<![CDATA[Thriving with DBT]]>What does it actually look like to learn Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills? In Thriving With DBT, TheraHive takes you behind the closed doors of 1-on-1 coaching sessions.

Each season, we follow one real student as they navigate a full module of the TheraHive Adult DBT Skills program. Hosted by Dr. Alicia Smart and Dr. Jesse Finkelstein, these episodes provide a rare, fly-on-the-wall look at the hard work, "aha" moments, and practical applications of DBT skills in real-time. Whether we’re exploring the foundations of Mindfulness or the nuances of Interpersonal Effectiveness, you’ll see the human side of behavioral change.

Join us as our students move from feeling stuck to thriving, one skill at a time.

]]>https://www.therahive.com/Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Thu, 30 Jul 2026 22:04:49 GMTWed, 15 Apr 2026 17:28:34 GMT60TheraHive<p>What does it <i>actually</i> look like to learn Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills? In <b>Thriving With DBT</b>, TheraHive takes you behind the closed doors of 1-on-1 coaching sessions.<br /></p><p>Each season, we follow one real student as they navigate a full module of the TheraHive Adult DBT Skills program. Hosted by <b>Dr. Alicia Smart</b> and <b>Dr. Jesse Finkelstein</b>, these episodes provide a rare, fly-on-the-wall look at the hard work, "aha" moments, and practical applications of DBT skills in real-time. Whether we’re exploring the foundations of Mindfulness or the nuances of Interpersonal Effectiveness, you’ll see the human side of behavioral change.<br /></p><p>Join us as our students move from feeling stuck to thriving, one skill at a time.</p>serialTheraHivehelp@therahive.comno<![CDATA[Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 6]]>Dr. Alicia Smart begins the conversation with a mindfulness exercise and focuses on gratitude. The discussion then transitions to behaviorism and reinforcement, where Edward shares his positive reinforcement strategy for calm and direct communication during stressful situations. The conversation explores measuring effectiveness, unintended consequences, role play, and troubleshooting interpersonal effectiveness. It concludes with a discussion on expressing needs and self-doubt. The conversation delves into the impact of invalidation on emotional vulnerability, the challenge of seeking help and support, the toll of compromising in a relationship, the long-term impact of dysregulation, the need for self-validation and self-care, the incompatibility of communication styles, the impact of invalidation on sharing and vulnerability, the role of emotional vulnerability in relationships, troubleshooting interpersonal effectiveness, improvement and practice in interpersonal effectiveness, and reflection and acknowledgment of personal growth.

Takeaways

  • Mindfulness and gratitude can positively impact emotional well-being.
  • Positive reinforcement and effective communication strategies can improve interpersonal interactions. Invalidation can have a significant impact on emotional vulnerability and well-being.
  • Self-validation and self-care are essential in navigating challenging relationships and seeking support.
  • Improvement in interpersonal effectiveness requires practice and reflection.

