<![CDATA[The New Adam Podcast w/ Man in the Mirror]]>Drawing from biblical wisdom, historical context, and practical experience, Brett and Ryan delve into the challenges and opportunities facing men today. Each episode of the New Adam Podcast aims to equip you to:
  • Understand your identity in Christ, the "New Adam."
  • Apply timeless theological truths to your everyday life.
  • Lead your family, church, and community with biblical conviction.
  • Connect with other men in authentic, Christ-centered relationships.
Join Brett Clemmer and Dr. Ryan M. Reeves on the New Adam Podcast as they guide you on a journey to a more vibrant and fulfilling Christian manhood.]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Sat, 11 Jul 2026 02:58:54 GMTMon, 22 Jun 2026 13:50:03 GMT60Man in the MirrorThe New Adam Podcast, a new offering from Man in the Mirror, explores what it means to be a man renewed in Christ. Hosted by Brett Clemmer, President and CEO of Man in the Mirror, and Dr. Ryan M. Reeves, author and historical theologian, this podcast is for men who desire to live a life of purpose and integrity.<br />Drawing from biblical wisdom, historical context, and practical experience, Brett and Ryan delve into the challenges and opportunities facing men today. Each episode of the New Adam Podcast aims to equip you to: <ul> <li><b>Understand your identity in Christ, the "New Adam."</b></li> <li><b>Apply timeless theological truths to your everyday life.</b></li> <li><b>Lead your family, church, and community with biblical conviction.</b></li> <li><b>Connect with other men in authentic, Christ-centered relationships.</b></li> </ul> Join Brett Clemmer and Dr. Ryan M. Reeves on the New Adam Podcast as they guide you on a journey to a more vibrant and fulfilling Christian manhood.episodicMan in the Mirrorryreeves4@hotmail.comno<![CDATA[Ep. 33 | What Men Actually Want From Church]]>A lot of the current conversation around men leaving the church completely misses the point. It’s not about a lack of interest or commitment—it’s that men are tired of being asked to just sit still and be passive observers.

In this episode, we want to talk about the growing disconnect between what the modern church model expects and what men actually need. We look at why the standard, spectator-style Sunday routine feels so hollow, the shift in how men are engaged (or not engaged) in these spaces, and what it actually looks like to build an environment that challenges men rather than just pacifying them.

Visit us: maninthemirror.org

]]>bd494507-8680-44d7-817d-c3188b11ef08Mon, 29 Jun 2026 15:31:39 GMT<p>A lot of the current conversation around men leaving the church completely misses the point. It’s not about a lack of interest or commitment—it’s that men are tired of being asked to just sit still and be passive observers.<br /><br />In this episode, we want to talk about the growing disconnect between what the modern church model expects and what men actually need. We look at why the standard, spectator-style Sunday routine feels so hollow, the shift in how men are engaged (or not engaged) in these spaces, and what it actually looks like to build an environment that challenges men rather than just pacifying them.<br /><br />Visit us: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://maninthemirror.org" target="_blank">maninthemirror.org</a></p>no00:15:24Ep. 33 | What Men Actually Want From Churchfull<![CDATA[Ep. 28 | Stop Preaching TED Talks: Real Sermons, Life Updates | with Jake Corn]]>In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Corn sit down to diagnose why so much modern preaching leaves men entirely unfed. We break down the crucial difference between "Topical" sermons (cherry-picking verses to fit a pre-determined theme) and "Exegetical" sermons (letting the ancient text dictate the message, even when it's uncomfortable).

