<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Rebuild Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span>The Rebuild is a mental-health-oriented podcast about choosing yourself and rebuilding a life you actually love, hosted by Nate Johansen, a wannabe therapist with 3,000+ hours of coaching experience.</span></p>
<p><span>We explore emotions, relationships, burnout, self-trust, and what it takes to stop living the life you’re “supposed” to live and start building one that actually feels like yours.</span></p>]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2026 14:56:56 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/NWrkyGSj.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></author><pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2026 13:03:44 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 natejohansen]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><itunes:author>natejohansen</itunes:author><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Rebuild is a mental-health-oriented podcast about choosing yourself and rebuilding a life you actually love, hosted by Nate Johansen, a wannabe therapist with 3,000+ hours of coaching experience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;We explore emotions, relationships, burnout, self-trust, and what it takes to stop living the life you’re “supposed” to live and start building one that actually feels like yours.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>natejohansen</itunes:name><itunes:email>me@natejohansen.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><item><title><![CDATA[Feel This One Emotion and You Won't Be Exhausted Anymore | Ep 1]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>There's one specific emotion that when men repress, they end overworked and exhausted. This episode dives into how to begin reconnecting with that emotion and ultimately reclaiming your life as a man. </p>
<p>To Apply to Join the Rebuild Group Coaching Program, <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here. </a></p>
<p>For daily content for Exhausted Men looking to come back to life, check out my instagram page <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">here</a>.</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/how-to-become-an-exhausted-man/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/93985727-5c48-30ab-a379-8cb0198027cc</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 19:53:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c85292caa4480eb25c0490ddbfabf619169a15c63a2edd20fdb30844b75eea6e/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2NmExNWZmYS1jYWYyLTRjMDgtOGYwMS03YWI5MDRhM2JiMDkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvNjZhMTVmZmEtY2FmMi00YzA4LThmMDEtN2FiOTA0YTNiYjA5L1JlYnVpbGRfRXBpc29kZV8xYTVtOXAubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="14347119" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;There&apos;s one specific emotion that when men repress, they end overworked and exhausted. This episode dives into how to begin reconnecting with that emotion and ultimately reclaiming your life as a man. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To Apply to Join the Rebuild Group Coaching Program, &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For daily content for Exhausted Men looking to come back to life, check out my instagram page &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:14:56</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Feel This One Emotion and You Won&apos;t Be Exhausted Anymore | Ep 1</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[3 Ways to Stop Exploding At Your Kids | Ep 20]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>If you love your kids but sometimes find yourself yelling, intimidating, or losing control when you’re overwhelmed, this episode is for you.</p>
<p>We’ll talk about three practical ways to handle parental anger, create more safety for your kids, and address the overwhelm underneath your outbursts.</p>
<p>If you’re ready for some support, book a free 15-minute call with me using the link below, or email me directly at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a>.</p>

Book A Call: https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716









]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/3-ways-to-stop-exploding-at-your-kids-ep-20/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/2b94543c-1878-31ba-b482-ac8a3b9694c1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2026 04:41:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/f81607a94414e0f008834aeb2566b4d6e7b1bc72393bb15749ec2e82a74a90a1/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4YmYzNmE0ZC1iNDk3LTQzYTctOGQwZC02YmVhYjNkMzNiOTgiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvOGJmMzZhNGQtYjQ5Ny00M2E3LThkMGQtNmJlYWIzZDMzYjk4L1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzIwN2w3amYubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="20167834" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;If you love your kids but sometimes find yourself yelling, intimidating, or losing control when you’re overwhelmed, this episode is for you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We’ll talk about three practical ways to handle parental anger, create more safety for your kids, and address the overwhelm underneath your outbursts.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you’re ready for some support, book a free 15-minute call with me using the link below, or email me directly at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

Book A Call: https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716









</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:21:00</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:title>3 Ways to Stop Exploding At Your Kids | Ep 20</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Men End Up In Lives They Don't Want | Ep 2]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In today's episode we break down exactly how men begin to repress their emotions and get stuck in exhausting lives. Then, we discuss the keys to Rebuild a live they love. 