Chapters

  • 00:00 Mindfulness and Gratitude
  • 04:49 Behaviorism and Reinforcement
  • 08:00 Positive Reinforcement Strategy
  • 11:01 Measuring Effectiveness and Unintended Consequences
  • 16:09 Role Play and Troubleshooting
  • 22:23 Expressing Needs and Self-Doubt
  • 27:13 Invalidation and Emotional Vulnerability
  • 28:12 The Impact of Invalidation on Emotional State
  • 30:01 The Challenge of Seeking Help and Support
  • 31:15 The Toll of Compromising in a Relationship
  • 32:26 The Long-Term Impact of Dysregulation
  • 34:22 The Need for Self-Validation and Self-Care
  • 35:15 The Incompatibility of Communication Styles
  • 36:43 The Impact of Invalidation on Sharing and Vulnerability
  • 39:09 The Role of Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships
  • 47:06 Troubleshooting Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • 49:27 Improvement and Practice in Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • 52:40 Reflection and Acknowledgment of Personal Growth
]]>71d2fd35-d431-46d1-9793-eef2e2d72735Mon, 27 Jul 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Dr. Alicia Smart begins the conversation with a mindfulness exercise and focuses on gratitude. The discussion then transitions to behaviorism and reinforcement, where Edward shares his positive reinforcement strategy for calm and direct communication during stressful situations. The conversation explores measuring effectiveness, unintended consequences, role play, and troubleshooting interpersonal effectiveness. It concludes with a discussion on expressing needs and self-doubt. The conversation delves into the impact of invalidation on emotional vulnerability, the challenge of seeking help and support, the toll of compromising in a relationship, the long-term impact of dysregulation, the need for self-validation and self-care, the incompatibility of communication styles, the impact of invalidation on sharing and vulnerability, the role of emotional vulnerability in relationships, troubleshooting interpersonal effectiveness, improvement and practice in interpersonal effectiveness, and reflection and acknowledgment of personal growth.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Mindfulness and gratitude can positively impact emotional well-being.</li><li>Positive reinforcement and effective communication strategies can improve interpersonal interactions. Invalidation can have a significant impact on emotional vulnerability and well-being.</li><li>Self-validation and self-care are essential in navigating challenging relationships and seeking support.</li><li>Improvement in interpersonal effectiveness requires practice and reflection.</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Mindfulness and Gratitude</li><li>04:49 Behaviorism and Reinforcement</li><li>08:00 Positive Reinforcement Strategy</li><li>11:01 Measuring Effectiveness and Unintended Consequences</li><li>16:09 Role Play and Troubleshooting</li><li>22:23 Expressing Needs and Self-Doubt</li><li>27:13 Invalidation and Emotional Vulnerability</li><li>28:12 The Impact of Invalidation on Emotional State</li><li>30:01 The Challenge of Seeking Help and Support</li><li>31:15 The Toll of Compromising in a Relationship</li><li>32:26 The Long-Term Impact of Dysregulation</li><li>34:22 The Need for Self-Validation and Self-Care</li><li>35:15 The Incompatibility of Communication Styles</li><li>36:43 The Impact of Invalidation on Sharing and Vulnerability</li><li>39:09 The Role of Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships</li><li>47:06 Troubleshooting Interpersonal Effectiveness</li><li>49:27 Improvement and Practice in Interpersonal Effectiveness</li><li>52:40 Reflection and Acknowledgment of Personal Growth</li></ul>no00:54:3526Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 6full<![CDATA[Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 5]]>The conversation begins with a mindfulness exercise and transitions into a discussion about dialectics in DBT. It explores the application of dialectics in practice, the role of distress tolerance and the middle path, and the concept of acceptance and change within dialectics. The conversation delves into the practice of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and its impact on interpersonal relationships, emotional regulation, and self-perception. It explores the art of compromise, the role of self-respect in communication, the concept of dialectics, non-dialectical communication patterns, emotional vulnerability, compassion, non-dialectical self-talk, and the power of dialectics in resolving conflicts and fostering connection.

Takeaways

  • Mindfulness and dialectics are interconnected practices for managing interpersonal effectiveness.
  • Dialectics in DBT involve understanding and applying the concept of accepting two seemingly opposite truths simultaneously. The importance of compromise in communication
  • The impact of dialectics on emotional regulation and interpersonal relationships

