58 Community Responsibility and Women's Safety
  • 01:15:10 The Illusion of Feminism in Religious Contexts
  • 01:22:02 Empowering Women Against Misogyny
  • 01:31:14 Slut Shaming and Its Consequences
  • 01:32:14 The Role of Theatrics in Islam
  • 01:34:18 The Quran's Warnings Against Misleading Others
  • 01:36:30 Gratitude and Its Importance
  • 01:39:30 The Dangers of Comparison and Envy
  • 01:42:40 Reclaiming Identity and Culture
  • 01:48:43 The Journey of Leaving Islam
  • 01:51:44 The Impact of Reputation and Slander
  • 01:56:25 Taking Action Against Online Harassment
]]>5023aed3-d64c-40e9-890d-c2a0b66ec8e6Sun, 18 Oct 2026 12:38:24 GMT<p>Wow this was a huge yap session! Today I discuss smear campaigns, the lies spread by Inayah Beldeen's slander, Fatima Begum/Besobeti. We also talk about my brief journey through islam, reclaiming my blackness, and take a peek into the Quran to remind everyone of how to properly find and disseminate information about others. This one is a wild one so buckle up!</p><p><br /></p><p>Some Key Highlights</p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Cultural Exposures</li><li>02:19 The Smear Campaign Incident</li><li>04:31 Understanding Hadith Rejection</li><li>08:15 The Role of Women in Religious Discourse</li><li>12:01 Emotional Responses and Racial Dynamics</li><li>18:08 Discourse vs. Echo Chambers</li><li>24:00 The Impact of Social Media on Influence</li><li>25:31 Debating the Hijab's Significance</li><li>27:12 Community Projection and Emotional Responses</li><li>28:53 Navigating Identity and Acceptance</li><li>30:42 Performative Islam vs. Genuine Belief</li><li>32:32 Critique of Hadith and Scholarly Discourse</li><li>35:26 Personal Journey and Spiritual Disillusionment</li><li>39:49 The Role of Discourse in Islam</li><li>40:11 The Impact of Social Media on Perception</li><li>42:45 Addressing Personal Attacks and Integrity</li><li>46:40 Cultural Expectations and Ageism</li><li>49:57 Body Image and Self-Acceptance</li><li>53:23 Functional Fitness and Health Goals</li><li>55:21 Unmasking Online Personas</li><li>59:05 The Dangers of Doxxing and Stalking</li><li>01:02:01 The Impact of Honor-Based Violence</li><li>01:05:41 The Role of Healthcare Professionals in Community Safety</li><li>01:12:58 Community Responsibility and Women's Safety</li><li>01:15:10 The Illusion of Feminism in Religious Contexts</li><li>01:22:02 Empowering Women Against Misogyny</li><li>01:31:14 Slut Shaming and Its Consequences</li><li>01:32:14 The Role of Theatrics in Islam</li><li>01:34:18 The Quran's Warnings Against Misleading Others</li><li>01:36:30 Gratitude and Its Importance</li><li>01:39:30 The Dangers of Comparison and Envy</li><li>01:42:40 Reclaiming Identity and Culture</li><li>01:48:43 The Journey of Leaving Islam</li><li>01:51:44 The Impact of Reputation and Slander</li><li>01:56:25 Taking Action Against Online Harassment</li></ul>yes01:34:533Smear Campaigns, Inayah Beldeen, Fatima Begum, Veterans, and a Brief Journey Through Islamfull<![CDATA[Men's Entitlement Over Women: The Islamic Perspective]]>The conversation delves into the complex relationship between religion, particularly Islam, and the entitlement men feel towards women's bodies. It explores how religious texts and teachings contribute to the subjugation of women, the concept of marital rights, and the implications of these beliefs on women's autonomy and rights. The conversation delves into the themes of ownership, sexual relations, and the treatment of women in Islamic texts, highlighting the dichotomy between Muslim and non-Muslim women. It emphasizes the need for deconstructing patriarchal structures within religious contexts to empower women and challenge misogyny.


