<![CDATA[The Inherited Abode]]>You inherited more than their stuff.

You inherited the mortgage payments, the attorney retainers, the probate court filing deadlines, the sibling disagreements, and the stack of paperwork that came with becoming the executor of your parents' estate. Now you are the one responsible for everything while also going to work on Monday and making sure your own kids get to school. This is the part nobody talks about: not estate planning, but estate executing. And it is a lot.

That is what The Inherited Abode is for.

The Inherited Abode is a weekly podcast for Gen X and elder millennials who are in the middle of this or can see it coming. Hosted by the founder of The Responsible Sibling, each episode covers the real, unglamorous, necessary work of handling your parents' affairs. These are the things you did not know you needed to know until you needed to know them.

You are not the only one figuring this out as you go.

No legal advice. No fluff. Just the conversation you needed someone to have with you a long time ago.

New episodes every week. The first episodes are out now.

This podcast is brought to you by The Responsible Sibling.

The Responsible Sibling is an educational and advocacy platform for adult children (typically Gen X & elder Millennials) of aging parents to go to when they've suddenly become the executor of a parent's estate and have no idea what they're doing and no time to figure it out.

We provide education through our YouTube channel and this podcast. We also share information and resources to position our audience to better prepare to advocate for their aging parents as well as their parents' final wishes.

The Responsible Sibling exists for you.


]]>https://website.beacons.ai/theresponsiblesiblingRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Wed, 14 Oct 2026 14:32:24 GMTMon, 10 Aug 2026 00:33:11 GMT60Summer Swafford<p>You inherited more than their stuff.</p><p></p><p>You inherited the mortgage payments, the attorney retainers, the probate court filing deadlines, the sibling disagreements, and the stack of paperwork that came with becoming the executor of your parents' estate. Now you are the one responsible for everything while also going to work on Monday and making sure your own kids get to school. This is the part nobody talks about: not estate planning, but estate <i>executing</i>. And it is a lot.</p><p></p><p>That is what The Inherited Abode is for.</p><p></p><p>The Inherited Abode is a weekly podcast for Gen X and elder millennials who are in the middle of this or can see it coming. Hosted by the founder of <b>The Responsible Sibling, </b>each episode covers the real, unglamorous, necessary work of handling your parents' affairs. These are the things you did not know you needed to know until you needed to know them.</p><p></p><p>You are not the only one figuring this out as you go.</p><p></p><p><b><i>No legal advice. No fluff.</i></b> Just the conversation you needed someone to have with you a long time ago.</p><p></p><p>New episodes every week. The first episodes are out now.</p><p></p><p>This podcast is brought to you by <b>The Responsible Sibling.</b> </p><p></p><p>The Responsible Sibling is an educational and advocacy platform for adult children (typically Gen X &amp; elder Millennials) of aging parents to go to when they've suddenly become the executor of a parent's estate and have no idea what they're doing and no time to figure it out. </p><p></p><p>We provide education through our YouTube channel and this podcast. We also share information and resources to position our audience to better prepare to advocate for their aging parents as well as their parents' final wishes.</p><p></p><p><i>The Responsible Sibling exists for you.</i></p><p></p><p><br /></p>episodicSummer Swaffordguidance@theresponsiblesibling.comno<![CDATA[Episode 16 - The Finale]]>In the conclusion episode of this limited series, I cover the action plan and next steps for my parents' estates. I also ground the mission and vision of The Responsible Sibling platform and why I decided to release this podcast.

"We do not inherit the land from our ancestors; we borrow it from our children." ~Native American proverb

]]>55c41f84-84d5-41af-9700-9a240a9c5fa1Sun, 16 Aug 2026 04:10:48 GMT<p>In the conclusion episode of this limited series, I cover the action plan and next steps for my parents' estates. I also ground the mission and vision of The Responsible Sibling platform and why I decided to release this podcast. </p><p></p><p>"We do not inherit the land from our ancestors; we borrow it from our children." ~Native American proverb</p>no00:14:00Episode 16 - The Finalefull<![CDATA[Episode 15 - "I'm Dead, Now What" Resource Guides]]>In this episode, I discuss a physical book and an electronic workbook to serve as your "single source of truth" as you collect the information and details about your parents' estates. Baby Boomers typically prefer to write things down in a book which Gen Xers and Elder Millennials tend to use technology to track information.

]]>98216b89-4cc9-40ed-bb52-c8f5072653d6Sun, 16 Aug 2026 04:07:40 GMT<p>In this episode, I discuss a physical book and an electronic workbook to serve as your "single source of truth" as you collect the information and details about your parents' estates. Baby Boomers typically prefer to write things down in a book which Gen Xers and Elder Millennials tend to use technology to track information. </p>no00:18:03Episode 15 - "I'm Dead, Now What" Resource Guidesfull<![CDATA[Episode 14 - Legally Transferring Assets Without Going to Probate Court]]>I cover the options available to transfer assets from parent to beneficiary without going to probate court. Not all states allow these options so check with your state laws. Some assets discussed are: digital assets, vehicle assets, real estate assets, and individual banking accounts.