Beyond the pulpit, Ryan and Jake catch up on the current "terrain" of real life—navigating the heavy transitions of the spring season and how to build actual, grounded habits for Easter that go beyond wearing a pastel shirt on Sunday morning.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-28/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/f0b3007e-ba83-3d19-a9a1-b71ff165b7efWed, 22 Apr 2026 04:15:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Corn sit down to diagnose why so much modern preaching leaves men entirely unfed. We break down the crucial difference between "Topical" sermons (cherry-picking verses to fit a pre-determined theme) and "Exegetical" sermons (letting the ancient text dictate the message, even when it's uncomfortable).</p> <p>Beyond the pulpit, Ryan and Jake catch up on the current "terrain" of real life—navigating the heavy transitions of the spring season and how to build actual, grounded habits for Easter that go beyond wearing a pastel shirt on Sunday morning.</p> no00:24:3729Ep. 28 | Stop Preaching TED Talks: Real Sermons, Life Updates | with Jake Cornfull<![CDATA[Ep. 25 | Honeymoon to Hospice]]>What does it look like to "stress test" your character before saying "I do"? In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Brett explore the reality of marriage in your 40s, where "potential" is replaced by honesty, and compatibility is proven in the aisles of a tile store. Ryan opens up about his recent wedding and the "relieved" feeling of finding a partner who levels his life, but the celebration is met with a sudden, somber turn: the passing of his father just weeks later. From the complexities of dating as a "thrift store find" to a moving tribute to the "stay-putness" of the Boomer generation, this conversation is a raw look at the structures of love, the weight of grief, and the quiet virtues of the men who came before us.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-25-honeymoon-to-hospice/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/b5ae2848-636d-3c44-b5b2-5db71b4bf6c5Wed, 18 Mar 2026 04:15:00 GMT<p>What does it look like to "stress test" your character before saying "I do"? In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Brett explore the reality of marriage in your 40s, where "potential" is replaced by honesty, and compatibility is proven in the aisles of a tile store. Ryan opens up about his recent wedding and the "relieved" feeling of finding a partner who levels his life, but the celebration is met with a sudden, somber turn: the passing of his father just weeks later. From the complexities of dating as a "thrift store find" to a moving tribute to the "stay-putness" of the Boomer generation, this conversation is a raw look at the structures of love, the weight of grief, and the quiet virtues of the men who came before us.</p> no00:36:3426Ep. 25 | Honeymoon to Hospicefull<![CDATA[Ep.13 | New Ideas to Reach Men in 2026 with Todd McIntyre]]>In this vital episode of The New Adam Podcast, host Ryan welcomes Todd McIntyre, Senior Executive Pastor at Victory Church in Norcross, GA, to discuss fresh, unconventional strategies for engaging men in faith and community in the coming year. Todd shares the powerful and surprising insights gained from initiatives that successfully re-engaged men who had previously drifted from the church. The conversation moves beyond traditional approaches, focusing on the remarkable impact of creating authentic, experience-driven connections—like the catalytic effect of Harley-Davidson partnerships and community meals—that resonated deeply with a broader male audience. Listeners will gain valuable, practical takeaways and an inspired, non-traditional framework for building a vibrant, Christ-centered men's ministry that focuses on the experience over the expected.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep13-new-ideas-to-reach-men-in-2026-with-tod-mcintyre/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/48e55033-555e-35d8-a174-a36cdf9c59b5Wed, 10 Dec 2025 05:15:00 GMT<p>In this vital episode of The New Adam Podcast, host Ryan welcomes Todd McIntyre, Senior Executive Pastor at Victory Church in Norcross, GA, to discuss fresh, unconventional strategies for engaging men in faith and community in the coming year. Todd shares the powerful and surprising insights gained from initiatives that successfully re-engaged men who had previously drifted from the church. The conversation moves beyond traditional approaches, focusing on the remarkable impact of creating authentic, experience-driven connections—like the catalytic effect of Harley-Davidson partnerships and community meals—that resonated deeply with a broader male audience. Listeners will gain valuable, practical takeaways and an inspired, non-traditional framework for building a vibrant, Christ-centered men's ministry that focuses on the experience over the expected.</p> no00:42:4814Ep.13 | New Ideas to Reach Men in 2026 with Todd McIntyrefull<![CDATA[Ep.9 | Why You Might Homeschool]]>In this episode of the New Adam podcast, Ryan and Brett dive into Ryan's personal story and rationale behind his decision to homeschool his children. Prompted by early negative experiences in public kindergarten, including a lack of parental involvement and exposure to inappropriate language, Ryan and his wife made the pivot to a flexible, hybrid homeschooling approach. They discuss the advantages of having a customized schedule, the challenges faced by the primary caregiver, the critical role of the father as a disciplinary figure and subject-matter resource, and the vital support gained from a strong homeschool community. Ultimately, they reflect on how homeschooling provided a more holistic, personalized, and engaged educational environment that prepared their kids for life and fostered stronger family relationships, offering a compelling alternative to increasingly difficult public school systems.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-9-why-you-might-homeschool/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/3dd80cf0-e21d-3146-b479-f0999690418eWed, 12 Nov 2025 09:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of the New Adam podcast, Ryan and Brett dive into Ryan's personal story and rationale behind his decision to homeschool his children. Prompted by early negative experiences in public kindergarten, including a lack of parental involvement and exposure to inappropriate language, Ryan and his wife made the pivot to a flexible, hybrid homeschooling approach. They discuss the advantages of having a customized schedule, the challenges faced by the primary caregiver, the critical role of the father as a disciplinary figure and subject-matter resource, and the vital support gained from a strong homeschool community. Ultimately, they reflect on how homeschooling provided a more holistic, personalized, and engaged educational environment that prepared their kids for life and fostered stronger family relationships, offering a compelling alternative to increasingly difficult public school systems.</p> no00:32:2110Ep.9 | Why You Might Homeschoolfull<![CDATA[Ep.6 | Setting Your Family Culture as a Dad]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/setting-your-family-culture-as-a-dad/theporchfrommaninthemirror.podbean.com/29ae324a-a699-39c0-8efc-e21cc0e14771Wed, 22 Oct 2025 05:00:00 GMT In this episode of the New Adam podcast, "Setting Your Family Culture as a Dad," hosts Ryan, Scott, and Brett discuss the challenges of fatherhood. They explore the idea that many dads feel more like "chaos managers" than "culture builders". The conversation covers topics such as creating a "safe" and predictable home environment, navigating the challenges of raising children in the modern world, and the importance of allowing kids to face and overcome struggles. The hosts share personal stories and insights on teaching kids to cope with a "broken world," take on new challenges, and develop a healthy respect for authority figures. They also touch on the delicate balance of giving kids a voice while maintaining parental authority, and the long-term goal of raising adults, not just children. no00:37:216Ep.6 | Setting Your Family Culture as a Dadfull<![CDATA[Ep. 2 | Being Real with Your Kids: Say the Awkward]]>A Dad's Journey: From Unprepared to Present

In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the journey of fatherhood with guest Brett. The conversation begins with the joy of a new grandchild and the unique experience of watching your own child become a parent. Brett shares a vulnerable story about the initial surreal feelings of holding his first newborn and the realization that a father’s love often grows with time and intentionality, rather than being an immediate, overwhelming feeling.