Chapters

  • 00:00 The Entitlement of Men's Bodies in Religion
  • 02:57 Islam's Role in Women's Subjugation
  • 05:54 Divine Authority and Marital Rights
  • 08:46 The Concept of Mehr and Ownership
  • 11:59 Marital Rape and Religious Justifications
  • 15:12 The Intersection of Religion and Women's Rights
  • 18:02 Modern-Day Slavery and Women's Ownership
  • 21:21 The Ethics of Slavery in Islam
  • 31:46 Exploring Ownership and Sexual Relations
  • 34:41 The Role of Women in Islam
  • 39:02 Dichotomy of Muslim and Non-Muslim Women
  • 46:14 Concubinage and Financial Independence
  • 51:29 The Treatment of Women in Islamic Texts
  • 01:01:00 Deconstructing Patriarchy and Religion

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]]>d95c6a39-00cc-46f0-be15-de12ad4276afMon, 05 Oct 2026 19:36:02 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the complex relationship between religion, particularly Islam, and the entitlement men feel towards women's bodies. It explores how religious texts and teachings contribute to the subjugation of women, the concept of marital rights, and the implications of these beliefs on women's autonomy and rights. The conversation delves into the themes of ownership, sexual relations, and the treatment of women in Islamic texts, highlighting the dichotomy between Muslim and non-Muslim women. It emphasizes the need for deconstructing patriarchal structures within religious contexts to empower women and challenge misogyny.</p><p><br /></p><p><b><strong>Chapters</strong></b></p><ul><li>00:00 The Entitlement of Men's Bodies in Religion</li><li>02:57 Islam's Role in Women's Subjugation</li><li>05:54 Divine Authority and Marital Rights</li><li>08:46 The Concept of Mehr and Ownership</li><li>11:59 Marital Rape and Religious Justifications</li><li>15:12 The Intersection of Religion and Women's Rights</li><li>18:02 Modern-Day Slavery and Women's Ownership</li><li>21:21 The Ethics of Slavery in Islam</li><li>31:46 Exploring Ownership and Sexual Relations</li><li>34:41 The Role of Women in Islam</li><li>39:02 Dichotomy of Muslim and Non-Muslim Women</li><li>46:14 Concubinage and Financial Independence</li><li>51:29 The Treatment of Women in Islamic Texts</li><li>01:01:00 Deconstructing Patriarchy and Religion</li></ul><p>Support me by buying me a coffee! <a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/Lizyapping" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">buymeacoffee.com/Lizyapping</a></p>yes00:47:15Men's Entitlement Over Women: The Islamic Perspectivefull<![CDATA["Kinda Chic to Never Let a Man See Your Body." Can Islamic Modesty be Chic?]]>"It's kind of chic to never let a man see your body." "Woke up one day and decided to never let a man see my hair again." In this episode of LIZ YAPS, we're discussing the trend where muslim creators rebrand hyper-modesty as a flex. Hosted from an ex-revert perspective, we unpack why slapping an aesthetic onto religious compliance is lowkey a cope sis—and why hiding your body under threat of social and divine pressure can never be "chic." Or can it?

]]>1ba865b0-4b1c-46d2-9e07-10a1cedf9d53Mon, 05 Oct 2026 19:02:32 GMT<p>"It's kind of chic to never let a man see your body." "Woke up one day and decided to never let a man see my hair again." In this episode of <b><strong>LIZ YAPS</strong></b>, we're discussing the trend where muslim creators rebrand hyper-modesty as a flex. Hosted from an ex-revert perspective, we unpack why slapping an aesthetic onto religious compliance is lowkey a cope sis—and why hiding your body under threat of social and divine pressure can never be "chic." Or can it?</p>yes01:02:04"Kinda Chic to Never Let a Man See Your Body." Can Islamic Modesty be Chic?full