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]]>https://riverside.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Mon, 28 Sep 2026 18:16:37 GMTMon, 31 Aug 2026 11:48:24 GMT60The Boarding House Podcast<p>A community for houseparents, boarding staff &amp; the curious, to connect, share and stay informed.<br /><br />Part podcast. Part staff room chat. All boarding life 🛌</p>episodicThe Boarding House Podcasthello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.ukno<![CDATA[The Hidden Signs of Homesickness, and it’s Not Just About Missing Home ]]>Homesickness

Tom and Meg talk through how homesickness shows up in boarding and day school settings, why it often appears a few weeks into term, and what staff can do to help students settle. They also cover staff wellbeing, emotional check-ins, parent communication, and simple routines that make a big difference. In this episode, Tom and Meg share practical ways to spot homesickness early, respond calmly, and match support to the student’s age and needs. The conversation is especially useful for boarding staff, but many of the ideas also apply to day-school drop-off anxiety.

Timestamps

(0:00) What this episode is about and why homesickness matters
(0:30) Why homesickness often appears after the first few settled weeks
(1:28) Comparing personal homesickness experiences
(3:51) Homesickness signs: tummy aches, feeling sick, and sleep issues
(4:20) Older students, embarrassment, and defiant behaviour
(6:49) International students, local boarders, and family distance
(7:46) How parents should talk to homesick children
(8:41) First response: calm the upset before trying to talk
(10:54) Distraction, physical activity, and team support
(11:26) Why side-by-side conversations can work better
(13:18) Giving students responsibility to build routine and connection
(14:18) Homesickness coming in waves across the school year
(16:41) Neurodiverse students, sensory changes, and routine disruption
(19:01) Formal and informal check-ins
(20:29) When to involve parents
(24:52) Colouring and quiet activities as calming tools
(25:52) Siblings and shared homesickness
(29:14) Homesickness in day schools and morning drop-off anxiety

Action items

  • Notice early signs such as tummy aches, sleep trouble, or sudden defiance.
  • Match your response to the student’s age and emotional state.
  • Use simple grounding tools such as colouring, a walk, tea, or a small task.
  • Keep routines predictable and give students appropriate responsibility.
  • Log patterns and schedule follow-up check-ins.
  • Tell parents what is going well, not only what is difficult.
  • Use a calm, validating approach with day-school drop-off anxiety.

 

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]]>601ab1d4-cd8f-4e55-bc0a-06edcaa35ec5Fri, 25 Sep 2026 11:00:00 GMT<p><b><strong>Homesickness</strong></b></p><p>Tom and Meg talk through how homesickness shows up in boarding and day school settings, why it often appears a few weeks into term, and what staff can do to help students settle. They also cover staff wellbeing, emotional check-ins, parent communication, and simple routines that make a big difference. In this episode, Tom and Meg share practical ways to spot homesickness early, respond calmly, and match support to the student’s age and needs. The conversation is especially useful for boarding staff, but many of the ideas also apply to day-school drop-off anxiety.</p><p><b><strong>Timestamps</strong></b></p><p>(0:00) What this episode is about and why homesickness matters<br />(0:30) Why homesickness often appears after the first few settled weeks<br />(1:28) Comparing personal homesickness experiences<br />(3:51) Homesickness signs: tummy aches, feeling sick, and sleep issues<br />(4:20) Older students, embarrassment, and defiant behaviour<br />(6:49) International students, local boarders, and family distance<br />(7:46) How parents should talk to homesick children<br />(8:41) First response: calm the upset before trying to talk<br />(10:54) Distraction, physical activity, and team support<br />(11:26) Why side-by-side conversations can work better<br />(13:18) Giving students responsibility to build routine and connection<br />(14:18) Homesickness coming in waves across the school year<br />(16:41) Neurodiverse students, sensory changes, and routine disruption<br />(19:01) Formal and informal check-ins<br />(20:29) When to involve parents<br />(24:52) Colouring and quiet activities as calming tools<br />(25:52) Siblings and shared homesickness<br />(29:14) Homesickness in day schools and morning drop-off anxiety</p><p><b><strong>Action items</strong></b></p><ul><li>Notice early signs such as tummy aches, sleep trouble, or sudden defiance.</li><li>Match your response to the student’s age and emotional state.</li><li>Use simple grounding tools such as colouring, a walk, tea, or a small task.</li><li>Keep routines predictable and give students appropriate responsibility.</li><li>Log patterns and schedule follow-up check-ins.</li><li>Tell parents what is going well, not only what is difficult.</li><li>Use a calm, validating approach with day-school drop-off anxiety.</li></ul><p> </p><p>Email us at: <a href="mailto:hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p>Send your stories to: <a href="mailto:stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p> Follow us across the socials to stay updated:</p><p>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank"><b><strong>https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489</strong></b></a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank"><b><strong>https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast</strong></b></a></p><p>Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank"><b><strong>https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast</strong></b></a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank"><b><strong>https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast</strong></b></a></p>no00:31:24The Hidden Signs of Homesickness, and it’s Not Just About Missing Home full<![CDATA[Arrivals Day]]>Arrivals Day in Boarding: What Matters in the First Few Hours