We discuss the difference between a physical presence and a true emotional presence in parenting, and how a father’s role is to not just protect, but to guide his children through life's challenges. The episode emphasizes the importance of making time for small, consistent interactions—from shared hobbies and car rides to simply sitting down for dinner—as these "along the way" conversations are often the most meaningful. We explore the tough but necessary choice to let kids make their own mistakes, learn to communicate their thoughts, and develop resilience. Finally, we touch on the generational gap in parenting styles and the vital role of a father in teaching integrity and moral reasoning. This is a must-listen for any dad navigating the complexities of raising children in today's world.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/being-real-with-your-kids-say-the-awkward/theporchfrommaninthemirror.podbean.com/b942ef05-2940-3992-b106-3c0737afe77eTue, 23 Sep 2025 20:26:55 GMT<p>A Dad's Journey: From Unprepared to Present</p> <p>In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the journey of fatherhood with guest Brett. The conversation begins with the joy of a new grandchild and the unique experience of watching your own child become a parent. Brett shares a vulnerable story about the initial surreal feelings of holding his first newborn and the realization that a father’s love often grows with time and intentionality, rather than being an immediate, overwhelming feeling.</p> <p>We discuss the difference between a physical presence and a true emotional presence in parenting, and how a father’s role is to not just protect, but to guide his children through life's challenges. The episode emphasizes the importance of making time for small, consistent interactions—from shared hobbies and car rides to simply sitting down for dinner—as these "along the way" conversations are often the most meaningful. We explore the tough but necessary choice to let kids make their own mistakes, learn to communicate their thoughts, and develop resilience. Finally, we touch on the generational gap in parenting styles and the vital role of a father in teaching integrity and moral reasoning. This is a must-listen for any dad navigating the complexities of raising children in today's world.</p> no00:43:172Ep. 2 | Being Real with Your Kids: Say the Awkwardfull<![CDATA[Ep.5 | Same Calling, New Chaos. Fathering in a Changing World]]>In the episode "Same Calling, New Chaos: Fathering in a Changing World," hosts Ryan and Brett are joined by guest Jeremy to discuss the rapidly changing landscape of fatherhood. They share personal stories and concerns about raising children in a world dominated by technology, social media, and constant exposure to new information. The conversation covers the challenges of protecting and providing for children when external influences can infiltrate the home, from the dangers of online games like Roblox to the impact of modern media on a child's psyche. They also explore the changing nature of cultural conversations, touching on topics like gender identity and the lack of strong male role models in media. Ultimately, they conclude that while a father's core instincts to protect and provide remain the same, the strategies for doing so must evolve to meet the unique challenges of the modern world.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep5-same-calling-new-chaos-fathering-in-a-changing-world/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/a4c776a0-d885-3b13-8d91-6eeba69b92b4Wed, 15 Oct 2025 05:00:00 GMT<p>In the episode "Same Calling, New Chaos: Fathering in a Changing World," hosts Ryan and Brett are joined by guest Jeremy to discuss the rapidly changing landscape of fatherhood. They share personal stories and concerns about raising children in a world dominated by technology, social media, and constant exposure to new information. The conversation covers the challenges of protecting and providing for children when external influences can infiltrate the home, from the dangers of online games like Roblox to the impact of modern media on a child's psyche. They also explore the changing nature of cultural conversations, touching on topics like gender identity and the lack of strong male role models in media. Ultimately, they conclude that while a father's core instincts to protect and provide remain the same, the strategies for doing so must evolve to meet the unique challenges of the modern world.</p> no00:46:037Ep.5 | Same Calling, New Chaos. Fathering in a Changing Worldfull<![CDATA[Ep. 21 | From Stadiums to Stillness: Lessons on Men’s Souls with Promise Keepers Founder RT Philips]]>In this powerful episode, Brett is joined by RT Phillips, a pioneer in the modern men's movement and the first president of Promise Keepers. RT takes us behind the scenes of the historic 1990 gathering in Boulder, Colorado, where 4,200 men sparked a supernatural explosion of faith that eventually reached millions. From his early days in the "hippie culture" and getting drafted into the Army to pastoring in Hawaii, RT reflects on a life shaped by both massive catalytic success and a "20-year freefall" that followed his time at the top. The two discuss the shifting needs of men—moving from the "cultural Christianity" battles of the '90s to the current crisis of isolation and loneliness in the 2020s. RT’s core message is a call to authenticity: that a man's greatest influence doesn't come from his "bio" or his trophies, but from the honesty of his scars and a deep understanding of his adoption as a son of God.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-21-promise-keepers-and-mim-at-40-with-rt-philips/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/964f6b5a-b8e4-317e-a7c4-622d5cba5729Wed, 18 Feb 2026 05:15:00 GMT<p>In this powerful episode, Brett is joined by RT Phillips, a pioneer in the modern men's movement and the first president of Promise Keepers. RT takes us behind the scenes of the historic 1990 gathering in Boulder, Colorado, where 4,200 men sparked a supernatural explosion of faith that eventually reached millions. From his early days in the "hippie culture" and getting drafted into the Army to pastoring in Hawaii, RT reflects on a life shaped by both massive catalytic success and a "20-year freefall" that followed his time at the top. The two discuss the shifting needs of men—moving from the "cultural Christianity" battles of the '90s to the current crisis of isolation and loneliness in the 2020s. RT’s core message is a call to authenticity: that a man's greatest influence doesn't come from his "bio" or his trophies, but from the honesty of his scars and a deep understanding of his adoption as a son of God.</p> no00:38:4822Ep. 21 | From Stadiums to Stillness: Lessons on Men’s Souls with Promise Keepers Founder RT Philipsfull<![CDATA[Ep. 23 | The Integrated Man: Stability in a Season of Change]]>Host Ryan Reeves is joined once again by Jake Korn for a candid conversation on navigating life’s "cold snaps." Moving past the usual surface-level advice, Ryan and Jake explore the biological and spiritual necessity of stress, comparing a man’s growth to trees that require wind to develop deep roots. From Jake’s transition into a new role at Wounded Warrior Project to Ryan navigating the impending loss of his father and his daughter’s early graduation, they discuss how to remain an "integrated man" rather than a reactive one. They tackle the modern dopamine crisis, the discipline of gardening as a present-focus tool, and the "Boat and Sail" analogy for family leadership. This episode serves as a gut-check for men to stop manipulating the future and start stewarding the present, finding the "good days" even in the middle of chaos.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-23/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/8f13d8e3-2c53-3dbf-bb88-1d303323e8f8Wed, 04 Mar 2026 22:04:15 GMT<p>Host Ryan Reeves is joined once again by Jake Korn for a candid conversation on navigating life’s "cold snaps." Moving past the usual surface-level advice, Ryan and Jake explore the biological and spiritual necessity of stress, comparing a man’s growth to trees that require wind to develop deep roots. From Jake’s transition into a new role at Wounded Warrior Project to Ryan navigating the impending loss of his father and his daughter’s early graduation, they discuss how to remain an "integrated man" rather than a reactive one. They tackle the modern dopamine crisis, the discipline of gardening as a present-focus tool, and the "Boat and Sail" analogy for family leadership. This episode serves as a gut-check for men to stop manipulating the future and start stewarding the present, finding the "good days" even in the middle of chaos.</p> no00:30:3724Ep. 23 | The Integrated Man: Stability in a Season of Changefull<![CDATA[Ep. 22 | The Art of a Listening Heart w/ Chris "Harp" Harper]]>In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Brett Clemmer sits down with Chris "Harp" Harper, CEO of BetterMan, for a raw and insightful conversation on the discipline of character and the weight of real-world leadership. From his upbringing in the "hollers" of Kentucky to leading a national men’s ministry, Harp shares why he prioritizes consistency over intensity and the vital importance of a "listening heart." The duo dives into the pitfalls of leading for affirmation, why your feelings are a "terrible compass" for truth, and how our life’s "misses" are often what qualify us most to mentor others. Whether you’re a young man looking for an on-ramp to community or an older leader wondering if you have anything left to offer, this episode serves as a powerful reminder that maturity isn't found in flashy moments, but in the faithful, daily grind of following Jesus.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-22/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/844824b9-f62f-3115-8146-08a02fab2148Thu, 26 Feb 2026 19:13:43 GMT<p>In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Brett Clemmer sits down with Chris "Harp" Harper, CEO of BetterMan, for a raw and insightful conversation on the discipline of character and the weight of real-world leadership. From his upbringing in the "hollers" of Kentucky to leading a national men’s ministry, Harp shares why he prioritizes consistency over intensity and the vital importance of a "listening heart." The duo dives into the pitfalls of leading for affirmation, why your feelings are a "terrible compass" for truth, and how our life’s "misses" are often what qualify us most to mentor others. Whether you’re a young man looking for an on-ramp to community or an older leader wondering if you have anything left to offer, this episode serves as a powerful reminder that maturity isn't found in flashy moments, but in the faithful, daily grind of following Jesus.</p> no00:39:2523Ep. 22 | The Art of a Listening Heart w/ Chris "Harp" Harperfull<![CDATA[Ep.11 | What Midlife Feels Like]]>Midlife hits every man differently, sometimes suddenly, sometimes slowly, and often in ways we don’t expect. In this episode, Ryan and Brett have an honest conversation about what it actually feels like to realize you’re not a kid anymore. From the moment your body stops keeping up, to the shifting expectations of work, marriage, identity, and spiritual growth, they unpack the subtle transitions, the disappointments, the dangers, and the surprising gifts of this stage of life. Together they explore how midlife reveals cracks we’ve ignored, exposes where we’ve placed our identity, and invites us into deeper humility, wisdom, and dependence on God. If you’ve ever felt the strange, surreal tension of getting older, physically, vocationally, or spiritually, this episode will meet you right where you are.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep11-what-midlife-feels-like/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/bf11bc65-a583-3316-9f2b-f9997c61b1a8Wed, 26 Nov 2025 08:15:00 GMT<p>Midlife hits every man differently, sometimes suddenly, sometimes slowly, and often in ways we don’t expect. In this episode, Ryan and Brett have an honest conversation about what it actually feels like to realize you’re not a kid anymore. From the moment your body stops keeping up, to the shifting expectations of work, marriage, identity, and spiritual growth, they unpack the subtle transitions, the disappointments, the dangers, and the surprising gifts of this stage of life. Together they explore how midlife reveals cracks we’ve ignored, exposes where we’ve placed our identity, and invites us into deeper humility, wisdom, and dependence on God. If you’ve ever felt the strange, surreal tension of getting older, physically, vocationally, or spiritually, this episode will meet you right where you are.</p> no00:28:2612Ep.11 | What Midlife Feels Likefull<![CDATA[Ep. 30 | Missing Mom: Brett talks navigating grief]]>Brett Clemmer shares the personal story of his mother’s recent passing and reflects on how we can honor a parent’s legacy while navigating the reality of grief.

