<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Love, Growth, and Narratives]]></title><description><![CDATA[Welcome to "Love, Growth, and Narratives," a heartfelt podcast where we, a couple who found love in an extraordinary way, share our journey and explore the intricate tapestry of relationships, personal development, and compelling stories. Join us as we dive into candid conversations about our unique love story, the lessons we've learned, and the growth we've experienced together. Each episode, we will discuss topics about either love, growth, or narratives in the world today. Whether you're seeking inspiration, advice, or simply a good story, "Love, Growth, and Narratives" is your destination for genuine, enriching dialogue.]]></description><link>https://async.com/show/love-growth-and-narratives-fDxb5dCl</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 14:58:13 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/kSdiYW5S.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></author><pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2026 13:38:10 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 Tiffany and Fredrick]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Society & Culture]]></category><category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category><itunes:author>Tiffany and Fredrick</itunes:author><itunes:summary>Welcome to &quot;Love, Growth, and Narratives,&quot; a heartfelt podcast where we, a couple who found love in an extraordinary way, share our journey and explore the intricate tapestry of relationships, personal development, and compelling stories. Join us as we dive into candid conversations about our unique love story, the lessons we&apos;ve learned, and the growth we&apos;ve experienced together. Each episode, we will discuss topics about either love, growth, or narratives in the world today. Whether you&apos;re seeking inspiration, advice, or simply a good story, &quot;Love, Growth, and Narratives&quot; is your destination for genuine, enriching dialogue.</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Tiffany and Fredrick</itunes:name><itunes:email>tiffanyandfreddy@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/GCWS-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><item><title><![CDATA[Loyalty vs. Honesty — Should We Call Out Our Own?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>When does loyalty mean defending your own—and when does it mean holding them accountable?</p><p>In this episode, Tiffany and Fredrick explore the unwritten rule of <b>“don’t air our dirty laundry.”</b> From criticizing your family or children to your community, political leaders, or even your country, we ask whether public criticism is an act of honesty or betrayal.</p><p>Does <b>who’s listening</b> matter? Does <b>intent</b> matter? And can you genuinely love your own while publicly pointing out where they’re wrong?</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">06f69043-582a-4178-b3a1-aaec8c268197</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/d31d97b988858fa56a965cebc3200ee6857b63b01d06d80624c2d4ddbf448262/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNmY2OTA0My01ODJhLTQxNzgtYjNhMS1hYWVjOGMyNjgxOTciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmFiMzNiMzc5ZjU3Y2YwNTcxMTQwMGFiL3RpZmZhbnktYW5kLWZyZWRkeXMtc3R1ZGlvLTIwMjYtOS0yM19fMi0zNi00MS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="64777239" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/06f69043-582a-4178-b3a1-aaec8c268197/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;When does loyalty mean defending your own—and when does it mean holding them accountable?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Tiffany and Fredrick explore the unwritten rule of &lt;b&gt;“don’t air our dirty laundry.”&lt;/b&gt; From criticizing your family or children to your community, political leaders, or even your country, we ask whether public criticism is an act of honesty or betrayal.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Does &lt;b&gt;who’s listening&lt;/b&gt; matter? Does &lt;b&gt;intent&lt;/b&gt; matter? And can you genuinely love your own while publicly pointing out where they’re wrong?&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:44:59</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/GCWS-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>73</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Loyalty vs. Honesty — Should We Call Out Our Own?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[She Saved $100K Without Sacrificing Her Life]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Can you build wealth without putting your life on hold?</p><p></p><p>In Episode 72, we sit down with Meilany, a nurse in her 30s who has saved over <b>$100,000</b> while still traveling, enjoying life, pursuing entrepreneurship, and spending money on the things she loves.</p><p></p><p>She shares the habits and strategies that helped her grow her money without becoming obsessed with saving every penny. We talk investing, spending, marriage, multiple income streams, and finding the balance between preparing for tomorrow and actually enjoying today.</p><p></p><p>Because the goal isn’t just to save money—it’s to build a life you can enjoy along the way.</p><p></p><p>Episode 72 is a conversation about creating financial freedom without sacrificing the life you wanted the money for in the first place.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">728609bf-6c27-4949-9590-70163fd7793c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/2c4144a4714878dd5a17f763f05d7efc7c5370172743dff175a805e85f7eb08a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3Mjg2MDliZi02YzI3LTQ5NDktOTU5MC03MDE2M2ZkNzc5M2MiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmFhYTA1Yzk1NzJlNjBjODg0ZWQ0NWE5L3RpZmZhbnktYW5kLWZyZWRkeXMtc3R1ZGlvLTIwMjYtOS0xNl9fMi01OC0xOS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="74874715" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/728609bf-6c27-4949-9590-70163fd7793c/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Can you build wealth without putting your life on hold?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In Episode 72, we sit down with Meilany, a nurse in her 30s who has saved over &lt;b&gt;$100,000&lt;/b&gt; while still traveling, enjoying life, pursuing entrepreneurship, and spending money on the things she loves.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She shares the habits and strategies that helped her grow her money without becoming obsessed with saving every penny. We talk investing, spending, marriage, multiple income streams, and finding the balance between preparing for tomorrow and actually enjoying today.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Because the goal isn’t just to save money—it’s to build a life you can enjoy along the way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Episode 72 is a conversation about creating financial freedom without sacrificing the life you wanted the money for in the first place.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:52:00</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/GCWS-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode><itunes:title>She Saved $100K Without Sacrificing Her Life</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Guns, Mental Health & Finding Common Ground | Mike Sodini]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when someone from the firearm industry decides that reducing gun-related deaths requires talking <b>with</b> people on the other side—not fighting them?</p><p>In Episode 71 of <i>Love, Growth &amp; Narratives</i>, Tiffany and Fredrick sit down with <b>Mike Sodini</b>, founder and CEO of <b>Walk the Talk America (WTTA)</b>, a national nonprofit working at the intersection of mental health and responsible firearm ownership.</p><p>Mike shares how his career in the firearm industry eventually led him to create WTTA and its <i>Guns &amp; Mental Health</i> podcast. The organization works to bridge a divide that often seems impossible to cross—bringing gun owners, mental health professionals, researchers, and others into conversations centered on preventing suicide and reducing negative outcomes involving firearms.</p><p>But this conversation goes beyond guns and mental health.</p><p>Mike explains why he refuses to view people in the gun-control community as enemies. Despite major disagreements over policy, he has found that people on opposing sides often begin with the same goal: <b>fewer people dying and fewer families experiencing tragedy.</b> WTTA's approach is built around creating the trust and shared language necessary for those conversations to happen.</p><p>We also discuss <b>Kids to Kings</b>, Mike's initiative bringing firearm training, mentorship, discipline, and positive role models to young people in Atlanta.</p><p>It’s a conversation about firearms—but even more, it’s about what becomes possible when we stop assuming bad intentions, find the goals we share, and actually talk to one another.</p><p>Learn more about <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://walkthetalkamerica.org/about-us" target="_blank">Walk the Talk America</a>.</p><p><b>#LoveGrowthAndNarratives #MikeSodini #WalkTheTalkAmerica #GunsAndMentalHealth #MentalHealth #GunOwners #GunSafety #SuicidePrevention #ResponsibleGunOwnership #CommonGround #GoodFaith #KidsToKings #GunCulture #MentalHealthAwareness #Podcast</b></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">96a623b6-4251-4451-b5dd-e55026f9c41d</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 13:10:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/8fb0846c0662d41e7303f0052be72560392e95c359ee9389ff3787151bf1a275/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5NmE2MjNiNi00MjUxLTQ0NTEtYjVkZC1lNTUwMjZmOWM0MWQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmFhMmFkNTA2OWZlZmU3NDBhNDc3YWFjL3RpZmZhbnktYW5kLWZyZWRkeXMtc3R1ZGlvLTIwMjYtOS0xMF9fMTMtMTQtNTkubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="90362610" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/96a623b6-4251-4451-b5dd-e55026f9c41d/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;What happens when someone from the firearm industry decides that reducing gun-related deaths requires talking &lt;b&gt;with&lt;/b&gt; people on the other side—not fighting them?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In Episode 71 of &lt;i&gt;Love, Growth &amp;amp; Narratives&lt;/i&gt;, Tiffany and Fredrick sit down with &lt;b&gt;Mike Sodini&lt;/b&gt;, founder and CEO of &lt;b&gt;Walk the Talk America (WTTA)&lt;/b&gt;, a national nonprofit working at the intersection of mental health and responsible firearm ownership.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mike shares how his career in the firearm industry eventually led him to create WTTA and its &lt;i&gt;Guns &amp;amp; Mental Health&lt;/i&gt; podcast. The organization works to bridge a divide that often seems impossible to cross—bringing gun owners, mental health professionals, researchers, and others into conversations centered on preventing suicide and reducing negative outcomes involving firearms.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But this conversation goes beyond guns and mental health.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mike explains why he refuses to view people in the gun-control community as enemies. Despite major disagreements over policy, he has found that people on opposing sides often begin with the same goal: &lt;b&gt;fewer people dying and fewer families experiencing tragedy.&lt;/b&gt; WTTA&apos;s approach is built around creating the trust and shared language necessary for those conversations to happen.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We also discuss &lt;b&gt;Kids to Kings&lt;/b&gt;, Mike&apos;s initiative bringing firearm training, mentorship, discipline, and positive role models to young people in Atlanta.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It’s a conversation about firearms—but even more, it’s about what becomes possible when we stop assuming bad intentions, find the goals we share, and actually talk to one another.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn more about &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://walkthetalkamerica.org/about-us&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Walk the Talk America&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;#LoveGrowthAndNarratives #MikeSodini #WalkTheTalkAmerica #GunsAndMentalHealth #MentalHealth #GunOwners #GunSafety #SuicidePrevention #ResponsibleGunOwnership #CommonGround #GoodFaith #KidsToKings #GunCulture #MentalHealthAwareness #Podcast&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>01:02:45</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/GCWS-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Guns, Mental Health &amp; Finding Common Ground | Mike Sodini</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[We Never Saw This Coming]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Four weeks ago, something happened that completely caught us off guard.</p><p></p><p>It started with someone searching for answers. That search led down a rabbit hole of research, social media, and eventually… <b>to Fredrick.</b></p><p></p><p>Then came a conversation he never imagined having—and a discovery that changed everything.</p><p></p><p>For Episode 70 of <i>Love, Growth &amp; Narratives</i>, we sit down with the person behind that search and tell the story together for the first time.</p><p></p><p><b>We’ve teased this announcement for weeks. Now it’s time to reveal what happened.</b></p><p></p><p>This is one story we never thought we’d be telling.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ef52eacf-f57a-4589-a183-d7761979af1c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/7b7c8fb170ff62fef625e076e9b0155ee713a9a17660e58d99818fc0f5caafed/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlZjUyZWFjZi1mNTdhLTQ1ODktYTE4My1kNzc2MTk3OWFmMWMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE5OGI4YjAwM2Y0OTAzYmNkMDU1MzdiL3RpZmZhbnktYW5kLWZyZWRkeXMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtOS0zX18yLTAtNDgubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="33576560" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/ef52eacf-f57a-4589-a183-d7761979af1c/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Four weeks ago, something happened that completely caught us off guard.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It started with someone searching for answers. That search led down a rabbit hole of research, social media, and eventually… &lt;b&gt;to Fredrick.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Then came a conversation he never imagined having—and a discovery that changed everything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For Episode 70 of &lt;i&gt;Love, Growth &amp;amp; Narratives&lt;/i&gt;, we sit down with the person behind that search and tell the story together for the first time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;We’ve teased this announcement for weeks. Now it’s time to reveal what happened.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is one story we never thought we’d be telling.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>01:09:57</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/GCWS-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>70</itunes:episode><itunes:title>We Never Saw This Coming</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Long Game: Paul Mabon on Making It in Hollywood]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>What does it really take to build a lasting career in Hollywood?</p><p></p><p>In Episode 69 of <i>Love, Growth &amp; Narratives</i>, we sit down with our friend, actor <b>Paul Mabon</b>—who you may recognize as <b>Alan from the Progressive commercials</b>, along with appearances on <i>The Upshaws, The Pitt, Insecure</i>, and many other television and film projects.</p><p></p><p>But Paul’s story started long before Hollywood.</p><p></p><p>Growing up in Chicago with a father who was a theater actor, Paul was introduced early to the world of performance. His creative path began with poetry, eventually taking him to stages including HBO’s <i>Def Poetry Jam</i>. He remains a poet today, while making acting the primary focus of his professional career.</p><p></p><p>We talk about his upbringing, the influence of his father, the challenges and uncertainty of starting out as an actor, and what it takes to continue working and <b>stay relevant in an industry where nothing is guaranteed</b>.</p><p></p><p>It’s a conversation about creativity, perseverance, reinvention, and building a career that lasts.</p><p><b>And there’s more ahead for Paul.</b> He’s stepping behind the scenes as a creator with his upcoming film, <i>The Professional Kids</i>. Follow the film’s production and get a behind-the-scenes look as the project comes together on Instagram: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/theprofessionalkidsmovie?igsi=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/theprofessionalkidsmovie?igsi=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==</a></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a18aaeed-d586-44a0-82a8-bd74fbee70ef</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/407f8077928e4c46ded387208f546b2afe3e69d3aa3ea679c898ec1780b96de5/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhMThhYWVlZC1kNTg2LTQ0YTAtODJhOC1iZDc0ZmJlZTcwZWYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4Y2ZlZGJjYTQxZjM1M2I4OWQzZWUxL3RpZmZhbnktYW5kLWZyZWRkeXMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtOC0yNV9fNC0zMi01OS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="29264266" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/a18aaeed-d586-44a0-82a8-bd74fbee70ef/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;What does it really take to build a lasting career in Hollywood?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In Episode 69 of &lt;i&gt;Love, Growth &amp;amp; Narratives&lt;/i&gt;, we sit down with our friend, actor &lt;b&gt;Paul Mabon&lt;/b&gt;—who you may recognize as &lt;b&gt;Alan from the Progressive commercials&lt;/b&gt;, along with appearances on &lt;i&gt;The Upshaws, The Pitt, Insecure&lt;/i&gt;, and many other television and film projects.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But Paul’s story started long before Hollywood.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Growing up in Chicago with a father who was a theater actor, Paul was introduced early to the world of performance. His creative path began with poetry, eventually taking him to stages including HBO’s &lt;i&gt;Def Poetry Jam&lt;/i&gt;. He remains a poet today, while making acting the primary focus of his professional career.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We talk about his upbringing, the influence of his father, the challenges and uncertainty of starting out as an actor, and what it takes to continue working and &lt;b&gt;stay relevant in an industry where nothing is guaranteed&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It’s a conversation about creativity, perseverance, reinvention, and building a career that lasts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;And there’s more ahead for Paul.&lt;/b&gt; He’s stepping behind the scenes as a creator with his upcoming film, &lt;i&gt;The Professional Kids&lt;/i&gt;. Follow the film’s production and get a behind-the-scenes look as the project comes together on Instagram: &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://www.instagram.com/theprofessionalkidsmovie?igsi=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;https://www.instagram.com/theprofessionalkidsmovie?igsi=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>01:00:58</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/GCWS-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>69</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Long Game: Paul Mabon on Making It in Hollywood</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Always Becoming: The Johna Aquino Hernandez Story]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when life doesn’t follow a straight line?</p><p></p><p>In Episode 68 of <i>Love, Growth &amp; Narratives</i>, Tiffany and Fredrick sit down with entrepreneur, influencer, mother and traveler <b>Johnalyn Aquino</b> for a wide-ranging conversation about the many chapters that have shaped her life.</p><p></p><p>Johnalyn opens up about her upbringing and parents, her career, becoming a mother, raising her daughter, navigating divorce, traveling the world and continuing to push herself toward the next version of who she wants to become.</p><p></p><p>We also talk about entrepreneurship and the very different businesses she’s helped build. Johnalyn founded <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.blushflorala.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com" target="_blank">Blush Flora</a>⁠, a Los Angeles-based luxury floral design and event studio, and joined three fellow moms to create <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://cuatromamas.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com" target="_blank">Cuatro Mamás</a>⁠, a multicultural food brand built around their Macha Crisp. (<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.blushflorala.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com" target="_blank">Blush Flora</a>⁠)</p><p></p><p>But this conversation is about more than entrepreneurship. It’s about <b>reinvention</b> — recognizing that who you are today doesn’t have to be the final version of you.</p><p></p><p>From family and relationships to motherhood, business and personal growth, Johnalyn’s story is a reminder that life can change direction without losing its purpose. <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/dovesfitmom_nextchapter/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/dovesfitmom_nextchapter/</a></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fa081dda-a6ef-44cc-a7fc-d592ac5e0b89</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2026 19:13:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/83cdc10871d5596fe76019f58d74962e22568117d17e88c83c304bdc577e003b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmYTA4MWRkYS1hNmVmLTQ0Y2MtYTdmYy1kNTkyYWM1ZTBiODkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4NGFmNTdlYWM1NjRjZmZmMmJlNjIzL3RpZmZhbnktYW5kLWZyZWRkeXMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtOC0xOF9fMjEtMTUtMzUubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="18488860" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/fa081dda-a6ef-44cc-a7fc-d592ac5e0b89/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;What happens when life doesn’t follow a straight line?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In Episode 68 of &lt;i&gt;Love, Growth &amp;amp; Narratives&lt;/i&gt;, Tiffany and Fredrick sit down with entrepreneur, influencer, mother and traveler &lt;b&gt;Johnalyn Aquino&lt;/b&gt; for a wide-ranging conversation about the many chapters that have shaped her life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Johnalyn opens up about her upbringing and parents, her career, becoming a mother, raising her daughter, navigating divorce, traveling the world and continuing to push herself toward the next version of who she wants to become.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We also talk about entrepreneurship and the very different businesses she’s helped build. Johnalyn founded &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://www.blushflorala.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Blush Flora&lt;/a&gt;⁠, a Los Angeles-based luxury floral design and event studio, and joined three fellow moms to create &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://cuatromamas.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Cuatro Mamás&lt;/a&gt;⁠, a multicultural food brand built around their Macha Crisp. (&lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://www.blushflorala.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Blush Flora&lt;/a&gt;⁠)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But this conversation is about more than entrepreneurship. It’s about &lt;b&gt;reinvention&lt;/b&gt; — recognizing that who you are today doesn’t have to be the final version of you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From family and relationships to motherhood, business and personal growth, Johnalyn’s story is a reminder that life can change direction without losing its purpose. &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;https://www.instagram.com/dovesfitmom_nextchapter/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;https://www.instagram.com/dovesfitmom_nextchapter/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:31</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/GCWS-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>68</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Always Becoming: The Johna Aquino Hernandez Story</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Can You Handle Being Wrong?]]></title><description><![CDATA[This speech challenges the comfort of certainty. In a time when we cling to beliefs shaped by identity, community, and pride, it’s easy to forget the power of reflection. This isn’t about proving anyone wrong—it’s about asking yourself the harder question: Am I willing to reassess what I believe? Because real strength isn’t found in being right—it’s found in being willing to grow.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a4556bfe-ec03-49fc-b200-502066cc4326</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2025 22:48:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/7e05017d2b9d498369895d883c1420d2f49e9c054773528f2175c8f54fe1d91a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwMDY5NTViMS05NTEyLTQ1YjYtYTlkNC1hNWI4ZjJhODQ4YTYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMDA2OTU1YjEtOTUxMi00NWI2LWE5ZDQtYTViOGYyYTg0OGE2L0NhbiBJIEJlIFdyb25nIChBdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="4222743" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>This speech challenges the comfort of certainty. In a time when we cling to beliefs shaped by identity, community, and pride, it’s easy to forget the power of reflection. This isn’t about proving anyone wrong—it’s about asking yourself the harder question: Am I willing to reassess what I believe? Because real strength isn’t found in being right—it’s found in being willing to grow.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:04:23</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/006955b1-9512-45b6-a9d4-a5b8f2a848a6/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Can You Handle Being Wrong?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Off the Cuff: Random Topics, Real Reactions]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this laid-back episode, Tiffany and Freddy go off-script and dive into a grab bag of unexpected topics—each one designed to spark honest reactions, quick takes, and maybe even a little debate. From lighthearted to thought-provoking, nothing’s off-limits as they take turns answering questions that hit close to home or just make them laugh. It’s real, it’s random, and it’s definitely Love, Growth &amp; Narratives.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c9167a58-6d90-4c00-b137-518373a4a4eb</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2025 15:00:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/3bd0c7540cbaaf36c5852c2e8cd59e1965a9dc938b89387cc21ee7ba284fb545/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzZDFmM2IxNC03M2E4LTRhYTktODk5My1kYmZmNDJmZTQ3ZmEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvM2QxZjNiMTQtNzNhOC00YWE5LTg5OTMtZGJmZjQyZmU0N2ZhL0xHTiA0NyAoYXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="47881623" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this laid-back episode, Tiffany and Freddy go off-script and dive into a grab bag of unexpected topics—each one designed to spark honest reactions, quick takes, and maybe even a little debate. From lighthearted to thought-provoking, nothing’s off-limits as they take turns answering questions that hit close to home or just make them laugh. It’s real, it’s random, and it’s definitely Love, Growth &amp;amp; Narratives.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:49:52</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/3d1f3b14-73a8-4aa9-8993-dbff42fe47fa/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>47</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Off the Cuff: Random Topics, Real Reactions</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Brotherhood in Motion: Black Men Run & Building New Narratives]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this special 46th episode, we step outside the studio to sit down with Fredrick’s run group—Black Men Run. This brotherhood is about more than fitness. We explore how these men lean on each other for support—physically, mentally, and emotionally. Through accountability, vulnerability, and connection, they’re building new narratives around Black men, health, and community.
https://www.instagram.com/bmrlosangeles?igsh=NHkyOHBzODUydDN3]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a70ef0cb-552a-4767-b0bf-fd2e2b35faf9</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2025 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9ebc44d29b94d210ee46aee5b6ecba7e825ac928a413f3ebcbd3874657c52069/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxOWU5M2EzNy1lZGFkLTQ2ZDMtOWIwNC01YmMyZGExOWQ2NzEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMTllOTNhMzctZWRhZC00NmQzLTliMDQtNWJjMmRhMTlkNjcxL0xHTiA0NiBCTVIgKGF1ZGlvKS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="53812887" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this special 46th episode, we step outside the studio to sit down with Fredrick’s run group—Black Men Run. This brotherhood is about more than fitness. We explore how these men lean on each other for support—physically, mentally, and emotionally. Through accountability, vulnerability, and connection, they’re building new narratives around Black men, health, and community.
https://www.instagram.com/bmrlosangeles?igsh=NHkyOHBzODUydDN3</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:56:03</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/19e93a37-edad-46d3-9b04-5bc2da19d671/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Brotherhood in Motion: Black Men Run &amp; Building New Narratives</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Tragedy in Minneapolis, Blame Misplaced]]></title><description><![CDATA[Fredrick responds to last week’s Minneapolis tragedy with a firm defense of responsible gun owners. Instead of blame, he lays out real solutions—fixing “gun-free zones,” supporting young men, reintegrating former inmates, and strengthening families. He also extends an open invitation to Moms Demand Action for an honest conversation on making communities safer.
#GunRights #Minneapolis #2A #CommunitySafety #MomsDemandAction #PodcastClips #GunDebate #SaferCommunities]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b92f9052-03bd-4152-b538-1445f97073a1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 00:33:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c1832e1a121c6b25a00d16f683650c460724ef51257cbcdd1739a9c7b3db627f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2NjNjMjc3NC1jNGYyLTRlZjUtOGIwNy0xMDVlMWUwYTRiZWUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjYzYzI3NzQtYzRmMi00ZWY1LThiMDctMTA1ZTFlMGE0YmVlL01pbm5lYXBvbGlzIFRyYWdlZHkgYXVkaW8ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="6988311" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Fredrick responds to last week’s Minneapolis tragedy with a firm defense of responsible gun owners. Instead of blame, he lays out real solutions—fixing “gun-free zones,” supporting young men, reintegrating former inmates, and strengthening families. He also extends an open invitation to Moms Demand Action for an honest conversation on making communities safer.
#GunRights #Minneapolis #2A #CommunitySafety #MomsDemandAction #PodcastClips #GunDebate #SaferCommunities</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:07:16</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/663c2774-c4f2-4ef5-8b07-105e1e0a4bee/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Tragedy in Minneapolis, Blame Misplaced</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Before Words Become Weapons: Cooling America’s Discourse]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy explore how we can bring down the temperature in America’s increasingly hostile discourse. With disagreements between groups often escalating into violence, we ask: how do we shift from confrontation to conversation? We discuss the importance of meeting speech you disagree with not with censorship or anger, but with better speech, empathy, and curiosity. We also examine how “collective illusions” convince us that everyone on “our side” thinks the same—and that everyone on “their side” only reflects their fringe voices. By challenging these illusions and committing to good-faith dialogue, we can begin to rebuild understanding, correct mischaracterizations, and move toward solutions together.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">07a29199-249e-455b-87ea-f354b33f1f4f</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 18:24:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/80369294c7afcb27b8a01ceecd2c056f4746e0d9e64d7250bbac294e68b9357f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhMTE5Zjg2My1hODBmLTRiZDctOTExNy1kOGUyYjFmZGY3NjMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYTExOWY4NjMtYTgwZi00YmQ3LTkxMTctZDhlMmIxZmRmNzYzL0xHTiA1MyBBdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="39562263" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy explore how we can bring down the temperature in America’s increasingly hostile discourse. With disagreements between groups often escalating into violence, we ask: how do we shift from confrontation to conversation? We discuss the importance of meeting speech you disagree with not with censorship or anger, but with better speech, empathy, and curiosity. We also examine how “collective illusions” convince us that everyone on “our side” thinks the same—and that everyone on “their side” only reflects their fringe voices. By challenging these illusions and committing to good-faith dialogue, we can begin to rebuild understanding, correct mischaracterizations, and move toward solutions together.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:41:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/a119f863-a80f-4bd7-9117-d8e2b1fdf763/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>53</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Before Words Become Weapons: Cooling America’s Discourse</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Politics of False Promises]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this speech, Fredrick Cook exposes how California lawmakers use “gun control” to score headlines instead of solving real problems. He argues that many of these laws—like AB 1127 and AB 1078—are designed to fail in court, wasting taxpayer money and exploiting the genuine passion of voters who want safer communities. This isn’t about partisanship, he says, but about honesty and accountability. When citizens finally recognize the manipulation and demand real solutions, that’s when true change begins.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bbfd80dc-b3c4-4619-a839-f3e26820b5e5</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 20:37:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/788f714173369fe144c4bc4864aad87e7982051b07c1b186f2496ad67d9e1195/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyNWVhN2NjYS0xNDZkLTRjMTctYjA3Yi1kYWUxN2YxYmI4MzEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMjVlYTdjY2EtMTQ2ZC00YzE3LWIwN2ItZGFlMTdmMWJiODMxL1RoZSBQb2xpdGljcyBvZiBGYWxzZSBQcm9taXNlcyBBdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="5404695" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this speech, Fredrick Cook exposes how California lawmakers use “gun control” to score headlines instead of solving real problems. He argues that many of these laws—like AB 1127 and AB 1078—are designed to fail in court, wasting taxpayer money and exploiting the genuine passion of voters who want safer communities. This isn’t about partisanship, he says, but about honesty and accountability. When citizens finally recognize the manipulation and demand real solutions, that’s when true change begins.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:05:37</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/25ea7cca-146d-4c17-b07b-dae17f1bb831/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>The Politics of False Promises</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nuance: Why Almost Nothing Is As Simple As We’re Told]]></title><description><![CDATA[Over the last year—through speeches and podcast conversations—I’ve come back to the same uncomfortable truth: most of the issues we argue about aren’t simple, and they’re rarely caused by one thing. Yet legacy media and social platforms reward certainty, outrage, and clean villains.