Tom and Meg talk through arrivals day in boarding and why it sets the tone for safety, trust, and belonging. The episode focuses on what houseparents need to have ready, how to settle children quickly, and how to support parents who may be feeling a real sense of handover.

Timestamps:


00:22 - Arrivals day and why it matters
00:45 - Fire safety, contact details, and night-time reassurance
02:18 - Using an induction checklist to cover the essentials
03:16 - Why parents need reassurance too
04:16 - Meg’s arrival script for building rapport fast
04:44 - Welfare first: food, drink, and comfort before rules
06:00 - Why parents’ emotions shape the handover moment
07:08 - Work contact details and professional boundaries
08:38 - Setting clear cut-off times for parents
09:25 - Keeping students busy once parents leave
11:20 - Homesickness, validation, and parent communication
12:46 - Using older students as mentors
14:38 - Spotting early warning signs and building relationships
18:56 - When pets can help settle students in
21:22 - One-to-one check-ins during the first week
22:19 - Roommate agreements and routines
24:08 - Managing conflict, culture, and personal space
26:04 - Being visible in the house rather than hiding away in the office
29:48 - Key takeaways for arrivals day
31:46 - Closing thoughts: it gets easier, but not instantly

Key Frameworks

  • Induction checklist

- A structured way to make sure safety, contact, welfare, and house information are covered in the right order.

  • Now, now, and next

- A simple communication pattern for younger children so they know what is happening immediately and what comes next.

  • Roommate agreements

- A practical tool for setting expectations around noise, phones, headphones, curfews, and shared space.

  • Scaffolding in boarding

- Treating social and interpersonal adjustment like a learning process that needs structure and time.

Action Items

  • Prepare paperwork, registers, and room allocations before students arrive.
  • Have snacks and drinks available for students and parents.
  • Give parents work contact details and set a clear availability boundary.
  • Keep students occupied with low-pressure activities after arrival.
  • Check in during the first week about food, sleep, rooming, and homesickness.
  • Use older students to help new boarders settle and feel less alone.

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]]>2a02e053-b6c3-43ac-a7da-6489af4fdafcFri, 18 Sep 2026 11:00:00 GMT<p><b>Arrivals Day in Boarding: What Matters in the First Few Hours</b></p><p>Tom and Meg talk through arrivals day in boarding and why it sets the tone for safety, trust, and belonging. The episode focuses on what houseparents need to have ready, how to settle children quickly, and how to support parents who may be feeling a real sense of handover.</p><p></p><p><b>Timestamps:</b></p><p><br />00:22 - Arrivals day and why it matters<br />00:45 - Fire safety, contact details, and night-time reassurance<br />02:18 - Using an induction checklist to cover the essentials<br />03:16 - Why parents need reassurance too<br />04:16 - Meg’s arrival script for building rapport fast<br />04:44 - Welfare first: food, drink, and comfort before rules<br />06:00 - Why parents’ emotions shape the handover moment<br />07:08 - Work contact details and professional boundaries<br />08:38 - Setting clear cut-off times for parents<br />09:25 - Keeping students busy once parents leave<br />11:20 - Homesickness, validation, and parent communication<br />12:46 - Using older students as mentors<br />14:38 - Spotting early warning signs and building relationships<br />18:56 - When pets can help settle students in<br />21:22 - One-to-one check-ins during the first week<br />22:19 - Roommate agreements and routines<br />24:08 - Managing conflict, culture, and personal space<br />26:04 - Being visible in the house rather than hiding away in the office<br />29:48 - Key takeaways for arrivals day<br />31:46 - Closing thoughts: it gets easier, but not instantly</p><p></p><p><b>Key Frameworks</b></p><ul><li><b>Induction checklist</b></li></ul><p>- A structured way to make sure safety, contact, welfare, and house information are covered in the right order.</p><ul><li><b>Now, now, and next</b></li></ul><p>- A simple communication pattern for younger children so they know what is happening immediately and what comes next.</p><ul><li><b>Roommate agreements</b></li></ul><p>- A practical tool for setting expectations around noise, phones, headphones, curfews, and shared space.</p><ul><li><b>Scaffolding in boarding</b></li></ul><p>- Treating social and interpersonal adjustment like a learning process that needs structure and time.</p><p></p><p><b>Action Items</b></p><ul><li>Prepare paperwork, registers, and room allocations before students arrive.</li><li>Have snacks and drinks available for students and parents.</li><li>Give parents work contact details and set a clear availability boundary.</li><li>Keep students occupied with low-pressure activities after arrival.</li><li>Check in during the first week about food, sleep, rooming, and homesickness.</li><li>Use older students to help new boarders settle and feel less alone.</li></ul><p></p><p>Email us at: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" target="_blank">hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p>Send your stories to: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" target="_blank">stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p> </p><p>Follow us across the socials to stay updated:</p><p>Facebook: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489" target="_blank"><b>https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489</b></a></p><p>Instagram: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast</b></a></p><p>Pinterest: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast</b></a></p><p>Youtube: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast</b></a></p><p> </p>no00:32:36Arrivals Dayfull<![CDATA[INSET Week]]>Meg and Tom recap a full INSET week in boarding, focusing on the practical training, policy refreshers, and setup work that happen before students arrive. The episode is especially useful for boarding staff who need a quick reminder on safeguarding updates, phone rules, fire safety, and how to get a boarding house ready for the new term. In this episode, Meg and Tom also share a few useful ideas for keeping students engaged without phones, plus where they look for inspiration and training resources when preparing for the year ahead.

