Season 3 Episode 3

Round 2 with Rouge Fatale - Exploring BDSM

In this episode, Rouge Fatale discusses the nuances of BDSM, including flogging, paddling, safety, consent, and the psychological aspects of kink. The conversation provides practical insights for beginners and experienced practitioners alike. In this episode, Rouge and UCU Rouge explore the nuances of consent, safety, sensation play, and communication in BDSM and kink practices. They emphasize the importance of education, trust, and understanding to foster fulfilling and safe experiences.

Join us for a super fun and informative conversation with Rouge Fatale!!

Keywords

BDSM, flogging, paddling, safety, consent, kink, BDSM education, mental health, scene planning BDSM, kink, consent, sensation play, safety, communication, education, trust, BDSM safety, kink misconceptions

Key Topics

Differences between flogging and whipping

Safety zones and precautions in impact play

The mental and emotional aspects of BDSM

Use of safe words and non-verbal cues

Role of communication and consent in scene planning

Materials and tools for impact play

Progression from sensation to impact

The importance of legal and ethical boundaries The importance of consent and non-verbal cues in BDSM

Safety measures and boundary setting in kink activities

Sensory play techniques and their psychological effects

The role of education and experience in safe BDSM practice

Addressing media misconceptions about BDSM and kink

Communication strategies for exploring kink with partners

The therapeutic aspects of BDSM and sensation play

Managing escalation and intensity in kink activities

The significance of trust and psychological safety in BDSM

Creative tools and techniques for sensation play

Uncensored U is sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

For more information on any of the products mentioned or prize giveaways check out www.pleasuresntreasures.com

Season 3 Episode 2

Exploring BDSM with Rouge Fatale

This episode features Rouge discussing BDSM and kink through a sexual-health lens, with a focus on communication, consent, boundaries, safety practices, stigma, and beginner-friendly ways to learn more.

Rouge's Bio

Rouge Fatale, renowned as a legendary drag performer of Atlantic Canada, possesses a heart as immense as her outspoken personality. With over 20 years of experience in the realms of drag and theatre, Rouge's journey began when she fell in love with drag on a dare during a Pride drag competition, emerging victorious. Captivated by the drag world, she transformed it into her life's passion. Her influences span a diverse spectrum, with Dame Edna and Phyllis Diller playing significant roles in shaping her comedy and overall aesthetic. Drag mother Deva Station has been instrumental in molding Rouge into the captivating performer she is today.

A proud Caper, Rouge traverses Canada, representing and entertaining, embodying the spirit of a true Maritimer. From Toronto to Montreal, the Maritimes to Calgary, Winnipeg, and even the NWT, Rouge captivates audiences with her myriad of characters, impersonations, and captivating live singing moments. Whether inducing laughter or evoking tears, she has established herself as a well-known figure in the literary world, initiating drag story time in Nova Scotia. Through this initiative, she reads to both the young and young at heart, spreading love and acceptance in a fabulous manner.

Rouge, a glamour camp drag entertainer, specializes in stand-up comedy, monologues, and improv. She currently holds a recurring role in the web series "Tracy and Martina's Dirty Deeds," produced by SwearNet. Previously, she enjoyed a four-year weekly run show at Casino Nova Scotia titled "Rouge Fatale and Friends," featuring new themes and numbers each week. In addition, she serves as emcee, performer, and producer for Pink Velvet Burlesque and The Velvet Rope Boylesque.

Acknowledged for her exceptional contributions, Rouge was inducted into The Coast Hall of Fame after securing the title of Best Drag Performer for an impressive ten consecutive years. A Halifamous Queer, she stands as the Most Halifamous Person, leaving an indelible mark on the world of drag and entertainment.

Toy of the Week Sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

OUCH! Fluffy Mask and Bongage rope.

https://www.pleasuresntreasures.com/product/ouch-fluffy-mask-multi-light/

Join us for a new season of Uncensored U Sex Ed Podcast!

Content Type: Interview

Primary Goal: Educational

Summary: In this episode, Sean and Amy discuss their recent progress in sex therapy certification, explore case studies involving biological and psychological factors affecting sexual health, and introduce new product giveaways from Pleasures and Treasures, emphasizing the importance of education and open conversations about sexual wellness.

Keywordssex therapy, sexual health, education, case studies, sexual wellness, adult products, sexual education, podcast

Key Topics

• Sex therapy practitioner certification progress
• Case studies on thyroid and diabetes affecting sexual health
• Importance of biological, psychological, and social factors
• Tools and products for sexual health and wellness
• Community engagement and education in sexual wellness

Takeaways

• Understanding the bio-psycho-social model enhances sexual health diagnosis
• Knowledge about diabetes and hormone production can empower individuals
• Open conversations reduce stigma around sexual health issues
• Product giveaways promote education and destigmatization
• Community involvement is key to advancing sexual wellness awareness

Chapters

00:00Introduction to Season Three and New Software

01:26Progress in Sex Therapy Certification

02:20Case Studies: Thyroid and Diabetes Impact on Sexual Health

03:08Empowerment Through Knowledge in Sexual Wellness

04:42The Role of Therapy and Good Conversations

05:08Aging and Sexual Health Awareness

06:00Fundraising and Community Support

07:21Movember and Charitable Giving

08:14Introduction to New Adult Products from Pleasures and Treasures

09:33Unboxing and Product Highlights

11:16Knot Tying and BDSM Safety

12:37Suspension and BDSM Culture

13:54The Vita Wand and Its Uses

16:28Penis Extenders and Stimulating Toys

19:10Anal Douching and Safety

22:38Upcoming Episodes and Giveaways

23:32Engagement and Community Interaction

24:22Sponsor Message from Pleasures and Treasures

26:26Closing Remarks and Future Plans

Season 2 Episode 12 - The Vibe Check: Sex Shop Classroom

Special Guests:

Lindsay Allain and Alexandra Bouchard

Guest Bio's:

Lindsay Allain is the Head Buyer and Operations Manager for Pleasures N’ Treasures, where she’s on a mission to make pleasure more accessible, inclusive, and a lot less intimidating. After helping transform X-citement Video from a chain of adult video stores into a modern, welcoming boutique experience, she’s focused on bringing customers more choice, better pricing where possible, and a genuinely safe, judgment-free space to explore.