]]>337a9f03-5e14-49f4-9ca9-325e71bdcf86Sun, 16 Aug 2026 04:04:04 GMT<p>I cover the options available to transfer assets from parent to beneficiary without going to probate court. Not all states allow these options so check with your state laws. Some assets discussed are: digital assets, vehicle assets, real estate assets, and individual banking accounts. </p>no00:10:33Episode 14 - Legally Transferring Assets Without Going to Probate Courtfull<![CDATA[Episode 13 - Unsubscribe & Canceling Your Parents "Stuff" ]]>This episode discusses the list of items that you may have to go through and cancel or unsubscribe after they pass away. Some items on the list are obvious while other are not so obvious. I also discuss how to make sure you have access to be able to cancel these items.

]]>a47eac21-0c53-440a-aee4-83a1cca10dd0Sun, 16 Aug 2026 04:00:46 GMT<p>This episode discusses the list of items that you may have to go through and cancel or unsubscribe after they pass away. Some items on the list are obvious while other are not so obvious. I also discuss how to make sure you have access to be able to cancel these items. </p>no00:19:48Episode 13 - Unsubscribe & Canceling Your Parents "Stuff" full<![CDATA[Episode 12 - What's In Your Wallet? ]]>This episode focuses on the different types of financial accounts and how the funds in each account are legally transferred to the beneficiary. Some accounts discussed include: individual banking accounts, savings accounts, retirement accounts, social security, and pension plans.

]]>54ca8d89-5eca-4322-8be2-7bc21b1d2651Sun, 16 Aug 2026 03:57:25 GMT<p>This episode focuses on the different types of financial accounts and how the funds in each account are legally transferred to the beneficiary. Some accounts discussed include: individual banking accounts, savings accounts, retirement accounts, social security, and pension plans. </p>no00:14:21Episode 12 - What's In Your Wallet? full<![CDATA[Episode 11 - Two Years of Probate Court (and counting)]]>In this episode, I discuss the roadblocks in probate court:

-lost one of the original will

-inconsistent language in the wills

-incorrect trust language

Then I discuss my estate planning attorney's plan of action that we hope will help us get across the finish line.

]]>981d20db-9ddd-47f7-9981-b1fbada97dddSun, 16 Aug 2026 03:54:38 GMT<p>In this episode, I discuss the roadblocks in probate court:</p><p>-lost one of the original will</p><p>-inconsistent language in the wills</p><p>-incorrect trust language </p><p></p><p> Then I discuss my estate planning attorney's plan of action that we hope will help us get across the finish line. </p>no00:16:07Episode 11 - Two Years of Probate Court (and counting)full<![CDATA[Episode 10 - Farewell to the vehicle]]>A home is not the only asset that needs attention. My mother's vehicle was still in the garage not being driven. I had to make another tough decision as it relates to the fate of her car.

]]>24b5675b-c10b-4c75-bd71-3d4bb4523419Mon, 10 Aug 2026 04:45:23 GMT<p>A home is not the only asset that needs attention. My mother's vehicle was still in the garage not being driven. I had to make another tough decision as it relates to the fate of her car. </p>no00:15:54Episode 10 - Farewell to the vehiclefull<![CDATA[Episode 9 - Let the cleaning begin ]]>I've discussed a lot of mental labor and energy used during this experience. Now it's time for the physical labor of cleaning out my childhood home that my parents have lived in for almost 30 years. I talk through some tips and tricks to get through all of the memories, mementos, and mounds of paperwork.

]]>090aa87b-dd28-4f9a-a872-bc94acb826fcMon, 10 Aug 2026 04:43:59 GMT<p>I've discussed a lot of mental labor and energy used during this experience. Now it's time for the physical labor of cleaning out my childhood home that my parents have lived in for almost 30 years. I talk through some tips and tricks to get through all of the memories, mementos, and mounds of paperwork. </p>no00:18:47Episode 9 - Let the cleaning begin full<![CDATA[Episode 8 - Life goes on even with grief ]]>I take time out to discuss the state of my mental health during all of these events. I talk through the resources I used to process my grief and combat depression. I even snuck in as "Eat, Pray, Love" trip to reset my brain.

]]>c25c2121-0af2-4ad9-9539-e53af6edd2b7Mon, 10 Aug 2026 04:40:47 GMT<p>I take time out to discuss the state of my mental health during all of these events. I talk through the resources I used to process my grief and combat depression. I even snuck in as "Eat, Pray, Love" trip to reset my brain. </p>no00:13:26Episode 8 - Life goes on even with grief full<![CDATA[Episode 7 - Hiring & firing my estate planning attorney]]>In the midst of dealing with grief after the lost of my mother, I'm tasked with serving as the executor of both my mother's and father's wills. Never in my wildest dreams did I think that I would have this experience with my lawyer.

]]>0337d24b-6131-4ac1-9f30-d9273963a4d8Mon, 10 Aug 2026 04:38:38 GMT<p>In the midst of dealing with grief after the lost of my mother, I'm tasked with serving as the executor of both my mother's and father's wills. Never in my wildest dreams did I think that I would have this experience with my lawyer.</p>no00:17:02Episode 7 - Hiring & firing my estate planning attorneyfull<![CDATA[Episode 6 - Losing my mom]]>Five years after the passing of my father, we made it through covid and were adjusting to life without my father. Then things take a turn for the worst with my mother.

