Educational content only. This podcast is not therapy.

What happens when YOU'RE the one asking for another chance?Because forgiveness doesn't automatically restore trust. And an apology doesn't guarantee access. But we're also NOT cutting everybody off because TikTok told us to. 😂 We're talking about what healthy repair can actually look like.

But… are you actually doing anything differently?

In this episode of Don't Quote Me, Tori explores the difference between understanding your patterns and actually changing them. We’re talking self-awareness, trauma responses, boundaries, people-pleasing, the Stages of Change, accountability without shame, and why doing the healthy thing can sometimes feel worse before it feels better.

Because knowing why you do something is powerful—but eventually, healing asks: What are you going to do with that information?

Educational content only. This podcast is not therapy, diagnosis, or a substitute for individualized mental health treatment.

Not who your family expects you to be.
Not who you were five years ago.
Not who you've always been.

Who are YOU becoming?

Maybe your answer is changing.
Maybe you're still figuring it out.

Either way, that's okay.

In this episode of don’t quote me, I’m unpacking suicidal ideation, postpartum psychosis, and the Lindsay Clancy case through a therapist’s lens—without the internet diagnoses or easy answers.

This is a conversation about what we miss, what we misunderstand, and what we can do before it’s too late.

⚠️ Content warning: suicide, SI, postpartum mental illness, psychosis, and child death.

This isn’t about taking sides. It’s about understanding.

We're unpacking the story through a therapist-informed lens and talking about trauma, manipulation, gaslighting, coercive control, survival, power, and why we can't always judge someone's behavior without knowing the full story.

Did the book make you see the characters differently than the movie? Who did you trust? And how quickly do we label someone as "the problem" without asking what happened behind closed doors?

🚨 Major spoilers for both the book and movie!

Grab your coffee, let's unpack this one—and as always...

Just because I said it… don't quote me. 💜

In this special don’t quote me episode, we’re taking a therapist-informed look at the 2026 horror film Obsession and unpacking the psychology behind Bear’s fixation on Nikki. We’re talking obsession vs. attraction, rejection, entitlement, boundaries, control, and why intensity doesn’t always equal love.

Spoiler warning: We’re getting into the movie, so watch it first if you don’t want spoilers!

In this episode of don't quote me, we're talking about what happens after you say "no." From navigating family dynamics and managing feelings of guilt to handling pushback and staying consistent, we'll explore why boundaries can be so difficult and why they're worth protecting.

Boundaries are one of those words that everyone has heard, but a lot of people aren’t exactly sure what they mean. Some people hear boundaries and think, ‘That sounds selfish.’ Others hear boundaries and think, ‘That means cutting people off.’ But boundaries are actually about creating healthier relationships and learning how to take care of yourself while still caring about others.

Disclaimer:  This podcast is not therapy and is not a replacement for mental health treatment. The thoughts and information shared here are for educational purposes only. If you’re looking for support, consider connecting with a licensed mental health professional.

“don’t quote me” will explore mental health, motherhood, relationships, and the everyday moments that shape who we are.

My hope is to create a space that feels honest, relatable, and reminds us we’re all navigating life one conversation at a time. 💜

Disclaimer : Educational content only. This podcast is not therapy or a substitute for mental health treatment.