She has played a key role in expanding product offerings to include more LGBTQ+-founded and Canadian-owned brands, as well as improving size inclusivity across the stores’ lingerie collections. An Acadian from the Maritimes, Lindsay brings a candid, no-judgment approach to conversations around sex and wellness, and believes everyone deserves good, safe sex and the confidence to enjoy it in an environment that is respectful, informed, and inclusive.

With over 18 years in the adult wellness industry, Alexandra brings strong, hands-on experience across both retail and operations. For the past decade, she has worked closely with the head office at Pleasures N Treasures, supporting everything from websites, customer service, training and daily operations. Known for working directly with customers and turning awkward questions into easy conversations, Alexandra is a go-to product expert who helps people find what actually works for them, with no shame, no scripts, just real talk.

Alexandra is a training specialist and sales representative for Nobü, one of Canada’s leading pleasure brands, helping teams build confidence, strengthen product knowledge, and sell with authenticity. Alexandra contributes to industry magazines, focusing on sales skills, human connection, and turning hesitation into confidence. Her work is rooted in helping people explore their bodies with confidence and clarity.

Toy of the Week - Sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

Nobu Riot dual vibe

The Nobü Riot is a dual-action vibrator designed to create strong and focused pleasure. Its unique shape offers G-spot stimulation while also delivering targeted clitoral tapping. Because it is made from medical-grade silicone, Riot feels soft and smooth against the skin. The lightweight design also makes it easy to hold, which helps you stay comfortable during longer sessions.

Riot includes multiple tapping functions that add exciting new sensations to your play. The 3 tapping functions on the clitoral arm and 3 tapping functions on the G-spot tip allow you to explore a range of rhythms. Additionally, the toy features several vibration programs powered by extra-strong motors. Therefore, you can switch between gentle teasing or more intense pulsation with ease. The warming function adds another layer of comfort, creating a realistic and soothing experience.

https://www.pleasuresntreasures.com/product/nobu-essentials-riot-punching-tapping-dual-vibe-light-blue/

Show Notes

TDB

Season 2 Episode 14 - Intimacy > Orgasm

Special Guest: Serena Haines

Guest Bio:

Serena Haines is a Board Certified Sexologist, a renowned Intimacy and Relationship Coach, TEDx speaker, host of the Intimacy Unlocked podcast, and co-host of Unmuted: the midlife round table podcast, as well as a radio personality and published author.

 With a decade of experience in her private practice, through workshops, speaking appearances , TV and Radio and more, she’s helped individuals and couples move beyond shame to embrace pleasure, connection, and authentic intimacy. Trained in psychology, somatic sex education, and clinical sexology, as well as being a former Paramedic, Serena believes our sexual energy is life energy—meant to be expressed, not suppressed. Her work blends science with heart, and play with purpose. Serena invites us to see sexual wellness not as taboo, but as a powerful path to healing, joy, and wholeness—because pleasure is not a luxury, it’s part of being human.

“You are not meant to shrink, behave or wait. You are meant to experience” - Serena Haines

“Your sexual energy is your life force and creative energy!! How we show up in our sensual expression is how we show up in the world” ~ Serena Haines

Toy of the Week - Sponsored By Pleasures N Treasures

Nobu Fetish BR1 Under the Bed Restraint System

https://www.pleasuresntreasures.com/

Sink into the sensations of total immobility and relinquish total control to your lover with the Nobu Fetish Bed Restraints. The lack of movement intensifies all the sensations you experience: As you wiggle and twist longingly against these restraints, your dominant’s whisper in your ear will feel even more breathy and full of desire.

Restraints are an amazing way to increase trust, deepen emotional connection, and explore each other’s desires in a whole new way. The wrist and ankle cuffs are totally adjustable and feature a soft and plushy interior that will keep you comfy during play.

Show Notes:

https://www.serenahaines.com/https://www.serenahaines.com/affiliates

Pleasure Pods Affiliate link https://thepleasurepods.com/?ref=SERENA

Code SERENA

Season 2 Epiosde 16 - Sex, Marriage and the Menopause Plot Twist

Special Guest: Kim MacIvor

Kim's Bio:

I’m Kimberly (Kim) MacIvor- a blood born Caper- now rooted in North Carolina. I’m a mother, wife, and a passionate early childhood educator. I bring authenticity, humour, and resilience to both my work and life, shaped by my experience, including navigating the journey of menopause-and slaying!

Toy of the Week - Sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

Nobu - Zayn Vibrating Penis Sleeve

Zäyn by Nobü enhances pleasure by adding texture, vibration, and focused stimulation during partnered sex. The flexible silicone sleeve slides on easily and stretches to fit comfortably, creating a fuller feel and added sensation for both partners. The contoured external arms rest naturally against the clitoris or testicles, delivering stimulation with every movement. Soft-touch medical-grade silicone keeps the experience smooth, body-safe, and comfortable from start to finish.

Zäyn features extra-powerful motors (2) and multiple vibration programs, allowing you to explore different rhythms and intensities. The lightweight design helps maintain natural movement, while the stabilizing base keeps the sleeve securely in place during use. Waterproof construction also makes cleaning quick and simple.

The included wireless remote lets you adjust vibration modes from up to 7 meters away, adding excitement and spontaneity to partnered play. You can change settings without interrupting the moment, keeping the focus on connection and sensation. Zäyn recharges easily with magnetic USB charging, so it’s always ready when you are.

Designed for shared pleasure, Zäyn adds variety, intensity, and playful control to intimacy. Backed by a 5-year manufacturer warranty, it’s a reliable and exciting addition for couples looking to explore new sensations together.

https:// nobutoys.com/product/nobu-u-control-zayn-vibrating-penis-sleeve-blue/

Show Notes:

TBD

Season 2 Episode 17 - The Lube Episode #spitisnotlube

Thanks to everyone that voted in our 'Favorite Guest' Poll to bring back Lindsay and Alex for this almost final episode for season 2!

Guest Bios:

Lindsay

Lindsay Allain is the Head Buyer and Operations Manager for Pleasures N’ Treasures, where she’s on a mission to make pleasure more accessible, inclusive, and a lot less intimidating. After helping transform X-citement Video from a chain of adult video stores into a modern, welcoming boutique experience, she’s focused on bringing customers more choice, better pricing where possible, and a genuinely safe, judgment-free space to explore.