Chapters

  • 00:00 Mindfulness and Dialectics
  • 06:18 Understanding Dialectics in DBT
  • 09:31 Applying Dialectics in Practice
  • 13:26 Distress Tolerance and Middle Path
  • 19:29 Acceptance and Change in Dialectics
  • 22:42 The Art of Compromise
  • 23:13 Self-Respect and Apology
  • 24:10 Understanding Dialectics
  • 25:33 Non-Dialectical Communication
  • 27:39 Emotional Vulnerability and Misunderstanding
  • 30:02 Compassion and Connection
  • 40:50 Non-Dialectical Self-Talk
  • 45:04 The Power of Dialectics
]]>de03e633-5844-44a2-9d5f-78f8fcbfc6d6Mon, 20 Jul 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>The conversation begins with a mindfulness exercise and transitions into a discussion about dialectics in DBT. It explores the application of dialectics in practice, the role of distress tolerance and the middle path, and the concept of acceptance and change within dialectics. The conversation delves into the practice of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and its impact on interpersonal relationships, emotional regulation, and self-perception. It explores the art of compromise, the role of self-respect in communication, the concept of dialectics, non-dialectical communication patterns, emotional vulnerability, compassion, non-dialectical self-talk, and the power of dialectics in resolving conflicts and fostering connection.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Mindfulness and dialectics are interconnected practices for managing interpersonal effectiveness.</li><li>Dialectics in DBT involve understanding and applying the concept of accepting two seemingly opposite truths simultaneously. The importance of compromise in communication</li><li>The impact of dialectics on emotional regulation and interpersonal relationships</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Mindfulness and Dialectics</li><li>06:18 Understanding Dialectics in DBT</li><li>09:31 Applying Dialectics in Practice</li><li>13:26 Distress Tolerance and Middle Path</li><li>19:29 Acceptance and Change in Dialectics</li><li>22:42 The Art of Compromise</li><li>23:13 Self-Respect and Apology</li><li>24:10 Understanding Dialectics</li><li>25:33 Non-Dialectical Communication</li><li>27:39 Emotional Vulnerability and Misunderstanding</li><li>30:02 Compassion and Connection</li><li>40:50 Non-Dialectical Self-Talk</li><li>45:04 The Power of Dialectics</li></ul>no00:49:0325Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 5full<![CDATA[Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 4]]>The conversation begins with a mindfulness exercise and self-reflection, leading into an exploration of interpersonal interactions. The FAST skill for self-respect effectiveness is introduced, followed by its application in work scenarios. The discussion delves into struggles with the FAST skill, the impact of apologizing unnecessarily, and concludes with a reflection on personal struggles and improvement. The conversation explores the use of the Dime Game as a tool for clarity in interpersonal communication. It delves into personal scenarios, analysis of Dime Game results, challenges and growth with assertiveness, and the reconciliation of personal struggles. The discussion concludes with closing thoughts and takeaways for the listeners.

Takeaways

  • Mindfulness and self-reflection are essential for exploring interpersonal effectiveness.
  • The FAST skill, particularly self-respect effectiveness, requires a balance between being fair to oneself and others, avoiding unnecessary apologies, and sticking to personal values. The Dime Game provides clarity in interpersonal communication.
  • Assertiveness and self-respect skills are essential for maintaining healthy relationships.

Chapters

  • 00:00 Mindfulness and Self-Reflection
  • 05:20 Exploring Interpersonal Interactions
  • 08:19 FAST Skill: Self-Respect Effectiveness
  • 11:13 Application of FAST Skill in Work Scenarios
  • 19:10 Struggles with FAST Skill and Self-Respect
  • 21:25 Impact of Apologizing Unnecessarily
  • 22:28 Reflection on Personal Struggles and Improvement
  • 23:28 The Dime Game: A Tool for Clarity
  • 28:18 Using the Dime Game in a Personal Scenario
  • 32:08 Analyzing the Dime Game Results
  • 36:12 Challenges and Growth with the Dime Game
  • 39:56 Reconciling Personal Struggles with Assertiveness
  • 42:47 Closing Thoughts and Takeaways
]]>4d132474-a8e1-48af-9660-db732a27f8ebMon, 13 Jul 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>The conversation begins with a mindfulness exercise and self-reflection, leading into an exploration of interpersonal interactions. The FAST skill for self-respect effectiveness is introduced, followed by its application in work scenarios. The discussion delves into struggles with the FAST skill, the impact of apologizing unnecessarily, and concludes with a reflection on personal struggles and improvement. The conversation explores the use of the Dime Game as a tool for clarity in interpersonal communication. It delves into personal scenarios, analysis of Dime Game results, challenges and growth with assertiveness, and the reconciliation of personal struggles. The discussion concludes with closing thoughts and takeaways for the listeners.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Mindfulness and self-reflection are essential for exploring interpersonal effectiveness.</li><li>The FAST skill, particularly self-respect effectiveness, requires a balance between being fair to oneself and others, avoiding unnecessary apologies, and sticking to personal values. The Dime Game provides clarity in interpersonal communication.</li><li>Assertiveness and self-respect skills are essential for maintaining healthy relationships.</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Mindfulness and Self-Reflection</li><li>05:20 Exploring Interpersonal Interactions</li><li>08:19 FAST Skill: Self-Respect Effectiveness</li><li>11:13 Application of FAST Skill in Work Scenarios</li><li>19:10 Struggles with FAST Skill and Self-Respect</li><li>21:25 Impact of Apologizing Unnecessarily</li><li>22:28 Reflection on Personal Struggles and Improvement</li><li>23:28 The Dime Game: A Tool for Clarity</li><li>28:18 Using the Dime Game in a Personal Scenario</li><li>32:08 Analyzing the Dime Game Results</li><li>36:12 Challenges and Growth with the Dime Game</li><li>39:56 Reconciling Personal Struggles with Assertiveness</li><li>42:47 Closing Thoughts and Takeaways</li></ul>no00:43:4924Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 4full<![CDATA[Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 3]]>The conversation delves into the GIVE skill in interpersonal effectiveness, emphasizing the importance of validation and self-validation. It explores the impact of invalidation and the challenges of self-validation, highlighting the need for compassionate understanding and acceptance of one's emotions.