We hope this perspective offers encouragement and a reminder that a mother's influence doesn't end when her journey does.

In this episode:

  • Brett’s personal reflection on loss.
  • Navigating Mother’s Day during grief.
  • The lasting impact of a godly legacy.
]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-30-missing-mom-brett-talks-navigating-grief/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/9324a956-01e3-3d23-85e0-279f21ff99a1Wed, 17 Jun 2026 20:42:01 GMT<p>Brett Clemmer shares the personal story of his mother’s recent passing and reflects on how we can honor a parent’s legacy while navigating the reality of grief.</p> <p>We hope this perspective offers encouragement and a reminder that a mother's influence doesn't end when her journey does.</p> <p>In this episode:</p> <ul> <li>Brett’s personal reflection on loss.</li> <li>Navigating Mother’s Day during grief.</li> <li>The lasting impact of a godly legacy.</li> </ul> no00:20:4231Ep. 30 | Missing Mom: Brett talks navigating grieffull<![CDATA[Ep. 31 | Aliens, Algorithms, and the Online Outrage Machine — with Jake Corn]]>Ryan sits down with Jake Corn to talk about how Christian men should think about the noise — UFO headlines, online controversies, the endless churn of viral debates. It's a conversation about discernment, curiosity, and keeping our heads (and our faith) steady when the internet keeps trying to pull them in every direction.

Visit us: maninthemirror.org

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-31-aliens-algorithms-and-the-online-outrage-machine-%e2%80%94-with-jake-corn/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/4a6400e4-9dc2-3bad-aa68-8d89958fe63cWed, 17 Jun 2026 20:59:08 GMT<p>Ryan sits down with Jake Corn to talk about how Christian men should think about the noise — UFO headlines, online controversies, the endless churn of viral debates. It's a conversation about discernment, curiosity, and keeping our heads (and our faith) steady when the internet keeps trying to pull them in every direction.</p> <p>Visit us: maninthemirror.org</p> no00:19:4432Ep. 31 | Aliens, Algorithms, and the Online Outrage Machine — with Jake Cornfull<![CDATA[Ep.12 | Gandalf Isn't Coming (Why Mentors Fail Us)]]>We all long for the "Swiss Army knife" mentor, a perfect, all-knowing sage like Gandalf, Dumbledore, or Obi-Wan Kenobi. But Episode 12 of the New Adam podcast, featuring Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer (celebrating his 25th anniversary at Man in the Mirror), argues that this pursuit leads to disappointment. Instead of looking for a single, flawless figure with "secret knowledge" to guide every aspect of your life, the key is to adopt a "tool-for-the-job" approach to mentorship. After assessing specific deficiencies in areas like career, marriage, and finances, men should seek out multiple, imperfect mentors-the hands, ears, and feet of the body of Christ-each gifted in a particular area to offer targeted wisdom, even if that means consulting a book or simply avoiding the mistakes of a counter-example.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep12-gandalf-isnt-coming-why-mentors-fail-us/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/19341bec-fbd1-319e-9417-65c76278a73fWed, 03 Dec 2025 05:15:00 GMT<p>We all long for the "Swiss Army knife" mentor, a perfect, all-knowing sage like Gandalf, Dumbledore, or Obi-Wan Kenobi. But Episode 12 of the New Adam podcast, featuring Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer (celebrating his 25th anniversary at Man in the Mirror), argues that this pursuit leads to disappointment. Instead of looking for a single, flawless figure with "secret knowledge" to guide every aspect of your life, the key is to adopt a "tool-for-the-job" approach to mentorship. After assessing specific deficiencies in areas like career, marriage, and finances, men should seek out multiple, imperfect mentors-the hands, ears, and feet of the body of Christ-each gifted in a particular area to offer targeted wisdom, even if that means consulting a book or simply avoiding the mistakes of a counter-example.</p> no00:30:2013Ep.12 | Gandalf Isn't Coming (Why Mentors Fail Us)full<![CDATA[Ep. 15 | My Dad Left, But He Saved Me: Overcoming Fatherlessness with Zach Garza]]>In this moving episode of The New Adam Podcast, hosts Ryan and Scott sit down with Zach Garza, founder of You Can Mentor and author of Tell Me About Your Father. Zach opens up about the pivotal moment in eighth grade when his father left, sparking a downward spiral of seeking affirmation in all the wrong places. He shares how a man named Bob eventually broke through his defensive walls—not with programmed advice, but by "earning the right to be heard" through years of consistent, low-pressure friendship.