She has played a key role in expanding product offerings to include more LGBTQ+-founded and Canadian-owned brands, as well as improving size inclusivity across the stores’ lingerie collections. An Acadian from the Maritimes, Lindsay brings a candid, no-judgment approach to conversations around sex and wellness, and believes everyone deserves good, safe sex and the confidence to enjoy it in an environment that is respectful, informed, and inclusive.

Alexandra

With over 18 years in the adult wellness industry, Alexandra brings strong, hands-on experience across both retail and operations. For the past decade, she has worked closely with the head office at Pleasures N Treasures, supporting everything from websites, customer service, training and daily operations. Known for working directly with customers and turning awkward questions into easy conversations.

Alexandra is a go-to product expert who helps people find what actually works for them, with no shame, no scripts, just real talk.She is a training specialist and sales representative for Nobü, one of Canada’s leading pleasure brands, helping teams build confidence, strengthen product knowledge, and sell with authenticity.

Alexandra contributes to industry magazines, focusing on sales skills, human connection, and turning hesitation into confidence. Her work is rooted in helping people explore their bodies with confidence and clarity.

https:// nobutoys.com/product/nobu-beasties-ceto-vibrating-grinding-pad/

Release the Kraken!

This vibrating grinding pad is unlike any other. Thanks to its unique octopus design, the textured surface offer a wide variety of pleasurable sensations. And if you’re looking for even more? Place the small yet mighty bullet in the octopus’ head to really make it come alive. With the flexible nature of the pad, you can grind on it anywhere that you want.

The Cëto vibrating grinding pad also makes a great couples toy. Strap up with the power of the mighty Kraken thanks to the removable straps and perfectly placed hole for a penis or dong to fit through.

Prepare to experience waves on waves of pleasure however you choose to use this incredible new grinding pad from Nobü’s Beasties Collection.

Show Notes:

TBD

Guest: Dr. Elvira Prusaczyk https://elviraprusaczyk.wixsite.com/profile

Bio:

Dr. Elvira Prusaczyk is a social psychologist and Assistant Professor at St. Francis Xavier University, where she leads the Prejudice Awareness and Reduction (PAR) Lab. Her research explores how sexism, political ideology, and sexual media—like pornography—shape attitudes and behaviors toward women, as well as how cultural and situational factors influence sexual relationships, hookup culture, and consent. Dr. Prusaczyk’s work bridges rigorous science with real-world impact, informing education, policy, and campus sexual violence prevention.

Toy of the week:

Sexy Surprise Bath bomb - https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/sexy-surprise-bath-bomb?_pos=1&_sid=4b3a1f143&_ss=r

Write in and tell us what is in the bath bomb!!!

Signs of Healthy, Sexual Relationships:

Safety - on going consent and discussing boundaries

Fun and sexual exploration and discovery

Safe space – no pressure or guilt

Season 2 Episode 15 - Navigating Safer Sexual and Reproductive Health

A conversation with Stella Samuels (they/them) Executive Director for Sexual Health Nova Scotia; and Kelsey Benoit (she/they) Program Manager for SUGAR Health and the pathways and programs available that champion positive sexual health throughout the lifespan for all Nova Scotians through the following core activities: Advocacy; Education; Navigation; Partnership.

Guest Bios:

Stella Samuels (they/them)

As Executive Director of Sexual Health Nova Scotia (SHNS) Stella Samuels, they/them, supports 5 sexual health centres across the province, and champions positive sexual health throughout the lifespan for all Nova Scotians through advocacy, education, navigation, and partnerships. SHNS runs The Transformation Closet, which distributes gender-affirming gear, and SUGAR Health which connects people to sexual, gender, and reproductive health services near them.

Stella has a passion for social justice, sexual health, and finding innovative ways to be, work, and play together in communities. They have taken a winding career path that includes entrepreneurship, nonprofit work, municipal governance, academia, and book publishing…sometimes in tandem. They are passionate about community-building, vintage, and animal rescue.

Kelsey Benoit (she/they)

Kelsey Benoit is a queer settler living in Mi’kma’ki who holds a Bachelor of Social Work from Lakehead University. Kelsey currently works as the Project Manager for SUGAR Health and as a social worker with Recovery Supports through Nova Scotia Health. Kelsey is passionate about harm reduction and uses this approach to inform their work.

She has spent years working alongside, learning from, and advocating for the rights of people who use substances. She believes strongly in lifelong learning and always strives to exist and work from a decolonial and anti-oppressive lens.

Kelsey’s educational and work experience has involved mental health and addictions support, sexual health education in community and in schools, HIV support, community organizing and advocacy, as well as system navigation and case management.

When she's not working, Kelsey enjoys spending time outdoors with friends and family, snuggling with her cat, watching movies, and playing piano.

Toy of the Week - Sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

The Nobu Nest

https://www.pleasuresntreasures.com/product-spotlight-nobu-nest/

Rediscover Pleasure: Why the Nobü Nest Is Worth Exploring

In a crowded world of adult toys, some products truly stand out—not just for novelty, but for thoughtful design, versatility, and sheer value. Enter the Nobü Nest, a beautifully crafted pleasure kit that’s been turning heads in the adult toy scene and quickly becoming a favorite among both solo explorers and couples alike.

A Kit That Does More

The Nobü Nest isn’t just a single toy—it’s a complete pleasure bundle. At its core is a powerful, rechargeable vibrating bullet paired with a wireless remote, allowing you to adjust settings from across the bed or even across the room. But the real magic comes from the five interchangeable silicone sleeves that slide over the bullet, each offering distinct sensations and ways to play.

Show Notes

Sexual Health Nova Scotia Website:

https://shns.ca/

Member Centers:

https://shns.ca/member-centres/

SUGAR Health

https://sugarhealth.ca/

Donation Link for SUGAR Health:

https://sugarhealth.ca/donate/

Poly 101: Love Without Limits ( But with Boundaries)

Special Guest: Eves Temptation

Eves is an advocate for the polyamory lifestyle and community. Eves is a writer and has been chronicling thier journey into the world of polyamory by releasing the first article in Articulated Chaos magazine!

We hope that you will enjoy our amazing conversation with Eves!