Takeaways

  • The GIVE skill is a powerful tool for effective communication and relationship building.
  • Validation and self-validation play a crucial role in emotional well-being and interpersonal dynamics.

Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction to Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • 05:50 Applying the GIVE Skill in Challenging Conversations
  • 13:30 The Power of Validation in Relationships
  • 20:20 Understanding Validation and Recovering from Invalidation
  • 30:52 Self-Validation and Recovering from Invalidation
  • 38:27 Challenges with Self-Validation and Seeking Help
]]>8cd8f21d-5cc6-42db-a6a8-c078faa0359dMon, 06 Jul 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the GIVE skill in interpersonal effectiveness, emphasizing the importance of validation and self-validation. It explores the impact of invalidation and the challenges of self-validation, highlighting the need for compassionate understanding and acceptance of one's emotions.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>The GIVE skill is a powerful tool for effective communication and relationship building.</li><li>Validation and self-validation play a crucial role in emotional well-being and interpersonal dynamics.</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Interpersonal Effectiveness</li><li>05:50 Applying the GIVE Skill in Challenging Conversations</li><li>13:30 The Power of Validation in Relationships</li><li>20:20 Understanding Validation and Recovering from Invalidation</li><li>30:52 Self-Validation and Recovering from Invalidation</li><li>38:27 Challenges with Self-Validation and Seeking Help</li></ul>no00:43:1223Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 3full<![CDATA[Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 2]]>The conversation begins with a mindfulness exercise and reflection, leading to the introduction of the Dear Man skill for interpersonal effectiveness. The discussion progresses to the preparation for using the Dear Man skill, followed by a breakdown of the skill's components: Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Appear Confident, and Negotiate. The conversation concludes with a deep dive into the challenges of assertiveness and the impact on personal and professional interactions. Edward and Dr. Alicia Smart discuss the fear of making requests, the outcome of the Dear Man conversation, reflections on the Dear Man technique, and conclude with acknowledgment and gratitude, transitioning to week 3 of interpersonal effectiveness.

Takeaways

  • Mindfulness can aid in preparing for tough conversations by setting clear intentions and goals.
  • The Dear Man skill involves specific steps for effective communication, including describing the situation, expressing feelings, making clear requests, providing reinforcement, maintaining confidence, and negotiating. The impact of past experiences on making requests
  • The importance of structure in communication

Chapters

  • 00:00 Mindfulness and Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • 05:01 Introduction to Dear Man Skill
  • 14:47 Describe and Express
  • 20:38 Appear Confident and Negotiate
  • 26:32 Overcoming the Fear of Making Requests
  • 36:26 Reflections on the Dear Man Technique
  • 48:39 Conclusion and Next Steps
]]>26be8258-e651-41e1-aad6-0b61d0886125Mon, 29 Jun 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>The conversation begins with a mindfulness exercise and reflection, leading to the introduction of the Dear Man skill for interpersonal effectiveness. The discussion progresses to the preparation for using the Dear Man skill, followed by a breakdown of the skill's components: Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Appear Confident, and Negotiate. The conversation concludes with a deep dive into the challenges of assertiveness and the impact on personal and professional interactions. Edward and Dr. Alicia Smart discuss the fear of making requests, the outcome of the Dear Man conversation, reflections on the Dear Man technique, and conclude with acknowledgment and gratitude, transitioning to week 3 of interpersonal effectiveness.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Mindfulness can aid in preparing for tough conversations by setting clear intentions and goals.</li><li>The Dear Man skill involves specific steps for effective communication, including describing the situation, expressing feelings, making clear requests, providing reinforcement, maintaining confidence, and negotiating. The impact of past experiences on making requests</li><li>The importance of structure in communication</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Mindfulness and Interpersonal Effectiveness</li><li>05:01 Introduction to Dear Man Skill</li><li>14:47 Describe and Express</li><li>20:38 Appear Confident and Negotiate</li><li>26:32 Overcoming the Fear of Making Requests</li><li>36:26 Reflections on the Dear Man Technique</li><li>48:39 Conclusion and Next Steps</li></ul>no00:48:4622Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 2full<![CDATA[Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 1]]>Conflict avoidance feels safe until it starts costing you. In Week 1 of the Interpersonal Effectiveness module, Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward discuss the hidden barriers to genuine connection, including communication myths and the pull toward people-pleasing. Together, they dive into one of the hardest parts of relating to others: balancing your goals, your relationships, and your self-respect without letting any of them collapse.