This speech introduces Nuance, a new series focused on slowing down, questioning dominant narratives, and understanding why different groups see the same events so differently. Many of the conflicts we debate daily aren’t driven by malice or conspiracy, but by incentives, fear, misunderstanding, and human error. If we want better conversations—and better solutions—we have to be willing to trade easy answers for deeper understanding.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4befc851-0c95-42f9-b08a-3d5b969fdfcb</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2026 15:30:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9046b51d20cf4978572eb360c9882b83703a99b4b3f3e753b5d40f0bf2130c12/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhM2JlODdjMC03NDcwLTQ5N2UtYmFjNi1jMzA4MmQyM2UyM2UiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYTNiZTg3YzAtNzQ3MC00OTdlLWJhYzYtYzMwODJkMjNlMjNlL051YW5jZSAoQXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="2261271" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Over the last year—through speeches and podcast conversations—I’ve come back to the same uncomfortable truth: most of the issues we argue about aren’t simple, and they’re rarely caused by one thing. Yet legacy media and social platforms reward certainty, outrage, and clean villains.

This speech introduces Nuance, a new series focused on slowing down, questioning dominant narratives, and understanding why different groups see the same events so differently. Many of the conflicts we debate daily aren’t driven by malice or conspiracy, but by incentives, fear, misunderstanding, and human error. If we want better conversations—and better solutions—we have to be willing to trade easy answers for deeper understanding.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:02:21</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/a3be87c0-7470-497e-bac6-c3082d23e23e/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Nuance: Why Almost Nothing Is As Simple As We’re Told</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nuance: Why the Loudest Voices Know the Least]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why do the loudest voices sound so certain—while the most informed ones hesitate?

In this Nuance episode, we break down the Dunning–Kruger effect, how bias fills in missing details, and why realizing you might be wrong makes it harder to yell. This isn’t left vs. right—it’s human.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">484aaf8e-5374-4574-89d2-15c07537addb</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 16:16:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/01f893ac7451934d9951c6ff9617b5b3a7c86d4bafa9eda3884f198f2b343119/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmOTZmZDgyNC01M2Q5LTRiZmQtODU3Yy00MGIzZWQxODAxNzMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZjk2ZmQ4MjQtNTNkOS00YmZkLTg1N2MtNDBiM2VkMTgwMTczL0R1bm5pbmcgS3J1Z2VyIEF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="5979159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Why do the loudest voices sound so certain—while the most informed ones hesitate?

In this Nuance episode, we break down the Dunning–Kruger effect, how bias fills in missing details, and why realizing you might be wrong makes it harder to yell. This isn’t left vs. right—it’s human.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:06:13</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/f96fd824-53d9-4bfd-857c-40b3ed180173/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Nuance: Why the Loudest Voices Know the Least</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Real Starting Point of Wealth Isn’t Money | Social Capital Explained]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most people think wealth starts with money. It usually doesn’t.

In this Nuance conversation, Fredrick explores why social capital — the networks, mentorship, and shared knowledge around you — is often the real starting point of wealth. Even if you didn’t grow up around money, social capital can be built by people who decide to learn, share, and grow together.

Because financial capital often follows social capital.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1f70789f-ab19-4748-b572-7ae8292e54f1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 19:07:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/6f963beb077b81a468e54d51d47bcb4c4150f8375df62785433546aa8b6a874b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJiNDA0NDM5ZC00NzQ2LTRiNTEtYjIwMC0zNTk3NzZiMWQ0MTAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYjQwNDQzOWQtNDc0Ni00YjUxLWIyMDAtMzU5Nzc2YjFkNDEwL051YW5jZSBTb2NpYWwgQ2FwaXRhbCBBdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="2032791" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Most people think wealth starts with money. It usually doesn’t.

In this Nuance conversation, Fredrick explores why social capital — the networks, mentorship, and shared knowledge around you — is often the real starting point of wealth. Even if you didn’t grow up around money, social capital can be built by people who decide to learn, share, and grow together.

Because financial capital often follows social capital.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:02:07</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/b404439d-4746-4b51-b200-359776b1d410/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>The Real Starting Point of Wealth Isn’t Money | Social Capital Explained</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Rapid Fire Narratives: Reacting to Headlines, Hot Takes & Everything In Between]]></title><description><![CDATA[This one’s a little different—and a lot more fun.

In Episode 64 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Fredrick put each other on the spot with a rapid-fire round of popular narratives, trending topics, and headline-driven opinions. No deep prep. No long breakdowns. Just real-time reactions, honest perspectives, and a few surprises along the way.

From news stories to cultural debates, they challenge each other to think quickly, stay grounded, and still bring nuance—even when the clock isn’t on their side.

It’s light, it’s engaging, and it might just show you how to have better conversations in a world that moves fast.

Sometimes the best insights come when you don’t have time to overthink.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">884f36a7-64ce-4ec7-b844-a640c75875b9</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/2690568e2eae668a43c828b6a1c2683277608436ab323fae5b7f276f54187e0d/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2ZjBkYmVkZi1kNTNkLTQ5NjctYWMyYy1kOGNkMzk0MTMwZWMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNmYwZGJlZGYtZDUzZC00OTY3LWFjMmMtZDhjZDM5NDEzMGVjL0xHTiA2NCBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="40451607" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>This one’s a little different—and a lot more fun.

In Episode 64 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Fredrick put each other on the spot with a rapid-fire round of popular narratives, trending topics, and headline-driven opinions. No deep prep. No long breakdowns. Just real-time reactions, honest perspectives, and a few surprises along the way.

From news stories to cultural debates, they challenge each other to think quickly, stay grounded, and still bring nuance—even when the clock isn’t on their side.

It’s light, it’s engaging, and it might just show you how to have better conversations in a world that moves fast.

Sometimes the best insights come when you don’t have time to overthink.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:42:08</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/6f0dbedf-d53d-4967-ac2c-d8cd394130ec/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>64</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Rapid Fire Narratives: Reacting to Headlines, Hot Takes &amp; Everything In Between</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why I'm Not Running From This]]></title><description><![CDATA[This Fourth of July weekend I want to talk about a country that did so much to my ancestors — and still offers so much hope and opportunity to those who want it. Both things are true. And I’m not running from either one.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ce8decff-fbdb-49d6-8c26-463b097e4095</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2026 18:35:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/e88f2f862cf594dd2c2b444e2134b035ab3157a08ad0a5ed0c92462512eb9322/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4ODU5Y2Q1ZS05YzdiLTRkNTktOWViMS0xZmQwYmVlN2NiNTIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvODg1OWNkNWUtOWM3Yi00ZDU5LTllYjEtMWZkMGJlZTdjYjUyL215IGNvdW50cnkgdG9vLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="3170583" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>This Fourth of July weekend I want to talk about a country that did so much to my ancestors — and still offers so much hope and opportunity to those who want it. Both things are true. And I’m not running from either one.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:03:18</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/8859cd5e-9c7b-4d59-9eb1-1fd0bee7cb52/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Why I&apos;m Not Running From This</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[How We Run Our Relationship (With Intention, Not Perfection)]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we pull back the curtain on how we actually run our relationship. From navigating difficult conversations and prioritizing intentional date nights, to parenting Joseph and protecting our individual identities while growing as a couple—this is an honest look at the systems, habits, and mindset that keep us grounded.

We’re not claiming to have everything figured out. We don’t. But what we do have is a shared commitment to face challenges together instead of against each other. When problems show up, we don’t assign blame—we attack the problem as a team.

This episode is about effort over perfection, partnership over ego, and choosing each other even when things get uncomfortable. If you’re curious about what it looks like to actively work on a relationship while still enjoying it, this conversation is for you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6a47a827-faba-4393-bdbd-b1be35d2546a</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/7c0eca28ff619bb9f808b84b5d5df057e01d454b00b06211ebee5d1f652b8086/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNDNhZTBhYS03Yzk5LTRlNjAtODQyNS1jMGZiZTQ4NDA3NDEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMDQzYWUwYWEtN2M5OS00ZTYwLTg0MjUtYzBmYmU0ODQwNzQxL0xHTiA1OSBPdXIgUmVsYXRpb25zaGlwIEF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="56351127" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode, we pull back the curtain on how we actually run our relationship. From navigating difficult conversations and prioritizing intentional date nights, to parenting Joseph and protecting our individual identities while growing as a couple—this is an honest look at the systems, habits, and mindset that keep us grounded.

We’re not claiming to have everything figured out. We don’t. But what we do have is a shared commitment to face challenges together instead of against each other. When problems show up, we don’t assign blame—we attack the problem as a team.

This episode is about effort over perfection, partnership over ego, and choosing each other even when things get uncomfortable. If you’re curious about what it looks like to actively work on a relationship while still enjoying it, this conversation is for you.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:58:41</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/043ae0aa-7c99-4e60-8425-c0fbe4840741/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>How We Run Our Relationship (With Intention, Not Perfection)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who Tiffany Really Is (Beyond the Podcast)]]></title><description><![CDATA[For Episode 65 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we flip the script.

Fredrick sits down with Tiffany for an honest, unexpected conversation about the experiences, challenges, beliefs, and growth that have shaped who she is.

From teaching and marriage to vulnerability, self-reflection, and the lessons life has taught her, this episode offers a deeper look at the woman behind the microphone.

Who is Tiffany beyond the titles and roles?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d5967cc2-2bbc-48cc-8396-d7e4ff8f1599</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/8bfe1e08ea56427d2801b3daa7381897d4e9499ac3e13b83699c349f3e568a4f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxNjgwYjcxZS03ZTkyLTQ2NzYtYTY2OS00YmM0NTEyMWQ0M2EiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMTY4MGI3MWUtN2U5Mi00Njc2LWE2NjktNGJjNDUxMjFkNDNhL0xHTiA2NSBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="54936855" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>For Episode 65 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we flip the script.

Fredrick sits down with Tiffany for an honest, unexpected conversation about the experiences, challenges, beliefs, and growth that have shaped who she is.

From teaching and marriage to vulnerability, self-reflection, and the lessons life has taught her, this episode offers a deeper look at the woman behind the microphone.