Show Notes:

Eve Temptation(She/Her): https://www.instagram.com/eves_temptation?igsh=MXN1N3BjeDc3N2ZyNg== Polyamory glossary: https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/polyamory-glossary

Articulated chaos magazine: https://articulatedchaos.ca/

Toy of the week: https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/pinkcherry-premium-6-inch-purple-silicone-slim-anal-dildo?_pos=1&_sid=907105207&_ss=r

Poly communities on FB: Polyamory Canada: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1E4GAwwdUg/?mibextid=wwXIfr Polyamory Support: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/17MmZAZmHc/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Book: The Ethical Slut: https://a.co/d/gWCKDsb

Guest Bio:

Dr. Chris Frazer: Chris Is a retired History professor from StFX University, who began their tenure in 2004.  Chris was the first Gender and Sexual Diversity Advisor, which at the time was an unpaid, volunteer position.  Chris is an activist and a politician who fights for equity in all ways.  Chris brought the queer community in Antigonish to what it is today. Through flag raising and marches and the introduction of Priscilla /queen of the Highlands Drag show (21 years ago), the 2SLGBTQIA+ folks have found community.  Drag personas: Cleah Cruise and Joanie Cash

Video From Stonewall to Xpride: https://youtu.be/n1JdxxbWa9U?si=WjBSlMxxpoN1881p

Marsha P Johnson: https://www.womenshistory.org/education-resources/biographies/marsha-p-johnson

Silvia Riveria: https://www.womenshistory.org/education-resources/biographies/sylvia-rivera

Stonewall: https://www.britannica.com/event/Stonewall-riots

Magnus Hirschfeld: https://encyclopedia.ushmm.org/content/en/article/magnus-hirschfeld-2

The Turret: https://gay.hfxns.org/the_turret

Marriage equity: https://thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/same-sex-marriage-in-canada

Books:

The Joy of Sex: https://sexedrescue.com/the-joy-of-sex-by-alex-comfort/

Our Bodies Ourselves: https://ourbodiesourselves.org/

Rum, Sodomy, and the Lash: Piracy, Sexuality, and Masculine Identity: https://www.amazon.ca/Rum-Sodomy-Lash-Sexuality-Masculine/dp/0814782248

Priscilla: get your tickets

https://www.zeffy.com/en-CA/ticketing/priscilla-queen-of-the-highlands-january--2026

Sex toy of the week:

The one we featured is sold out and no longer on the site.  Here is the closest next one.

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/dr-joel-compact-prostate-massager?_pos=6&_sid=2c17c04cd&_ss=r

Season 2 - Episode 2

Guest: Teresa Keenan - X Pride President

Guest Bio:

Teresa Keenan (She/They) is a fourth-year biology student from Rothesay, New Brunswick. She has also been the president of the X-Pride society for the last three years. Teresa is a community advisor (CA) for StFX, the event coordinator for the biology society and an assistant for the Xaverian Leaders Program at the Frank McKenna Centre for Leadership.

Show Notes:

N/A

Toy of the Week:

Purchased at www.pinkcherry.ca

With Special Guest: Eves Temptation

In this episode Aimee and Sean chat with return guest Eves Temptation about her experiences exploring Kink culture, the importance of consent, and being safe playing in the Kink community. If you are interesting in exploring Kink, or having the converrsation with your partner this is the episode for you.

Show Notes

https://fetlife.com/ kinktionary:

https://fetlife.com/kinktionary Events in NS: https://www.nightshadehalifax.com/

Toy of the week:

Star F**ker Erection Enhancer and Mini Plug https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/star-f-ker-erection-enhancer-and-mini-plug?_pos=1&_sid=97ffc5cf4&_ss=r

and

PinkCherry Cooling Arousal Balm: https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/pinkcherry-cooling-arousal-balm?_pos=1&_sid=ac539cc83&_ss=r

Checkin With the Uncensored U Hosts and Listen Questions

Show Notes

Aimee and Sean take a little time to check in and reflect on the first 6 episodes of Uncensored U. They discuss the next phase of the show and what direction Uncensored U may take in the future. Aimee and Sean also answer some of the listener questions that they have not been able to fit into the first six episodes.

Toy of the Week: El Toro Beaded Enhancer Ring

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/el-toro-beaded-enhancer-ring?_pos=1&_sid=9371c9746&_ss=r

Season One Bonus Track

Aimee and Sean finish up season one with a bonus track podcast. They discuss the journey of learning and knowledge they gained from beginning the podcast, to some of the guests conversations and what is in store for season two and the future of Uncensored U.

We wish all our listeners a joyous and safe holiday season, we are signing off for the rest of 2025, but will be back with some amazing guests and conversations in 2026!

Season 2 Episode 9 - Evolving Together: Sex, Identity and Patnership

Special Guests: Shawa and Jonah

Guests Bio:

We are Jonah (33) and Shawna (34) and we started dating Valentine’s Day 2012 and got married in 2020. We live in Cape Breton where I Shawna work in healthcare, Jonah is self employed doing a variety of jobs from pet care to housekeeping. We share a 3 year old son, two dogs and a cat!

Toy of the week - Sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

Satisfyer - Cutie Heart

https:// www. pleasuresntreasures.com/product/satisfyer-cutie-heart/

Fall for the Charm of the Cutie Heart

The Satisfyer Cutie Heart is a compact, travel-ready sweetheart that packs serious pleasure into a playful, heart-shaped design. With 11 pressure wave intensities and 12 vibration patterns, its dual motors let you mix and match sensations until you find your perfect combo.

Whisper-quiet and ergonomically crafted from body-safe silicone, it fits perfectly in your palm for deep clitoral stimulation that feels like a flutter of kisses. Waterproof (IPX7) and USB rechargeable, the Cutie Heart is ready for bath-time adventures, discreet hotel play, or wherever your heart desires.

Show Notes: TBD

Season 2 Episode 11 - Diagnosis Doesn't Cancel Desire

Special Guest: Sidney MacIvor

Guest Bio:

Sidney MacIvor, RN, MSN

Sidney is an oncology nurse with over eight years of experience, currently working in outpatient cancer infusion care in North Carolina. A 2018 graduate of St. Francis Xavier University, she also holds a Master of Science in Nursing Education and is passionate about helping patients navigate not just cancer treatment, but the deeply personal parts of healing that often go unspoken.

Toy of the Week - Sponsored By Pleasures N Treasures

The Nobu X-Plore U - Mira Anal Vibrator

Are you ready to discover the Mirä-cle of anal pleasure? Then look no further than this sensational new addition to Nobü’s Xplore-U line!