The conversation dives deep into the "orphan spirit" versus the security of sonship, exploring how men who grew up without a stable father figure often struggle with a constant, "low-grade fever" of fear and the temptation to choose comfort over engagement. Zach provides practical advice for younger men seeking mentors and encourages older men to realize they have more to offer than they think. From weeping in a college Bible study to learning how to parent his own children without passing on his childhood trauma, Zach’s story is a powerful testament to how God uses "dorks," slow sanctification, and intentional brotherhood to heal the wounds of the past.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-15-my-dad-left-but-he-saved-me-overcoming-fatherlessness-with-zach-garza/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/9e1a1efa-339f-32b0-803f-6a7ea227b693Wed, 24 Dec 2025 05:15:00 GMT<p>In this moving episode of The New Adam Podcast, hosts Ryan and Scott sit down with Zach Garza, founder of You Can Mentor and author of Tell Me About Your Father. Zach opens up about the pivotal moment in eighth grade when his father left, sparking a downward spiral of seeking affirmation in all the wrong places. He shares how a man named Bob eventually broke through his defensive walls—not with programmed advice, but by "earning the right to be heard" through years of consistent, low-pressure friendship.</p> <p>The conversation dives deep into the "orphan spirit" versus the security of sonship, exploring how men who grew up without a stable father figure often struggle with a constant, "low-grade fever" of fear and the temptation to choose comfort over engagement. Zach provides practical advice for younger men seeking mentors and encourages older men to realize they have more to offer than they think. From weeping in a college Bible study to learning how to parent his own children without passing on his childhood trauma, Zach’s story is a powerful testament to how God uses "dorks," slow sanctification, and intentional brotherhood to heal the wounds of the past.</p> no00:33:3216Ep. 15 | My Dad Left, But He Saved Me: Overcoming Fatherlessness with Zach Garzafull<![CDATA[Ep. 4 | Being a Humble Father]]>In the episode "Being a Humble Father," hosts Ryan and Brett have a candid and vulnerable discussion about the struggles of fatherhood. They share personal stories, including Ryan's experience with feeling overwhelmed and Brett's account of accidentally hurting his daughter. They explore the societal pressure on men to project an image of perfect competence, and how this can lead to shame and emotional disengagement. The guys emphasize that true strength lies in humility and the willingness to admit mistakes, highlighting the importance of apologizing to children and seeking a supportive community. They conclude that a father's integrity is a critical lesson he can teach his kids, as it models accountability and healthy emotional expression.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/being-a-humble-father/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/4686ab7d-7f83-3958-bf12-b1126efdb980Wed, 08 Oct 2025 13:53:01 GMT<p>In the episode "Being a Humble Father," hosts Ryan and Brett have a candid and vulnerable discussion about the struggles of fatherhood. They share personal stories, including Ryan's experience with feeling overwhelmed and Brett's account of accidentally hurting his daughter. They explore the societal pressure on men to project an image of perfect competence, and how this can lead to shame and emotional disengagement. The guys emphasize that true strength lies in humility and the willingness to admit mistakes, highlighting the importance of apologizing to children and seeking a supportive community. They conclude that a father's integrity is a critical lesson he can teach his kids, as it models accountability and healthy emotional expression.</p> no00:35:134Ep. 4 | Being a Humble Fatherfull<![CDATA[Ep.10 | The Benefits and Challenges of Homeschooling]]>Continuing their deep dive into the world of non-traditional education, Ryan and Brett explore the fundamental "benefits and challenges" of homeschooling. Building on Ryan's family's experience, the hosts offer a balanced look at the core advantages, such as providing a truly personalized education, fostering deeper family bonds, and navigating the increasingly complex social issues of modern schooling. They also tackle the common obstacles, including managing the significant time commitment, the potential for parental burnout, and addressing the persistent myth of "socialization." Ryan details how his family overcame these hurdles by utilizing co-ops and support networks, providing actionable insight for parents considering or currently engaged in the journey of raising and teaching their children outside of a traditional classroom.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep10-the-benefits-and-challenges-of-homeschooling/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/bc43b7de-8f4e-3ffd-b4ad-4bd7f3d249d2Wed, 19 Nov 2025 08:15:00 GMT<p>Continuing their deep dive into the world of non-traditional education, Ryan and Brett explore the fundamental "benefits and challenges" of homeschooling. Building on Ryan's family's experience, the hosts offer a balanced look at the core advantages, such as providing a truly personalized education, fostering deeper family bonds, and navigating the increasingly complex social issues of modern schooling. They also tackle the common obstacles, including managing the significant time commitment, the potential for parental burnout, and addressing the persistent myth of "socialization." Ryan details how his family overcame these hurdles by utilizing co-ops and support networks, providing actionable insight for parents considering or currently engaged in the journey of raising and teaching their children outside of a traditional classroom.</p> no00:30:2411Ep.10 | The Benefits and Challenges of Homeschoolingfull<![CDATA[Ep.8 | Update from Man in the Mirror Asia]]>In this episode of "The New Adam Podcast with Man in the Mirror", Brett and Ryan discuss Brett's recent whirlwind trip visiting Man in the Mirror Asia. Brett shares stories and observations from five countries, highlighting the growth and impact of the ministry in diverse cultural and religious settings. In Malaysia, the ministry is thriving with over 50 groups using the "My Journey" curriculum. Indonesia showcases a powerful multi-generational partnership to disciple Christian men, where local translation of materials is key. The trip to China reveals the great cost and quiet joy of Christianity in a restrictive environment, contrasting the faith's deeply personal value there with its ease in the West. Finally, the visit to Nepal underscores the vast needs and impactful, cost-effective nature of ministry, where local Christians, including the head of Evangelism Explosion Nepal, are joyfully strengthening men's faith despite economic hardship and social pressure. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize that men's core issues and desire for authentic Christian community are universal, regardless of culture or country.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep8-update-from-man-in-the-mirror-asia/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/41435515-0934-3184-88cc-7127e64ae264Wed, 05 Nov 2025 08:10:00 GMT<p>In this episode of "The New Adam Podcast with Man in the Mirror", Brett and Ryan discuss Brett's recent whirlwind trip visiting Man in the Mirror Asia. Brett shares stories and observations from five countries, highlighting the growth and impact of the ministry in diverse cultural and religious settings. In Malaysia, the ministry is thriving with over 50 groups using the "My Journey" curriculum. Indonesia showcases a powerful multi-generational partnership to disciple Christian men, where local translation of materials is key. The trip to China reveals the great cost and quiet joy of Christianity in a restrictive environment, contrasting the faith's deeply personal value there with its ease in the West. Finally, the visit to Nepal underscores the vast needs and impactful, cost-effective nature of ministry, where local Christians, including the head of Evangelism Explosion Nepal, are joyfully strengthening men's faith despite economic hardship and social pressure. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize that men's core issues and desire for authentic Christian community are universal, regardless of culture or country.</p> no01:08:549Ep.8 | Update from Man in the Mirror Asiafull<![CDATA[Ep. 17 | New Years and Past Mistakes in Life]]>As the calendar turns, many of us are tempted by the "cliché" of New Year’s resolutions—gym memberships that go unused and lofty goals that lack a plan. But for men, the start of a new year often brings a heavier burden: regret. In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer dive into the psychology and theology of looking back. They discuss the critical difference between "good guilt" (a warning light that signals a need for change) and "bad guilt" (a hamster wheel of self-loathing that becomes a false identity). From Blackstone griddles and picky eaters to the humble brilliance of theologian John Frame, Ryan and Brett explore how to move from being "stuck" in past mistakes to walking in the freedom of genuine forgiveness.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-17-new-years-and-past-mistakes-in-life/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/c6010f2f-160e-3831-b46a-43d930a7cbf4Wed, 14 Jan 2026 05:15:00 GMT<p>As the calendar turns, many of us are tempted by the "cliché" of New Year’s resolutions—gym memberships that go unused and lofty goals that lack a plan. But for men, the start of a new year often brings a heavier burden: regret. In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer dive into the psychology and theology of looking back. They discuss the critical difference between "good guilt" (a warning light that signals a need for change) and "bad guilt" (a hamster wheel of self-loathing that becomes a false identity). From Blackstone griddles and picky eaters to the humble brilliance of theologian John Frame, Ryan and Brett explore how to move from being "stuck" in past mistakes to walking in the freedom of genuine forgiveness.</p> no00:37:5418Ep. 17 | New Years and Past Mistakes in Lifefull<![CDATA[Ep. 29 | A Conversation with Brett Clemmer and Pat Morley]]>In this eye-opening episode, Man in the Mirror founder, Pat Morley sits down with Brett to unpack startling new research on the state of young men in America in 2026. As the cultural landscape shifts, the data reveals a generation of "Builders" (men aged 20–45) facing a silent crisis of isolation, screen addiction, and a fundamental questioning of what it even means to be a man.