Resources

Link to KCSIE documents: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/keeping-children-safe-in-education--2

Keeping children safe in education (KCSIE) 2026: summary of changes | NSPCC Learning

 

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]]>7fa6f4f8-5471-41aa-ad0c-a8be45f4e384Fri, 11 Sep 2026 11:00:00 GMT<p>Meg and Tom recap a full INSET week in boarding, focusing on the practical training, policy refreshers, and setup work that happen before students arrive. The episode is especially useful for boarding staff who need a quick reminder on safeguarding updates, phone rules, fire safety, and how to get a boarding house ready for the new term. In this episode, Meg and Tom also share a few useful ideas for keeping students engaged without phones, plus where they look for inspiration and training resources when preparing for the year ahead.</p><p></p><p><b>Resources</b></p><p>Link to KCSIE documents: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/keeping-children-safe-in-education--2" target="_blank">https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/keeping-children-safe-in-education--2</a></p><p><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/research-resources/schools/keeping-children-safe-in-education-caspar-briefing" target="_blank">Keeping children safe in education (KCSIE) 2026: summary of changes | NSPCC Learning</a></p><p> </p><p>Email us at: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" target="_blank">hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p>Send your stories to: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" target="_blank">stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p> </p><p>Follow us across the socials to stay updated:</p><p>Facebook: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489" target="_blank"><b>https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489</b></a></p><p>Instagram: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast</b></a></p><p>Pinterest: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast</b></a></p><p>Youtube: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast</b></a></p>no00:33:29INSET Weekfull<![CDATA[Introducing the Realities of Boarding Life]]>Tom and Meg open up a candid conversation about what boarding school life actually looks like, especially for houseparents and the wider staff around them. They discuss the different types of boarding, why inspections and safeguarding matter so much, and how the job is far more than simple supervision.

This episode is especially useful if you want a practical, behind-the-scenes view of boarding, from daily routines and regulations to the emotional realities of living and working in a boarding environment.

Key topics

  • In this episode, Tom and Meg explain why boarding can look very different from the stereotypes seen in films and books.
  • They break down the main types of boarding, including full boarding, weekly boarding, flexi boarding, and boarding provision within mainstream schools.
  • Meg explains how boarding settings can vary by funding model, from government funded schools to independent schools and specialist provision.
  • Meg shares why boarding is not just babysitting, but a role that requires strong relationships, quick trust building, and a deep understanding of each student.
  • Tom and Meg both emphasize that boarding involves people, routines, accountability, and modelling good relationships for students.