Thanks to its flicking and vibrating functions, your P-Spot will experience double the level of pleasure! And with Mirä’s remote control, you (or your partner) can have even more control over just how intense these sensations are. The saddle of this toy is super flexible and it comes with a handle, making it easier than ever to ease into anal play.

https:// nobutoys.com/product/nobu-xplore-u-mira-anal-vibrator-black/

Show Notes

TDB

New Podcast Episode 1: Uncensored U – a SexEd podcast with Aimee and Sean

In this episode, you will meet your hosts,Aimee and Sean and find out what (and WHO) inspired this program!

Theme Music:  AI Generated to reflect the80s power ballads genre that we both love

Links of things discussed:

Sex with Sue Documentary Trailer : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrtuATYF-k8*episodecorrection – the documentary was released in 2022 – we were discussing thefuture release.

StFX Master of Adult Ed: https://www.stfx.ca/programs-courses/programs/master-adult-education

                  Dr.Carole Roy: https://www.caroleroy.online/

                  Dr.Nancy Peters: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Nancy-Peters-2

Bridge Activity: In the context of adult education, the bridge activity is used toconnect new learning to prior knowledge or experiences, focus goals and desiredoutcomes and prepare learners for new challenges or transitions.

Toy of the week: CalExotics - Pleasure Enhancer Vibrating Sleeve

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/pleasure-enhancer-vibrating-sleeve?_pos=1&_sid=a7e32ccba&_ss=r

Key Takeaways:

·     Research the toys you are using– find out the precautions and care instructions

·     CONSENT is sexy!

·      Follow your dreams – LIFELONG LEARNING & Passion projects (likethis podcast)

Episode 2: Poetry Slams and Dental Dams with Dr. Arlinda Ruco.

Season 2 Episode 13 - Rethinking Sex Ed on Campus

Special Guest: Paige Moreth

Guest Bio:

Paige Moreth (she/they) is a health promoter and educator specializing in sexual, gender, and reproductive health. As the Manager of the Sexual Health Resource Centre at the Acadia Students’ Union, they provide students with sexual health supplies and connect them with community supports in an inclusive, judgment-free space. Paige keeps equity, justice, and community at the core of her work, and believes in meeting people where they’re at to help them build healthier relationships with themselves and others. Outside of work, you can usually find them hiking with their dog Edie, listening to a science podcast, or pulling the never-ending weeds in their garden.

Toy of the Week - Sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

The Sweet Smile G Spot Vibe

https:// www. pleasuresntreasures.com/product/sweet-smile-g-spot-vibe-rechargeable/

Stimulate your pleasure spot! This black G-spot vibrator has a velvety soft touch surface. It is perfect for stimulating a woman’s pleasure spot because it has a straight shaft, which is tapered towards the end, and a large curved head that reaches your G-spot effortlessly. Once the vibrator is in place, it will pleasure you with its 7 vibration modes that can easily be controlled at the push of a button.

Show Notes

 Sexual Health Centre – Acadia University

https://www2.acadiau.ca/student-life/equity-judicial/equity/equity-news-reader/hello-and-welcome-students.html 

shrchub.my.canva.site/sub509.

Season 2 Episode 4

What's Missing? The Blind Spots in Sex Ed

Special Guest: Dr. William Gottschall -Morgan (he/him)

Guest Bio:

Dr. WIlliam Gottschall-Morga (He/Him), I am a gay married father of three grown children.  I have been a sociology professor for the last 30 years at various post secondary institutions.  Currently I am the senior Policy Developer and Strategic Initiatives advisor for Carrier Sekani Family Services (an Indigenous organization in Prince George BC. 

I hold a degree in both Sociology and Psychology from St. Francis Xavier University, in Antigonish, NS, a master in Sociology from LAkehead University in Thunderbay, Ontario and a PhD in Sociology from Carleton University in Ottawa, Ontario. 

All of my degrees focus on saexuality, gender and identity.  I have worked as a senior research consultant for various Indigenous organizations, not for profits and government organizations. 

Toy of the Week:

Purchased from www.pinkcherry.ca

Accessible Desire: Talking Sex, Disability, and Education

This week Aimee and Sean chat with Rachele Manett from @venusenvyhfx Rachele is a recreation therapist, sexuality educator, sex researcher, and a queer and disability justice advocate.

Rachele shares with us thier lived experience, educational research and thier joy in helping those with disabilities find the joy of sex through thier work with Venus Envy in Halifax.

Rachele's bio:

Rachele Manett (they/she) is a disabled sexuality educator, certified recreation therapist (CTRS), and host of Screen Nova Scotia award-winning That Sex Show on AMI-tv. Rachele works with all sorts of populations and all sorts of education-based projects related to sexuality, gender, pleasure and access, but their favourite topic will always be disabled sex.

Show Notes:

https://www.ami.ca/TSS-Rachele

https://ca.linkedin.com/in/rachelemanett

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rTfRyuCzmg

https://venusenvy.ca/pages/rachele-manett?srsltid=AfmBOor-tf1__HFz8WrrWliiA8I6nF9pR1_D2lXpwNTEvRFhoNMxZrLB

 Venus Envy Halifax

https://venusenvy.ca/

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Toy of the week: Tenga UNI - Diamond

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Come as you Are

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Your Voice Matters: HEAL NS, HIV Advocacy, and Inclusive Health Care

On this episode of Uncensored U, Aimee (she/her) and Sean (he/him) talk with Hanley Smith (they/them) about their work and advocacy with HEAL NS.

Hanley's Bio:

They have developed and implemented numerous queer youth and queer health-focused programs. Their award-winning contributions reflect years of volunteer service and professional experience, showcasing their passion for advocacy. With a strong interest in sexual health information and the evolving nature of prevention work, especially in relation to mental health, Hanley has collaborated with researchers to integrate trauma-informed practices into various initiatives and expand knowledge in these areas. As a musician and disabled artist themselves, Hanley has enjoyed being able to support the success of disabled artists within the community. Their work extends to other projects that intersect with their areas of expertise and interest. 

