When children refuse to learn, employees miss expectations or capable people suddenly struggle, we often label them lazy, defiant, unmotivated or incapable. But are we measuring their ability or witnessing a human system that is not ready?

In this episode of Readiness with Kohila Sivas, Kohila is joined by Tracy Tait, an educator and leader with 31 years in education, including 21 years as a principal. Together, they explore why good strategies, consequences and additional pressure often fail—and how mistaking missing readiness for missing ability can leave people feeling broken.

Tracy shares the powerful story of a child whose overwhelm once resulted in flying chairs and classroom evacuations. When the adults stopped focusing only on the final behaviour and helped him recognize the signals occurring inside his body before the explosion, everything began to change.

This conversation challenges parents, educators and leaders to replace judgment with curiosity and ask a different question: “What is getting in the way of this person’s readiness?” Because ability may still be present. Readiness may be what is missing.

Nothing works until the human system is ready.

Dr. Cyndi's vision is clear: to create a world where children are protected, supported, and equipped to recognize danger before it’s too late.

Sex trafficking continues to impact vulnerable children and families around the world. In this episode, we explore how readiness, awareness, education, and early intervention can make a real difference.

Because readiness isn’t just about being prepared. In the right moment, readiness can literally help save a child’s life.

Join us for a powerful conversation about prevention, protection, and what each of us can do to help create safer environments for children.

🎙️ Guest: Dr. Cynthia Romine - calledtorescue.org
🎧 Readiness Talk Show | Episode 1

When we recognize the signs, understand the risks, and know how to respond, we are better prepared to protect those who need us most.