Timestamps

00:00 - Life in a boarding house and why the recording keeps getting interrupted
00:29 - The episode’s focus: types of boarding and why the stereotypes are wrong
01:23 - Mainstream, independent, and specialist boarding settings explained
01:53 - Full, weekly, and flexi boarding across different age groups
02:23 - Why boarding is much more than babysitting
03:32 - National minimum standards and why they matter every day
04:01 - Inspection bodies and how to prepare without panic
05:30 - What inspections are really for and how schools improve through them
06:26 - Why clear guidelines help staff do more, not less
07:48 - The three things that make a job worthwhile: people, money, or reward
08:45 - Addressing misconceptions about houseparents and boarding staff
09:09 - Plans to bring in more voices from the boarding world
10:39 - Why this show is starting with open, unstructured conversations
11:45 - The coach trip story and the permanent boarding instinct to count everyone
12:58 - Boarding as a lifestyle change, not a normal job
14:21 - Why many people stay in boarding for years
15:21 - Future episodes, guest interviews, and learning as you go
16:51 - What listeners can expect next and how to get in touch
17:50 - Closing the first episode

 

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]]>406655be-69ae-4f46-a82a-c74db624f949Fri, 04 Sep 2026 11:00:00 GMT<p>Tom and Meg open up a candid conversation about what boarding school life actually looks like, especially for houseparents and the wider staff around them. They discuss the different types of boarding, why inspections and safeguarding matter so much, and how the job is far more than simple supervision.</p><p></p><p>This episode is especially useful if you want a practical, behind-the-scenes view of boarding, from daily routines and regulations to the emotional realities of living and working in a boarding environment.</p><p></p><p><b>Key topics</b></p><ul><li>In this episode, Tom and Meg explain why boarding can look very different from the stereotypes seen in films and books.</li><li>They break down the main types of boarding, including full boarding, weekly boarding, flexi boarding, and boarding provision within mainstream schools.</li><li>Meg explains how boarding settings can vary by funding model, from government funded schools to independent schools and specialist provision.</li><li>Meg shares why boarding is not just babysitting, but a role that requires strong relationships, quick trust building, and a deep understanding of each student.</li><li>Tom and Meg both emphasize that boarding involves people, routines, accountability, and modelling good relationships for students.</li></ul><p></p><p><b>Timestamps</b></p><p>00:00 - Life in a boarding house and why the recording keeps getting interrupted<br />00:29 - The episode’s focus: types of boarding and why the stereotypes are wrong<br />01:23 - Mainstream, independent, and specialist boarding settings explained<br />01:53 - Full, weekly, and flexi boarding across different age groups<br />02:23 - Why boarding is much more than babysitting<br />03:32 - National minimum standards and why they matter every day<br />04:01 - Inspection bodies and how to prepare without panic<br />05:30 - What inspections are really for and how schools improve through them<br />06:26 - Why clear guidelines help staff do more, not less<br />07:48 - The three things that make a job worthwhile: people, money, or reward<br />08:45 - Addressing misconceptions about houseparents and boarding staff<br />09:09 - Plans to bring in more voices from the boarding world<br />10:39 - Why this show is starting with open, unstructured conversations<br />11:45 - The coach trip story and the permanent boarding instinct to count everyone<br />12:58 - Boarding as a lifestyle change, not a normal job<br />14:21 - Why many people stay in boarding for years<br />15:21 - Future episodes, guest interviews, and learning as you go<br />16:51 - What listeners can expect next and how to get in touch<br />17:50 - Closing the first episode</p><p> </p><p>Email us at: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" target="_blank">hello@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p>Send your stories to: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk" target="_blank">stories@theboardinghousepodcast.co.uk</a></p><p> </p><p>Follow us across the socials to stay updated:</p><p>Facebook: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489" target="_blank"><b>https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489</b></a></p><p>Instagram: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast</b></a></p><p>Pinterest: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast</b></a></p><p>Youtube: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast" target="_blank"><b>https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast</b></a></p>no00:25:43Introducing the Realities of Boarding Lifefull<![CDATA[Welcome to The Boarding House Podcast]]>Welcome to the Boarding House Podcast with Megan Allen and Tom Allen. We've finally got ourselves together and started filming our discussions about living in the boarding environment.

This is just a little intro trailer so you know what to expect going forward.

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]]>1fda9aad-a9c1-453d-a9d1-a946c4ce0178Mon, 31 Aug 2026 12:00:53 GMT<p>Welcome to the Boarding House Podcast with Megan Allen and Tom Allen. We've finally got ourselves together and started filming our discussions about living in the boarding environment. </p><p></p><p>This is just a little intro trailer so you know what to expect going forward. </p><p></p><p>Follow us across the socials to stay updated:</p><p>Facebook: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61589382774489</a></p><p>Instagram: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/theboardinghouse.podcast</a></p><p>Pinterest: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast" target="_blank">https://www.pinterest.com/theboardinghousepodcast</a></p><p>Youtube: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/@TheBoardingHousePodcast</a></p><p></p><p></p>no00:01:56Welcome to The Boarding House Podcasttrailer