Email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a>
Or <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here</a> to schedule a free strategy call. </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/who-am-i-what-do-i-do-ep-2/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/5a99fc3a-29b9-3703-b914-5fd6dd32b223</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 17:56:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/58a545f30eb5fd75be0bbe6d298fe01b47b9c020cc64c6957a19e22ba4da6c62/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxM2M5MTIzZC0zNzJkLTQ2YzctYjc1MS03NjgyODFhZjNiNzEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvMTNjOTEyM2QtMzcyZC00NmM3LWI3NTEtNzY4MjgxYWYzYjcxL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzJhOWkyaC5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="16250721" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In today&apos;s episode we break down exactly how men begin to repress their emotions and get stuck in exhausting lives. Then, we discuss the keys to Rebuild a live they love. 

Email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;
Or &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; to schedule a free strategy call. &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:16:55</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>How Men End Up In Lives They Don&apos;t Want | Ep 2</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Most Men Live From The Neck Up | Ep 11]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we cover:</p>
<p>- The childhood pattern that initiates men out of their bodies.</p>
<p>- What happens when men never spend time "inside" themselves.</p>
<p>- What "living out of your head" sounds like.</p>
<p>- 3 ways to start getting back in touch with your body as a man</p>
<p>This podcast will be a resource in the upcoming "Emotional Education" curriculum that will be free for any man looking to unlearn emotional repression. 

Follow along for future announcements and updates! 

Email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com </a>for questions, comments, and support, or schedule an appointment with me <a href="https://natejohansen.clientsecure.me/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">here</a>. </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/most-men-live-from-the-neck-up-ep-11/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/088be0f1-67c4-3b0a-83a1-2a8551812807</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 22:10:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/8eb9569165a222fdaf0067ba4eda4cbbaeae603a89cb3791ceb6f4526574f6c0/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmZjNjNmRmMC1mY2QyLTRlZTMtODU3YS1hYzMyMTcwYzVhODgiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvZmYzYzZkZjAtZmNkMi00ZWUzLTg1N2EtYWMzMjE3MGM1YTg4L1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzExYWZ4MmoubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="20656010" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this episode we cover:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The childhood pattern that initiates men out of their bodies.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- What happens when men never spend time &quot;inside&quot; themselves.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- What &quot;living out of your head&quot; sounds like.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- 3 ways to start getting back in touch with your body as a man&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This podcast will be a resource in the upcoming &quot;Emotional Education&quot; curriculum that will be free for any man looking to unlearn emotional repression. 

Follow along for future announcements and updates! 

Email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com &lt;/a&gt;for questions, comments, and support, or schedule an appointment with me &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.clientsecure.me/&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:21:30</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Most Men Live From The Neck Up | Ep 11</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Feeing Lost Despite a Perfect Life? | Ep 19]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>What do you do when you’ve built the life you were told would make you happy...but you still feel lost? In this episode, we explore how reconnecting with your emotions can help you stop living someone else’s blueprint and start building a life that actually fits you.</p>
<p><a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Book a free compatibility call with me here. </a></p>

https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716










<p>📩 Send feedback to me@natejohansen.com</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/feeing-lost-despite-a-perfect-life-ep-19/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e1613bc4-a10b-3b58-b564-69d4ecd0259d</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2026 17:20:53 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/d74d9bd40bc4b5ba07ff5c6396f1689943b6e4788a20489ac5c572450532737e/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjZGIzNmMzOC00Y2M0LTRlYjktOTgxMC02MjQ4Yjc2YzhlNWUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvY2RiMzZjMzgtNGNjNC00ZWI5LTk4MTAtNjI0OGI3NmM4ZTVlLzA4MjgubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="18083472" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;What do you do when you’ve built the life you were told would make you happy...but you still feel lost? In this episode, we explore how reconnecting with your emotions can help you stop living someone else’s blueprint and start building a life that actually fits you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;Book a free compatibility call with me here. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716










