<![CDATA[SEXUALISTA]]>https://www.sexualista.deRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Mon, 28 Sep 2026 05:33:10 GMTWed, 16 Sep 2026 23:09:01 GMT60SexualistaHey and WELCUM to SEXUALISTA. The Podcast is about everything SEX, RELATIONSHIP, MENTAL HEALTH, and the most common misconceptions around it. Pam is the host of this podcast and she’s working as a psychological Sex Coach. She will not only answer the most common questions but also let you dive deep into her own world. She will share insides about her life and struggles as an entrepreneur in the field of sexuality, her own struggles with mental health, and her day-to-day life. Buckle up buttercup it’s gonna be a bumpy ride! episodicSexualistasexualista@icloud.comyes<![CDATA[Before you join the Lifestyle - The conversation you need to have! ]]>Before you join the Lifestyle - The conversation you need to have!

Thinking about exploring the lifestyle with your partner? Before you jump in, let’s talk about the conversations that need to happen first.

In this episode, we’re covering:

🧡 Why you want to explore it
🧡 What the lifestyle means to you
🧡 Rules & boundaries
🧡 What you want, and what you want to avoid
🧡 Starting slowly & doing a test trial
🧡 What happens when someone gets uncomfortable
🧡 Check-ins, communication & consent

You don’t need to rush your decision. You just need to make sure you’re making it as a couple.

Welcome to The Unsaid by Sexualista 🙏🏻

If you want deeper support, you can book a 1:1 session or my “Pick My Brain – Sexual Confidence Edition” via

https://sexualista.com

You’ll also find free resources to start your journey ;)

You can shoot me your questions either on the socials, my new Telegram group, or send me an email:

The Unsaid by Sexualista:

https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/

TikTok:

https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM

Youtube:

https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/

Website:

https://sexualista.com/

E-Mail:

mailto:hello@sexualista.com

I am exited to read or hear from you

Pam

This space is about open conversations around sexuality, relationships, confidence, and alternative dynamics. Without shame, without pressure, and always at your own pace.

—

Disclaimer

The content on this channel is for educational and informational purposes only. It does not replace professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual situation.

By engaging with this content, you acknowledge full personal responsibility for your choices, actions, and results.

This channel may discuss topics related to sexuality, relationships, and alternative lifestyles. Viewer discretion is advised. Content is intended for adults (18+).

—

#sexualista #sexualwellness #relationshipcoach #sexcoach #confidence #communication #intimacy #alternativerelationships #theunsaid

]]>719ea288-6009-4895-ad33-9e62e3c3e2fdFri, 25 Sep 2026 22:49:44 GMT<p>Before you join the Lifestyle - The conversation you need to have! <br /><br />Thinking about exploring the lifestyle with your partner? Before you jump in, let’s talk about the conversations that need to happen first.<br /><br />In this episode, we’re covering:<br /><br />🧡 Why you want to explore it<br />🧡 What the lifestyle means to you<br />🧡 Rules &amp; boundaries<br />🧡 What you want, and what you want to avoid<br />🧡 Starting slowly &amp; doing a test trial<br />🧡 What happens when someone gets uncomfortable<br />🧡 Check-ins, communication &amp; consent<br /><br />You don’t need to rush your decision. You just need to make sure you’re making it as a couple.<br /><br />Welcome to The Unsaid by Sexualista 🙏🏻<br /><br />If you want deeper support, you can book a 1:1 session or my “Pick My Brain – Sexual Confidence Edition” via<br /><br /><a href="https://sexualista.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://sexualista.com</a><br /><br />You’ll also find free resources to start your journey ;)<br /><br />You can shoot me your questions either on the socials, my new Telegram group, or send me an email:<br /><br />The Unsaid by Sexualista:<br /><br /><a href="https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5</a><br /><br />Instagram:<br /><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/</a><br /><br />TikTok:<br /><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&amp;_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&amp;_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM</a><br /><br />Youtube:<br /><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/</a><br /><br />Website:<br /><br /><a href="https://sexualista.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://sexualista.com/</a><br /><br />E-Mail:<br /><br />mailto:hello@sexualista.com<br /><br />I am exited to read or hear from you<br /><br />Pam<br /><br />This space is about open conversations around sexuality, relationships, confidence, and alternative dynamics. Without shame, without pressure, and always at your own pace.<br /><br />—<br /><br />Disclaimer<br /><br />The content on this channel is for educational and informational purposes only. It does not replace professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual situation.<br /><br />By engaging with this content, you acknowledge full personal responsibility for your choices, actions, and results.<br /><br />This channel may discuss topics related to sexuality, relationships, and alternative lifestyles. Viewer discretion is advised. Content is intended for adults (18+).<br /><br />—<br /><br />#sexualista #sexualwellness #relationshipcoach #sexcoach #confidence #communication #intimacy #alternativerelationships #theunsaid</p>yes00:28:3623Before you join the Lifestyle - The conversation you need to have! full<![CDATA[Sexual Liberation - What are you even into? Tips on how to find what you really like in bed]]>In today's episode, we talk about steps you can go to find what you're truly into and what your sex drive archetype is.