Show Notes:

Hanley Smith- They/Them  - Coordinator HEAL NS

https://healns.ca/item/130-hanley-smith

Links:

https://healns.ca/

https://healns.ca/programs/check-me-out

https://www.youthproject.ns.ca/

Toy of the week: gläs 5 Inch Glass Juicer Dildo

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Season 2 Episode 3:

Sex Toys 101: Pleasure, Lube, Repeat

Special Guest: Henderson Cartwright

Guest Bio:

Henderson F. W. Cartwright (They/Them) is the Residence Programming Manager at Dalhousie University, overseeing the delivery of an ever-evolving Residence Curriculum and providing residents with wholistic, educational, and engaging events and workshops within residence. They believe that there’s no such thing as too much sex education and the more resources that are out there the better. They have worked with Sean and Aimee on numerous sex toy bingos and many other events for StFX students. 

Henderson has always been involved in student life and is a previous winner of the Burke Award, the Pride of StFX Award and the Out Award. They are a double alumnus of StFX with a BSc in Biology and Chemistry and a BA in Psychology and Sociology. Any chance they get to talk about sex toys they will take it!

Toy of the week: Calexotics Silicone Advanced Nipple Suckers

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Show Notes:

TBD

Season 2 Episode 18 - The Season 2 Wrap Up Episode

Join Aimee and Sean reflecting on the last two seasons of Uncensored U Sex Ed Podcast before they take a break for the summer.

Toy of the Week - Sponsored by Pleasures N Treasures

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Show Notes

TBD

Featured Guest: Dr. Arlinda Ruco

Bio

Dr. Arlinda Ruco is an Assistant Professor in the Interdisciplinary Health Program at StFX University. She is a public health scientist and health services researcher with interest in cancer screening and prevention. Her primary research interests include the development, implementation and evaluation of interventions for increasing cancer screening participation, including recent work on primary care provider interventions and social media interventions. Dr. Ruco teaches Health Leadership and has a keen interest in building capacity for research and leadership, including evaluation of leadership development programs.

Episode topics

Dental dams, arts-based pedagogy in learning, slam poetry, encouraging conversations around sex, what is a dental dam and how do you use it, DIY dental dams, sexual education as a taboo topic, cultural challenges around sex education.

The Dental Dam Slam:

https://youtu.be/yWyRfx9_F34?si=WUPmzOSV35mW6xcX

Dr. Arlinda Ruco

https://www.womensacademics.ca/staff-members/arlinda-ruco-phd-mph/

https://www.stfx.ca/faculty-staff/arlinda-ruco

Toy of the week

Misting cleaner: https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/pc-unscented-toy-mist-cleaner-8oz?_pos=2&_sid=a337fcb7f&_ss=r

Water based lube: https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/water-based-personal-lubricant-in-8oz-240ml

Resources:

https://www.nshealth.ca/public-health

https://www.nshealth.ca/sexual-health-clinics

https://shns.ca

https://sugarhealth.ca

https://www.stfx.ca/student-services/support-services/health-counselling

https://hshc.ca/dental-dams/

Sex, Safety & Stigma: Chatting with a Nurse that has Seen it All!

With Special Guest:

Angela Fougere RN StFX Health and Counselling Center

Bio:

Angela Fougere is a proud St. Francis Xavier University Nursing graduate (a long time ago!) with over eight years of experience at the university’s Health Centre. Her work focuses on supporting student health and well-being through compassionate, evidence-based care. Angela is especially passionate about sexual health education and fostering open, stigma-free conversations around wellness. Known for her collaborative approach and strong advocacy for students, she blends clinical expertise with a bit of humour to support students with their individual health needs in an inclusive environment. 

Show Notes:

https://www.stfx.ca/student-services/support-services/health-counselling/sexual-health https://www.readytoknow.ca/

https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/publications/diseases-conditions/booklet-sexually-transmitted-infections.html

Toy of the week:

Power Buddies Tongue Vibe https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/power-buddies-tongue-vibe?_pos=14&_sid=10622db53&_ss=r

Season 2 Episode 10 - We Need to Talk About Sex, Even If its Awkward!

Special Guest: Glence Glasgow

Guest Bio:

This episode was recorded live at the Bloomfield HUB. This is our first episode with an audience. Glence was our host, and guest for this episode.

Glence Glasgow (he/him) currently works as a Student Health and Wellness Program Coordinator in a post-secondary setting. He collaborates with student and professional staff, student groups and societies, university departments, and community groups to create spaces on campus that foster creativity, human connection, positive mental health, diversity, and overall wellness.

His professional background includes administration, customer service, team building, human resources, and leadership. Glence’s personal interests include singing, theatre, performing arts, human rights and equity advocacy, and creative expression. Being of African-Caribbean descent, an immigrant to Canada, and a member of the Queer Community, he has a diverse set of lived experiences and unique point of intersectionality.

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Show Notes

TBD

Season 2 Episode 8: Werk the Stage, Protect the Community

Special Guest: Bridget Von Snaps

Guest Bio:

Bridget Von Snaps

Drag Star - Performance Artist - Community Leader

Bridget Von Snaps is much more than a local drag star—she’s a performance artist and community leader in Halifax with a vibrant online persona, creative events, and a signature “Wicked Witch” aesthetic that sets her apart in the East Coast drag scene.

Bridget von Snaps descended upon this world from her native galaxy many years ago, assuming the persona of the sinister sorceress of the eastern seaboard! Her passion lies in fostering a platform for emerging artists to showcase their talents.

The realm of drag has empowered her to be comfortable in her own skin (or someone else’s); as she explores the frontiers of gender and acceptance of all types of drag.
In her eyes, art knows no bounds, and she thoroughly enjoys engaging in the artistic expression that is drag.

Toy of the Week - Sponsored By Pleasures N Treasures

Dillio – Platinum 5″ Curious Five

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Show Notes:

TDB

Season 2 Episode 7: Real Talk - Sex, Culture and Staying Protected

Special Guest: Patrick C. Denny

Guest Bio:

Patrick C. Denny

Eskasoni First Nation Sexual Health, Mental Health and Addictions Advocate

I'm Patrick of Eskasoni First Nation, I am a big advocate on Sexual Health, and Mental Health and Addictions for my community. I have also been working to bring more awareness to suicide. I am big on being out in my community engaging with people and being loud and proud!

I come from a very matriarchal and traditional family, I am big into world news, and hanging with friends. I love the work that I do and look forward to keep doing it into the future.

Peace and Love!

PCD

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Show Notes:

Patrick Denny, Sexual Health Educator – to book Patrick for an educational session contact patrickdenny@hotmail.com

How to get tested: https://healns.ca/programs/check-me-out

Protection and treatment: https://www.nshealth.ca/sti-care-now

PrEP and PEP are highly effective, HIV prevention medications. 

PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) is a daily pill or injection taken before potential exposure to prevent infection. PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) is an emergency, 28-day regimen taken after potential exposure (within 72 hours) to stop the virus. 

Key Differences Between PrEP and PEP

• PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis):
• Usage: Taken consistently before potential exposure, usually daily or as required, as explained by Canada.ca and Halifax Sexual Health Centre.
• Target Audience: Individuals who are HIV-negative and at ongoing risk.
• Effectiveness: Highly effective at preventing HIV; does not protect against other STIs.
• PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis):
• Usage: Taken after a potential exposure (e.g., unprotected sex, needle sharing) within 72 hours.
• Duration: Must be taken for 28 consecutive days, say CATIE.ca.
• Context: Emergency use only; it is not for ongoing protection. 

Important Notes

• Both are prescription medications available from doctors, clinics, or sexual health centers
• If you have a high risk of HIV exposure, you may be a candidate for PrEP, according to CATIE.ca.
• Doxy-PEP is a different medication (antibiotic) used after sex to prevent other STIs like syphilis and chlamydia, but not HIV, explains Ending HIV. 

Season 2 Episode 6: Let's Talk About Sex Gar-ry!

Special Guest: Garry Dart

Educator - Activist - Leader

Garry Dart (They/She/He) is a queer, genderfluid, Newfoundlander who strives for systemic change, through advocacy, activism, and use of de-colonial and anti-racist practices.

They have worked and volunteered for many 2SLGBTQIA+ organizations in St. John’s, Halifax and Ottawa, on community, provincial and national levels including with prideHealth, ACNS, MAX Ottawa, and PFLAG Canada for many years.

They have an honours BSc in Ecology and Conservation Biology, an honours BA in Psychology, a graduate certificate in advanced training in affirmative therapy for trans communities, as well as a Master of Education in Counselling Psychology.​

They have run several local and national 2SLGBTQIA+ conferences and given countless workshops and guest lectures. Most notably, she Managed the National HIV Anti-Stigma ‘POZitivity’ Campaign including the ‘Slay Stigma Canadian Tour’ with Trinity K. Bone’t from RuPaul’s Drag Race in 2019, has been guest lecturer at University of Toronto, Dalhousie, St. Anne, Acadia, StFX, & St. Mary’s and provided workshops for unions, professional colleges, and associations across the country.​

You will most likely find them sipping tea, cooking, reading a book, or meditating in nature. ‘Have a healthy, happy and intellectually nourishing day!’

Gary Dart: https://www.garrydart.ca/

Scholarship: https://www.garrydart.ca/scholarship

Toy of the Week: Bunny Vibes

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Season 2 Epiosde 5 Beyond the Orgasm: What is Tantra?

Special Guest: Krista Nova

Tantrika - Teacher - Ritualist

Krista's Bio:

At the cellular level, Krista is a Tantrika and seeker of the mystical truths. For over two decades, she has been exploring the esoteric aspects of existence through intensive training in yoga, meditation, the tantric arts, somatic counselling and intuitive healing. She continues her quest through annualstudies with renowned teachers around the world, and by guiding her own students in their thirst for experiential wisdom.

Early in this millennium, Krista completed advanced post-secondary studies in Integrative Energy Healing at Langara College in Vancouver, B.C. This 3 year diploma program infused Eastern teachings with Western scientific energymedicine toward the goal of self-mastery and spiritual development to awaken her healing potential.

In 2005, after a relentless search, she finally foundherself in the right place, at the right time, and discovered the Authentic Tantric Path she had been seeking for so long.

In Tantra,Krista discovered that sexual energy — our most potent innate resource — is apowerful tool for transformation toward the goal of spiritual enlightenment.

For the next five years, Krista embarked upon intensive theoretical studies and practical training at one of the world’s leading tantric yoga institutes, based in Southeast Asia. Her commitment and dedication allowed her to complete theentire program in record time. During these years, she surrendered to the depth of her sexuality, practiced thousands of hours of Hatha and Kundalini Yoga, completed numerous Hridaya meditation retreats, and worked intimately with allof the Maha Vidyas—the Ten Wisdom Goddesses of the Tantric tradition.

She served this tantric community by teaching Tantric Yoga, leading Women’s Groups, and organizing large Tantric rituals.

Since 2011, Krista has been based on the traditional, ancestraland unceded territory of the Coast Salish peoples–Sḵwx̱wú7mesh, Stó:lō andSəl̓ílwətaʔ/Selilwitulh (Tsleil-Waututh) and xʷməθkʷəy̓əm (Musqueam) Nations also known as Vancouver, Canada, where she lives her heart’s calling to share the gifts of the Tantric Arts.

She coaches 1-on-1 clients and couples as well as teaching workshops, classes and retreats to support herstudents in expanding beyond their limitations, and in awakening their fullest potential. In 2014, she co-founded the Heart of Tantra Festival, which occurs each summer in the Squamish Valley in British Columbia.

Over the years of working with many Tantra teacher’s around the world she has been deeply influenced by Guru-ji Rajkumar of the Bhairavananda lineage for the more traditional elements and Homa and Mukto for the Neo Tantric explorations.

As well as tonnes of other brilliant teachers. She is also immersed in the more westernized studies of Trauma Therapy and Somatic Sex Education. She also works as a Relational somatic Therapist specializing in relational trauma.

Krista’s vision is to create a deeply connected,openhearted humanity. Her students often arrive unfulfilled in their mediocre sexual connections. Dedicated studies under her guidance will allow you to reach pure bliss: the highest state of meditative ecstasy.

Toy of the Week:

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Show Notes:

TBD

Episode 12 - Affirming Care: Transgender Advocacy and Inclusive Health and Wellness

With Special Guest: Veronica Merryfield from the Cape Breton Transgender Network

This episode will be posted on Thursday November 20th which is the National Day for Transgender Remembrance. This day is to honor the lives of transgender and gender-diverse people who have been murdered due to anti-trans violence and discrimination. The day serves as a reminder of the violence and systemic discrimination that the transgender community continues to face and a call to action to create a safer and more inclusive world. It is by no coincidence that we wanted to have our chat with Veronica Merryfield posted on this day.