&lt;p&gt;📩 Send feedback to me@natejohansen.com&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:18:50</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Feeing Lost Despite a Perfect Life? | Ep 19</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[3 Lessons for 18 Year Old Me | Ep 22]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I share three things I wish I could go back and tell my 18-year-old self:</p>
<p>• Love yourself regardless of how your life turns out
• Get curious about yourself and what your emotions are trying to tell you
• Learn your strengths just as intimately as you know your weaknesses</p>
<p>A short, personal episode about self-love, shame, emotions, and becoming someone you can always come home to.</p>
<p>If you’d like to connect, you can book a free 15-minute call using the link in the show notes or email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a>.</p>
<p><a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/3-lessons-for-18-year-old-me-ep-22/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/3da56aad-e7af-3a03-bb3f-0c746272af25</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 03:24:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a2548fe0e7835ed2780820e546f6fd97175bf49561f4cf3039931e55ae6a804b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4MTVjYmVhNy0xOGY0LTQ2MmMtODQ3Zi04NDk0ZDc4YjIwMjEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvODE1Y2JlYTctMThmNC00NjJjLTg0N2YtODQ5NGQ3OGIyMDIxL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzIyYTNmcG0ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="11623076" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In today’s episode, I share three things I wish I could go back and tell my 18-year-old self:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;• Love yourself regardless of how your life turns out
• Get curious about yourself and what your emotions are trying to tell you
• Learn your strengths just as intimately as you know your weaknesses&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A short, personal episode about self-love, shame, emotions, and becoming someone you can always come home to.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you’d like to connect, you can book a free 15-minute call using the link in the show notes or email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:12:06</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:title>3 Lessons for 18 Year Old Me | Ep 22</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Number One Tool For Overcoming Your Inner Critic | Ep 4]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we dive into the concept of delusional, non-real thinking and how it's ruining the way you see yourself, your relationships, and more. At the end I give a practical exercise to begin to make your brain user-friendly and overcome the inner critic. </p>
<p>I'm currently assembling the last men's group of the year - the December cohort launches in just a few weeks. If you're interested in joining the Rebuild Group Coaching Program, email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a> or DM me the word GROUP on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">instagram. </a></p>
<p>If you're needing some extra guidance this week, <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here</a> for a free strategy call where we'll dive deep into where you're at and map out some clear next steps to get you where you want to be. </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/the-number-one-tool-for-overcoming-your-inner-critic-ep-4/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e8e0fba2-8251-37d0-8ae9-7e5a7629583e</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 15:29:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/440efd22d335c39cc854b514e64177cdd13dd3a2b7dac8fdf7ed5257a49af132/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxMGM2YmRjNC0zNDI5LTQyZjYtYmRlYy1jYjg2ZDYzOTc4ODEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvMTBjNmJkYzQtMzQyOS00MmY2LWJkZWMtY2I4NmQ2Mzk3ODgxL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzQ3bDU4YS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="21965059" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this episode we dive into the concept of delusional, non-real thinking and how it&apos;s ruining the way you see yourself, your relationships, and more. At the end I give a practical exercise to begin to make your brain user-friendly and overcome the inner critic. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&apos;m currently assembling the last men&apos;s group of the year - the December cohort launches in just a few weeks. If you&apos;re interested in joining the Rebuild Group Coaching Program, email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt; or DM me the word GROUP on &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;instagram. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you&apos;re needing some extra guidance this week, &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; for a free strategy call where we&apos;ll dive deep into where you&apos;re at and map out some clear next steps to get you where you want to be. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:22:52</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Number One Tool For Overcoming Your Inner Critic | Ep 4</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stop Being So Convenient | Ep 21]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, we cover:</p>
<p>• Why saying “yes” too often leads to burnout and resentment
• How boundaries protect your limited energy and attention
• Why people-pleasing can make you convenient rather than valued
• How learning to say “no” can build genuine self-esteem</p>
<p>If you’re feeling exhausted, underappreciated, or stretched too thin, this episode is for you.

To schedule a free 15 minute exploratory call with Nate, visit the link below. </p>

<a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716</a>
 
📩 me@natejohansen.com










<p>

</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/stop-being-so-convenient-ep-21/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e060cfd2-2832-3117-a5ec-024a1dd68dc1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 22:35:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/5d49b6c7026cc9fbc81174f4a767428ddc2d0eb73e41fbcc6e048beb30777ca2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2ZDMzMjQwZi0zMWUzLTQ4YTktYTc3Zi0xOWQ2Y2ZmYTQ4ODUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvNmQzMzI0MGYtMzFlMy00OGE5LWE3N2YtMTlkNmNmZmE0ODg1L1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzIxNno1OGkubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="11459236" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In today’s episode, we cover:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;• Why saying “yes” too often leads to burnout and resentment
• How boundaries protect your limited energy and attention
• Why people-pleasing can make you convenient rather than valued
• How learning to say “no” can build genuine self-esteem&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you’re feeling exhausted, underappreciated, or stretched too thin, this episode is for you.