Who is Tiffany beyond the titles and roles?</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:57:13</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/1680b71e-7e92-4676-a669-4bc45121d43a/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Who Tiffany Really Is (Beyond the Podcast)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Illusion of Protection: Why We Must Rethink Safety in America]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this powerful speech, Fredrick breaks down the hard truth most Americans don’t realize—you have no constitutional right to police protection. Through cases like Warren v. DC, Castle Rock v. Gonzales, and tragedies like Uvalde, he explains why the system cannot guarantee your safety. This isn’t about blaming police—it’s about facing reality. The sooner we understand this, the sooner we can take responsibility for protecting ourselves, our families, and our communities.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3c068e06-757c-4d2b-a6ec-8ef41892ae7c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2025 14:38:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/94124785a1b3c6d38abfea2be5416b1f317eeb72be3c13db6397049e59e9590f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyMTZmZGFhNC05NjA4LTQzMzctODcyYi1hMDIxMjZkZjkxNWMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMjE2ZmRhYTQtOTYwOC00MzM3LTg3MmItYTAyMTI2ZGY5MTVjL1RoZSBJbGx1c2lvbiBvZiBQcm90ZWN0aW9uIEF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="8408727" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this powerful speech, Fredrick breaks down the hard truth most Americans don’t realize—you have no constitutional right to police protection. Through cases like Warren v. DC, Castle Rock v. Gonzales, and tragedies like Uvalde, he explains why the system cannot guarantee your safety. This isn’t about blaming police—it’s about facing reality. The sooner we understand this, the sooner we can take responsibility for protecting ourselves, our families, and our communities.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:08:45</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/216fdaa4-9608-4337-872b-a02126df915c/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>The Illusion of Protection: Why We Must Rethink Safety in America</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are We Addicted to Grievance?]]></title><description><![CDATA[In today’s political climate, are we fighting for something meaningful, or are we just addicted to the fight itself? As both sides revel in outrage and mockery, we risk losing more than elections—we risk losing our sense of purpose, our unity, and even ourselves. It’s time to break free from the cycle of grievance and refocus on what truly matters.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">89696c5e-d9b1-4336-9a57-de6f801eaa80</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2025 00:10:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/ddc2e1205f87d95780807c9239797ae54af4346bb2723c958def7162e82d2cf2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzZGU3YzdhYy01MGU4LTRkMDgtYmQwMS0wZjUwZWQ4ZjNkMDkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvM2RlN2M3YWMtNTBlOC00ZDA4LWJkMDEtMGY1MGVkOGYzZDA5L0FkZGljdGVkIHRvIEdyaWV2YW5jZSAoQXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="4470807" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In today’s political climate, are we fighting for something meaningful, or are we just addicted to the fight itself? As both sides revel in outrage and mockery, we risk losing more than elections—we risk losing our sense of purpose, our unity, and even ourselves. It’s time to break free from the cycle of grievance and refocus on what truly matters.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:04:39</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/3de7c7ac-50e8-4d08-bd01-0f50ed8f3d09/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Are We Addicted to Grievance?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[No Matter What: Building Black Futures on Our Terms]]></title><description><![CDATA[Tiffany and Freddy dive into an honest, empowering conversation about what it takes for Black communities to grow, thrive, and lead—regardless of the obstacles. Whether or not racism or systemic barriers are present, this episode is about the mindset, unity, discipline, and vision required to move the community forward from within. It’s not about waiting for fairness—it’s about building greatness anyway]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">91d6cd80-b18b-4222-9eaf-6dc47b78ef50</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2025 23:37:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a0469ea80ce1146a851010578e485ba6cea72731ad17061c0f6be78e0ee86c3c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1ZjI1OGQ2Mi0wNDFhLTRhYTgtYjllZC1jODE3NWNmNDVjOGEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNWYyNThkNjItMDQxYS00YWE4LWI5ZWQtYzgxNzVjZjQ1YzhhL0xHTiA0NCBCZXlvbmQgSXNtcyAoQXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="36799383" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Tiffany and Freddy dive into an honest, empowering conversation about what it takes for Black communities to grow, thrive, and lead—regardless of the obstacles. Whether or not racism or systemic barriers are present, this episode is about the mindset, unity, discipline, and vision required to move the community forward from within. It’s not about waiting for fairness—it’s about building greatness anyway</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:19</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/5f258d62-041a-4aa8-b9ed-c8175cf45c8a/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode><itunes:title>No Matter What: Building Black Futures on Our Terms</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[CCW in California: Frustration Is No Excuse to Stay Unarmed]]></title><description><![CDATA[California CCW laws are confusing by design, but frustration is no excuse to leave your family unprotected. Responsible, armed citizens safeguard our communities—and it’s time to speak up, support groups like CRPA, and take an active role in our own protection.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0d027a44-7441-42f9-a824-8c373da21951</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2025 20:48:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/434990cd8499a352bf08555c48341797832fc953da25f8a120aebc83c7f14bce/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4ODdiN2NiNS0wNGUwLTQ5NjItYmZlOS01YTU2OGQxZjI2NGYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvODg3YjdjYjUtMDRlMC00OTYyLWJmZTktNWE1NjhkMWYyNjRmL0NDVyBpbiBDYWxpZm9ybmlhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="3244695" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>California CCW laws are confusing by design, but frustration is no excuse to leave your family unprotected. Responsible, armed citizens safeguard our communities—and it’s time to speak up, support groups like CRPA, and take an active role in our own protection.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:03:22</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/887b7cb5-04e0-4962-bfe9-5a568d1f264f/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>CCW in California: Frustration Is No Excuse to Stay Unarmed</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 14: Love -  Breaking Free from the Past: Building a Future Without Old Baggage]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy dive deep into the challenges of moving past old relationships to ensure that no bad habits, unresolved emotions, or misplaced expectations creep into their current relationship. They share their personal experiences and the tools they’ve used to create a healthier partnership. From healing emotional wounds to building trust, they explore the importance of self-reflection and open communication in breaking the cycle of past mistakes. Join them as they discuss how to grow together by letting go of the past.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9ba366ec-ecb1-45ab-b88f-affa39f510e2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Sep 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c3f8902a6d937b5c01fc9d0cdd78d1282ca14fb03501dae4e2979937e3dfbe84/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2NjkyZjIyZi0zMmQyLTQwZDQtOWMwOS01ODY1Y2E5NWI4Y2IiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjY5MmYyMmYtMzJkMi00MGQ0LTljMDktNTg2NWNhOTViOGNiL1BtbXQtTEdOIDE0IExvdmUgRmluYWwubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="34664558" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy dive deep into the challenges of moving past old relationships to ensure that no bad habits, unresolved emotions, or misplaced expectations creep into their current relationship. They share their personal experiences and the tools they’ve used to create a healthier partnership. From healing emotional wounds to building trust, they explore the importance of self-reflection and open communication in breaking the cycle of past mistakes. Join them as they discuss how to grow together by letting go of the past.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:36:11</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/6692f22f-32d2-40d4-9c09-5865ca95b8cb/pqPn-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 14: Love -  Breaking Free from the Past: Building a Future Without Old Baggage</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Blended Families – The Love, The Struggles, and The Growth]]></title><description><![CDATA[Blending families is never simple—whether it’s navigating relationships with stepchildren, co-parenting with exes, or integrating in-laws, from parents and siblings to lifelong friends. In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive into the challenges and triumphs of bringing two families together, sharing our personal experiences and lessons learned about building unity while respecting different histories and expectations. Stay until the end for a special message from Joseph to Tiffany, where he opens up about how she has been an incredible stepmother and how she has truly changed his life for the better.

Chapter markers:
00:00 Introduction
01:48 Step parenting
08:37 The In-Laws
10:56 Siblings
12:46 The Friends
14:54 More commitments
16:11 Extended family opinions
18:17 Fredrick’s daughter 
21:11 CoParenting
26:22 Closing Thoughts 
28:27 Joseph’s Message to Tiffany]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7eb16759-3b18-4f9a-bb09-1c41a0a40591</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2025 21:03:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/f60e7c5c2bd77f31846f9394ad64ac30bb723c394138905c050d3da7e430ddd2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5NGRhNTYzNC0zOWUyLTQ4ZDktODUxOC1jYmM4MTNmZmNlZmMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvOTRkYTU2MzQtMzllMi00OGQ5LTg1MTgtY2JjODEzZmZjZWZjL0xHTiAzNCBCbGVuZGVkIEZhbWlsaWVzIChBdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="30239511" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Blending families is never simple—whether it’s navigating relationships with stepchildren, co-parenting with exes, or integrating in-laws, from parents and siblings to lifelong friends. In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive into the challenges and triumphs of bringing two families together, sharing our personal experiences and lessons learned about building unity while respecting different histories and expectations. Stay until the end for a special message from Joseph to Tiffany, where he opens up about how she has been an incredible stepmother and how she has truly changed his life for the better.

Chapter markers:
00:00 Introduction
01:48 Step parenting
08:37 The In-Laws
10:56 Siblings
12:46 The Friends
14:54 More commitments
16:11 Extended family opinions
18:17 Fredrick’s daughter 
21:11 CoParenting
26:22 Closing Thoughts 
28:27 Joseph’s Message to Tiffany</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:31:29</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/94da5634-39e2-48d9-8518-cbc813ffcefc/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Blended Families – The Love, The Struggles, and The Growth</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[LGN Message about our Discourse]]></title><description><![CDATA[This message urges people to move beyond anger and divisive discourse, focusing instead on meaningful conversations, personal growth, and community-building.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">24899470-db34-4e6c-b9d1-4eb57880d644</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 02 Feb 2025 00:42:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/7b9ca32c3b3df4e491c29287440d2b04c68075b838b9a4605cef26bdb7853b4c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkMDNmMWJjYS1iOTZhLTQzM2EtYjhlZi1iNjVmMjU3OWRkNGUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZDAzZjFiY2EtYjk2YS00MzNhLWI4ZWYtYjY1ZjI1NzlkZDRlL0xHTiBNZXNzYWdlXyBBbmdlciB0byBBY3Rpb24ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="2761239" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>This message urges people to move beyond anger and divisive discourse, focusing instead on meaningful conversations, personal growth, and community-building.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:02:52</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/d03f1bca-b96a-433a-b8ef-b65f2579dd4e/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>LGN Message about our Discourse</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Courage to Think Differently]]></title><description><![CDATA[What happens when the truth you’re starting to see puts you at odds with what you were taught—or with the people closest to you? In this episode, we talk about the discomfort of challenging long-held beliefs, the quiet pressure to stay aligned with your social circle, and why cognitive dissonance can feel safer than growth. We explore the courage it takes to keep going anyway, to sit with uncertainty, and to risk being misunderstood in pursuit of a more honest understanding of the world—and yourself.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">eb24c027-fbbd-41b4-a0af-4cc1546a7914</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 19:53:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/2fe0c1d51d60b6fa8a1878636573e2de778acc42a05553d2d842f5fc806cc47f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjMzk4YmVhNy1iMzNlLTQzOWUtYWRmNC05NDM4MmI2Mzc4MzQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYzM5OGJlYTctYjMzZS00MzllLWFkZjQtOTQzODJiNjM3ODM0L0xHTiA2MSBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="39422103" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>What happens when the truth you’re starting to see puts you at odds with what you were taught—or with the people closest to you? In this episode, we talk about the discomfort of challenging long-held beliefs, the quiet pressure to stay aligned with your social circle, and why cognitive dissonance can feel safer than growth. We explore the courage it takes to keep going anyway, to sit with uncertainty, and to risk being misunderstood in pursuit of a more honest understanding of the world—and yourself.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:41:03</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/c398bea7-b33e-439e-adf4-94382b637834/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>61</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Courage to Think Differently</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Don’t Outsource Your Family’s Safety]]></title><description><![CDATA[We all want to believe help will arrive when danger shows up — trained, skilled, and ready. But after years of training, I learned a hard truth: a uniform doesn’t guarantee competence. When seconds count, you can’t rely on strangers you know nothing about to save your family.

Whether you choose to own a firearm or not, your safety plan must be built on preparation, awareness, and responsibility.

Shout-out to the LAX Collective for building a community of responsible, well-trained gun owners, and to the California Rifle &amp; Pistol Association for protecting our rights in California. Affiliate link below.

https://californiariflepistol.app.neoncrm.com/forms/lovegrowthandnarrativespodcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e5fb1905-c69c-4df1-8705-57dabdb769e0</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2025 20:46:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a0fbfff1570aa1a25446c10bdedfe210f448ce6c61fb4ea68a96ce77c281130a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlMjM2NTZmOC1lYWUwLTQ4MmQtOWIxZC0wMTM4NDc1NjU4ODMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZTIzNjU2ZjgtZWFlMC00ODJkLTliMWQtMDEzODQ3NTY1ODgzL0RvbuKAmXQgT3V0c291cmNlIFlvdXIgRmFtaWx54oCZcyBTYWZldHkgKEF1ZGlvKS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="6345495" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>We all want to believe help will arrive when danger shows up — trained, skilled, and ready. But after years of training, I learned a hard truth: a uniform doesn’t guarantee competence. When seconds count, you can’t rely on strangers you know nothing about to save your family.

Whether you choose to own a firearm or not, your safety plan must be built on preparation, awareness, and responsibility.

Shout-out to the LAX Collective for building a community of responsible, well-trained gun owners, and to the California Rifle &amp;amp; Pistol Association for protecting our rights in California. Affiliate link below.

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Links for the wedding:
DJ - Lawrence Gilliam  https://www.instagram.com/lgrhythm?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Tiffany’s makeup - Nikki https://www.instagram.com/nikki.faces?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
TIffany’s hair - Shay https://www.instagram.com/giftedtress_bridal?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Wedding venue - The Sanctuary by Wedgewood https://www.instagram.com/thesanctuary.wedgewood?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Day of Coordinator - Daniella https://www.instagram.com/darlingroadseventplanning?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Officiant - Chris Dickens https://www.instagram.com/yourcustomceremony?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==


#WeddingDay #LoveGrowthAndNarratives #BehindTheScenes]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b33a1584-f1eb-4954-bdbf-878e0917b227</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Nov 2024 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/1af04cff3164fb04bbd0ad568cf3a302218bbadc20caf9b8f5d20ac84f2af39c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1NzAzNGUxNC03YWM5LTQ1ZjItYWI2My0zYWZkYzIxODExN2IiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNTcwMzRlMTQtN2FjOS00NWYyLWFiNjMtM2FmZGMyMTgxMTdiL0dxdWktTEdOIDIxIEZpbmFsLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="46068993" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we take you behind the scenes of our wedding day! From the last-minute stressors to the heartwarming rehearsal luncheon, and the absolutely beautiful ceremony, we’re sharing it all. What made the day truly unforgettable was the love and support of our family and friends who made it so special. Join us as we reflect on the joy, challenges, and memories from the day we said “I do.”

Links for the wedding:
DJ - Lawrence Gilliam  https://www.instagram.com/lgrhythm?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Tiffany’s makeup - Nikki https://www.instagram.com/nikki.faces?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
TIffany’s hair - Shay https://www.instagram.com/giftedtress_bridal?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Wedding venue - The Sanctuary by Wedgewood https://www.instagram.com/thesanctuary.wedgewood?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Day of Coordinator - Daniella https://www.instagram.com/darlingroadseventplanning?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Officiant - Chris Dickens https://www.instagram.com/yourcustomceremony?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==


#WeddingDay #LoveGrowthAndNarratives #BehindTheScenes</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:48:05</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/57034e14-7ac9-45f2-ab63-3afdc218117b/LSFm-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 21: From Stress to Bliss - Our Wedding Journey</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[We Finally Moved… And It Was More Chaotic Than We Expected]]></title><description><![CDATA[After weeks of silence, we’re finally back!

In this episode of the Love, Growth &amp; Narratives Podcast, Tiffany and Fredrick explain why they’ve been away and share the story behind their recent move. What started as packing up one home quickly became moving into a new house, helping Tiffany’s mother move in with them, and trying to keep life together while our podcast studio was scattered across dozens of boxes.

The move didn’t go as smoothly as we hoped, but every challenge reminded us that growth often comes wrapped in chaos. We talk about the stress, the unexpected obstacles, balancing family responsibilities, and why we’re excited about this new chapter in our lives.

Thanks for sticking with us while we got settled. We’re happy to be back—and there’s plenty more to come.

If you’ve ever survived a move, let us know your biggest moving disaster in the comments!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4926d305-df8a-428d-a55e-2b2d6f88163b</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 12:42:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/97932613d345a3700dbe04049ae897ed5e92ed4296a11cee1e926e69992c2a42/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjYzUzN2QyMy0yZDM3LTQ4MmQtOWI0MC0zYzEyZThkNTYzMzciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvY2M1MzdkMjMtMmQzNy00ODJkLTliNDAtM2MxMmU4ZDU2MzM3L0xHTiA2NiBNb3ZpbmcgKEF1ZGlvKS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="45724695" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>After weeks of silence, we’re finally back!

In this episode of the Love, Growth &amp;amp; Narratives Podcast, Tiffany and Fredrick explain why they’ve been away and share the story behind their recent move. What started as packing up one home quickly became moving into a new house, helping Tiffany’s mother move in with them, and trying to keep life together while our podcast studio was scattered across dozens of boxes.

The move didn’t go as smoothly as we hoped, but every challenge reminded us that growth often comes wrapped in chaos. We talk about the stress, the unexpected obstacles, balancing family responsibilities, and why we’re excited about this new chapter in our lives.

Thanks for sticking with us while we got settled. We’re happy to be back—and there’s plenty more to come.

If you’ve ever survived a move, let us know your biggest moving disaster in the comments!</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:47:37</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/cc537d23-2d37-482d-9b40-3c12e8d56337/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>We Finally Moved… And It Was More Chaotic Than We Expected</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Helping Neurodiverse Young Adults Thrive: A Conversation with Therapist Jenny Ray]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this special episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we step outside the studio to meet with Jenny Ray, MA, LMFT—a passionate therapist working to support high-functioning autistic young adults, a group often overlooked in traditional care systems. Jenny is raising funds to open a new clinic that will allow her to become licensed and recognized as a service vendor in California. You can support her mission at GoFundMe. https://www.gofundme.com/f/building-bridges-for-autism-support-clinic-opening

Together, we explore the challenges of late or missed diagnoses and what happens when young adults finally receive the support they need. Jenny shares how she helps them embrace their unique way of thinking while learning to navigate social cues, build deeper relationships, and find their place in the world. We also talk about the critical role parents, teachers, and mentors play in supporting neurodiverse young adults on their path to independence and self-acceptance.

At her current clinic, Heart 2 Mind Therapy, Jenny works with a wide range of parents and children, helping families build healthier emotional connections through personalized, compassionate therapy. You can follow her work and get updates on Instagram at @heart2mindtherapy.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ef506f77-b688-466c-a1da-9f91314ce170</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2025 19:41:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/67d1347f22397a0fafbf9ff98a3aa44c30c96bb5039fdcae42052d8f97034683/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyNzY1ZjA1ZS0yYmU5LTQ0MjUtYWRiMC1kMDI1M2QzMDYzMTUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMjc2NWYwNWUtMmJlOS00NDI1LWFkYjAtZDAyNTNkMzA2MzE1L0xHTiA0OCBKZW5ueSBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="26295831" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this special episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we step outside the studio to meet with Jenny Ray, MA, LMFT—a passionate therapist working to support high-functioning autistic young adults, a group often overlooked in traditional care systems. Jenny is raising funds to open a new clinic that will allow her to become licensed and recognized as a service vendor in California. You can support her mission at GoFundMe. https://www.gofundme.com/f/building-bridges-for-autism-support-clinic-opening

Together, we explore the challenges of late or missed diagnoses and what happens when young adults finally receive the support they need. Jenny shares how she helps them embrace their unique way of thinking while learning to navigate social cues, build deeper relationships, and find their place in the world. We also talk about the critical role parents, teachers, and mentors play in supporting neurodiverse young adults on their path to independence and self-acceptance.

At her current clinic, Heart 2 Mind Therapy, Jenny works with a wide range of parents and children, helping families build healthier emotional connections through personalized, compassionate therapy. You can follow her work and get updates on Instagram at @heart2mindtherapy.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:27:23</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/2765f05e-2be9-4425-adb0-d0253d306315/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>48</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Helping Neurodiverse Young Adults Thrive: A Conversation with Therapist Jenny Ray</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[AB1127: When Politicians Don’t Know Guns—But Make Laws Anyway]]></title><description><![CDATA[California Assemblymember Jesse Gabriel just introduced AB1127, a bill that would ban the sale and transfer of Glocks and any striker-fired handgun based on the Glock platform. Why? Because they could be illegally modified—despite the fact that Glock switches are already federally illegal.

This video breaks down what AB1127 really is: a misguided overreach that punishes responsible citizens while doing nothing to stop criminal behavior.

Let’s stop writing laws based on panic, politics, and headlines. I’m also extending an open invitation—I’d love to have a real conversation with Moms Demand Action or any gun control advocate who actually wants to make Californians safer through honest, evidence-based dialogue.

🛑 This isn’t about taking sides. It’s about demanding real solutions.

📢 If you believe in protecting rights and fixing real problems, share this video and join the conversation.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">764f6469-f679-408d-a437-c45558726bd2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2025 22:47:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/950f52c0932ff85d5056a808fe298d7d19a043d7bd0c8b9562a7f35590d4ef18/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhMWIyM2YwMi1jNTUyLTRhNmQtOTY5MS1lNzJlODJhYzJmMDkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYTFiMjNmMDItYzU1Mi00YTZkLTk2OTEtZTcyZTgyYWMyZjA5L0FCMTEyNy5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="4105239" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>California Assemblymember Jesse Gabriel just introduced AB1127, a bill that would ban the sale and transfer of Glocks and any striker-fired handgun based on the Glock platform. Why? Because they could be illegally modified—despite the fact that Glock switches are already federally illegal.

This video breaks down what AB1127 really is: a misguided overreach that punishes responsible citizens while doing nothing to stop criminal behavior.

Let’s stop writing laws based on panic, politics, and headlines. I’m also extending an open invitation—I’d love to have a real conversation with Moms Demand Action or any gun control advocate who actually wants to make Californians safer through honest, evidence-based dialogue.

🛑 This isn’t about taking sides. It’s about demanding real solutions.