]]>6ded082f-7e0d-48d5-a80c-e49595b86fb4Mon, 10 Aug 2026 04:36:57 GMT<p>Five years after the passing of my father, we made it through covid and were adjusting to life without my father. Then things take a turn for the worst with my mother. </p>no00:18:19Episode 6 - Losing my momfull<![CDATA[Episode 5 - My mother's story]]>After my father's passing and surviving covid, I felt like we could make this version of life normal. Little did I know that 5 years after my father passed away, I would once again be faced with a ill parent.

]]>b9aee7a0-dd4e-444d-85ac-a144731fd85fMon, 10 Aug 2026 01:53:39 GMT<p>After my father's passing and surviving covid, I felt like we could make this version of life normal. Little did I know that 5 years after my father passed away, I would once again be faced with a ill parent. </p>no00:15:40Episode 5 - My mother's storyfull<![CDATA[Episode 4 - Dementia & Covid (2016-2019)]]>As we try to gain some assemblance of a routine, I have some tough decisions to make. Do I leave my mother with my father who has dementia? Where should I live? Do I go back to work after having a baby? These are the years of caregiving that many don't speak about.

]]>44f969c7-3469-4cab-ab93-f6b0807235acMon, 10 Aug 2026 01:43:43 GMT<p>As we try to gain some assemblance of a routine, I have some tough decisions to make. Do I leave my mother with my father who has dementia? Where should I live? Do I go back to work after having a baby? These are the years of caregiving that many don't speak about. </p>no00:22:38Episode 4 - Dementia & Covid (2016-2019)full<![CDATA[Episode 3 - Life Insurance & Wills]]>It's hard raising your aging parents. Now that I know my my father's diagnosis, I have to shut down his business and find his life insurance policy - if he even has one. I also need to talk to an estate planning attorney about my mom's reluctance to get a will and power of attorney.

]]>a8949d04-82d6-4367-a237-ab3c08c56c92Mon, 10 Aug 2026 01:40:25 GMT<p>It's hard raising your aging parents. Now that I know my my father's diagnosis, I have to shut down his business and find his life insurance policy - if he even has one. I also need to talk to an estate planning attorney about my mom's reluctance to get a will and power of attorney.</p>no00:17:00Episode 3 - Life Insurance & Willsfull<![CDATA[Episode 2 - The Beginning (2015)]]>How does a Gen Xer end up being an executor of both of their parents' wills? Why me? This all happened in a blink of an eye. Here's how it started.

]]>b61f579e-58e8-4cc7-b7c8-9517cb7a3fbfMon, 10 Aug 2026 01:37:39 GMT<p>How does a Gen Xer end up being an executor of both of their parents' wills? Why me? This all happened in a blink of an eye. Here's how it started. </p>no00:16:46Episode 2 - The Beginning (2015)full<![CDATA[Episode 1 - 10 Things I got wrong]]>You inherited more than their stuff.

You inherited the mortgage payments, the attorney retainers, the probate court filing deadlines, the sibling disagreements, and the stack of paperwork that came with becoming the executor of your parents' estate. Now you are the one responsible for everything while also going to work on Monday and making sure your own kids get to school. This is the part nobody talks about: not estate planning, but estate executing. And it is a lot.

That is what The Inherited Abode is for.

The Inherited Abode is a weekly podcast for Gen X and elder millennials who are in the middle of this or can see it coming. Hosted by the founder of The Responsible Sibling, each episode covers the real, unglamorous, necessary work of handling your parents' affairs. These are the things you did not know you needed to know until you needed to know them.

You are not the only one figuring this out as you go.

No legal advice. No fluff. Just the conversation you needed someone to have with you a long time ago.

New episodes every week. The first episodes are out now.


]]>66e8f1e6-ed99-4175-8725-a22a63e994aaMon, 10 Aug 2026 00:38:13 GMT<p>You inherited more than their stuff.</p><p></p><p>You inherited the mortgage payments, the attorney retainers, the probate court filing deadlines, the sibling disagreements, and the stack of paperwork that came with becoming the executor of your parents' estate. Now you are the one responsible for everything while also going to work on Monday and making sure your own kids get to school. This is the part nobody talks about: not estate planning, but estate <i>executing</i>. And it is a lot.</p><p></p><p>That is what The Inherited Abode is for.</p><p></p><p>The Inherited Abode is a weekly podcast for Gen X and elder millennials who are in the middle of this or can see it coming. Hosted by the founder of The Responsible Sibling, each episode covers the real, unglamorous, necessary work of handling your parents' affairs. These are the things you did not know you needed to know until you needed to know them.</p><p></p><p>You are not the only one figuring this out as you go.</p><p></p><p>No legal advice. No fluff. Just the conversation you needed someone to have with you a long time ago.</p><p></p><p>New episodes every week. The first episodes are out now.</p><p><br /></p>no00:10:5511Episode 1 - 10 Things I got wrongfull