To schedule a free 15 minute exploratory call with Nate, visit the link below. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716&lt;/a&gt;
 
📩 me@natejohansen.com










&lt;p&gt;

&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:11:56</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Stop Being So Convenient | Ep 21</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Being a Bad Person Made Me Good | Ep 12]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this more personal episode I discuss:</p>
<p>- The mindset shift that unlocked my mental healing</p>
<p>- The story behind my 2nd Tattoo</p>
<p>- My experience with Christianity</p>
<p>- How being "good" kept me stuck</p>
<p>- Comments on alcohol, cigarettes, the club, and more</p>
<p>- How I approach hardships 

To reach out with questions, comments, or conversation, email <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a>. 

If you enjoyed this episode please like &amp; subscribe - it helps grow the podcast! </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/being-a-bad-person-made-me-good-ep-12/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/2d5bfc07-21ec-320a-bfe7-999fd61ace63</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2026 15:49:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4fe5039d972aa7ec0161a929735a59e45e05e833d80a171574eedb8ad323f603/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5ZjczYmI2YS1iNzdlLTQyNjEtYjViNi00Y2M1M2M2MTY4ZGEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvOWY3M2JiNmEtYjc3ZS00MjYxLWI1YjYtNGNjNTNjNjE2OGRhL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzEyXzFfOHM5MnUubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="27539380" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this more personal episode I discuss:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The mindset shift that unlocked my mental healing&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The story behind my 2nd Tattoo&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- My experience with Christianity&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How being &quot;good&quot; kept me stuck&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Comments on alcohol, cigarettes, the club, and more&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How I approach hardships 

To reach out with questions, comments, or conversation, email &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;. 

If you enjoyed this episode please like &amp;amp; subscribe - it helps grow the podcast! &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:28:41</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Being a Bad Person Made Me Good | Ep 12</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[You Don’t Have to Live This Way | Ep 18]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>The rules running your life aren’t facts, they’re code. In today's episode, we explore how to identify the beliefs keeping you stuck and rewrite them to actually work for you.</p>
<p>To schedule a free call, <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here. </a></p>
<p>Have any thoughts on the episode? Email me! 
me@natejohansen.com</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/you-don-t-have-to-live-this-way/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/04072253-1961-359f-bc4b-e94b6ddef270</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2026 22:46:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/0f4f8704ea99cb17fa315a258e9657efcb4aa26a5b3fbd457ed038d4d53155cf/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2YTZiYmNjNi1hNzdjLTRiZTctOTEzYy00MTEyNDc4NWY1YTMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvNmE2YmJjYzYtYTc3Yy00YmU3LTkxM2MtNDExMjQ3ODVmNWEzL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzE4NmpldG0ubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="14672507" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;The rules running your life aren’t facts, they’re code. In today&apos;s episode, we explore how to identify the beliefs keeping you stuck and rewrite them to actually work for you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To schedule a free call, &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply-6716&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Have any thoughts on the episode? Email me! 
me@natejohansen.com&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:15:17</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:title>You Don’t Have to Live This Way | Ep 18</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Changing Careers, Religions, & Relationships - My Personal Rebuild | Ep 14]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Here's my own story of how I rebuilt my life.</p>
<p>In today's episode, we cover:</p>
<p>- Why men stay stuck in comfort instead of answering the call to change</p>
<p>- The difference between understanding yourself and actually changing your life</p>