If you want deeper support, you can book a 1:1 session or my “Pick My Brain – Sexual Confidence Edition” via

https://sexualista.com

You’ll also find free resources to start your journey ;)

You can shoot me your questions either on the socials, my new Telegram group, or send me an email:

The Unsaid by Sexualista:

https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/

TikTok:

https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM

Youtube:

https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/

Website:

https://sexualista.com/

E-Mail:

hello@sexualista.com

I am exited to read or hear from you

Pam

This space is about open conversations around sexuality, relationships, confidence, and alternative dynamics. Without shame, without pressure, and always at your own pace.

—

Disclaimer

The content on this channel is for educational and informational purposes only. It does not replace professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual situation.

By engaging with this content, you acknowledge full personal responsibility for your choices, actions, and results.

This channel may discuss topics related to sexuality, relationships, and alternative lifestyles. Viewer discretion is advised. Content is intended for adults (18+).

—

#sexualista #sexualwellness #relationshipcoach #sexcoach #confidence #communication #intimacy #alternativerelationships #theunsaid

]]>44bb8e32-f359-4e29-811d-a60c4cdc962aSat, 19 Sep 2026 03:00:50 GMT<p>In today's episode, we talk about steps you can go to find what you're truly into and what your sex drive archetype is.</p><p>If you want deeper support, you can book a 1:1 session or my “Pick My Brain – Sexual Confidence Edition” via</p><p><a href="https://sexualista.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://sexualista.com</a></p><p>You’ll also find free resources to start your journey ;)</p><p>You can shoot me your questions either on the socials, my new Telegram group, or send me an email:</p><p>The Unsaid by Sexualista:</p><p><a href="https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5</a></p><p>Instagram:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/</a></p><p>TikTok:</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&amp;_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&amp;_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM</a></p><p>Youtube:</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/</a></p><p>Website:</p><p><a href="https://sexualista.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://sexualista.com/</a></p><p>E-Mail:</p><p><a href="mailto:hello@sexualista.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">hello@sexualista.com</a></p><p>I am exited to read or hear from you</p><p>Pam</p><p>This space is about open conversations around sexuality, relationships, confidence, and alternative dynamics. Without shame, without pressure, and always at your own pace.</p><p>—</p><p>Disclaimer</p><p>The content on this channel is for educational and informational purposes only. It does not replace professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual situation.</p><p>By engaging with this content, you acknowledge full personal responsibility for your choices, actions, and results.</p><p>This channel may discuss topics related to sexuality, relationships, and alternative lifestyles. Viewer discretion is advised. Content is intended for adults (18+).</p><p>—</p><p>#sexualista #sexualwellness #relationshipcoach #sexcoach #confidence #communication #intimacy #alternativerelationships #theunsaid</p>yes00:13:1322Sexual Liberation - What are you even into? Tips on how to find what you really like in bedfull<![CDATA[I am back - I hope you guys missed me ]]>Welcome back; it's been two lonely years without me. But don't worry, I am back. With brand-new insides, experiences, and stories.
I will publish one episode per week, so if you have any questions you always wanted to ask someone, now is your chance. Next week we'll start with everything Lifestyle that includes swininging and more.
You can shoot me your questions either on the socials, my new Telegram group, or send me an email:


The Unsaid by Sexualista:


https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5


Instagram:


https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/


TikTok:


https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM


Youtube:


https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/


Website:


https://sexualista.com/


E-Mail:


hello@sexualista.com


I am exited to read or hear from you


Pam




]]>40bb7437-329a-4ac0-a3cb-4c80cbe0c482Wed, 16 Sep 2026 23:24:48 GMT<p>Welcome back; it's been two lonely years without me. But don't worry, I am back. With brand-new insides, experiences, and stories.<br />I will publish one episode per week, so if you have any questions you always wanted to ask someone, now is your chance. Next week we'll start with everything Lifestyle that includes swininging and more.<br />You can shoot me your questions either on the socials, my new Telegram group, or send me an email:</p><p><br /></p><p>The Unsaid by Sexualista:</p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://t.me/+3HSBwQE84VcxMzk5</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Instagram:</p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/sexualista_coach/</a></p><p><br /></p><p>TikTok:</p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&amp;_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualista.coach?_r=1&amp;_t=ZP-99nEOZCMYOM</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Youtube:</p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/@Sexualista/</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Website:</p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://sexualista.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://sexualista.com/</a></p><p><br /></p><p>E-Mail:</p><p><br /></p><p><a href="mailto:hello@sexualista.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">hello@sexualista.com</a></p><p><br /></p><p>I am exited to read or hear from you</p><p><br /></p><p>Pam</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>no00:03:3421I am back - I hope you guys missed me trailer<![CDATA[DE - Is the feminist leaving my body?]]>In der heutigen Episode geht es um Feminismus und was Feminismus bedeutet, wie Feminismus dargestellt wird und wie meiner Meinung nach die Medienlandschaft leider in der Repräsentation versagt. Wie Trends Feminismus falsch darstellen und Frauen durch diese falsche Repräsentation gespalten werden.


Lass mir gerne deine Gedanken zu kommen :)

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexualista/episodes/DE---Is-the-feminist-leaving-my-body-e2fp5cj6ca428f5-201c-45d3-b315-01eddd5f5cb0Wed, 14 Feb 2024 13:41:03 GMT<p>In der heutigen Episode geht es um Feminismus und was Feminismus bedeutet, wie Feminismus dargestellt wird und wie meiner Meinung nach die Medienlandschaft leider in der Repräsentation versagt. Wie Trends Feminismus falsch darstellen und Frauen durch diese falsche Repräsentation gespalten werden.</p> <p><br /></p> <p>Lass mir gerne deine Gedanken zu kommen :) </p> no00:13:0115DE - Is the feminist leaving my body?full<![CDATA[DE - Ladies and Gentleman the Captain has turned off: Pilot Episode]]>DE


Buckle up buttercup it’s gonna be a bumpy ride!


In dieser Episode teile ich mit dir was dich in diesem Podcast erwartet. Wer ich bin und auch eine kleiner Einblick in mein eigenese Leben.

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexualista/episodes/DE---Ladies-and-Gentleman-the-Captain-has-turned-off-Pilot-Episode-e29ri21cb080b90-26fb-4a3a-9a3c-90181f5a6a69Wed, 27 Sep 2023 12:14:07 GMT<p><strong>DE</strong></p> <p><br /></p> <p>Buckle up buttercup it’s gonna be a bumpy ride!</p> <p><br /></p> <p>In dieser Episode teile ich mit dir was dich in diesem Podcast erwartet. Wer ich bin und auch eine kleiner Einblick in mein eigenese Leben.</p> yes00:07:0513DE - Ladies and Gentleman the Captain has turned off: Pilot Episodefull<![CDATA[Come on, Barbie, let's go party: My first time at a fetish party.]]>So today I will talk to you about the dos and don'ts of attending your first fetish party.

As well as share the story about my first time and my experience.


If you have any more questions send them to podcast@sexualista.de.