Brett shares highlights from the latest State of Young Men report, revealing statistics that Pat describes as "staggering" and "heartbreaking." They move beyond the numbers to discuss how the church can pivot from "come and be discipled" to "go and make disciples."

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-29/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/a5c4b9af-4deb-3343-ba3a-49df41278941Wed, 29 Apr 2026 04:15:00 GMT<p>In this eye-opening episode, Man in the Mirror founder, Pat Morley sits down with Brett to unpack startling new research on the state of young men in America in 2026. As the cultural landscape shifts, the data reveals a generation of "Builders" (men aged 20–45) facing a silent crisis of isolation, screen addiction, and a fundamental questioning of what it even means to be a man.</p> <p>Brett shares highlights from the latest State of Young Men report, revealing statistics that Pat describes as "staggering" and "heartbreaking." They move beyond the numbers to discuss how the church can pivot from "come and be discipled" to "go and make disciples."</p> no01:12:0430Ep. 29 | A Conversation with Brett Clemmer and Pat Morleyfull<![CDATA[Ep.7 | The Generational Gap between Men Today is Wild]]>On this New Adam Podcast episode, host Ryan Reeves sits down with Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) and Scott Mawdesley (Man in the Mirror’s Spiritual Fathers and Dads on Tap) to talk about raising kids and what shaped their vision of manhood. From high school days in ’88, ’91, and ’96 to parenting teens and twenty-somethings today, they reflect on mentors, church life, and the shift from occasional news to always-on social feeds. They ask what young men really need now, why many crave straight talk and wise counsel, and how fathers and mentors can step in with presence, clarity, and faith-anchored guidance. It is a candid, practical conversation for dads and leaders who want to invest in the next generation.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep7-the-generational-gap-between-men-today-is-wild/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/4ab39f92-fc05-3b33-b2c3-ededaff5993fWed, 29 Oct 2025 07:21:00 GMT<p>On this New Adam Podcast episode, host Ryan Reeves sits down with Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) and Scott Mawdesley (Man in the Mirror’s Spiritual Fathers and Dads on Tap) to talk about raising kids and what shaped their vision of manhood. From high school days in ’88, ’91, and ’96 to parenting teens and twenty-somethings today, they reflect on mentors, church life, and the shift from occasional news to always-on social feeds. They ask what young men really need now, why many crave straight talk and wise counsel, and how fathers and mentors can step in with presence, clarity, and faith-anchored guidance. It is a candid, practical conversation for dads and leaders who want to invest in the next generation.</p> no00:42:238Ep.7 | The Generational Gap between Men Today is Wildfull<![CDATA[Ep. 20 | Stop Trying to "Do Better": The Cure for Christian Burnout w/ Robbie Angle]]>In this episode, Brett sits down with Robbie Angle, President of True Face Ministries, to dismantle the "know more, do better" treadmill that leaves so many men exhausted and isolated. Robbie, a former therapist who once served as a missionary in al-Qaeda territory, shares his personal transition from a high-drive achiever "earning" God's love to a leader practicing the "lighter yoke" of abiding. The conversation dives into the messy reality of parenting eight children—including two sets of twins and five adoptions—and how the "90% nature vs. 10% nurture" realization shifted his fatherhood from pressure-filled shaping to intentional stewardship. From the "last 1%" of transparency in brotherhood to the critical difference between unhurried relationship and mere productivity, Robbie offers a refreshing paradigm for any man feeling "uncontent" or paralyzed by the gap between his expectations and his reality.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-20-the-secret-to-intentional-discipleship-with-robbie-angle/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/4b6e4ce9-32bf-3a37-b2df-38719b5f48b0Wed, 11 Feb 2026 05:15:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Brett sits down with Robbie Angle, President of True Face Ministries, to dismantle the "know more, do better" treadmill that leaves so many men exhausted and isolated. Robbie, a former therapist who once served as a missionary in al-Qaeda territory, shares his personal transition from a high-drive achiever "earning" God's love to a leader practicing the "lighter yoke" of abiding. The conversation dives into the messy reality of parenting eight children—including two sets of twins and five adoptions—and how the "90% nature vs. 10% nurture" realization shifted his fatherhood from pressure-filled shaping to intentional stewardship. From the "last 1%" of transparency in brotherhood to the critical difference between unhurried relationship and mere productivity, Robbie offers a refreshing paradigm for any man feeling "uncontent" or paralyzed by the gap between his expectations and his reality.</p> no00:45:2521Ep. 20 | Stop Trying to "Do Better": The Cure for Christian Burnout w/ Robbie Anglefull<![CDATA[Ep. 27 | The War for Men: Luke Detraz on Identity, Father Wounds, and Rebuilding the Internal Map]]>In this episode, Ryan Reeves sits down with Luke Detraz, founder of Field & Faith, to discuss the tectonic shifts facing men in 2026. Luke shares his personal journey from navigating identity wounds to the mission behind his new book, The War for Men.