Veronica's Bio:

Veronica, an established EDI community leader, originally from England, moved to Cape Breton in 2016. Formally educated in electronic engineering several decades ago, she has worked around the world in a number of markets both in engineering, sales, marketing, support, management and at c-level, but is now semi-retired from that and works as a luthier and EDI educator.
Veronica has a transgender/intersex history. Drawing from her lived experiences, her EDI training/consultancy is in demand locally and further afield. She is the founder of the Cape Breton Transgender Network, a volunteer effort to provide support, education, training and advocacy. She works with Nova Scotia Health on gender affirming policy and other government departments.  
She has sat on numerous boards over the last few decades and currently sits on the the board for the Cape Breton Center for Sexual Health and the Status of Women Advisory Council, and is chair of the Undercurrent Youth Society. 
Veronica has two daughters and four grandchildren, plays bass guitar and keyboards, is a writer, photographer and partial to a decent cup of tea.

Show Notes:

Veronica Merryfield She/Her https://ca.linkedin.com/in/veronica-merryfield-239357

Founder of Cape Breton Trans Network/Educator/Engineer/Advocate/Political Change Maker/Mentor/ALL AMAZING THINGS

https://www.cbtn.ca/

https://www.facebook.com/p/Cape-Breton-Transgender-Network-100069996925177/

https://ions.ca/consultants/veronica-merryfield-of-the-cape-breton-transgender-network/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V500vHzjgvA

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8Wsd61sQJG/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AxfywmT7FSU

Toy of the week: Pearl Passion Please Vibe

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Consent Week: Red Flags, Green Lights and Reading the Room Right

With Special Guest: Heather Blackburn

Bio:

Dedicated to preventing sexual and gender based violence, supporting survivors, and fostering safer communities, I offer a unique blend of expertise as a Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Advocate and a seasoned manager of a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) program.
With over ten years of experience, I champion trauma-informed care, intersectional advocacy, and evidence-based prevention strategies. My passion lies in breaking down barriers and influencing positive change within institutions and communities.
💼 Professional Highlights 💼
✓ Managed an effective SANE program, elevating survivor care and forensic evidence collection through challenging periods of growth and expansion.
✓ Multi-disciplinary collaboration across sectors to creating innovative approaches to supporting survivors in rural communities.
✓ Developed comprehensive training on sexual assault prevention and consent education.
✓ Advocated for policy reforms, shaping safer environments for vulnerable populations.
✓ Collaborated with community organizations, fostering impactful partnerships.

Show Notes:

Heather Blackburn (She/Her): https://www.stfx.ca/faculty-staff/heather-blackburn 

Waves of Change: https://www.stfx.ca/student-services/support-services/visible-at-x/prevention-awareness/waves-change

Toy of the Week:

Oral Pop Sex Game: https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/oral-sex-pop-dice-game?_pos=1&_sid=c98105084&_ss=r

Suggestions for game from Heather: CONSENT – make sure you communicate about the game, create boundaries, what activities or body parts of off limits.

Create agreeable alternative IF an option comes up that you are not comfortable with.

Tips to keep your drinks and yourself safe:

*Don’t leave your drink unattended

* Bring a reusable can lid or silicone cup lid

* Replace your drink if it looks, tastes , smells different (colour change, cloudy etc)

* Support your friends – keep and eye out for each other

* If you notice a change in how you feel – tell someone you trust

* If you notice a change in someone else, make sure they stay and get home safely

DISRUPT BEHAVIOUR: if you see something that’s giving you red flags, speak up or alert someone else to intervene. Lets create a community of care and keep everyone safe!

Where to get help for Gender based violence or sexual violence:https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Episode 4

Guest Bio

Kale Buchanan (they/them) is a recent grad from StFX University and is working as an RN in pediactrics in Frediricton and Saint John, New Brunswick.

Kale is also a membership engagement officer for Horizon Healths Pride Employee Resource Group, which fosters an inclusive environment promoting 2SLGBTQIA+ visibility and rights within the organization.

Kale is the inaugral winner of the Pride of StFX Award, and a pet parent to Ozzie and Salem.

Resources:

Just the Tip Tool Kit: https://www.thrivecyn.ca/not-just-the-tip-toolkit/

I’m ready program: Take home HIV testing: https://www.readytoknow.ca/

Gender affirming care : https://iwkhealth.ca/clinics-programs-services/gender-affirming-care https://www.cbrc.net/gender_affirming_care_services_in_canada_by_province_territory Planned Parenthood- Puberty: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/puberty NHS- Acne: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/acne/causes/

Children’s Hospital of Richmond at VCU- Skin, sweat and more: Navigating physical changes during puberty: https://www.chrichmond.org/blog/details/skin-sweat-and-more-navigating-physical-changes-during-puberty

Hiort O. Androgens and puberty. Best Pract Res Clin Endocrinol Metab. 2002 Mar;16(1):31-41. doi: 10.1053/beem.2002.0178. PMID: 11987896. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11987896/

Cleveland Clinic- Growing Pains: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/13019-growing-pains

Planned Parenthood- What happens during puberty if I’m intersex?: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/puberty/what-happens-during-puberty-if-im-intersex

Cleveland Clinic- Follicle-Stimulating Hormone (FSH) https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/24638-follicle-stimulating-hormone-fsh Nemours TeensHealth- Gynecomastia: https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/boybrst.html

Breehl L, Caban O. Physiology, Puberty. [Updated 2023 Mar 27]. In: StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2025 Jan-. Available from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK534827/

National Cancer Institute SEER Training Modules- Characteristics of Hormones https://training.seer.cancer.gov/anatomy/endocrine/hormones.html Clue- What are the phases of the menstrual cycle?: https://helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/the-menstrual-cycle-more-than-just-the-period

Murdoch Children’s Research Institute- What are puberty blockers? What are the benefits and risks for transgender children?: https://www.mcri.edu.au/news/insights-and-opinions/what-are-puberty-blockers#:~:text=When%20should%20puberty%20blockers%20be,in%20early%20to%20mid%2Dpuberty.

The Endometriosis Network Canada- Pathways to Diagnosis: https://endometriosisnetwork.com/paths-to-diagnosis/

Cleveland Clinic- Differential Diagnosis: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diagnostics/22327-differential-diagnosis https://intersexcanada.org/

Toy of the week: https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/pinkcherry-dual-sensation-ultra-tight-stroker?_pos=1&_sid=a04c4c9fa&_ss=r

True Crime Podcast Kale and Aimee listen to regularly: Dark Poutine