Takeaways

  • Myths and Belief Systems Around Communication
  • Balancing Objectives, Relationships, and Self-Respect
  • Assertiveness vs. Conflict Avoidance
  • Negotiation and Asking for Help
  • Mental Health Stigma in Interpersonal Contexts
  • Prioritizing Relationship Stability

Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction to Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • 05:31 SMART Goal for Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • 23:11 Challenges in Interpersonal Communication
  • 29:02 Overcoming Self-Reliance and Seeking Help
  • 35:31 Balancing Objectives, Relationships, and Self-Respect
  • 42:33 Conflict Avoidance and Assertiveness
  • 48:08 Prioritizing Relationship Stability
]]>0a79ba3c-7726-4b68-8c05-05dcf0831a4eMon, 22 Jun 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Conflict avoidance feels safe until it starts costing you. In Week 1 of the Interpersonal Effectiveness module, Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward discuss the hidden barriers to genuine connection, including communication myths and the pull toward people-pleasing. Together, they dive into one of the hardest parts of relating to others: balancing your goals, your relationships, and your self-respect without letting any of them collapse.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Myths and Belief Systems Around Communication</li><li>Balancing Objectives, Relationships, and Self-Respect</li><li>Assertiveness vs. Conflict Avoidance</li><li>Negotiation and Asking for Help</li><li>Mental Health Stigma in Interpersonal Contexts</li><li>Prioritizing Relationship Stability</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Interpersonal Effectiveness</li><li>05:31 SMART Goal for Interpersonal Effectiveness</li><li>23:11 Challenges in Interpersonal Communication</li><li>29:02 Overcoming Self-Reliance and Seeking Help</li><li>35:31 Balancing Objectives, Relationships, and Self-Respect</li><li>42:33 Conflict Avoidance and Assertiveness</li><li>48:08 Prioritizing Relationship Stability</li></ul>no00:49:2821Interpersonal Effectiveness Week 1full<![CDATA[Emotion Regulation Week 6]]>Emotion regulation doesn't start with feelings. It starts with sleep and the other daily habits that set your emotional baseline. Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward finish the Emotion Regulation module by unpacking the PLEASE skill, mindfulness practices, coping ahead, and the role of acceptance in managing anxiety. Edward gets candid about his real-world experience with each skill including how anxiety disrupts sleep and how acceptance can help shift the way we manage it.

Takeaways

  • The PLEASE Skill and Emotional Vulnerability
  • Sleep Hygiene and Individual Sleep Needs
  • Mood-Altering Substances and Emotion Mind
  • Coping Ahead for Anxiety
  • Distress Tolerance and Emotional Well-Being