Recommendations:


Clubs -

@klubverboten

@freud.club


Clothing -

https://mariemur.com

https://anoeses.com

https://ladylucie.com

https://janedoelatex.com

https://www.fleetilya.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexualista/episodes/Come-on--Barbie--lets-go-party-My-first-time-at-a-fetish-party-e29rhj1a9e26974-63a0-403c-9359-a3c0fc4ec7dfWed, 27 Sep 2023 12:02:14 GMT<p>So today I will talk to you about the dos and don'ts of attending your first fetish party.</p> <p>As well as share the story about my first time and my experience.</p> <p><br /></p> <p>If you have any more questions send them to podcast@sexualista.de.</p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Recommendations:</strong></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Clubs -</strong> </p> <p>@klubverboten </p> <p>@freud.club</p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Clothing -</strong></p> <p>https://mariemur.com</p> <p>https://anoeses.com</p> <p>https://ladylucie.com</p> <p>https://janedoelatex.com</p> <p>https://www.fleetilya.com</p> yes00:14:1912Come on, Barbie, let's go party: My first time at a fetish party.full<![CDATA[Ladies and Gentleman the Captain has turned off: Pilot Episode]]>Buckle up buttercup it’s gonna be a bumpy ride!


In this Pilot episode, Pam shares what to expect from this podcast. Who the hell she is and also sharing some sneak peeks of her personal dating life and experiences.


]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexualista/episodes/Ladies-and-Gentleman-the-Captain-has-turned-off-Pilot-Episode-e29qtf0bd7e8632-07b8-45b7-ab61-dc6cb667991cTue, 26 Sep 2023 23:43:32 GMT<p><strong>Buckle up buttercup it’s gonna be a bumpy ride!</strong></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>In this Pilot episode, Pam shares what to expect from this podcast. Who the hell she is and also sharing some sneak peeks of her personal dating life and experiences.</strong></p> <p><br /></p> <p> </p> yes00:04:0411Ladies and Gentleman the Captain has turned off: Pilot Episodefull<![CDATA[Is the feminist leaving my body?]]>In today's episode, we're talking about what feminism is about, the concerning trend that is going on on social media, the false representation in media, and what the true essence of feminism is. How it divides women instead of coming together for equal rights.

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexualista/episodes/Is-the-feminist-leaving-my-body-e2fp67pcab3a046-e672-43b7-bd6a-f39260617b66Wed, 14 Feb 2024 14:33:42 GMT<p>In today's episode, we're talking about what feminism is about, the concerning trend that is going on on social media, the false representation in media, and what the true essence of feminism is. How it divides women instead of coming together for equal rights. </p> no00:10:14Is the feminist leaving my body?full<![CDATA[DE - Come on, Barbie, let's go party: My first time at a fetish party.]]>In der heutigen Episode geht es um die dos and don'ts auf einer Fetisch Party.

Ich werde dir wie immer einen Einblick in meine erste Erfahrung geben, sowie ein paar Tipps um eine unvergessliche Erfahrung auf deiner ersten Fetisch Party zu haben.


Recommendations:


Clubs -

@klubverboten

@freud.club


Clothing -

https://mariemur.com

https://anoeses.com

https://ladylucie.com

https://janedoelatex.com

https://www.fleetilya.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexualista/episodes/DE---Come-on--Barbie--lets-go-party-My-first-time-at-a-fetish-party-e29ut9b004ecf73-d672-422d-8715-2f35c585ad78Fri, 29 Sep 2023 15:58:24 GMT<p>In der heutigen Episode geht es um die dos and don'ts auf einer Fetisch Party.</p> <p>Ich werde dir wie immer einen Einblick in meine erste Erfahrung geben, sowie ein paar Tipps um eine unvergessliche Erfahrung auf deiner ersten Fetisch Party zu haben.</p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Recommendations:</strong></p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Clubs -</strong> </p> <p>@klubverboten </p> <p>@freud.club</p> <p><br /></p> <p><strong>Clothing -</strong></p> <p>https://mariemur.com</p> <p>https://anoeses.com</p> <p>https://ladylucie.com</p> <p>https://janedoelatex.com</p> <p>https://www.fleetilya.com</p> yes00:16:2014DE - Come on, Barbie, let's go party: My first time at a fetish party.full