📢 If you believe in protecting rights and fixing real problems, share this video and join the conversation.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:04:16</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/a1b23f02-c552-4a6d-9691-e72e82ac2f09/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>AB1127: When Politicians Don’t Know Guns—But Make Laws Anyway</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Then and Now: Parenting Across Generations (Part 2)]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Part 2 of this special family episode, Tiffany and Fredrick invite their parents—Tiffany’s mother and Fredrick’s mom and dad—for a warm, funny, and revealing conversation about what it was like raising them. From the challenges of parenting in the 70s and 80s to how much the world (and kids) have changed today, they dive into the differences, the similarities, and the lessons that still stand the test of time. Expect honest reflections, a few confessions, and plenty of laughter as their parents share what it was really like raising Tiffany and Fredrick—and how those experiences shaped the people they became.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f7dca069-73c6-4594-9d4d-8ecedca682b3</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2025 17:47:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/d30145525dde0a1cae7df108f904bceb7af221745f0a47bd0b9f6035536191f2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlZGQzZDIzYi03NTcxLTQ4OGEtYTc1Mi04MzU4YzljYWY2YzYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZWRkM2QyM2ItNzU3MS00ODhhLWE3NTItODM1OGM5Y2FmNmM2L0xHTiA1NSBNVFAgUGFydCAyIGF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="32806167" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In Part 2 of this special family episode, Tiffany and Fredrick invite their parents—Tiffany’s mother and Fredrick’s mom and dad—for a warm, funny, and revealing conversation about what it was like raising them. From the challenges of parenting in the 70s and 80s to how much the world (and kids) have changed today, they dive into the differences, the similarities, and the lessons that still stand the test of time. Expect honest reflections, a few confessions, and plenty of laughter as their parents share what it was really like raising Tiffany and Fredrick—and how those experiences shaped the people they became.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:34:10</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/edd3d23b-7571-488a-a752-8358c9caf6c6/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Then and Now: Parenting Across Generations (Part 2)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reclaiming the Conversation – Why We Started This Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this 33rd episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we take a step back to remember why we started this journey in the first place. Frustrated by the extreme rantings on the news and social media, we wanted to create a space for real, good-faith conversations—where people listen, learn, and grow rather than just argue to “win.” We reflect on what we’ve learned along the way, how the podcast has evolved, and why meaningful dialogue is more important now than ever.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1c13a145-a8ed-4620-a528-51ee15879e55</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 24 Feb 2025 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/42894ba4bd845328235acf24d38015c23bf879d2b88466126eb6e8afc8313b23/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4ZDEzOGIzMC1lOTJhLTRlMTgtODk5YS04NjU3NzdhNTkwMTAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvOGQxMzhiMzAtZTkyYS00ZTE4LTg5OWEtODY1Nzc3YTU5MDEwL0VwaXNvZGUgMzMgd2h5IHdlIHN0YXJ0ZWQgdGhlIHBvZGNhc3QgQVVESU8ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="25299351" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this 33rd episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we take a step back to remember why we started this journey in the first place. Frustrated by the extreme rantings on the news and social media, we wanted to create a space for real, good-faith conversations—where people listen, learn, and grow rather than just argue to “win.” We reflect on what we’ve learned along the way, how the podcast has evolved, and why meaningful dialogue is more important now than ever.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:26:21</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/8d138b30-e92a-4e18-899a-865777a59010/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Reclaiming the Conversation – Why We Started This Podcast</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 8: Love - Self-esteem vs. Self-love]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this insightful episode, Tiffany and Freddy explore the nuanced differences between self-esteem and self-love, drawing from their personal experiences of growing up with struggles in self-esteem while not fully grasping that the ultimate goal is self-love. They candidly share their journeys of navigating these concepts, discussing the challenges they've faced and the strategies they've employed to improve their self-perception. Despite their progress, they acknowledge that the struggle is ongoing, offering listeners a heartfelt and relatable discussion on the path to embracing genuine self-love.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">eda702ab-dd82-4102-8e80-fe38b5cb0718</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 29 Jul 2024 16:55:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/badcd8e3c1ac12550cc57b17b7d9aceefd5f4dcbadd6b807a9c942dff3f56768/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI0ODdjNTFhMy0yOTZlLTQ0MWQtOTM2ZS1lZGE0YTkzOTNkNWYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNDg3YzUxYTMtMjk2ZS00NDFkLTkzNmUtZWRhNGE5MzkzZDVmL1ZUdHUtTEdOIDggU2VsZiBMb3ZlIEZpbmFsLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="45003197" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this insightful episode, Tiffany and Freddy explore the nuanced differences between self-esteem and self-love, drawing from their personal experiences of growing up with struggles in self-esteem while not fully grasping that the ultimate goal is self-love. They candidly share their journeys of navigating these concepts, discussing the challenges they&apos;ve faced and the strategies they&apos;ve employed to improve their self-perception. Despite their progress, they acknowledge that the struggle is ongoing, offering listeners a heartfelt and relatable discussion on the path to embracing genuine self-love.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:46:59</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/487c51a3-296e-441d-936e-eda4a9393d5f/JWPL-img-1391-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 8: Love - Self-esteem vs. Self-love</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 2 - Learning to Love]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode Tiffany and Freddy discuss their journeys to finding each other.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">187860e1-6ea3-49c5-b3a9-941a4e1fe099</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2024 02:28:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a8dfa71e910b0b15525224aa5e9e3ebcfcda89251222420989339829b3fe9a8d/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhNzRhYzk5MC0yNGM1LTRkNGMtYjJlMy1kOWYzY2VjZmVkYTIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYTc0YWM5OTAtMjRjNS00ZDRjLWIyZTMtZDlmM2NlY2ZlZGEyL3pRU0UtZXBpc29kZSAyIGZpbmFsLm1wMy5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="35046234" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode Tiffany and Freddy discuss their journeys to finding each other.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:36:35</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/a74ac990-24c5-4d4c-b2e3-d9f3cecfeda2/rOjh-img-1295-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 2 - Learning to Love</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 12: Growth - Exploring Teen Growth and Parenting: A Family Journey with Joseph]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the 12th episode of “Love, Growth, and Narratives,” hosts Tiffany and Freddy welcome a special guest—Freddy’s son, Joseph. Together, they dive into an honest conversation about Joseph’s journey through the challenges of high school and his personal growth as a teenager. Joseph offers a candid perspective on his parents’ evolving parenting style, while Tiffany reflects on the transformative experience of stepping into the role of a step-parent. This episode provides a unique, multi-generational insight into family dynamics and personal growth.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8913d6dc-3f00-4cc6-8ea9-738492448d0b</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Aug 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/2d8f7e6e2af0dce441ed78ec15a68d0ec4c7c27d7ed0ef23fc8f80241980a3e0/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3NzU1OGNlOC0yZGQwLTQ1YTAtOGJkMi0wMzhkYjdhYjg4NmQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNzc1NThjZTgtMmRkMC00NWEwLThiZDItMDM4ZGI3YWI4ODZkL1NrVEYtTEdOIDEyIEdyb3d0aCBGaW5hbC5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="39466909" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In the 12th episode of “Love, Growth, and Narratives,” hosts Tiffany and Freddy welcome a special guest—Freddy’s son, Joseph. Together, they dive into an honest conversation about Joseph’s journey through the challenges of high school and his personal growth as a teenager. Joseph offers a candid perspective on his parents’ evolving parenting style, while Tiffany reflects on the transformative experience of stepping into the role of a step-parent. This episode provides a unique, multi-generational insight into family dynamics and personal growth.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:41:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/77558ce8-2dd0-45a0-8bd2-038db7ab886d/Dyhy-img-1437-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 12: Growth - Exploring Teen Growth and Parenting: A Family Journey with Joseph</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Beyond the Cover: Why Looks and Accents Can Mislead You]]></title><description><![CDATA[For our 50th episode, we’re challenging one of the oldest bad habits—judging a book by its cover. Too often, we dismiss people whose clothes or accent don’t fit our idea of “professional,” assuming their words have less value. On the flip side, we put far too much trust in those who speak in perfect “standard” American English and wear the right business attire, as if appearance alone proves intelligence or integrity. In this conversation, we break down why these snap judgments can rob us of insight, connection, and truth.

This episode was inspired by Instagram creator @darealbigmama213 and her powerful video https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKzhTBbsQm2/?igsh=MTVyOHI3a3Yyb3NxZw==  about advocating for her autistic son—navigating schools, pushing through barriers, and refusing to take “no” for an answer. Her words are a reminder of how intellect and wisdom often come in forms society overlooks.

💡 Stick around until the end to learn how you can enter our competition to win a $50 Amazon gift card!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2b5a878f-5c4b-4737-a3ef-69fe5e0b5afe</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2025 16:39:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/3ec43af77ce982ad1e59f98864451482325cfe3fd6e46e86b7e024fe57542ebd/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3NDFkMjRlYi1mZTMwLTQ3NDktYjAzNS1mYjEzZWQ2Zjc5MGIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNzQxZDI0ZWItZmUzMC00NzQ5LWIwMzUtZmIxM2VkNmY3OTBiL0xHTiA1MCBqdWRnaW5nIGJvb2sgYXVkaW8ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="35345943" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>For our 50th episode, we’re challenging one of the oldest bad habits—judging a book by its cover. Too often, we dismiss people whose clothes or accent don’t fit our idea of “professional,” assuming their words have less value. On the flip side, we put far too much trust in those who speak in perfect “standard” American English and wear the right business attire, as if appearance alone proves intelligence or integrity. In this conversation, we break down why these snap judgments can rob us of insight, connection, and truth.

This episode was inspired by Instagram creator @darealbigmama213 and her powerful video https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKzhTBbsQm2/?igsh=MTVyOHI3a3Yyb3NxZw==  about advocating for her autistic son—navigating schools, pushing through barriers, and refusing to take “no” for an answer. Her words are a reminder of how intellect and wisdom often come in forms society overlooks.

💡 Stick around until the end to learn how you can enter our competition to win a $50 Amazon gift card!</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:36:49</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/741d24eb-fe30-4749-b035-fb13ed6f790b/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>50</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Beyond the Cover: Why Looks and Accents Can Mislead You</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Rethinking Aging: Why 50 Feels Better Than 40]]></title><description><![CDATA[We used to look at people in their 50s and think, “Man… they’re old.” But now that we’re here, the story is very different. In this episode, we talk about how getting older doesn’t have to mean declining health, fear, or giving up on growth. We feel better now—in our 50s—than we did in our 40s. Meanwhile, many in our parents’ generation, especially Baby Boomers, are struggling. We explore what’s changed, why our generation is aging differently, and how prioritizing mental and physical health can completely shift the way you experience the second half of life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b12a4588-a092-4d7b-8e7f-86c1321091d6</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2025 15:43:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/28adb8f896039a40282aafcbf08697be452cc51c44c78ef12ff9399763d9cfb9/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyMmM2MmQ0Ny00YTZjLTRjMTgtYjg5MS1mZDA5ZjQ4M2U2OGUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMjJjNjJkNDctNGE2Yy00YzE4LWI4OTEtZmQwOWY0ODNlNjhlL0xHTiA1MiBSZXRoaW5raW5nIEFnaW5nIChBdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="31794327" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>We used to look at people in their 50s and think, “Man… they’re old.” But now that we’re here, the story is very different. In this episode, we talk about how getting older doesn’t have to mean declining health, fear, or giving up on growth. We feel better now—in our 50s—than we did in our 40s. Meanwhile, many in our parents’ generation, especially Baby Boomers, are struggling. We explore what’s changed, why our generation is aging differently, and how prioritizing mental and physical health can completely shift the way you experience the second half of life.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:33:07</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/22c62d47-4a6c-4c18-b891-fd09f483e68e/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>52</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Rethinking Aging: Why 50 Feels Better Than 40</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Proposition 50: Power, Principle, and the Precedent We Set]]></title><description><![CDATA[As California voters prepare to decide on Proposition 50, this speech challenges us to look past partisan advantage and think about the precedent we’re setting for democracy itself.

Prop 50 would temporarily replace the state’s independent redistricting map with a new one that could add up to five Democratic congressional seats in the 2026 midterms.
 Supporters see it as a necessary counter to red-state gerrymandering. Opponents see it as a dangerous overreach that undermines independent redistricting.

But the deeper question is this: What happens when we normalize changing the rules whenever it benefits us?
Fredrick Cook asks both parties to think beyond the next election — to principle, fairness, and the long-term integrity of our democracy.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0d8b6d9a-3a32-45d2-9f27-ade85cd062b7</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2025 14:34:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/3f0151cd5d30f09cd822e6d8ec0fbc6067e3d831719675933dfc4bf053078921/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzNTg1NTY1YS1mODE3LTQzM2EtYWFiYi05YTFiZWQ2NTFmNjAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMzU4NTU2NWEtZjgxNy00MzNhLWFhYmItOWExYmVkNjUxZjYwL1Byb3AgNTAgZm9sbG93IHVwIEF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="4143639" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>As California voters prepare to decide on Proposition 50, this speech challenges us to look past partisan advantage and think about the precedent we’re setting for democracy itself.

Prop 50 would temporarily replace the state’s independent redistricting map with a new one that could add up to five Democratic congressional seats in the 2026 midterms.
 Supporters see it as a necessary counter to red-state gerrymandering. Opponents see it as a dangerous overreach that undermines independent redistricting.

But the deeper question is this: What happens when we normalize changing the rules whenever it benefits us?
Fredrick Cook asks both parties to think beyond the next election — to principle, fairness, and the long-term integrity of our democracy.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:04:18</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/3585565a-f817-433a-aabb-9a1bed651f60/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Proposition 50: Power, Principle, and the Precedent We Set</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comments, Critics, and Chaos: Finding Meaning in the Madness]]></title><description><![CDATA[After 18 months of running Love, Growth &amp; Narratives, we’ve seen it all in the comments section — from thoughtful feedback that sparks real conversation to insults that make you question humanity (and maybe a few bots, too). In this episode, we open up about how we handle both the good and the ugly sides of public dialogue. We talk about our original mission — to foster good-faith conversations that bridge divides — and how we still try to sift through the noise to find meaningful disagreement worth engaging with. Because even in the chaos, there’s something to learn.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c5c2103c-de7c-42c6-94af-5b1e3878a07e</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2025 15:27:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c4a5e5ec71740096fc112190eba14da2877590d88d0c7400450df6c3d9c3f947/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwOWY1MTYzYi03ZTZkLTQ5NGItOGNjZS00MGE1NGEyZDI1NTIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMDlmNTE2M2ItN2U2ZC00OTRiLThjY2UtNDBhNTRhMmQyNTUyL0xHTiA1NiBDb21tZW50cyBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="36279063" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>After 18 months of running Love, Growth &amp;amp; Narratives, we’ve seen it all in the comments section — from thoughtful feedback that sparks real conversation to insults that make you question humanity (and maybe a few bots, too). In this episode, we open up about how we handle both the good and the ugly sides of public dialogue. We talk about our original mission — to foster good-faith conversations that bridge divides — and how we still try to sift through the noise to find meaningful disagreement worth engaging with. Because even in the chaos, there’s something to learn.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:37:47</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/09f5163b-7e6d-494b-8cce-40a54a2d2552/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>56</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Comments, Critics, and Chaos: Finding Meaning in the Madness</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Leaving Federal Dependency: Rebuilding Care at the Community Level]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Tiffany and Fredrick explore a thought experiment: what happens when we move social care from federal dependence to community-driven support? The SNAP shutdown showed how quickly federal systems fail, especially for the most vulnerable. We discuss why local, personal care often works better, address concerns about “paying twice,” and consider whether stronger communities could eventually demand lower federal taxes. It’s about citizens taking responsibility and becoming the real drivers of their community’s success.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bc0b342a-93ba-4c51-af1b-b7e06c89dea0</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 19:11:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/33056b974b0743af038b5b913ef1545b4daf6285c64fddb0e32eb3203342d1c7/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzZTc0ZmM5ZS1mODgzLTQ1NzktOWQzNS0yMTEzMGNkMTVmYmEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvM2U3NGZjOWUtZjg4My00NTc5LTlkMzUtMjExMzBjZDE1ZmJhL0xHTiA1NyBTb2NpYWwgUHJvZ3JhbSBTcGVuZGluZyBBdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="33228183" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode, Tiffany and Fredrick explore a thought experiment: what happens when we move social care from federal dependence to community-driven support? The SNAP shutdown showed how quickly federal systems fail, especially for the most vulnerable. We discuss why local, personal care often works better, address concerns about “paying twice,” and consider whether stronger communities could eventually demand lower federal taxes. It’s about citizens taking responsibility and becoming the real drivers of their community’s success.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:34:36</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/3e74fc9e-f883-4579-9d35-21130cd15fba/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>57</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Leaving Federal Dependency: Rebuilding Care at the Community Level</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Before You Vote: How California’s Elections Actually Work]]></title><description><![CDATA[California doesn’t vote the way most states do—and that difference shapes who actually makes it onto the ballot.

In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we break down the “Top Two” (also called “Jungle”) Primary system used in California to elect the governor and other statewide officials ahead of the 2026 election. We explain how the system works, why it was created, and how it impacts political parties, independent voters, and the choices voters ultimately see in the general election.

If you’ve ever been confused about why two candidates from the same party can face off in November—or wondered whether your primary vote really matters—this episode is for you. No outrage. No talking points. Just clarity, context, and a better understanding of how power is actually decided.

References
https://www.ppic.org/publication/californias-likely-voters/
https://www.sos.ca.gov/elections/prior-elections
https://www.ppic.org/blog/who-voted-in-the-march-primary-and-what-does-it-mean-for-november/
https://www.ppic.org/publication/californias-likely-voters/
https://cid.usc.edu/turnout-briefs
https://laist.com/news/politics/prop-50-election-voter-turnout-socal]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a641944d-7d52-463c-b056-c096c1cd4c1c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/68ea98db8d981b4e0363bbf4c3a1f2dc8470fb947821ce1eac24d740ec3e49f4/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkNWY3ZDI0OC1iYTQ0LTQxZmYtOTFmYS0yYjFiNDYxMWJhM2IiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZDVmN2QyNDgtYmE0NC00MWZmLTkxZmEtMmIxYjQ2MTFiYTNiL0xHTiA2MCBFbGVjdGlvbnMgQXVkaW8ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="22775703" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>California doesn’t vote the way most states do—and that difference shapes who actually makes it onto the ballot.

In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we break down the “Top Two” (also called “Jungle”) Primary system used in California to elect the governor and other statewide officials ahead of the 2026 election. We explain how the system works, why it was created, and how it impacts political parties, independent voters, and the choices voters ultimately see in the general election.

If you’ve ever been confused about why two candidates from the same party can face off in November—or wondered whether your primary vote really matters—this episode is for you. No outrage. No talking points. Just clarity, context, and a better understanding of how power is actually decided.

References
https://www.ppic.org/publication/californias-likely-voters/
https://www.sos.ca.gov/elections/prior-elections
https://www.ppic.org/blog/who-voted-in-the-march-primary-and-what-does-it-mean-for-november/
https://www.ppic.org/publication/californias-likely-voters/
https://cid.usc.edu/turnout-briefs
https://laist.com/news/politics/prop-50-election-voter-turnout-socal</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:23:43</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/d5f7d248-ba44-41ff-91fa-2b1b4611ba3b/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Before You Vote: How California’s Elections Actually Work</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Mom’s Hardest Decision: Leaving Home After 4 Decades]]></title><description><![CDATA[After 41 years in the same apartment, Tiffany’s mother, Cynthia, packed up her life and moved in with us.

That meant more than changing addresses. She had to sort through four decades of belongings and memories, downsize for a smaller space, and adjust from living alone to suddenly sharing a home with her daughter, son-in-law, grandson—and our Shiba Inu, Delphini.

We’ve already talked about the move from our perspective. This week, Cynthia gets the microphone.

What was it like leaving the place she called home for 41 years? How difficult was it deciding what to keep and what to let go? What has it been like giving up some solitude and independence for a house full of people? And now that the boxes are finally disappearing, how does she feel about this new chapter?

This week on Love, Growth, and Narratives, we hear Cynthia’s side of the story—and talk about what it really means to leave one version of home behind and build another.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f5be79ae-cfb1-45a5-a0af-a11466a4f52a</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9a9642bd13e4b8c0d6cc843f7b72b35910c0bc0db3b639ac35d33b5ae610773b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxMGY5OGFlYS00M2IxLTQ0ODMtYWY5OC00MmMxNzI4MzdlM2EiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMTBmOThhZWEtNDNiMS00NDgzLWFmOTgtNDJjMTcyODM3ZTNhL0xHTiA2NyBDeW50aGlhIChBdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="48971799" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>After 41 years in the same apartment, Tiffany’s mother, Cynthia, packed up her life and moved in with us.

That meant more than changing addresses. She had to sort through four decades of belongings and memories, downsize for a smaller space, and adjust from living alone to suddenly sharing a home with her daughter, son-in-law, grandson—and our Shiba Inu, Delphini.

We’ve already talked about the move from our perspective. This week, Cynthia gets the microphone.

What was it like leaving the place she called home for 41 years? How difficult was it deciding what to keep and what to let go? What has it been like giving up some solitude and independence for a house full of people? And now that the boxes are finally disappearing, how does she feel about this new chapter?