We dive deep into why so many men today feel "functionally invisible" in their own social circles. Luke argues that rebuilding a man starts from the inside out—addressing the "Generational Ghosts"  and the father wounds that often dictate our modern tensions. Whether you are navigating a career transition, family loss, or the weight of isolation, this conversation provides a tactical map for finding your footing again.

 

#ManInTheMirror #TheWarForMen #LukeDetraz #FieldAndFaith #Masculinity #Fatherhood #Identity #Faith #Brotherhood #PersonalGrowth #Legacy

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-27-the-war-for-men-luke-detraz-on-identity-father-wounds-and-rebuilding-the-internal-map/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/c3d0a015-570e-37dd-a5b7-1c71d4ad3934Wed, 01 Apr 2026 04:15:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Ryan Reeves sits down with Luke Detraz, founder of Field &amp; Faith, to discuss the tectonic shifts facing men in 2026. Luke shares his personal journey from navigating identity wounds to the mission behind his new book, The War for Men.</p> <p>We dive deep into why so many men today feel "functionally invisible" in their own social circles. Luke argues that rebuilding a man starts from the inside out—addressing the "Generational Ghosts"  and the father wounds that often dictate our modern tensions. Whether you are navigating a career transition, family loss, or the weight of isolation, this conversation provides a tactical map for finding your footing again.</p> <p> </p> <p>#ManInTheMirror #TheWarForMen #LukeDetraz #FieldAndFaith #Masculinity #Fatherhood #Identity #Faith #Brotherhood #PersonalGrowth #Legacy</p> no00:29:3928Ep. 27 | The War for Men: Luke Detraz on Identity, Father Wounds, and Rebuilding the Internal Mapfull<![CDATA[Ep. 14 | The Power of Humility in Fatherhood with Kent Evans]]>In this episode of the New Adam podcast, host Ryan Reeves and guest Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) reflect on the vital role of humility and intentionality in marriage and fatherhood. Kent shares the joyous news of his son's recent wedding, a high school sweetheart romance, and the subsequent realization that he was "not ready" for marriage in his early twenties, admitting to struggles with immaturity, financial irresponsibility, and truthfulness. This leads to a discussion on the adulting crisis facing young men today, as well as the importance of older men modeling an exemplary, humble faith, an example too often missing. They challenge the "bad theology" that convinces men they have nothing to offer, urging them to embrace their experiences and gifts. Ryan and Kent conclude by highlighting a key marriage priority that has kept Kent's 30-year relationship strong: the shared, consistent study of scripture.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-14-the-power-of-humility-in-fatherhood-with-kent-evans/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/6095e196-2b41-374a-a70f-c95871af5822Wed, 17 Dec 2025 05:15:00 GMT<p>In this episode of the New Adam podcast, host Ryan Reeves and guest Kent Evans (Manhood Journey) reflect on the vital role of humility and intentionality in marriage and fatherhood. Kent shares the joyous news of his son's recent wedding, a high school sweetheart romance, and the subsequent realization that he was "not ready" for marriage in his early twenties, admitting to struggles with immaturity, financial irresponsibility, and truthfulness. This leads to a discussion on the adulting crisis facing young men today, as well as the importance of older men modeling an exemplary, humble faith, an example too often missing. They challenge the "bad theology" that convinces men they have nothing to offer, urging them to embrace their experiences and gifts. Ryan and Kent conclude by highlighting a key marriage priority that has kept Kent's 30-year relationship strong: the shared, consistent study of scripture.</p> no00:32:4115Ep. 14 | The Power of Humility in Fatherhood with Kent Evansfull<![CDATA[Ep. 24 | Dealing With the Death of a Father]]>In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Jake sit down just days after the passing of Ryan’s father. Moving past the "clinical" or "academic" view of death, they dive into the messy, multifaceted reality of grief, the "Boomer" legacy of the 1940s generation, and how we as men can integrate loss into our lives without losing hope.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-24-dealing-with-the-death-of-a-father/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/8c5bad86-ec05-3e36-8c5f-f1541778246eWed, 11 Mar 2026 04:15:00 GMT<p>In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Jake sit down just days after the passing of Ryan’s father. Moving past the "clinical" or "academic" view of death, they dive into the messy, multifaceted reality of grief, the "Boomer" legacy of the 1940s generation, and how we as men can integrate loss into our lives without losing hope.</p> no00:33:5525Ep. 24 | Dealing With the Death of a Fatherfull<![CDATA[Ep. 18 | Any Man Can Learn to Pray]]>For many men, prayer feels less like a conversation and more like a "scheduled conference call" that usually goes to voicemail. We want results, we want a "Plan A to Plan B" outcome, and when we don’t get an immediate response, we default to our own self-sufficiency.

In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Ryan and Brett strip away the religious formality and get real about why men find prayer so difficult. From Florida "cold snaps" and NFL loyalty to the profound lesson of a 94-year-old prayer warrior, this conversation is about moving prayer from a religious obligation to a tangible presence.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-18-any-man-can-learn-to-pray/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/f6fe5589-91d9-3a9c-a946-89caa4efddeeWed, 21 Jan 2026 05:15:00 GMT<p>For many men, prayer feels less like a conversation and more like a "scheduled conference call" that usually goes to voicemail. We want results, we want a "Plan A to Plan B" outcome, and when we don’t get an immediate response, we default to our own self-sufficiency.</p> <p>In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Ryan and Brett strip away the religious formality and get real about why men find prayer so difficult. From Florida "cold snaps" and NFL loyalty to the profound lesson of a 94-year-old prayer warrior, this conversation is about moving prayer from a religious obligation to a tangible presence.</p> no00:27:2219Ep. 18 | Any Man Can Learn to Prayfull<![CDATA[Ep. 3 | Parenting Blended Families]]>In this insightful episode of "The Man in the Mirror," we tackle the unique challenges and rewarding journey of parenting in a blended family. Host and special guest, Rob, share his personal experiences, providing honest advice on navigating the delicate balance of a stepparent, addressing discipline, and handling co-parenting with a former spouse. We explore the emotional landscape of stepping into a parental role for non-biological children and the importance of grace and patience. Tune in for an honest conversation about effective communication, creating a "parallel parenting" model, and the key to choosing your battles to build a strong, cohesive family. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance and encouragement on their blended family journey.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/parenting-blended-families/theporchfrommaninthemirror.podbean.com/0a953df0-1099-388f-8c10-761797e9274fWed, 01 Oct 2025 19:23:39 GMT<p>In this insightful episode of "The Man in the Mirror," we tackle the unique challenges and rewarding journey of parenting in a blended family. Host and special guest, Rob, share his personal experiences, providing honest advice on navigating the delicate balance of a stepparent, addressing discipline, and handling co-parenting with a former spouse. We explore the emotional landscape of stepping into a parental role for non-biological children and the importance of grace and patience. Tune in for an honest conversation about effective communication, creating a "parallel parenting" model, and the key to choosing your battles to build a strong, cohesive family. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance and encouragement on their blended family journey.</p> no00:31:194Ep. 3 | Parenting Blended Familiesfull<![CDATA[Ep. 1 | Fatherhood and Being Present]]>Work, Worth, and the Dangers of a "Grindset"

Join us for a candid conversation about the challenges of work-life balance and the deeper struggle for identity. In this episode, we explore the pitfalls of a "workaholic" mindset, a journey often fueled by a self-imposed sense of guilt and the pressure to constantly achieve.