Chapters

  • 00:00 Mindfulness and Emotion Awareness
  • 07:14 Reducing Vulnerability to Emotion Mind
  • 13:23 Avoiding Mood Altering Substances
  • 23:19 Understanding Sleep Patterns
  • 29:13 Managing Anxiety and Sleep
  • 39:04 Acceptance and Coping Ahead
]]>8f727ba5-4da8-4ede-94ea-4530a562554dMon, 15 Jun 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Emotion regulation doesn't start with feelings. It starts with sleep and the other daily habits that set your emotional baseline. Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward finish the Emotion Regulation module by unpacking the PLEASE skill, mindfulness practices, coping ahead, and the role of acceptance in managing anxiety. Edward gets candid about his real-world experience with each skill including how anxiety disrupts sleep and how acceptance can help shift the way we manage it.</p><p></p><p><b>Takeaways</b></p><ul><li>The PLEASE Skill and Emotional Vulnerability</li><li>Sleep Hygiene and Individual Sleep Needs</li><li>Mood-Altering Substances and Emotion Mind</li><li>Coping Ahead for Anxiety</li><li>Distress Tolerance and Emotional Well-Being</li></ul><p><br /><b>Chapters</b></p><ul><li>00:00 Mindfulness and Emotion Awareness</li><li>07:14 Reducing Vulnerability to Emotion Mind</li><li>13:23 Avoiding Mood Altering Substances</li><li>23:19 Understanding Sleep Patterns</li><li>29:13 Managing Anxiety and Sleep</li><li>39:04 Acceptance and Coping Ahead</li></ul>no00:50:4716Emotion Regulation Week 6full<![CDATA[Emotion Regulation Week 5]]>If anxiety or fear show up when you need to speak honestly, this one is for you. Feeling emotionally reactive in high-pressure moments is something most people experience yet few have a concrete plan for. Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward explore how DBT skills like Building Mastery and Cope Ahead can help you prepare for difficult situations before they happen. They walk through practical tools for regulating your emotions and showing up with more confidence, especially when giving feedback feels scary.

Takeaways

  • Building Mastery and Resilience
  • Internal vs. External Safety
  • Mindfulness and the Skill of the Pause
  • Cope Ahead Planning
  • Emotional Triggers and Feedback
  • Self-Encouragement
  • Emotion Mind Vulnerability

Chapters

  • 00:00 Mindfulness and Posture
  • 05:33 Building Mastery and Accomplishment
  • 12:37 Internal and External Safety
  • 18:32 The Skill of the Pause and Mindfulness
  • 24:22 Challenges with Giving Feedback
  • 31:23 Cope Ahead Home Practice
  • 41:01 Building Mastery and Resilience
]]>5a07ebc4-5572-45f7-8c8e-d9241390c212Mon, 08 Jun 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>If anxiety or fear show up when you need to speak honestly, this one is for you. Feeling emotionally reactive in high-pressure moments is something most people experience yet few have a concrete plan for. Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward explore how DBT skills like Building Mastery and Cope Ahead can help you prepare for difficult situations before they happen. They walk through practical tools for regulating your emotions and showing up with more confidence, especially when giving feedback feels scary.</p><p></p><p><b>Takeaways</b></p><ul><li>Building Mastery and Resilience</li><li>Internal vs. External Safety</li><li>Mindfulness and the Skill of the Pause</li><li>Cope Ahead Planning</li><li>Emotional Triggers and Feedback</li><li>Self-Encouragement</li><li>Emotion Mind Vulnerability<br /></li></ul><p><b>Chapters</b></p><ul><li>00:00 Mindfulness and Posture</li><li>05:33 Building Mastery and Accomplishment</li><li>12:37 Internal and External Safety</li><li>18:32 The Skill of the Pause and Mindfulness</li><li>24:22 Challenges with Giving Feedback</li><li>31:23 Cope Ahead Home Practice</li><li>41:01 Building Mastery and Resilience</li></ul>no00:42:5215Emotion Regulation Week 5full<![CDATA[Emotion Regulation Week 4]]>Worry has a way of stealing the moments that are supposed to feel good. Edward gets candid about the struggle to be present, the weight of constant worry, and spreading yourself too thin. From mindfulness practices to the role of pleasant events in mood regulation, this conversation offers a grounded look at building resilience from the inside out.

Takeaways

  • Mindfulness as a Mood Regulation Tool
  • The Anxiety Cycle
  • Being Present Despite Resistance
  • Living in Alignment with Values
  • The Hidden Cost of Giving Too Much