This week on Love, Growth, and Narratives, we hear Cynthia’s side of the story—and talk about what it really means to leave one version of home behind and build another.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:51:00</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/10f98aea-43b1-4483-af98-42c172837e3a/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>67</itunes:episode><itunes:title>My Mom’s Hardest Decision: Leaving Home After 4 Decades</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Better Schools Start at Home]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany, an experienced teacher, breaks down the critical collaboration between parents and teachers in shaping a child’s education. With growing debates about eliminating the Department of Education, she emphasizes that real improvement in student success comes from engaged parents who actively support learning at home rather than expecting teachers to do it all.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">842b11c5-e772-4cbd-9be6-2b378d73771c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2025 18:57:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b4734896ea7e59e911e96cf601f89aabbff57710fe12fc9ddebc12e2fd5b2d93/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzMDExMzY2ZS0xZWZiLTQyMGMtYWQxYS1hZjAyNDU3YmJhNzAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMzAxMTM2NmUtMWVmYi00MjBjLWFkMWEtYWYwMjQ1N2JiYTcwL0xHTiAzMiBUZWFjaGVycyBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="37837335" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany, an experienced teacher, breaks down the critical collaboration between parents and teachers in shaping a child’s education. With growing debates about eliminating the Department of Education, she emphasizes that real improvement in student success comes from engaged parents who actively support learning at home rather than expecting teachers to do it all.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:39:24</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/3011366e-1efb-420c-ad1a-af02457bba70/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Better Schools Start at Home</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Processing the Unprocessable: Growing Through Tough Times and Tragedy]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we explore the complex process of emotional growth during life’s most challenging moments. Some individuals avoid processing pain, allowing it to fester and eventually overwhelm them. Others process trauma but remain trapped in its shadow, unable to move forward. Tiffany and Freddy discuss the delicate balance of acknowledging emotions, working through them, and finding a path to healing without losing yourself along the way. Join us for a deep dive into emotional resilience, growth, and the lessons we can learn from life’s toughest trials.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">05805006-7704-487f-b5d6-0c88b7acd3df</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 Nov 2024 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/cb7626220d037b6f529e08edd3a59ada1f0fd447eb26b8838a3d5b661e263fdc/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2NDkwNmU4MC05MmJjLTQzZDktODA5Yi03YjhhOWQ1YzY1MWUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjQ5MDZlODAtOTJiYy00M2Q5LTgwOWItN2I4YTlkNWM2NTFlL0xHTiAyMiBhdWRpbyBmaW5hbC5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="33796119" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we explore the complex process of emotional growth during life’s most challenging moments. Some individuals avoid processing pain, allowing it to fester and eventually overwhelm them. Others process trauma but remain trapped in its shadow, unable to move forward. Tiffany and Freddy discuss the delicate balance of acknowledging emotions, working through them, and finding a path to healing without losing yourself along the way. Join us for a deep dive into emotional resilience, growth, and the lessons we can learn from life’s toughest trials.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:35:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/64906e80-92bc-43d9-809b-7b8a9d5c651e/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Processing the Unprocessable: Growing Through Tough Times and Tragedy</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 23: Narratives - Breaking the “They” Trap – Understanding Beyond Overgeneralization]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this thought-provoking episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive deep into the fallacy of “they”—the all-too-common overgeneralization that clouds our understanding of others. We explore how this mindset fosters division, prevents genuine connection, and fuels a victim-or-hero narrative that limits personal growth. Join us as we challenge the idea that “they” are either out to get you or here to save you and discuss how embracing nuance leads to empowerment and a clearer understanding of the world around us.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0dab8156-c02c-4253-a6fb-5a0300ee54a4</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Dec 2024 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/efd294ee9e3fdb497f8b85baeacf8bec3ef7f80ab34fa39904bfb44d45dac3df/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3YTQzNzhiYi05MDY1LTQyODEtOWNhYS1mYmIzMTY0MDJiMDQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvN2E0Mzc4YmItOTA2NS00MjgxLTljYWEtZmJiMzE2NDAyYjA0L0xHTiAyMyBBdWRpbyBGaW5hbC5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="37434903" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this thought-provoking episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive deep into the fallacy of “they”—the all-too-common overgeneralization that clouds our understanding of others. We explore how this mindset fosters division, prevents genuine connection, and fuels a victim-or-hero narrative that limits personal growth. Join us as we challenge the idea that “they” are either out to get you or here to save you and discuss how embracing nuance leads to empowerment and a clearer understanding of the world around us.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:59</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/7a4378bb-9065-4281-9caa-fbb316402b04/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 23: Narratives - Breaking the “They” Trap – Understanding Beyond Overgeneralization</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Inherited Habits: Money Lessons from Our Parents]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy explore how the way we were raised—especially around money—shapes our financial habits, attitudes, and decisions as adults. From frugality to fear, generosity to guilt, they unpack the lessons learned (and unlearned) from their parents’ approach to finances. The conversation highlights both the benefits and the baggage we carry into our own financial journeys, and how understanding the roots of our money mindset can help us grow and make more intentional choices.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ce0aae77-090a-4c3e-b935-7cb726b05b86</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2025 04:08:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/5adfbce59dd6eda603bddcef35fc83db288f9e2cec5c1f59e3267103f3a36a09/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5Zjk0ZjJiZS1kZWNiLTQ5OWMtYWZmMi01NmM4NmM3YjE5OTUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvOWY5NGYyYmUtZGVjYi00OTljLWFmZjItNTZjODZjN2IxOTk1L0xHTiAzOSBJbmhlcml0ZWQgSGFiaXRzIChhdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="47567895" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy explore how the way we were raised—especially around money—shapes our financial habits, attitudes, and decisions as adults. From frugality to fear, generosity to guilt, they unpack the lessons learned (and unlearned) from their parents’ approach to finances. The conversation highlights both the benefits and the baggage we carry into our own financial journeys, and how understanding the roots of our money mindset can help us grow and make more intentional choices.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:49:32</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/9f94f2be-decb-499c-aff2-56c86c7b1995/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Inherited Habits: Money Lessons from Our Parents</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Vote Beyond the Noise: Your Role in Real Change]]></title><description><![CDATA[This election season, remember that true change begins at home. While national races grab headlines, your local votes and personal responsibility shape your daily life and community. Join us in looking past the rhetoric to focus on respect, informed choices, and the impact of everyday actions.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c8ac6d06-a132-4f55-968c-c2befd747b60</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2024 17:21:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/1cb66ef7cbbe9b2d36843fb861211478264544b6a73fd4f0fd8afb7ce1fc02ff/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmYjU4ZDRlMS0zYTA5LTQ3ZmUtYWJjZC1iNDQxNjMyN2FjNTciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZmI1OGQ0ZTEtM2EwOS00N2ZlLWFiY2QtYjQ0MTYzMjdhYzU3L0hQRUUtMjAyNCBFbGVjdGlvbiBQU0EgYXVkaW8gZmluYWwubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="2989335" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>This election season, remember that true change begins at home. While national races grab headlines, your local votes and personal responsibility shape your daily life and community. Join us in looking past the rhetoric to focus on respect, informed choices, and the impact of everyday actions.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:03:06</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/fb58d4e1-3a09-47fe-abcd-b4416327ac57/wfRA-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Vote Beyond the Noise: Your Role in Real Change</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Relationship Red & Green Flags]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we explore the relationship red and green flags we once held, how our perspectives have evolved, and what signs we’ve learned to trust—or let go of—over time.
Chapter flags
00:00   Intro
01:45    Red flags others saw in us
07:12   Red and green flags that we’ve seen
10:55   Accountability red flag
12:00    Vulnerability green flag 
15:33    Chicken-eating red flag
19:18    Religious red flag
23:02    Step-parent green flag
26:38    Availability red flag
29:31   Man being the only protector red flag
33:08   Red flag or orange? Do they evolve?
35:14   Episode 7 Mea Culpa
41:37   Black History Month]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">97101fed-d68f-41a7-aacd-968380a53fcd</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Feb 2025 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b01cc3a99237f56837b43f4bfe4d81bc5b18871ba449d1e002313dbb2522e569/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlZmI3NWMwZC00NmUwLTQ1OWEtODBjMS1lZWEyZjljZjIyZjMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZWZiNzVjMGQtNDZlMC00NTlhLTgwYzEtZWVhMmY5Y2YyMmYzL0xHTiAzMCBMb3ZlIC0gUmVkIGFuZCBHcmVlbiBGbGFncy5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="41625879" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode, we explore the relationship red and green flags we once held, how our perspectives have evolved, and what signs we’ve learned to trust—or let go of—over time.
Chapter flags
00:00   Intro
01:45    Red flags others saw in us
07:12   Red and green flags that we’ve seen
10:55   Accountability red flag
12:00    Vulnerability green flag 
15:33    Chicken-eating red flag
19:18    Religious red flag
23:02    Step-parent green flag
26:38    Availability red flag
29:31   Man being the only protector red flag
33:08   Red flag or orange? Do they evolve?
35:14   Episode 7 Mea Culpa
41:37   Black History Month</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:43:21</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/efb75c0d-46e0-459a-80c1-eea2f9cf22f3/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Relationship Red &amp; Green Flags</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[LGN 28: Narratives - The Bystander Effect: (Part 1) From Extreme Cases to Everyday Moments]]></title><description><![CDATA[In part 1 of this two-part episode, we explore the complexities of the bystander effect, starting with extreme cases like the infamous murder of Kitty Genovese and moving to everyday situations such as drunk driving, public abuse, and street harassment. We unpack why people often hesitate to intervene and how societal dynamics play a role.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0a2e5e96-7750-40b0-927b-1e606b9b4fd1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2025 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/d30a002c7fba140f680e5d347295225b578314213671dd2033e0f4b5a3d893f5/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3MjM1MGIyYy02ODBlLTQwNDAtODU0Ni0yNTA2MTM5NTc5ODEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNzIzNTBiMmMtNjgwZS00MDQwLTg1NDYtMjUwNjEzOTU3OTgxL0xHTiAyOCBCeXN0YW5kZXIgQWZmZWN0IFB0MSBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="34186263" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In part 1 of this two-part episode, we explore the complexities of the bystander effect, starting with extreme cases like the infamous murder of Kitty Genovese and moving to everyday situations such as drunk driving, public abuse, and street harassment. We unpack why people often hesitate to intervene and how societal dynamics play a role.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:35:36</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/72350b2c-680e-4040-8546-250613957981/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><itunes:title>LGN 28: Narratives - The Bystander Effect: (Part 1) From Extreme Cases to Everyday Moments</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 9: Growth - Career Ambition vs. Personal Fulfillment]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the latest episode, Tiffany and Freddy dive into the delicate balancing act between career ambition and personal fulfillment. They share personal anecdotes, highlighting the struggles and triumphs they’ve faced in their own journeys. From late nights at the office to missed family gatherings, they explore the sacrifices made for career growth and discuss strategies for maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Tune in to hear their candid conversations, insightful tips, and a few laughs along the way as they navigate the complex terrain of achieving success without losing oneself in the process.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9c2002f5-50d8-4b0e-8fb1-d8399a984f29</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2024 13:04:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/eb833be1c0be471c75bdd02f0eb5ec2982e2188850a8a2c22ef147fadef1f2e6/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxMDM4ZWUzYy0wYzIwLTQzZTEtYTBjOC1hZjIwMDViZDcxODkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMTAzOGVlM2MtMGMyMC00M2UxLWEwYzgtYWYyMDA1YmQ3MTg5L05SeUstTEdOIDkgR3Jvd3RoIEJhbGFuY2luZyBBY3QgRmluYWwubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="39150932" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In the latest episode, Tiffany and Freddy dive into the delicate balancing act between career ambition and personal fulfillment. They share personal anecdotes, highlighting the struggles and triumphs they’ve faced in their own journeys. From late nights at the office to missed family gatherings, they explore the sacrifices made for career growth and discuss strategies for maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Tune in to hear their candid conversations, insightful tips, and a few laughs along the way as they navigate the complex terrain of achieving success without losing oneself in the process.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:40:52</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/1038ee3c-0c20-43e1-a0c8-af2005bd7189/KPFg-img-1404-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 9: Growth - Career Ambition vs. Personal Fulfillment</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nuance: The Real Cost of Gun Ownership in California]]></title><description><![CDATA[What if the real barrier to gun ownership in California isn’t safety — it’s cost? Between the 11% excise tax created by AB 28, ammunition background checks, FFL fees, and a 16-hour mandatory CCW class, lawful gun owners now carry thousands in cumulative compliance costs. Meanwhile, criminals operate outside the system entirely. In this Nuance breakdown, Fredrick examines whether these policies reduce crime — or simply price ordinary Californians out of their ability to protect themselves and their families. If we’re serious about fairness, we need to ask who pays… and who doesn’t.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9474836b-d475-44e3-84b1-8a71836e47e2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2026 02:42:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/f3f01af4a6e413dcdd900397db88af48cab0ccd8048775a7156436769f2588a4/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI0YWI2MDQ0OS1kNWNlLTRkM2EtYWI0Yi03MmVhNjg1YWY2MTIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNGFiNjA0NDktZDVjZS00ZDNhLWFiNGItNzJlYTY4NWFmNjEyL0d1biBPd25lcnNoaXAgaW4gQ0EgQXVkaW8ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="9867159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>What if the real barrier to gun ownership in California isn’t safety — it’s cost? Between the 11% excise tax created by AB 28, ammunition background checks, FFL fees, and a 16-hour mandatory CCW class, lawful gun owners now carry thousands in cumulative compliance costs. Meanwhile, criminals operate outside the system entirely. In this Nuance breakdown, Fredrick examines whether these policies reduce crime — or simply price ordinary Californians out of their ability to protect themselves and their families. If we’re serious about fairness, we need to ask who pays… and who doesn’t.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:10:16</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/4ab60449-d5ce-4d3a-ab4b-72ea685af612/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Nuance: The Real Cost of Gun Ownership in California</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 18: Growth - The Hard Truths of Personal Growth]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy dive into the ongoing journey of personal growth. They reflect on areas in their individual lives that still need development and the difficulties of embracing the changes necessary to grow. From breaking old habits to facing uncomfortable truths, they open up about the struggle of self-improvement and the persistence it takes to continue evolving. This candid conversation reminds listeners that growth is a lifelong process, often challenging but ultimately rewarding.
We need to give shout outs to those who helped make this so much better:
T-Shirts were done by Jeff Cook https://tblpivot.com
Location provided by Jerry Housey  https://stronghouse.fitness
Lighting and camera help by Mickel Garrett https://mickelgarrett.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2df86605-fea1-4ff0-b53f-998af72a728c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 08 Oct 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/3b103d7ed141399f597aecead06be3b2cff38cacde68b236c62d3ac822aaeaed/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5MTgwMjc1OS0wYzZjLTRkZDktYWUyOS1kNjY1ZDNmYzg5YWQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvOTE4MDI3NTktMGM2Yy00ZGQ5LWFlMjktZDY2NWQzZmM4OWFkL2FOVGgtTEdOIDE4IEdyb3d0aCBGaW5hbCBBdWRpby5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="41928855" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy dive into the ongoing journey of personal growth. They reflect on areas in their individual lives that still need development and the difficulties of embracing the changes necessary to grow. From breaking old habits to facing uncomfortable truths, they open up about the struggle of self-improvement and the persistence it takes to continue evolving. This candid conversation reminds listeners that growth is a lifelong process, often challenging but ultimately rewarding.
We need to give shout outs to those who helped make this so much better:
T-Shirts were done by Jeff Cook https://tblpivot.com
Location provided by Jerry Housey  https://stronghouse.fitness
Lighting and camera help by Mickel Garrett https://mickelgarrett.com</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:43:40</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/91802759-0c6c-4dd9-ae29-d665d3fc89ad/hPMQ-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 18: Growth - The Hard Truths of Personal Growth</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Then and Now: Parenting Across Generations (Part 1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this special family episode, Tiffany and Fredrick invite their parents—Tiffany’s mother and Fredrick’s mom and dad—for a warm, funny, and revealing conversation about what it was like raising them. From the challenges of parenting in the 70s and 80s to how much the world (and kids) have changed today, they dive into the differences, the similarities, and the lessons that still stand the test of time. Expect honest reflections, a few confessions, and plenty of laughter as their parents share what it was really like raising Tiffany and Fredrick—and how those experiences shaped the people they became.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">732de2cd-4001-484b-b41d-301704e2edf6</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/83484c5c971c6d792ecb10fc87819c5a5362ecb30a12e770957d840f2fa376c5/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2MGFmYjhmYi04NTA5LTQ5NDQtYmJlYi1hNjIyMTYzMzJmNzAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjBhZmI4ZmItODUwOS00OTQ0LWJiZWItYTYyMjE2MzMyZjcwL0xHTiA1NSBNZWV0IHRoZSBQYXJlbnRzIFBhcnQgMSAoQXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="34297239" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this special family episode, Tiffany and Fredrick invite their parents—Tiffany’s mother and Fredrick’s mom and dad—for a warm, funny, and revealing conversation about what it was like raising them. From the challenges of parenting in the 70s and 80s to how much the world (and kids) have changed today, they dive into the differences, the similarities, and the lessons that still stand the test of time. Expect honest reflections, a few confessions, and plenty of laughter as their parents share what it was really like raising Tiffany and Fredrick—and how those experiences shaped the people they became.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:35:43</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/60afb8fb-8509-4944-bbeb-a62216332f70/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>55</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Then and Now: Parenting Across Generations (Part 1)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 10: Narratives - Women vs. Men from Childhood to Relationships]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the 10th episode of "Love, Growth, and Narratives," Tiffany and Freddy tackle the societal challenges faced by young girls and boys, exploring the unique pressures and expectations placed on each. They discuss how these early experiences shape identity, self-esteem, and future relationships, sharing personal stories and insights from their own lives. Through honest and compassionate dialogue, they highlight the importance of understanding and supporting the different journeys of young girls and boys, aiming to inspire listeners to foster a more empathetic and inclusive environment for the next generation.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a4fb1dda-0367-42f8-943d-227a5da172f4</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 13 Aug 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/1b9fdde45c86af2ec4ae1db6c21b03e580719000547e2066ac42237dd4a02768/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkNjhlMzFlYy1hYTg4LTRjMDUtOTlmNi00ZjE4NmJkZjk0YjIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZDY4ZTMxZWMtYWE4OC00YzA1LTk5ZjYtNGYxODZiZGY5NGIyL3lsb0ctTEdOIDEwIEZpbmFsLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="63106263" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In the 10th episode of &quot;Love, Growth, and Narratives,&quot; Tiffany and Freddy tackle the societal challenges faced by young girls and boys, exploring the unique pressures and expectations placed on each. They discuss how these early experiences shape identity, self-esteem, and future relationships, sharing personal stories and insights from their own lives. Through honest and compassionate dialogue, they highlight the importance of understanding and supporting the different journeys of young girls and boys, aiming to inspire listeners to foster a more empathetic and inclusive environment for the next generation.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>01:05:53</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/d68e31ec-aa88-4c05-99f6-4f186bdf94b2/GQJW-img-1414-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 10: Narratives - Women vs. Men from Childhood to Relationships</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[One Conversation at a Time]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Episode 42 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we tackle one of the biggest challenges of our time: the erosion of good faith conversations. In a world fueled by grievance, tribalism, and constant outrage—from politics to sports to culture—meaningful dialogue is becoming a rare art. Instead of seeking understanding, too many of us retreat into echo chambers, hurling insults across the divide. In this episode, we explore why good faith conversations are critical for rebuilding trust, why they’ve become so difficult in today’s climate, and how we can intentionally bring down the temperature. We’ll also offer practical ideas for how we can talk to each other—not just about each other—and find common ground in a society that desperately needs it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">44484659-558a-4b6b-a5b2-b3ea05812479</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2025 20:04:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/aec4c5a41d3c3e3d92310199ce7a71cafe237695b51f30d70c8e4d4e46d2dae0/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2NzQwNDBiZi1kOTMzLTQzMmMtYjQzMC1kZDdjMzVlMTc0YWIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjc0MDQwYmYtZDkzMy00MzJjLWI0MzAtZGQ3YzM1ZTE3NGFiL0xHTiA0MiBHb29kIEZhaXRoIENvbnZvIChBdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="32665623" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In Episode 42 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we tackle one of the biggest challenges of our time: the erosion of good faith conversations. In a world fueled by grievance, tribalism, and constant outrage—from politics to sports to culture—meaningful dialogue is becoming a rare art. Instead of seeking understanding, too many of us retreat into echo chambers, hurling insults across the divide. In this episode, we explore why good faith conversations are critical for rebuilding trust, why they’ve become so difficult in today’s climate, and how we can intentionally bring down the temperature. We’ll also offer practical ideas for how we can talk to each other—not just about each other—and find common ground in a society that desperately needs it.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:34:01</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/674040bf-d933-432c-b430-dd7c35e174ab/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode><itunes:title>One Conversation at a Time</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Grown Bodies, Childish Minds: When Immaturity Grows Up with Us]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Episode 43 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we explore how unresolved childhood immaturity doesn’t disappear with age—it just gets louder, more stubborn, and harder to correct. From emotional outbursts to lack of accountability, we unpack how the behaviors we ignore in kids can become the habits that derail adult relationships, careers, and communities. It’s time to stop pretending age equals maturity—and start doing the hard work of addressing those early issues before they take root.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2450ef50-566e-46c8-8a58-276ea3bbf239</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2025 16:03:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/860e6867567e3c652aadced9c6c74e5c45cc00db9891d83e1c30830c90e51ccb/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2YjQ2YTUyNS02NjViLTRmMjMtYjkyMC01NTNmMDBjMmQ1Y2IiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNmI0NmE1MjUtNjY1Yi00ZjIzLWI5MjAtNTUzZjAwYzJkNWNiL0xHTiA0MyAgQXVkaW8ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="26887191" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In Episode 43 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we explore how unresolved childhood immaturity doesn’t disappear with age—it just gets louder, more stubborn, and harder to correct. From emotional outbursts to lack of accountability, we unpack how the behaviors we ignore in kids can become the habits that derail adult relationships, careers, and communities. It’s time to stop pretending age equals maturity—and start doing the hard work of addressing those early issues before they take root.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:28:00</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/6b46a525-665b-4f23-b920-553f00c2d5cb/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>43</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Grown Bodies, Childish Minds: When Immaturity Grows Up with Us</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Men’s Mental Health: My Story of Struggle and Discovery]]></title><description><![CDATA[In honor of Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month, Fredrick opens up about the quiet pain of growing up in the shadow of a superstar sibling, wrestling with the weight of expectations he couldn’t carry. His father wanted him to be tough and thoughtful. His mother wanted him to be safe and happy. But Fredrick was a deeply depressed and socially awkward child—fighting a battle no one could see or explain. In this raw and revealing episode, he reflects on the unspoken struggles of his youth, including a late-in-life discovery of high-functioning autism and the identity shifts that came from moving between all-Black, all-White, and finally diverse neighborhoods. This is a conversation for every man who was told to “man up” when what he really needed was to be understood.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">73f8f389-7de1-458b-b380-4c5882fab65f</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2025 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b5218a5e808aab291c20005893aa59abec5e79eb38360d9283e5fd289d9bc7d5/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1ZDBiYWU1NS0wMjE4LTQwZDYtYjEyZi03ZTViYWY0NTUwYTQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNWQwYmFlNTUtMDIxOC00MGQ2LWIxMmYtN2U1YmFmNDU1MGE0L0xHTiA0NSBNZW7igJlzIE1lbnRhbCBIZWFsdGggKEF1ZGlvKS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="47476887" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In honor of Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month, Fredrick opens up about the quiet pain of growing up in the shadow of a superstar sibling, wrestling with the weight of expectations he couldn’t carry. His father wanted him to be tough and thoughtful. His mother wanted him to be safe and happy. But Fredrick was a deeply depressed and socially awkward child—fighting a battle no one could see or explain. In this raw and revealing episode, he reflects on the unspoken struggles of his youth, including a late-in-life discovery of high-functioning autism and the identity shifts that came from moving between all-Black, all-White, and finally diverse neighborhoods. This is a conversation for every man who was told to “man up” when what he really needed was to be understood.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:49:27</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/5d0bae55-0218-40d6-b12f-7e5baf4550a4/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Men’s Mental Health: My Story of Struggle and Discovery</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Weight of the Holidays—and Our Choice in Carrying It]]></title><description><![CDATA[The holidays have a way of revealing what we love—and what we’ve simply been carrying out of habit. In this episode, Tiffany and Fredrick talk about the traditions they grew up with, the family expectations that shaped their feelings about the season, and how those experiences still show up today. With humor and honesty, they explore what it looks like to keep the parts of the holidays that bring meaning, while questioning the pressure, obligation, and unspoken rules that don’t. This is a conversation about growing up, growing wiser, and deciding—intentionally—how the holidays fit into your life now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b5c0e21e-4384-4429-a560-404bf1bc0009</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2026 06:39:20 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9d3ef05071ac85e874d139d7c557994366d53f67de6d680544627bf41da83213/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJiNTRmNjI0OS04ZTE4LTRkMzgtOWExMC1lODlhYWM0NGFiYmUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYjU0ZjYyNDktOGUxOC00ZDM4LTlhMTAtZTg5YWFjNDRhYmJlL0xHTiA1OCBIb2xpZGF5cyAoQXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="41331351" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>The holidays have a way of revealing what we love—and what we’ve simply been carrying out of habit. In this episode, Tiffany and Fredrick talk about the traditions they grew up with, the family expectations that shaped their feelings about the season, and how those experiences still show up today. With humor and honesty, they explore what it looks like to keep the parts of the holidays that bring meaning, while questioning the pressure, obligation, and unspoken rules that don’t. This is a conversation about growing up, growing wiser, and deciding—intentionally—how the holidays fit into your life now.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:43:03</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/b54f6249-8e18-4d38-9a10-e89aac44abbe/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>58</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Weight of the Holidays—and Our Choice in Carrying It</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why does it always take a disaster to bring us together?]]></title><description><![CDATA[After 9/11, Americans felt united. After the fires in Los Angeles, neighbors showed up for each other. Before the Million Man March, Black men were already moving with renewed purpose and responsibility.