<p>- How reconnecting with your emotions reveals the path forward</p>
<p>- What it really looks like to take action in career, belief, and relationships</p>
<p>- Why you don’t need all the answers before you make a move</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href="https://link.natejohansen.com/widget/form/hWhFNWCp5LNB8QCBU4vV" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Apply to The Advanced Rebuild Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Access the FREE Emotional Education Course</a></p>
<p>Email: me@natejohansen.com</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/changing-careers-religions-relationships-my-personal-rebuild-ep-14/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/1a295c6d-4593-3cfe-98f1-58240e10aa18</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 19:42:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/aec0bf86b05df5a3698e3b3b11a5253398ed91a67f5982c55bb925c1db3ad4b7/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwZTM2YmEyMS0xZWJiLTRmYzItYTc2OC05OTQ4ZTQwMjkyYmEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvMGUzNmJhMjEtMWViYi00ZmMyLWE3NjgtOTk0OGU0MDI5MmJhL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzE0N21vbmMubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="22329937" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Here&apos;s my own story of how I rebuilt my life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In today&apos;s episode, we cover:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Why men stay stuck in comfort instead of answering the call to change&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The difference between understanding yourself and actually changing your life&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How reconnecting with your emotions reveals the path forward&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- What it really looks like to take action in career, belief, and relationships&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Why you don’t need all the answers before you make a move&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://link.natejohansen.com/widget/form/hWhFNWCp5LNB8QCBU4vV&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;Apply to The Advanced Rebuild Group&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;Access the FREE Emotional Education Course&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Email: me@natejohansen.com&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:23:15</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Changing Careers, Religions, &amp; Relationships - My Personal Rebuild | Ep 14</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Complete Life Transformation - Interview with Bryce | Ep 3]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In today's episode I interview a fomer client of mine who has experienced a complete life transformation in 18 months. Listen in to hear how Bryce completely turned his life around and is waking up in a life he loves. </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a></p>
<p>Or <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here</a> to schedule a free strategy call. </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/complete-life-transformation-interview-with-bryce-ep-3/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/96bfc016-cb52-3b35-aa99-41e370083877</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2025 17:45:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/31677ee3fda13539d319f1b23f2f5d81e56db151e20bb64cbc2eac7d25e01c6f/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlZTdlOTcwMS01MTUwLTQzOWItOTUyZi0yMTBmNWY5OGM4NTciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvZWU3ZTk3MDEtNTE1MC00MzliLTk1MmYtMjEwZjVmOThjODU3L1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzNhYjQ2di5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="31061104" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In today&apos;s episode I interview a fomer client of mine who has experienced a complete life transformation in 18 months. Listen in to hear how Bryce completely turned his life around and is waking up in a life he loves. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; to schedule a free strategy call. &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:32:21</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Complete Life Transformation - Interview with Bryce | Ep 3</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Male Exhaustion Explained & Solved In 10 Minutes | Ep 5]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we dissect where all you're energy &amp; focus are going, leaving you totally exhausted all the time, AND discuss a roadmap for how to start to feel alive again. If you're struggling with burnout, this 10 minute episode can turn the lights on for you and get you on back on the path to aliveness. 