Chapters

  • 00:00 Identifying Values and Goals
  • 05:47 Short-Term Positive Events
  • 12:09 Mindfulness in Pleasant Events
  • 18:01 Challenges in Letting Go of Worries
  • 25:22 Struggling to Be Present
  • 35:01 Living in Alignment with Values
  • 42:04 Overextending in Service
]]>02b9eb39-6cfd-4d5d-a7f5-163be11652e8Mon, 01 Jun 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Worry has a way of stealing the moments that are supposed to feel good. Edward gets candid about the struggle to be present, the weight of constant worry, and spreading yourself too thin. From mindfulness practices to the role of pleasant events in mood regulation, this conversation offers a grounded look at building resilience from the inside out.</p><p></p><p><b>Takeaways</b></p><ul><li>Mindfulness as a Mood Regulation Tool</li><li>The Anxiety Cycle</li><li>Being Present Despite Resistance</li><li>Living in Alignment with Values</li><li>The Hidden Cost of Giving Too Much</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Identifying Values and Goals</li><li>05:47 Short-Term Positive Events</li><li>12:09 Mindfulness in Pleasant Events</li><li>18:01 Challenges in Letting Go of Worries</li><li>25:22 Struggling to Be Present</li><li>35:01 Living in Alignment with Values</li><li>42:04 Overextending in Service</li></ul>no00:55:0414Emotion Regulation Week 4full<![CDATA[Thriving with DBT Teaser]]>Ever wondered what actually happens inside a DBT program? Join expert therapists Dr. Alicia Smart and Dr. Jesse Finkelstein in "Thriving with DBT." In each episode, they conduct real one-on-one coaching sessions with students from TheraHive’s group program. Gain a rare, behind-the-scenes look at how Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills are practiced, where people often get stuck, and how to master the tools needed to regulate emotions and build a life worth living.

]]>72239e57-3b3c-41f3-ba87-6d2c9b8224feTue, 12 May 2026 17:07:03 GMT<p>Ever wondered what actually happens inside a DBT program? Join expert therapists Dr. Alicia Smart and Dr. Jesse Finkelstein in "Thriving with DBT." In each episode, they conduct real one-on-one coaching sessions with students from TheraHive’s group program. Gain a rare, behind-the-scenes look at how Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills are practiced, where people often get stuck, and how to master the tools needed to regulate emotions and build a life worth living.</p>no00:01:321Thriving with DBT Teasertrailer<![CDATA[Emotion Regulation Week 3]]>Anger can be one of the hardest emotions to sit with, especially when it feels completely justified. Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward dig into two powerful DBT skills, Opposite Action and Problem Solving, and what it actually looks like to use them when emotions are running high. From navigating real-life anger to applying mindfulness in everyday moments, this conversation offers a practical and grounded look at how to stay regulated without suppressing what you feel.

Takeaways

  • Opposite Action and When to Use It
  • Problem Solving as a DBT Skill
  • Navigating Justified Anger
  • Managing Sadness

Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Regulation
  • 05:19 Skills for Emotional Regulation
  • 12:31 Home Practice for Opposite Action
  • 20:55 Problem Solving and Emotional Justification
  • 29:25 Managing Anger and Emotions
  • 45:03 Opposite Action to Sadness
]]>058a41b8-89c3-4639-a31f-9ecebaf8fc7bMon, 25 May 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Anger can be one of the hardest emotions to sit with, especially when it feels completely justified. Dr. Alicia Smart and Edward dig into two powerful DBT skills, Opposite Action and Problem Solving, and what it actually looks like to use them when emotions are running high. From navigating real-life anger to applying mindfulness in everyday moments, this conversation offers a practical and grounded look at how to stay regulated without suppressing what you feel.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Opposite Action and When to Use It</li><li>Problem Solving as a DBT Skill</li><li>Navigating Justified Anger</li><li>Managing Sadness</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Emotional Regulation</li><li>05:19 Skills for Emotional Regulation</li><li>12:31 Home Practice for Opposite Action</li><li>20:55 Problem Solving and Emotional Justification</li><li>29:25 Managing Anger and Emotions</li><li>45:03 Opposite Action to Sadness</li></ul>no00:55:2613Emotion Regulation Week 3full<![CDATA[Emotion Regulation Week 2]]>Catastrophic thinking can feel convincing until you examine it closely. This episode dives into the DBT skill "Check the Facts" as a practical way to untangle cognitive distortions and the anticipatory anxiety that comes with uncertainty. The conversation also explores building an emotional dictionary, processing sadness, and practicing radical acceptance when the pain is still fresh.