Those moments didn’t create unity — they revealed it.

In Episode 62, we ask: Why do we wait for tragedy to reconnect? In a culture fueled by outrage and division, how do we choose empathy and shared responsibility before crisis forces it?

We already know how to come together.
The question is: will we do it on purpose?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f97a9927-3d3a-440e-b81f-9d900b685a07</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2026 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/5e73fdcb53fc688f1f2187e2cb467de0238b8f177ff7f316f9054ace33c99769/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjNWEzNDQ1Ni1iZjJhLTQ5YmItYTZlMC0yYTIzYTA3YjkzYTIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYzVhMzQ0NTYtYmYyYS00OWJiLWE2ZTAtMmEyM2EwN2I5M2EyL0xHTiA2MiBBdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="31037463" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>After 9/11, Americans felt united. After the fires in Los Angeles, neighbors showed up for each other. Before the Million Man March, Black men were already moving with renewed purpose and responsibility.

Those moments didn’t create unity — they revealed it.

In Episode 62, we ask: Why do we wait for tragedy to reconnect? In a culture fueled by outrage and division, how do we choose empathy and shared responsibility before crisis forces it?

We already know how to come together.
The question is: will we do it on purpose?</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:32:19</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/c5a34456-bf2a-49bb-a6e0-2a23a07b93a2/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>62</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Why does it always take a disaster to bring us together?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nuance: The Promise Arms Race: Why Every Candidate Keeps Raising the Stakes]]></title><description><![CDATA[Every election season, candidates compete to out-promise each other — and we keep rewarding them for it. This episode of the Nuance series breaks down exactly what to listen for, why the “eliminate waste” answer should end the conversation, and why real change has never required nothing from the people who needed it most.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ac1ed512-e7e5-48d7-91b1-a8ab24c1fcb9</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/eaeb73663b4fafcec06c2050b0aae309dc0856a2259a8662b3ffff253a2241e1/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhODMzOWUzYS1mMTBlLTQ5MTYtYTYwZS00MjUwMzgxZjJlNGIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYTgzMzllM2EtZjEwZS00OTE2LWE2MGUtNDI1MDM4MWYyZTRiL0VsZWN0aW9uIFByb21pc2VzLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="6582423" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Every election season, candidates compete to out-promise each other — and we keep rewarding them for it. This episode of the Nuance series breaks down exactly what to listen for, why the “eliminate waste” answer should end the conversation, and why real change has never required nothing from the people who needed it most.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:06:51</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/a8339e3a-f10e-4916-a60e-4250381f2e4b/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Nuance: The Promise Arms Race: Why Every Candidate Keeps Raising the Stakes</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[LGN 29: Narratives (Part 2) - From Bystander to Action: Strategies for Making a Difference]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Part 2 of our conversation on the bystander effect, we discuss how to stop being a passive observer by understanding your risk appetite and tolerance. This episode highlights actionable strategies for stepping in and making a difference to prevent tragedies in ways that align with your comfort and abilities.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e1a3b951-c026-4887-9358-57912277c125</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/fecd11d8c082a73698f0047b8e59f6f00f36607d407416cd50acb774cdcf439c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyY2Q2NjMwNy04OGU3LTRhMTYtYjkxNS1mY2U0ZDA4ODYzOTEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMmNkNjYzMDctODhlNy00YTE2LWI5MTUtZmNlNGQwODg2MzkxL0xHTiAyOSBOYXJyYXRpdmVzIGF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="23439255" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In Part 2 of our conversation on the bystander effect, we discuss how to stop being a passive observer by understanding your risk appetite and tolerance. This episode highlights actionable strategies for stepping in and making a difference to prevent tragedies in ways that align with your comfort and abilities.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:24:24</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/2cd66307-88e7-4a16-b915-fce4d0886391/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><itunes:title>LGN 29: Narratives (Part 2) - From Bystander to Action: Strategies for Making a Difference</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 5: Love and Handling Traditional Gender Roles]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode about Love, we talk about how we feel about traditional gender roles and building a relationship without them.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c8badf4e-75ec-4f82-b103-531b5815a1b1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 08 Jul 2024 20:27:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/7f2832fde79bcfefa461ff4f459d877bdcae20d6c1550ce15dc46c149b142d27/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyZDVjYjMwOC0wYjJiLTRiOGUtYjEwOS01ZjMxMzdlZTc4YjkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMmQ1Y2IzMDgtMGIyYi00YjhlLWIxMDktNWYzMTM3ZWU3OGI5L3JkWkwtTEdOIDUgQXVkaW8gRmluYWwubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="36776506" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode about Love, we talk about how we feel about traditional gender roles and building a relationship without them.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:23</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/2d5cb308-0b2b-4b8e-b109-5f3137ee78b9/VJag-img-1358-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 5: Love and Handling Traditional Gender Roles</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 15 : Growth - The Weight of It All: Battling Obesity Together]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy get real about one of their toughest ongoing battles: weight loss. From personal struggles with obesity to the emotional and physical toll it has taken on their lives, they share raw and honest experiences of their journey. They open up about the highs and lows, the victories and setbacks, and the ways this battle has tested their resilience, health, and relationship. Join them as they unpack the complex emotions surrounding body image, the pressure to conform, and how they continue to push forward, together.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">508196dd-54b8-426b-b248-fbfad4af0a5f</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Sep 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/2a85599c84f510641a5eba669dd0a8ae1008b2e96d4b33698f900dd99c4de435/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzODcyOWFlYS1mYTVlLTQ4ZWEtYjUzOC1kMTg0MzU4NGI2NDMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMzg3MjlhZWEtZmE1ZS00OGVhLWI1MzgtZDE4NDM1ODRiNjQzL21xek0tTEdOIDE1IEdyb3d0aCBGaW5hbC5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="47976558" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy get real about one of their toughest ongoing battles: weight loss. From personal struggles with obesity to the emotional and physical toll it has taken on their lives, they share raw and honest experiences of their journey. They open up about the highs and lows, the victories and setbacks, and the ways this battle has tested their resilience, health, and relationship. Join them as they unpack the complex emotions surrounding body image, the pressure to conform, and how they continue to push forward, together.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:50:05</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/38729aea-fa5e-48ea-b538-d1843584b643/ObnP-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 15 : Growth - The Weight of It All: Battling Obesity Together</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 20: Love (Part 1) - The Wedding Countdown: Joys, Headaches, and Everything In-Between]]></title><description><![CDATA[In part one of this milestone 20th episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive deep into the rollercoaster of emotions that come with planning our upcoming wedding. From the joyous moments of envisioning our perfect day to the frustrations, headaches, and countless decisions we’ve had to make, we share it all. Join us as we reflect on the work it takes to bring our dream wedding to life and how we’ve navigated the ups and downs together. Whether you’re planning your own wedding or just curious about the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is full of honest insights and plenty of love.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4422cb35-00d1-41d7-bcda-dd1cf6b4b7ef</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Oct 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b5d4e0f54930394f8194f8997472ab2f7a49d818992d8b80eec689b3e03d6d63/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI0MmRhMzgyZi0yNWJhLTQwYmItYTU1Ny0xOTk4NGVkYjFhZmUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNDJkYTM4MmYtMjViYS00MGJiLWE1NTctMTk5ODRlZGIxYWZlL1hWUFEtTEdOIDIwICBBdWRpbyBGaW5hbC5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="31845399" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In part one of this milestone 20th episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive deep into the rollercoaster of emotions that come with planning our upcoming wedding. From the joyous moments of envisioning our perfect day to the frustrations, headaches, and countless decisions we’ve had to make, we share it all. Join us as we reflect on the work it takes to bring our dream wedding to life and how we’ve navigated the ups and downs together. Whether you’re planning your own wedding or just curious about the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is full of honest insights and plenty of love.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:33:10</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/42da382f-25ba-40bb-a557-19984edb1afe/CiSX-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Episode 20: Love (Part 1) - The Wedding Countdown: Joys, Headaches, and Everything In-Between</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 7: Narratives - Real Talk on Politics]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this engaging episode, Tiffany and Freddy dive into the complex world of politics, discussing the current landscape, key issues, and how they personally navigate political conversations. They explore the impact of politics on daily life, share their diverse perspectives, and offer insights into staying informed and engaged without becoming overwhelmed. From local elections to global affairs, Tiffany and Freddy break down the importance of civic participation and critical thinking in today's fast-paced news cycle. Tune in for a thoughtful and balanced discussion that encourages respectful dialogue and active involvement in shaping our future.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">26cd0b34-025c-44e9-80e9-08641effcba6</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2024 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a1b30993b2b0562d47c2141e09f0f4578b8df624521a835ad1804d89222c3060/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI0NDM0ZWIzOS0zMDZmLTQzZDItYTczYS1lMTM0NzE3M2Q1NWQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNDQzNGViMzktMzA2Zi00M2QyLWE3M2EtZTEzNDcxNzNkNTVkL0d6dGUtTEdOIDcgTmFycmF0aXZlcyBGSW5hbC5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="41099040" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this engaging episode, Tiffany and Freddy dive into the complex world of politics, discussing the current landscape, key issues, and how they personally navigate political conversations. They explore the impact of politics on daily life, share their diverse perspectives, and offer insights into staying informed and engaged without becoming overwhelmed. From local elections to global affairs, Tiffany and Freddy break down the importance of civic participation and critical thinking in today&apos;s fast-paced news cycle. Tune in for a thoughtful and balanced discussion that encourages respectful dialogue and active involvement in shaping our future.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:42:54</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/4434eb39-306f-43d2-a73a-e1347173d55d/olQu-img-1382-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 7: Narratives - Real Talk on Politics</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Signal Over Noise: Finding Clarity in a Chaotic World]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a world overflowing with notifications, headlines, and constant demands for our attention, how do we focus on what really matters? In this episode, we dive into the art of filtering through the noise to find the signals — the things that truly deserve our energy. Whether it’s showing up more intentionally in our relationships, staying focused on our professional goals, or just being kinder and more present with ourselves, we explore how to navigate a distracted world with clarity and purpose. It’s time to breathe, tune in, and turn down the volume on everything else.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f53cdb44-d350-4074-8dda-0f58980186fd</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2025 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c36ec761b20881413dfc2a2dbb64eae73e27abd7eed05a9b2deb10aca1885480/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI0Y2VjMDA5YS1hZjE3LTQ1MjEtYjliNS1kMDQxZGNmMGFkYjQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNGNlYzAwOWEtYWYxNy00NTIxLWI5YjUtZDA0MWRjZjBhZGI0L0xHTiA0MCAoQXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="36990231" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In a world overflowing with notifications, headlines, and constant demands for our attention, how do we focus on what really matters? In this episode, we dive into the art of filtering through the noise to find the signals — the things that truly deserve our energy. Whether it’s showing up more intentionally in our relationships, staying focused on our professional goals, or just being kinder and more present with ourselves, we explore how to navigate a distracted world with clarity and purpose. It’s time to breathe, tune in, and turn down the volume on everything else.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:31</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/4cec009a-af17-4521-b9b5-d041dcf0adb4/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>40</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Signal Over Noise: Finding Clarity in a Chaotic World</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Gen X: The Forgotten Middle Child of History]]></title><description><![CDATA[Stuck between the Boomers who raised us and the Millennials who reshaped culture, Gen X has always been the overlooked middle child of history. We grew up self-sufficient, shaped by a world that was changing faster than anyone could process—surviving the crack era, the AIDS crisis, multiple wars, and the collapse of the Soviet Union, all while witnessing the rise of cable TV, home computers, video game consoles, MTV, Hip Hop, and Grunge. We learned resilience from our Boomer parents, but we’ve also had to unlearn their grind-until-you-break mentality. In this episode, we reflect on what it means to age as Gen Xers, how we navigate being sandwiched between two larger, better-defined generations, and why we’re probably lucky there was no internet to document our dumbest moments.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">496ab6a8-d17b-477f-956c-4f2a9138b617</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2025 11:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/d948f330d2ef3f6090cba95a2bbca5914ae1b0343f0988a75fa92ad0f8b2aa24/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1MGVjYzcyNi05NTFlLTQyMGQtOWViYS1jZDM5Y2YzZjQyNmUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNTBlY2M3MjYtOTUxZS00MjBkLTllYmEtY2QzOWNmM2Y0MjZlL0xHTiAzNSBHZW4gWCBQYXJ0IDEgKEF1ZGlvKS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="40639383" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Stuck between the Boomers who raised us and the Millennials who reshaped culture, Gen X has always been the overlooked middle child of history. 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In this episode, we reflect on what it means to age as Gen Xers, how we navigate being sandwiched between two larger, better-defined generations, and why we’re probably lucky there was no internet to document our dumbest moments.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:42:19</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/50ecc726-951e-420d-9eba-cd39cf3f426e/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Gen X: The Forgotten Middle Child of History</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[LGN 27: Narratives - California Fires: We Look Beyond the Blame Game and Misinformation]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Fredrick tackle the recent fires in California, diving into the misinformation circulating about their scope and impact. They break down the challenging geography of the affected areas and why it’s so difficult to control these wildfires. The conversation explores how people are often quick to blame local and state governments, overlooking the historical and environmental factors that have contributed to these disasters for decades. Join us as we explore why intellectual laziness can prevent real understanding and how solving this crisis requires a deeper look beyond pointing fingers.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">cf7dd03e-8bc5-409a-94cd-b05018c63954</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jan 2025 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9160720e45dd876d62a089d20c31e16fc8a4bcd992c2d9fc28fe982a07a476c2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1NjIyMjVlYy01OWY1LTQyMTEtYTAzNC04ZWVhNjlmYjk5YTYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNTYyMjI1ZWMtNTlmNS00MjExLWEwMzQtOGVlYTY5ZmI5OWE2L0xHTiAyNyBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="37790871" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Fredrick tackle the recent fires in California, diving into the misinformation circulating about their scope and impact. They break down the challenging geography of the affected areas and why it’s so difficult to control these wildfires. The conversation explores how people are often quick to blame local and state governments, overlooking the historical and environmental factors that have contributed to these disasters for decades. Join us as we explore why intellectual laziness can prevent real understanding and how solving this crisis requires a deeper look beyond pointing fingers.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:39:21</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/562225ec-59f5-4211-a034-8eea69fb99a6/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><itunes:title>LGN 27: Narratives - California Fires: We Look Beyond the Blame Game and Misinformation</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 6: Growth - Navigating the Storm of Anxiety]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this heartfelt episode, Tiffany and Freddy open up about their personal journeys with anxiety, sharing their struggles, triumphs, and the strategies they've employed to cope. From childhood challenges to adult pressures, they delve into the moments that shaped their mental health, offering listeners a raw and relatable narrative. Whether you're seeking solace, understanding, or just a sense of community, this episode promises to resonate deeply and inspire.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d8ac8374-eea4-4646-9569-47f556c36445</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jul 2024 14:14:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9fef772918bed0bbd2c2e334295021a95eb367386ed83f6a40c4220117031923/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2MDAxZDk4YS00NDU2LTQ1NTgtOWM3MC1hMzJiNGEwMjE0MjQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjAwMWQ5OGEtNDQ1Ni00NTU4LTljNzAtYTMyYjRhMDIxNDI0L252WHctTEdOIDYgR3Jvd3RoIEZpbmFsLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="44555980" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this heartfelt episode, Tiffany and Freddy open up about their personal journeys with anxiety, sharing their struggles, triumphs, and the strategies they&apos;ve employed to cope. From childhood challenges to adult pressures, they delve into the moments that shaped their mental health, offering listeners a raw and relatable narrative. Whether you&apos;re seeking solace, understanding, or just a sense of community, this episode promises to resonate deeply and inspire.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:46:31</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/6001d98a-4456-4558-9c70-a32b4a021424/ksuD-img-1363-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 6: Growth - Navigating the Storm of Anxiety</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Redrawing the Lines: Prop 50 and California’s Next Election]]></title><description><![CDATA[We’re kicking off our California election series with Prop 50 and the redistricting controversy led by Governor Newsom and state Democrats. These aren’t just political headlines—they’re decisions that will shape who represents us and how our communities are heard. This is the first step in a series designed to give you clear, no-spin breakdowns of the issues and candidates leading up to the 2026 elections, so you can vote with confidence.