I'm currently assembling the last men's group of the year - the December cohort launches one week. If you're interested in joining the Rebuild Group Coaching Program, email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a> or DM me the word GROUP on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">instagram.</a></p>
<p>If you're needing some extra guidance this week, <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here</a> for a free strategy call where we'll dive deep into where you're at and map out some clear next steps to get you where you want to be. </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/male-exhaustion-explained-solved-in-10-minutes-ep-5/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/212283cc-06e1-3822-9006-807386bb92d9</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2025 21:45:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/de1e039e3fd1ddb111b413daf72f6cc5633fd560eb74430927f2afb2860739c1/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJlODA2NjE4Ni05NmY5LTQyNGItYTQ2NS03M2E4MjY5MmE2Y2QiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvZTgwNjYxODYtOTZmOS00MjRiLWE0NjUtNzNhODI2OTJhNmNkL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzU5bGR3Ni5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="11288709" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this episode we dissect where all you&apos;re energy &amp;amp; focus are going, leaving you totally exhausted all the time, AND discuss a roadmap for how to start to feel alive again. If you&apos;re struggling with burnout, this 10 minute episode can turn the lights on for you and get you on back on the path to aliveness. 

I&apos;m currently assembling the last men&apos;s group of the year - the December cohort launches one week. If you&apos;re interested in joining the Rebuild Group Coaching Program, email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt; or DM me the word GROUP on &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;instagram.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you&apos;re needing some extra guidance this week, &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; for a free strategy call where we&apos;ll dive deep into where you&apos;re at and map out some clear next steps to get you where you want to be. &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:11:45</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Male Exhaustion Explained &amp; Solved In 10 Minutes | Ep 5</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[I’ve Been Hiding – Here’s What I’m Changing | Ep 6]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>For a long time, I’ve been hiding.</p>
<p>I didn't realize it, but as I reflected on this year I've realized that I don't really show any of my own journey - my struggles, my wins, my losses. </p>
<p>This episode marks a shift.</p>
<p>I talk about what I think is actually valuable in a life coach or therapist, as well as my personal formula for living a fulfilling, and imperfect, life. </p>
<p>In this episode, I explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why shame makes life so much harder than it needs to be</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What actually makes someone worth listening to</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why avoiding mistakes keeps men stuck for years</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How learning to hate yourself less changes everything</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>I’m not here because I have life figured out.</p>
<p>I’m here because I’ve learned how to live in a way that’s less painful, more honest, and more sustainable.</p>
<p>This is me showing up with less polish and more truth. Mistakes included.</p>
<p>If this resonates and you want to talk, you can:</p>
<ul>
<li>Email me: <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a></li>
<li><a href="https://natejohansen.com/01--home" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Set up a quick call</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Follow me on instagram.</a></li>
</ul>
<p>I hope to connect soon. </p>
<p>Nate</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/i-ve-been-hiding-%e2%80%93-here-s-what-i-m-changing-ep-6/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/9c036862-7d50-3596-a672-aff586d081b0</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 20:21:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/33aa2a54461bc70f5c673ab0086e38776b061ae03ffc4f5b04ed5157e7d28c40/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJjNmZkY2QwYy1hOGY2LTRlMzYtYmIyZS0zMmQ1ZWZlNmVlNDAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvYzZmZGNkMGMtYThmNi00ZTM2LWJiMmUtMzJkNWVmZTZlZTQwL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkXy1fRXBfNmJ2MWFtLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="18846247" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;For a long time, I’ve been hiding.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I didn&apos;t realize it, but as I reflected on this year I&apos;ve realized that I don&apos;t really show any of my own journey - my struggles, my wins, my losses. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This episode marks a shift.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I talk about what I think is actually valuable in a life coach or therapist, as well as my personal formula for living a fulfilling, and imperfect, life. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In this episode, I explore:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why shame makes life so much harder than it needs to be&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What actually makes someone worth listening to&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why avoiding mistakes keeps men stuck for years&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How learning to hate yourself less changes everything&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’m not here because I have life figured out.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’m here because I’ve learned how to live in a way that’s less painful, more honest, and more sustainable.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is me showing up with less polish and more truth. Mistakes included.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If this resonates and you want to talk, you can:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Email me: &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/01--home&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;Set up a quick call&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.instagram.com/nate_johansen/&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;Follow me on instagram.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I hope to connect soon. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Nate&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:19:37</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:title>I’ve Been Hiding – Here’s What I’m Changing | Ep 6</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Went Viral Talking About Burnout...Then Burned Out | Ep 7]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Last year, I went viral talking about burnout in men.

Then I burned out myself.</p>
<p>In this episode, I share the honest story of how chasing growth, algorithms, and people-pleasing slowly pulled me away from myself, and what burnout forced me to change.</p>
<p>In this episode, I talk about:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>How building my business the “right” way led me straight into burnout</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why burnout isn’t a personal failure, but a signal that something needs to change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The moment I stopped posting overnight and listened to my body</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How learning to trust my body shortened burnout from months to weeks</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The difference between creating from vanity vs. creating from humanity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Who I’m no longer willing to serve moving into 2026, and why</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why real change doesn’t come from quick fixes or constant stimulation</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>If you’re exhausted, discouraged, or quietly thinking about quitting everything, this episode is for you.</p>
<p>If you’re interested in joining one of my group coaching containers, you’re welcome to reach out directly.</p>
<p>📩 <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Or book a free call here.</a></p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/i-went-viral-talking-about-burnoutthen-burned-out-ep-7/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/59227bd4-7fa6-3703-b438-717fc54f86b8</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2026 21:43:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4c5e071af751caa8ce940de44c085b3fe7a9daa2cdb797182b98628c49c44104/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3YTUyODlkZC0xNjRmLTQxZGItOTAzNy05MmFkM2RlZGJlZTUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvN2E1Mjg5ZGQtMTY0Zi00MWRiLTkwMzctOTJhZDNkZWRiZWU1L1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzc4bjhjaS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="15795587" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Last year, I went viral talking about burnout in men.