Takeaways

  • Observing and Describing Emotions
  • Building an Emotional Dictionary
  • Check the Facts and Cognitive Distortions
  • Catastrophic Thinking and Anticipatory Anxiety
  • Sadness, Grief, and Radical Acceptance

Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction to Emotion Regulation
  • 06:19 Observing and Describing Emotions
  • 13:49 Understanding Anger
  • 20:15 Exploring Happiness
  • 26:58 Building an Emotional Dictionary
  • 36:00 Anxiety and Anticipatory Thoughts
  • 44:38 Radical Acceptance and Emotion Regulation
  • 51:02 Applying DBT Skills in Everyday Life
  • 56:23 Changing How We Feel
]]>3c3f7d9c-f82c-46a1-8062-ab5bda3ada93Mon, 18 May 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Catastrophic thinking can feel convincing until you examine it closely. This episode dives into the DBT skill "Check the Facts" as a practical way to untangle cognitive distortions and the anticipatory anxiety that comes with uncertainty. The conversation also explores building an emotional dictionary, processing sadness, and practicing radical acceptance when the pain is still fresh.</p><p></p><p><b>Takeaways</b></p><ul><li>Observing and Describing Emotions</li><li>Building an Emotional Dictionary</li><li>Check the Facts and Cognitive Distortions</li><li>Catastrophic Thinking and Anticipatory Anxiety</li><li>Sadness, Grief, and Radical Acceptance</li></ul><p></p><p><b>Chapters</b></p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Emotion Regulation</li><li>06:19 Observing and Describing Emotions</li><li>13:49 Understanding Anger</li><li>20:15 Exploring Happiness</li><li>26:58 Building an Emotional Dictionary</li><li>36:00 Anxiety and Anticipatory Thoughts</li><li>44:38 Radical Acceptance and Emotion Regulation</li><li>51:02 Applying DBT Skills in Everyday Life</li><li>56:23 Changing How We Feel</li></ul>no00:59:4712Emotion Regulation Week 2full<![CDATA[Emotion Regulation Week 1]]>The conversation covers the introduction to emotion regulation and SMART goals, the practice of mindfulness and breathing, the development of emotional resilience and decision making, coping with high-stakes situations and pressure, the use of distress tolerance and skill stacking, and the challenge of tolerating uncertainty and fear-based thinking. The conversation delves into the exploration of emotional regulation and vulnerability factors, highlighting the impact of past experiences and the urge to react. It emphasizes the importance of practice in developing and implementing emotional regulation skills.

Takeaways

  • Emotion Regulation and SMART Goals
  • Mindfulness and Breathing
  • Emotional Resilience and Decision Making
  • High-Stakes Situations and Pressure
  • Distress Tolerance and Skill Stacking
  • Tolerating Uncertainty and Fear-Based Thinking Emotional Regulation
  • Vulnerability Factors

Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction to Emotion Regulation and SMART Goals
  • 10:14 High-Stakes Situations and Pressure
  • 27:03 Tolerating Uncertainty and Fear-Based Thinking
  • 39:17 Understanding Emotional Regulation
  • 45:36 The Impact of Past Experiences
  • 01:00:20 The Urge to React
  • 01:07:22 The Importance of Practice
]]>c88901f7-0001-49ab-8d4a-6facd991513aFri, 17 Apr 2026 17:51:14 GMT<p>The conversation covers the introduction to emotion regulation and SMART goals, the practice of mindfulness and breathing, the development of emotional resilience and decision making, coping with high-stakes situations and pressure, the use of distress tolerance and skill stacking, and the challenge of tolerating uncertainty and fear-based thinking. The conversation delves into the exploration of emotional regulation and vulnerability factors, highlighting the impact of past experiences and the urge to react. It emphasizes the importance of practice in developing and implementing emotional regulation skills.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Emotion Regulation and SMART Goals</li><li>Mindfulness and Breathing</li><li>Emotional Resilience and Decision Making</li><li>High-Stakes Situations and Pressure</li><li>Distress Tolerance and Skill Stacking</li><li>Tolerating Uncertainty and Fear-Based Thinking Emotional Regulation</li><li>Vulnerability Factors</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Emotion Regulation and SMART Goals</li><li>10:14 High-Stakes Situations and Pressure</li><li>27:03 Tolerating Uncertainty and Fear-Based Thinking</li><li>39:17 Understanding Emotional Regulation</li><li>45:36 The Impact of Past Experiences</li><li>01:00:20 The Urge to React</li><li>01:07:22 The Importance of Practice</li></ul>no01:07:4711Emotion Regulation Week 1full