https://findyourrep.legislature.ca.gov

https://www.laforward.org/who-represents-me

https://ballotpedia.org/California_Proposition_50,_Use_of_Legislative_Congressional_Redistricting_Map_Amendment_(2025)

https://calmatters.org/politics/2025/08/find-out-if-your-vote-could-be-affected-by-newsoms-redistricting-plans/

#Prop50 #RedistrictingFight #CaliforniaPolitics #CivicEngagement #PowerAndMaps #2026Elections #KnowYourBallot #VoteSmartCA #PoliticalPowerPlay #CaliforniaElections2026 #BallotBreakdown #InformedVoters]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2056b8a7-6f52-4fae-b57a-5c735eba52f3</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2025 17:48:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/49806d94646430b94e3d8e7371da0e5f60b1de7b7a97c27606b6dd549a4b130b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2MTY0MTJkNS1hZGY0LTQyZmQtYTBhMC0yMGE3NWRkOTEyMzciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjE2NDEyZDUtYWRmNC00MmZkLWEwYTAtMjBhNzVkZDkxMjM3L0xHTiA1MSBQcm9wIDUwIGZ1bGwgYXVkaW8ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="24027159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>We’re kicking off our California election series with Prop 50 and the redistricting controversy led by Governor Newsom and state Democrats. These aren’t just political headlines—they’re decisions that will shape who represents us and how our communities are heard. This is the first step in a series designed to give you clear, no-spin breakdowns of the issues and candidates leading up to the 2026 elections, so you can vote with confidence.

https://findyourrep.legislature.ca.gov

https://www.laforward.org/who-represents-me

https://ballotpedia.org/California_Proposition_50,_Use_of_Legislative_Congressional_Redistricting_Map_Amendment_(2025)

https://calmatters.org/politics/2025/08/find-out-if-your-vote-could-be-affected-by-newsoms-redistricting-plans/

#Prop50 #RedistrictingFight #CaliforniaPolitics #CivicEngagement #PowerAndMaps #2026Elections #KnowYourBallot #VoteSmartCA #PoliticalPowerPlay #CaliforniaElections2026 #BallotBreakdown #InformedVoters</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:25:01</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/616412d5-adf4-42fd-a0a0-20a75dd91237/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>51</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Redrawing the Lines: Prop 50 and California’s Next Election</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Newlyweds in Our 50s: 4-Month Marriage Check-In]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Episode 38, we give an honest update on being four months into marriage—what we’ve learned, where we’re thriving, and what we’re still figuring out. Some might say, “You’ve only been married 4 months, what do you know?” Fair question—but we’re also in our 50s, with a lifetime of experiences, past relationships, and hard lessons behind us. Fredrick’s been married twice before, and together we’ve done the work to build something different. We’re confident in our path, but cautious not to get complacent. We know we don’t know it all—but we’ve set the stage to evolve, grow, and challenge the typical narratives about love, marriage, and starting fresh later in life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6508d70e-a5cb-4d52-be0e-1ca859824bca</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2025 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/e9429f6228116bffbc59626b6379b3238323771b203df00d0f382a3a5ee12430/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2NDkxZmEwZi1hMjg3LTRlYzgtYjFlZi0wZWJmMDdjYjI3ZjMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNjQ5MWZhMGYtYTI4Ny00ZWM4LWIxZWYtMGViZjA3Y2IyN2YzL0xHTiAzOCA0IG1vbnRoIHVwZGF0ZSBmaW5hbCAoQXVkaW8pLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="34152087" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In Episode 38, we give an honest update on being four months into marriage—what we’ve learned, where we’re thriving, and what we’re still figuring out. Some might say, “You’ve only been married 4 months, what do you know?” Fair question—but we’re also in our 50s, with a lifetime of experiences, past relationships, and hard lessons behind us. Fredrick’s been married twice before, and together we’ve done the work to build something different. We’re confident in our path, but cautious not to get complacent. We know we don’t know it all—but we’ve set the stage to evolve, grow, and challenge the typical narratives about love, marriage, and starting fresh later in life.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:35:34</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/6491fa0f-a287-4ec8-b1ef-0ebf07cb27f3/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Newlyweds in Our 50s: 4-Month Marriage Check-In</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Quick Fix Nation: Can Society’s Problems Be Solved Overnight?]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we ask a hard question: Are there really quick fixes for any of society’s biggest problems? With most political terms lasting just 2, 4, or 6 years, politicians often scramble to deliver bold changes fast—hoping impatient voters will feel progress is being made. But are these drastic shifts actually helping, or are they just symbolic moves to stay in power? Are we, the voters, being unrealistic by expecting immediate results for deep-rooted issues? And are we asking politicians to do things through public policy that we, as citizens, should be taking responsibility for ourselves? Let’s talk about the tension between short-term political survival and long-term societal change—and our role in it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">129a40cc-f3d8-4c69-97a8-493a1a6f0d16</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/63215190a0edeb475dd32eec890c0c5b49f9fb7f03f0580e927a1d6e282f3f7d/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4ZDMwMGMyMy1iN2QwLTRhYjItYmRmOS0xNTMwMWZmYTdhYWQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvOGQzMDBjMjMtYjdkMC00YWIyLWJkZjktMTUzMDFmZmE3YWFkL0xHTiAzNyBRdWljayBGaXggKEF1ZGlvKS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="38005143" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we ask a hard question: Are there really quick fixes for any of society’s biggest problems? With most political terms lasting just 2, 4, or 6 years, politicians often scramble to deliver bold changes fast—hoping impatient voters will feel progress is being made. But are these drastic shifts actually helping, or are they just symbolic moves to stay in power? Are we, the voters, being unrealistic by expecting immediate results for deep-rooted issues? And are we asking politicians to do things through public policy that we, as citizens, should be taking responsibility for ourselves? Let’s talk about the tension between short-term political survival and long-term societal change—and our role in it.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:39:35</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/8d300c23-b7d0-4ab2-bdf9-15301ffa7aad/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Quick Fix Nation: Can Society’s Problems Be Solved Overnight?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Taking a Pause: A Recap of Love, Growth, and Narratives - Episodes 1-4]]></title><description><![CDATA[While we take a short break to celebrate our wedding, we’re bringing you a special recap of our first four episodes! Revisit the beginnings of Love, Growth, and Narratives, as we dive back into our initial conversations about personal growth, relationships, and life’s many lessons. Catch up on our journey so far, and stay tuned for new episodes coming soon!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8fb8a373-3877-45b0-81aa-6c66ad75aefd</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2024 17:26:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/73a012a966f72dc2841e7f0021471fc2cc0f3e8354f8d6d52a22cc38be900d5e/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5MTJlYTdkOC04ZmNkLTQzNTQtOTVmZS1jY2JjZTIxM2Q1MTciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvOTEyZWE3ZDgtOGZjZC00MzU0LTk1ZmUtY2NiY2UyMTNkNTE3L1FNcFgtQmVzdCBvZiBFcCAxLTQubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="37818060" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>While we take a short break to celebrate our wedding, we’re bringing you a special recap of our first four episodes! Revisit the beginnings of Love, Growth, and Narratives, as we dive back into our initial conversations about personal growth, relationships, and life’s many lessons. Catch up on our journey so far, and stay tuned for new episodes coming soon!</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:39:29</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/912ea7d8-8fcd-4354-95fe-ccbce213d517/NtxT-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Taking a Pause: A Recap of Love, Growth, and Narratives - Episodes 1-4</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 3: Growth]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode we dive into the discomfort, challenges, and benefits of a growth mindset.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a0b4f6a2-875e-449b-8483-49fc0a6d4bac</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 24 Jun 2024 19:09:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a6b01c6acd432db556dcf5e263f6fa04307b17e76dfbd1186c6637c536585076/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjZWY3ZTQ2NC03MjY2LTQ5ZTgtODU0Zi0xNTcxZDYwMGI3YzgiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvY2VmN2U0NjQtNzI2Ni00OWU4LTg1NGYtMTU3MWQ2MDBiN2M4L21RbXotZXBpc29kZSAzIHNvdW5kIEZJTkFMLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="45797319" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode we dive into the discomfort, challenges, and benefits of a growth mindset.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:47:48</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/cef7e464-7266-49e8-854f-1571d600b7c8/qXJl-img-1288-png.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 3: Growth</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[California’s AB 1333: The Attack on Your Right to Self-Defense]]></title><description><![CDATA[California is facing a dangerous shift in self-defense laws with AB 1333, a bill introduced by Assemblymember Rick Chavez Zbur that would change the state from a Castle Doctrine state to a Duty to Retreat state. This means law-abiding citizens would be legally required to consider fleeing before defending themselves, creating dangerous hesitation in life-or-death situations while doing nothing to stop criminals. I’ve reached out to Assemblymember Zbur’s office and my own representative for comment because we need good-faith conversations about public safety. We must stand up for our right to self-defense—share this video, contact your representatives, and say NO to AB 1333!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5fe0b57a-4272-475f-9568-907ef86bad12</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 02 Mar 2025 01:13:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/cea19a19d0a2192f52f8006572f95064dd4adeec7b52b223d0bc453ddcb4aa2a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhZDdmMTk3NC0zYjJkLTQ4ZDYtYTVkMy0yZWM5NDM4N2ZmYzUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYWQ3ZjE5NzQtM2IyZC00OGQ2LWE1ZDMtMmVjOTQzODdmZmM1L0FCMTMzMy5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="3073815" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>California is facing a dangerous shift in self-defense laws with AB 1333, a bill introduced by Assemblymember Rick Chavez Zbur that would change the state from a Castle Doctrine state to a Duty to Retreat state. This means law-abiding citizens would be legally required to consider fleeing before defending themselves, creating dangerous hesitation in life-or-death situations while doing nothing to stop criminals. I’ve reached out to Assemblymember Zbur’s office and my own representative for comment because we need good-faith conversations about public safety. We must stand up for our right to self-defense—share this video, contact your representatives, and say NO to AB 1333!</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:03:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/ad7f1974-3b2d-48d6-a5d3-2ec94387ffc5/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>California’s AB 1333: The Attack on Your Right to Self-Defense</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[LGN 26: Narratives - The Power of Taking Risks: Growth, Rewards, and Lessons Learned]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we explore the importance of taking risks—both big and small. Stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to great rewards, while even failed risks offer valuable lessons. We share personal stories and insights on how embracing risk has shaped our growth and why life feels shallow without it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c9b4f92f-a92d-495f-832a-74c2d021ca25</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2025 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/fd3e722b6ae529622e627ffb4f372caa7689258bcfc03608b5b4c7c6b8a0b4e4/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJiM2UzNWU5Yy04ZGRiLTRjYmMtOWY5NS0yYjIxY2UxYTI5OTYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYjNlMzVlOWMtOGRkYi00Y2JjLTlmOTUtMmIyMWNlMWEyOTk2L0xHTiAyNiBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="34623255" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we explore the importance of taking risks—both big and small. Stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to great rewards, while even failed risks offer valuable lessons. We share personal stories and insights on how embracing risk has shaped our growth and why life feels shallow without it.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:36:03</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/b3e35e9c-8ddb-4cbc-9f95-2b21ce1a2996/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><itunes:title>LGN 26: Narratives - The Power of Taking Risks: Growth, Rewards, and Lessons Learned</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Team Us: What Makes a Power Couple?]]></title><description><![CDATA[What does it really mean to be a power couple? In this episode, we dive into the idea of “Team Us” — how couples build a dynamic that makes them stronger together than apart. We unpack our own definition of a power couple, share the ways we’ve worked to build that kind of partnership, and talk about the habits and boundaries that keep us aligned. From supporting each other’s growth to protecting our relationship from outside noise, we explore what it takes to be more than just partners — but teammates for life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ae01685c-0e3b-402f-8433-284414390a48</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2025 17:15:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4ef7730be4d6945045700bec6e7dcc11763b59914823bb74cd82177e8d6c96d3/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJiMDliNzQ4Zi1iZTdmLTQ1ZWEtOGE2Yy05MTYzM2Y5ZTVhYTAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYjA5Yjc0OGYtYmU3Zi00NWVhLThhNmMtOTE2MzNmOWU1YWEwL0xHTiA0OSBwb3dlciBjb3VwbGVzIGF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="38170647" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>What does it really mean to be a power couple? In this episode, we dive into the idea of “Team Us” — how couples build a dynamic that makes them stronger together than apart. We unpack our own definition of a power couple, share the ways we’ve worked to build that kind of partnership, and talk about the habits and boundaries that keep us aligned. From supporting each other’s growth to protecting our relationship from outside noise, we explore what it takes to be more than just partners — but teammates for life.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:39:45</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/b09b748f-be7f-45ea-8a6c-91633f9e5aa0/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>49</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Team Us: What Makes a Power Couple?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 17: Love - Swipe Right or Scroll Deep: Love in the Age of Apps and Social Media]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this first video episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive into the evolving landscape of love in the digital age. From swiping right on dating apps to scrolling through social media to learn more about potential matches, technology is reshaping how we find and connect with love. We’ll explore the ups and downs of online dating, how social media impacts first impressions, and the challenges of maintaining genuine connections in a hyper-connected world. Join us as we discuss the realities, the pressures, and the new opportunities that technology brings to modern romance.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ff2e4bbe-15b4-45cf-9d06-7d8bac299f3e</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Oct 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4780a8d71245a2c7d7b15b7c00ee0933445408791c4127527c85189f04111c45/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkZDIyYWEyYS0xNTlhLTQ1N2YtOTc2Ni0yNmE4YjBiMGZhOGYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZGQyMmFhMmEtMTU5YS00NTdmLTk3NjYtMjZhOGIwYjBmYThmL1VZWVMtTEdOIDE3IEZpbmFsLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="41854743" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this first video episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we dive into the evolving landscape of love in the digital age. From swiping right on dating apps to scrolling through social media to learn more about potential matches, technology is reshaping how we find and connect with love. We’ll explore the ups and downs of online dating, how social media impacts first impressions, and the challenges of maintaining genuine connections in a hyper-connected world. Join us as we discuss the realities, the pressures, and the new opportunities that technology brings to modern romance.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:43:35</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/dd22aa2a-159a-457f-9766-26a8b0b0fa8f/LaOu-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 17: Love - Swipe Right or Scroll Deep: Love in the Age of Apps and Social Media</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Marriage Changed Us (For the Better) | The Growth We Didn’t Expect]]></title><description><![CDATA[Marriage has changed both of us in good ways—some intentional, some unexpected. In Episode 63, we talk about the ways marriage has helped us grow, individually and together.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ffc58fe1-d96d-4ec5-9145-64e634da8e17</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 18:05:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/fedfea697071cd81bfa2d580ec993a7de6e927e2e2dfad20bef7a5f5ffe352ab/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlNThmYzA0ZS01NDM0LTQxMGMtOTQwNy1kYjQ0ZmU3MjRjZGMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZTU4ZmMwNGUtNTQzNC00MTBjLTk0MDctZGI0NGZlNzI0Y2RjL0xHTiA2MyBNYXJyaWFnZSBDaGFuZ2VzIChBdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="37390359" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Marriage has changed both of us in good ways—some intentional, some unexpected. In Episode 63, we talk about the ways marriage has helped us grow, individually and together.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:56</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/e58fc04e-5434-410c-9407-db44fe724cdc/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>63</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Marriage Changed Us (For the Better) | The Growth We Didn’t Expect</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 4: Narratives]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we begin the discussion of the narratives we face. This will serve as a primer for future deep dives on the various narratives we're confronted with.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2a68b015-44ef-4c59-851b-d2f829363a28</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jul 2024 15:52:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/d5a3edd31cf56b6dec3bfdc8d9302cb1ef4cf158326a66c7ce2b119da970681f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkYjUyNzhmYy0xMmQyLTQ5OGYtYTI1OC03ODE4ZGE0YWM3OGQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZGI1Mjc4ZmMtMTJkMi00OThmLWEyNTgtNzgxOGRhNGFjNzhkL2todUUtTEdOIGVwcyA0IGZpbmFsLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="42342469" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode, we begin the discussion of the narratives we face. This will serve as a primer for future deep dives on the various narratives we&apos;re confronted with.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:44:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/db5278fc-12d2-498f-a258-7818da4ac78d/IhWZ-img-1320-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 4: Narratives</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[LGN 24: Love - Love and the Ripple Effect: Navigating Relationships After Marriage]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Tiffany and Freddy explore how marriage impacts relationships with family, friends, and others. They delve into the shifts that often occur, the boundaries needed to protect a marriage, and the importance of maintaining strong connections with loved ones who respect your union. Join them for an honest discussion about love’s ripple effect and the balance between nurturing your marriage and your broader relationships.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b91091ec-c112-4c78-a08d-f5da73a984c7</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2024 15:09:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/fbd264bf26020723d27997ce3b908d16ba34b52c0966b3ce28b831d0a1263c20/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkYTkwNjMyYy04MWVjLTQ2OTAtYjEwMC1lOGFkYzFhMzhhYWQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZGE5MDYzMmMtODFlYy00NjkwLWIxMDAtZThhZGMxYTM4YWFkL0xHTiAyNCBmaW5hbCBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="34109463" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode, Tiffany and Freddy explore how marriage impacts relationships with family, friends, and others. They delve into the shifts that often occur, the boundaries needed to protect a marriage, and the importance of maintaining strong connections with loved ones who respect your union. Join them for an honest discussion about love’s ripple effect and the balance between nurturing your marriage and your broader relationships.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:35:31</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/da90632c-81ec-4690-b100-e8adc1a38aad/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><itunes:title>LGN 24: Love - Love and the Ripple Effect: Navigating Relationships After Marriage</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 19: Narratives - California Ballot Breakdown: Your 2024 Voter’s Guide]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy break down the ten ballot measures California voters will see on November 5th. They provide clear descriptions of each measure, along with some of the publicized pros and cons, helping you make an informed decision. While we’re not taking sides, we understand how busy everyone is and aim to provide the necessary information for voters before heading to the polls. In addition, we share resources for California listeners on how to access the ballot measures and find state and local officials. For our listeners outside of California, we also include helpful websites where you can look up your local officials and state ballot measures.