On this episode, Brett Clemmer, President/CEO at Man in the Mirror shares a deeply personal story about building a company, sacrificing time with his family, and the painful but necessary wake-up call that forced him to re-evaluate his priorities. The discussion unpacks the idea that our identity should not be rooted in what we do, but rather in who we are called to be—a loving spouse, an engaged parent, and a person with purpose. We reflect on how sacrificing for those we love is not a sign of weakness, but a profound act of grace, and how our true identity is found in relationships, not professional success.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/fatherhood-and-being-present/theporchfrommaninthemirror.podbean.com/5684350c-ef19-3a43-a42d-cd628d9a5a02Fri, 19 Sep 2025 23:36:58 GMT<p>Work, Worth, and the Dangers of a "Grindset"</p> <p>Join us for a candid conversation about the challenges of work-life balance and the deeper struggle for identity. In this episode, we explore the pitfalls of a "workaholic" mindset, a journey often fueled by a self-imposed sense of guilt and the pressure to constantly achieve.</p> <p>On this episode, Brett Clemmer, President/CEO at Man in the Mirror shares a deeply personal story about building a company, sacrificing time with his family, and the painful but necessary wake-up call that forced him to re-evaluate his priorities. The discussion unpacks the idea that our identity should not be rooted in what we do, but rather in who we are called to be—a loving spouse, an engaged parent, and a person with purpose. We reflect on how sacrificing for those we love is not a sign of weakness, but a profound act of grace, and how our true identity is found in relationships, not professional success.</p> no00:35:1511Ep. 1 | Fatherhood and Being Presentfull<![CDATA[Ep. 26 | How a 40 Year Old Looks Back at 20]]>What would you say to your 20-year-old self if you could sit across the table from him today? In this episode, Ryan and Jake dive into the "weird" and transformative decade of the 40s—an age where the body starts to remind you it’s not invincible, but the soul starts to find its footing. From the physical realization that you can no longer assemble furniture on the floor without a week of neck pain, to the spiritual shift from ambition to legacy, this conversation explores what it means to truly mature as a man of faith.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-26/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/4c7dd746-c56d-37f6-8572-4c62f861f546Wed, 25 Mar 2026 04:15:00 GMT<p>What would you say to your 20-year-old self if you could sit across the table from him today? In this episode, Ryan and Jake dive into the "weird" and transformative decade of the 40s—an age where the body starts to remind you it’s not invincible, but the soul starts to find its footing. From the physical realization that you can no longer assemble furniture on the floor without a week of neck pain, to the spiritual shift from ambition to legacy, this conversation explores what it means to truly mature as a man of faith.</p> no00:32:5627Ep. 26 | How a 40 Year Old Looks Back at 20full<![CDATA[Ep. 19 | Is Work a Calling and How Do I Find It]]>In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Korn strip away the "romanticized" pressure of finding a mystical career calling, arguing instead that work is primarily about identifying your natural talents and learning how to monetize them. Jake shares his personal transition from the military to a civilian role at the Wounded Warrior Project, emphasizing the importance of "putting miles on the soul" through experience rather than waiting for a bolt of inspiration. From discussing the rising costs of being a young man in 2026 to the value of "second chair" leadership, the duo concludes that while the Bible doesn't necessarily label your trade as a "calling," it strictly demands excellence and character in whatever path you choose to walk.

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-19-is-work-a-calling-and-how-do-i-find-it/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/b5d8fe1b-2132-301f-a8aa-96f700717aa9Wed, 04 Feb 2026 05:15:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Korn strip away the "romanticized" pressure of finding a mystical career calling, arguing instead that work is primarily about identifying your natural talents and learning how to monetize them. Jake shares his personal transition from the military to a civilian role at the Wounded Warrior Project, emphasizing the importance of "putting miles on the soul" through experience rather than waiting for a bolt of inspiration. From discussing the rising costs of being a young man in 2026 to the value of "second chair" leadership, the duo concludes that while the Bible doesn't necessarily label your trade as a "calling," it strictly demands excellence and character in whatever path you choose to walk.</p> no00:36:4320Ep. 19 | Is Work a Calling and How Do I Find Itfull<![CDATA[Ep. 32 | Why Men Secretly NEVER Rest (And How It’s Killing Your Growth)]]>In this episode, Ryan and Jake break down a critical issue facing men today: our obsession with daily optimization and our complete inability to pull back the throttle. Whether you're dealing with standard injuries, chasing vanity, or using the gym as a coping mechanism for mental health, the reality is that ignoring your body’s need for rest is a recipe for a crash.

We dive into what it truly means to steward the temple God gave you, why true discipline includes sabbath rest, and how a healthy lifestyle is ultimately about protecting your ability to serve your family and community.

We also tackle the creeping dangers of modern dopamine addictions—from social media traps to the rise of sports gambling among young men—and discuss how a deliberate "dopamine reset" can clear your mind and restore your focus on what actually matters.

Visit us: maninthemirror.org

]]>https://thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/e/ep-32-why-men-secretly-never-rest-and-how-it-s-killing-your-growth/thenewadampodcastwithmaninthemirror.podbean.com/fb9b01e3-f015-335c-84fb-84a680fe5416Wed, 17 Jun 2026 21:12:45 GMT<p>In this episode, Ryan and Jake break down a critical issue facing men today: our obsession with daily optimization and our complete inability to pull back the throttle. Whether you're dealing with standard injuries, chasing vanity, or using the gym as a coping mechanism for mental health, the reality is that ignoring your body’s need for rest is a recipe for a crash.</p> <p>We dive into what it truly means to steward the temple God gave you, why true discipline includes sabbath rest, and how a healthy lifestyle is ultimately about protecting your ability to serve your family and community.</p> <p>We also tackle the creeping dangers of modern dopamine addictions—from social media traps to the rise of sports gambling among young men—and discuss how a deliberate "dopamine reset" can clear your mind and restore your focus on what actually matters.</p> <p>Visit us: maninthemirror.org</p> no00:22:3133Ep. 32 | Why Men Secretly NEVER Rest (And How It’s Killing Your Growth)full