What we used to research the ballot measures:
YouTube 
ABC 10
https://youtube.com/@abc10?si=KdDOKCr33CQGNMf2
California Insider Opinion
https://youtube.com/@californiainsideropinion?si=4GJ5XFYXAx6m1soi
CalMatters
https://youtube.com/@calmatters?si=_aT3Jvl2bYZTVbzU

On the web:
California General Election Guide for November 5th
https://voterguide.sos.ca.gov/propositions/index.htm
CalMatters
https://calmatters.org/california-voter-guide-2024/propositions/
LA Times - Election 2024
https://www.latimes.com/topic/election-2024

In California 
Find Your California Representative 
https://findyourrep.legislature.ca.gov

In Los Angeles 
Los Angeles Neighborhood Info
https://neighborhoodinfo.lacity.gov

In the US
National Conference of State Legislatures 
https://www.ncsl.org/elections-and-campaigns/statewide-ballot-measures-database
Ballotpedia
https://ballotpedia.org/2024_ballot_measures
Open Secrets
Ballot MeasuresOpenSecretshttps://www.opensecrets.org › ballot-measures

T-Shirts by Jeff Cook
Tblpivot.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8415452b-3d21-450a-b727-416cf0b7610e</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Oct 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/8ff4c308dc3b09ed1cd37ee4ae04bdf274cfa42e25d468eb904f116aaeb2d5aa/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjMGI5MTZjYy0wM2Q0LTRkOWQtYmM1YS02YTM3ZGIxNzU0MDkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvYzBiOTE2Y2MtMDNkNC00ZDlkLWJjNWEtNmEzN2RiMTc1NDA5L29QSnItTEdOIDE5IEF1ZGlvIEZpbmFsLm00YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="57345303" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy break down the ten ballot measures California voters will see on November 5th. They provide clear descriptions of each measure, along with some of the publicized pros and cons, helping you make an informed decision. While we’re not taking sides, we understand how busy everyone is and aim to provide the necessary information for voters before heading to the polls. In addition, we share resources for California listeners on how to access the ballot measures and find state and local officials. For our listeners outside of California, we also include helpful websites where you can look up your local officials and state ballot measures.

What we used to research the ballot measures:
YouTube 
ABC 10
https://youtube.com/@abc10?si=KdDOKCr33CQGNMf2
California Insider Opinion
https://youtube.com/@californiainsideropinion?si=4GJ5XFYXAx6m1soi
CalMatters
https://youtube.com/@calmatters?si=_aT3Jvl2bYZTVbzU

On the web:
California General Election Guide for November 5th
https://voterguide.sos.ca.gov/propositions/index.htm
CalMatters
https://calmatters.org/california-voter-guide-2024/propositions/
LA Times - Election 2024
https://www.latimes.com/topic/election-2024

In California 
Find Your California Representative 
https://findyourrep.legislature.ca.gov

In Los Angeles 
Los Angeles Neighborhood Info
https://neighborhoodinfo.lacity.gov

In the US
National Conference of State Legislatures 
https://www.ncsl.org/elections-and-campaigns/statewide-ballot-measures-database
Ballotpedia
https://ballotpedia.org/2024_ballot_measures
Open Secrets
Ballot MeasuresOpenSecretshttps://www.opensecrets.org › ballot-measures

T-Shirts by Jeff Cook
Tblpivot.com</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:59:44</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/c0b916cc-03d4-4d9d-bc5a-6a37db175409/omWP-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 19: Narratives - California Ballot Breakdown: Your 2024 Voter’s Guide</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nuance: The Fear, Economics, and Policies Behind Mass Incarceration]]></title><description><![CDATA[Mass incarceration is often explained as the result of racism alone. Racism mattered—but it wasn’t the whole story.

In this episode of Nuance, I revisit the late 1980s and 1990s to explore the fear, violence, economic collapse, and community pressure that shaped the policies that followed. From open-air drug markets and rising homicide rates to the loss of industrial jobs and desperate pleas for safety, these conditions mattered—and they led to consequences we are still living with today.

This isn’t about excusing harm. It’s about understanding complexity so we don’t repeat it.

If there’s nuance I missed, add it in the comments. That’s how we all get smarter.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">141ebbda-a7c6-4543-912f-1eadfac3c278</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2026 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/e98af853861ae039186c656d16b560a6acd0f282def96d261e427b3d27d24891/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3MzhlYzJhZi0wMGQxLTQxOWYtYmMwMi04ZGYzODZkNmJiYjQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNzM4ZWMyYWYtMDBkMS00MTlmLWJjMDItOGRmMzg2ZDZiYmI0L051YW5jZV8gTWFzcyBJbmNhcmNlcmF0aW9uIChBdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="7184151" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>Mass incarceration is often explained as the result of racism alone. Racism mattered—but it wasn’t the whole story.

In this episode of Nuance, I revisit the late 1980s and 1990s to explore the fear, violence, economic collapse, and community pressure that shaped the policies that followed. From open-air drug markets and rising homicide rates to the loss of industrial jobs and desperate pleas for safety, these conditions mattered—and they led to consequences we are still living with today.

This isn’t about excusing harm. It’s about understanding complexity so we don’t repeat it.

If there’s nuance I missed, add it in the comments. That’s how we all get smarter.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:07:28</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/738ec2af-00d1-419f-bc02-8df386d6bbb4/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Nuance: The Fear, Economics, and Policies Behind Mass Incarceration</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Expanding Circles: In-Group Pride Without Out-Group Divide]]></title><description><![CDATA[In episode 31 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we revisit the in-group/out-group dynamic from a fresh perspective. Back in episode 4, we explored the cognitive bias that shapes how we view those inside and outside our in-groups, as well as the constraints that come with trying to fit in. This time, we focus on the upside—how love and loyalty to your in-group don’t have to come at the expense of others. We also discuss how in-groups naturally expand over time, from self to family, friends, community, and beyond. By recognizing these growing circles of connection, we challenge the mindset of division and highlight the power of inclusive belonging.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">669b85e0-b18c-40e0-9186-507d3f82c505</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2025 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b7eeaa8dbe24da250964c0fcb6ce4df89ca5a3c6e8603d900bd9c7b98a12dd32/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzMWI5ZDI4OS0wYWI0LTQyNTMtYTgyYi1kOTMxMDY3ZDE3MWMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMzFiOWQyODktMGFiNC00MjUzLWE4MmItZDkzMTA2N2QxNzFjL0xHTiAyMSBHcm93dGggLSBpbmdyb3VwIGF1ZGlvLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="31025175" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In episode 31 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we revisit the in-group/out-group dynamic from a fresh perspective. Back in episode 4, we explored the cognitive bias that shapes how we view those inside and outside our in-groups, as well as the constraints that come with trying to fit in. This time, we focus on the upside—how love and loyalty to your in-group don’t have to come at the expense of others. We also discuss how in-groups naturally expand over time, from self to family, friends, community, and beyond. By recognizing these growing circles of connection, we challenge the mindset of division and highlight the power of inclusive belonging.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:32:19</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/31b9d289-0ab4-4253-a82b-d931067d171c/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Expanding Circles: In-Group Pride Without Out-Group Divide</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Courtesy? That’s So Last Century]]></title><description><![CDATA[In episode 41 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we take a look at the slow disappearance of everyday kindness. From the simple act of using a turn signal to holding the door open for someone struggling, what used to be basic courtesy now feels like a rare gesture. We talk about how this erosion of respect and awareness for others reflects a deeper disconnection in our society—and what it means for the way we live, love, and coexist. Is it just nostalgia talking, or are we truly losing something vital?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1806a11c-a5f2-474f-9a6a-d478630e9cf2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2025 14:12:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/d3c4f90515fa593c0e07fbad296b68ec0baa61ea938b46ffee5321140316a8aa/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzY2ZmM2ViNi0zMzVlLTQ4NGEtOTAxOC04OWE5YzhmNTFlNDYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvM2NmZjNlYjYtMzM1ZS00ODRhLTkwMTgtODlhOWM4ZjUxZTQ2L0xHTiA0MSBDb3VydGVzeS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="33223959" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In episode 41 of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we take a look at the slow disappearance of everyday kindness. From the simple act of using a turn signal to holding the door open for someone struggling, what used to be basic courtesy now feels like a rare gesture. We talk about how this erosion of respect and awareness for others reflects a deeper disconnection in our society—and what it means for the way we live, love, and coexist. Is it just nostalgia talking, or are we truly losing something vital?</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:34:36</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/3cff3eb6-335e-484a-9018-89a9c8f51e46/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Courtesy? That’s So Last Century</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 20: Love (Part 2) - Wedding Planning: The Highs and Lows]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we’re back with more on wedding planning—the unexpected joys, the challenges, and the memorable moments that make it all worth it. Tune in as we share what’s kept us grounded and excited through the journey to our big day!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">77b0c157-8ee4-4b39-b8bb-cef4190ccf7a</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Oct 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/db04b733bf20531528c886c531193487e32809adb069fb446ce10e5347516917/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzMTRhNTA0Zi0zZGY5LTQyMGEtYmI5ZC1kNDUwY2I0ODZmNDIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMzE0YTUwNGYtM2RmOS00MjBhLWJiOWQtZDQ1MGNiNDg2ZjQyL2pwUGgtTEdOIDIwIFBhcnQgMiBBdWRpbyBGaW5hbC5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="29389719" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode, we’re back with more on wedding planning—the unexpected joys, the challenges, and the memorable moments that make it all worth it. Tune in as we share what’s kept us grounded and excited through the journey to our big day!</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:30:36</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/314a504f-3df9-420a-bb9d-d450cb486f42/yehv-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Episode 20: Love (Part 2) - Wedding Planning: The Highs and Lows</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Introduction]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is the first episode of our podcast, where we introduce ourselves and what we will be discussing in the future.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8d7df16b-2459-41dd-8923-a2d2c4372822</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2024 14:52:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/85ef4282829043ab60613887d8aad5c55f1d5ec21abb674195152a467db98011/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5MjQ2OGJkZi1lYzUyLTQ5NjEtYmZiZi0wMzdhNWU4MjhlNTkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvOTI0NjhiZGYtZWM1Mi00OTYxLWJmYmYtMDM3YTVlODI4ZTU5L0NJZWYtTEdOIEVwaXNvZGUgMSDigJQgRmluYWwubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="32257602" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>This is the first episode of our podcast, where we introduce ourselves and what we will be discussing in the future.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:33:40</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/92468bdf-ec52-4961-bfbf-037a5e828e59/LKQi-img-1288-png.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Introduction</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 11: Love - Match Each Other's Interests or Efforts?]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of "Love, Growth, and Narratives," Tiffany and Freddy explore the nuanced difference between effort and interest in supporting shared tasks and each other's passions. The conversation begins with a recent discussion they had about Freddy's apparent lack of sincere effort in supporting planning tasks required for their upcoming wedding. As they delve deeper, they discuss how balancing effort and genuine interest is crucial in maintaining a strong relationship, and how understanding this balance can prevent misunderstandings and build stronger, more supportive partnerships.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a6f3fdb0-ae05-4a2b-be22-32605fe11663</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 20 Aug 2024 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/161c2f42a0e6a5b419697be784461df18edcd5f534356228f48aaf9ef864a8a4/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyYTEwMTMwNC00Y2QxLTQ5OWUtOTUyZS1mZjU2MTIzMTFlMDciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMmExMDEzMDQtNGNkMS00OTllLTk1MmUtZmY1NjEyMzExZTA3L3lPaVEtTEdOIDExIExvdmUgRmluYWwubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="29581335" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of &quot;Love, Growth, and Narratives,&quot; Tiffany and Freddy explore the nuanced difference between effort and interest in supporting shared tasks and each other&apos;s passions. The conversation begins with a recent discussion they had about Freddy&apos;s apparent lack of sincere effort in supporting planning tasks required for their upcoming wedding. As they delve deeper, they discuss how balancing effort and genuine interest is crucial in maintaining a strong relationship, and how understanding this balance can prevent misunderstandings and build stronger, more supportive partnerships.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:30:48</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/2a101304-4cd1-499e-952e-ff5612311e07/JvsS-img-1429-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 11: Love - Match Each Other&apos;s Interests or Efforts?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 13: Narratives - Is College Worth It In 2024?]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the 13th episode of “Love, Growth, and Narratives,” Tiffany and Freddy delve into the question, “Is college worth it in 2024?” by reflecting on their own educational and professional journeys. Tiffany shares her experiences as a college graduate, while Freddy recounts his time in the Army as an alternative path to success. The episode explores the evolving value of higher education, the impact of student debt, and the diverse routes available to achieving personal and professional fulfillment in today’s world. Their candid discussion provides listeners with a balanced perspective on the merits and challenges of pursuing a college degree in the current era.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1a1f7a0f-bc75-474a-b2d3-db89319400db</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2024 13:37:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/50db365c49c9dc419e3af8347259293376fd75e7c79005affa8432824d893be0/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1MDEyNjVhOS03NzgwLTRlMTYtYWMxMS1jYzdhOWVhZmFmM2IiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvNTAxMjY1YTktNzc4MC00ZTE2LWFjMTEtY2M3YTllYWZhZjNiL3h0cU8tTEdOIDEzIE5hcnJhdGl2ZXMgLSBDb2xsZWdlcyBGaW5hbC5tNGEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="35651360" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In the 13th episode of “Love, Growth, and Narratives,” Tiffany and Freddy delve into the question, “Is college worth it in 2024?” by reflecting on their own educational and professional journeys. Tiffany shares her experiences as a college graduate, while Freddy recounts his time in the Army as an alternative path to success. The episode explores the evolving value of higher education, the impact of student debt, and the diverse routes available to achieving personal and professional fulfillment in today’s world. Their candid discussion provides listeners with a balanced perspective on the merits and challenges of pursuing a college degree in the current era.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:37:13</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/501265a9-7780-4e16-ac11-cc7a9eafaf3b/gphH-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 13: Narratives - Is College Worth It In 2024?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Episode 16: Narratives - Bridging the Divide: Listening Beyond the Noise in America’s Conversations]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the 16th episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy tackle the challenging topic of division in America. They emphasize the importance of listening to one another and engaging in good-faith conversations on the hot-button issues that often divide us. In a world where extreme and loud voices can dominate the conversation, Tiffany and Freddy remind us that those voices don’t necessarily represent the other side. This episode calls for empathy, open-mindedness, and meaningful dialogue as ways to bridge the divides and foster mutual understanding.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">20f7d25c-e707-47bc-988c-bd95d9704c22</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Sep 2024 13:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/2168c465a8dce87e3a3a5561c1f5596fdec79464f84a852f9088d88abe6931ef/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyZmQ4MzY5Ny1kOWE2LTQ3NjEtOTA1Yi02M2UwMDBmY2QyM2EiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMmZkODM2OTctZDlhNi00NzYxLTkwNWItNjNlMDAwZmNkMjNhL0dST2MtTEdOIDE2IE5hcnJhdGl2ZXMgRmluYWwubTRhLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="35770060" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In the 16th episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, Tiffany and Freddy tackle the challenging topic of division in America. They emphasize the importance of listening to one another and engaging in good-faith conversations on the hot-button issues that often divide us. In a world where extreme and loud voices can dominate the conversation, Tiffany and Freddy remind us that those voices don’t necessarily represent the other side. This episode calls for empathy, open-mindedness, and meaningful dialogue as ways to bridge the divides and foster mutual understanding.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:37:20</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/2fd83697-d9a6-4761-905b-63e000fcd23a/BiQu-img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Episode 16: Narratives - Bridging the Divide: Listening Beyond the Noise in America’s Conversations</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[LGN 25: Growth - Pulling Back to Push Forward: Protecting Yourself While Pursuing Growth]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we delve into the critical act of stepping back to preserve your mental, physical, and emotional well-being. While striving to create change, help others, or ensure fairness, the personal toll can become overwhelming—especially when progress feels out of reach. Join us as we explore how to recognize when the cost of your efforts is too high and why sometimes taking a step back is the best move forward.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9f5d4608-aa1e-49b1-bbdd-1e0f0b5f726f</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2024 14:20:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/5c5c9cb4a5b7763673a43787288c5f0c891c9da7eda624707eec77f102f37c2f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlOGVkMGY4ZS1kN2M0LTQxYzctYWM4Ny1kNzljMmFjYWE2NjQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvZThlZDBmOGUtZDdjNC00MWM3LWFjODctZDc5YzJhY2FhNjY0L0xHTiAyNSBmaW5hbCBhdWRpby5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="29954583" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this episode of Love, Growth, and Narratives, we delve into the critical act of stepping back to preserve your mental, physical, and emotional well-being. While striving to create change, help others, or ensure fairness, the personal toll can become overwhelming—especially when progress feels out of reach. Join us as we explore how to recognize when the cost of your efforts is too high and why sometimes taking a step back is the best move forward.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:31:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/e8ed0f8e-d7c4-41c7-ac87-d79c2acaa664/img-1444-jpeg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><itunes:title>LGN 25: Growth - Pulling Back to Push Forward: Protecting Yourself While Pursuing Growth</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Breaking the Grind… and Suddenly We’re Old]]></title><description><![CDATA[We used to laugh at older folks complaining about sore backs, forgetting things, and needing reading glasses—but now, as aging Gen Xers, we’re becoming them. In this episode, we talk about the strange experience of feeling young in our minds while our bodies start showing signs of wear, and how society is beginning to treat us like the “older generation.” From creaky joints to mental fog, we’re facing the reality of aging and all the surprises that come with it. We also reflect on unlearning one of the biggest lessons passed down by our Baby Boomer parents—the relentless grind. They worked hard out of necessity, shaped by struggles we didn’t have, yet we were raised to grind just as hard, even if it wasn’t always needed. Now, we’re asking if there’s a better, healthier way to approach this next phase of life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3bb38877-eb56-4870-9ffa-5a2223c23e67</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2025 14:06:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/18a28df7193669beb51ff64110e762066f223a6bee8a8dd5178da8cd414be81a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyZjg0ZWI5Yi05YzhhLTQ1MGEtYWY3NC1jNjU4YmE5NjI0YzUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMmY4NGViOWItOWM4YS00NTBhLWFmNzQtYzY1OGJhOTYyNGM1L0xHTiAzNiBHZW4gWCBQYXJ0IDIgKEF1ZGlvKS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="37320855" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>We used to laugh at older folks complaining about sore backs, forgetting things, and needing reading glasses—but now, as aging Gen Xers, we’re becoming them. In this episode, we talk about the strange experience of feeling young in our minds while our bodies start showing signs of wear, and how society is beginning to treat us like the “older generation.” From creaky joints to mental fog, we’re facing the reality of aging and all the surprises that come with it. We also reflect on unlearning one of the biggest lessons passed down by our Baby Boomer parents—the relentless grind. They worked hard out of necessity, shaped by struggles we didn’t have, yet we were raised to grind just as hard, even if it wasn’t always needed. Now, we’re asking if there’s a better, healthier way to approach this next phase of life.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:52</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/fdd2695c-23e5-4584-a0ef-d03445619ed4/episodes/2f84eb9b-9c8a-450a-af74-c658ba9624c5/img-1444-jpg.jpeg"/><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Breaking the Grind… and Suddenly We’re Old</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Real Conversation About Guns in America]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this candid and deeply personal speech, Fredrick explores the heated debate between gun control advocates and Second Amendment supporters—not to take sides, but to build a bridge. Drawing from his own evolution on the issue, he breaks down the real fears, flawed assumptions, and overlooked truths on both sides. From the emotional reactions after mass shootings to the everyday realities of self-defense, this talk challenges listeners to set aside the rhetoric, acknowledge each other’s concerns, and engage in a more honest, empathetic conversation. Because when it comes to safety, we’re not as far apart as we think.

https://datavisualizations.heritage.org/firearms/defensive-gun-uses-in-the-us/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e36ab56a-6392-420e-9213-5a9a7835d07e</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tiffany and Fredrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2025 14:43:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/711b37291a98919cb4fc4609055d330b09937a5dcd83330cb643b415ef6b7bae/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyMTg4N2I5ZS00YzMxLTQwNTEtOTMzYy0wOWE0MzA4MWI5NmIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJmZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTdkMjEyODAyNjAwNDNhNTYzM2IyYjEiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy9mZGQyNjk1Yy0yM2U1LTQ1ODQtYTBlZi1kMDM0NDU2MTllZDQvZXBpc29kZXMvMjE4ODdiOWUtNGMzMS00MDUxLTkzM2MtMDlhNDMwODFiOTZiL3RoZSBHdW4gRGViYXRlIChhdWRpbykubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="8290839" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>In this candid and deeply personal speech, Fredrick explores the heated debate between gun control advocates and Second Amendment supporters—not to take sides, but to build a bridge. Drawing from his own evolution on the issue, he breaks down the real fears, flawed assumptions, and overlooked truths on both sides. From the emotional reactions after mass shootings to the everyday realities of self-defense, this talk challenges listeners to set aside the rhetoric, acknowledge each other’s concerns, and engage in a more honest, empathetic conversation. Because when it comes to safety, we’re not as far apart as we think.

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