Then I burned out myself.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In this episode, I share the honest story of how chasing growth, algorithms, and people-pleasing slowly pulled me away from myself, and what burnout forced me to change.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In this episode, I talk about:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How building my business the “right” way led me straight into burnout&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why burnout isn’t a personal failure, but a signal that something needs to change&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The moment I stopped posting overnight and listened to my body&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How learning to trust my body shortened burnout from months to weeks&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The difference between creating from vanity vs. creating from humanity&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Who I’m no longer willing to serve moving into 2026, and why&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why real change doesn’t come from quick fixes or constant stimulation&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you’re exhausted, discouraged, or quietly thinking about quitting everything, this episode is for you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you’re interested in joining one of my group coaching containers, you’re welcome to reach out directly.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;📩 &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;Or book a free call here.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:16:21</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:title>I Went Viral Talking About Burnout...Then Burned Out | Ep 7</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Not All Pain Makes You Strong (Most Men Miss This) | Ep 8]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Men are taught a dangerous lie about pain.</p>
<p>That if something hurts, you should just push through it.</p>
<p>That enduring pain makes you strong.</p>
<p>That quitting, resting, or listening is weakness.</p>
<p>But if that were true, the men carrying the most pain would be the strongest men alive.</p>
<p>They’re not.</p>
<p>In this episode, we break down why most men are exhausted, burned out, disconnected, and quietly falling apart, not because they avoid pain, but because they endure the wrong kind of pain.</p>
<p>Pain isn’t a badge of honor.</p>
<p>It’s a messenger.</p>
<p>And if you don’t know how to interpret it, it will slowly ruin your life.</p>
<p>In this episode, we cover:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The two types of pain every man must learn to distinguish</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why “pushing through it” often leads to burnout, depression, and numbness</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How growing pain strengthens you, and how injury pain weakens you</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why shame, neglect, and oppression never lead to growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The difference between blind discipline and informed discipline</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How men confuse toughness with self-abandonment</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why monk mode, isolation, and constant proving often backfire</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to rebuild a wiser, healthier relationship with pain</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>This episode is for men who feel tired, stuck, or disconnected, and can’t figure out why all their effort isn’t paying off.</p>
<p>If you want help learning how to reconnect with yourself and your emotions in order to build a life that you love...</p>
<p>You can reach me directly at:
<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a></p>
<p>If this episode helped you, consider sharing it with a man who’s quietly carrying more than he should.</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/not-all-pain-makes-you-strong-most-men-miss-this-ep-8/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/1d1b55b3-2d83-3d91-a813-c09f248a5328</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2026 22:54:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/8fae3fe722bee91f92d8585a1147012e90f4e3a34f92b6b04fa159ac48102e72/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmYjc5MTRmNi1iZWE0LTQzMmUtODc1ZS02M2I0YWI4YTQ0MWIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvZmI3OTE0ZjYtYmVhNC00MzJlLTg3NWUtNjNiNGFiOGE0NDFiL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzg5cTRoZy5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="15197413" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Men are taught a dangerous lie about pain.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That if something hurts, you should just push through it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That enduring pain makes you strong.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That quitting, resting, or listening is weakness.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But if that were true, the men carrying the most pain would be the strongest men alive.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They’re not.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In this episode, we break down why most men are exhausted, burned out, disconnected, and quietly falling apart, not because they avoid pain, but because they endure the wrong kind of pain.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Pain isn’t a badge of honor.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It’s a messenger.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And if you don’t know how to interpret it, it will slowly ruin your life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In this episode, we cover:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The two types of pain every man must learn to distinguish&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why “pushing through it” often leads to burnout, depression, and numbness&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How growing pain strengthens you, and how injury pain weakens you&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why shame, neglect, and oppression never lead to growth&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The difference between blind discipline and informed discipline&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How men confuse toughness with self-abandonment&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why monk mode, isolation, and constant proving often backfire&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How to rebuild a wiser, healthier relationship with pain&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This episode is for men who feel tired, stuck, or disconnected, and can’t figure out why all their effort isn’t paying off.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you want help learning how to reconnect with yourself and your emotions in order to build a life that you love...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You can reach me directly at:
&lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If this episode helped you, consider sharing it with a man who’s quietly carrying more than he should.&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:15:44</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Not All Pain Makes You Strong (Most Men Miss This) | Ep 8</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reclaiming Self-Esteem & Energy As a Man | Ep 9]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This 16 minute episode contains everything most dudes need to know about boundaries. In it we cover 2 main things:</p>
<p>- What is a boundary?</p>
<p>- How do I set boundaries?</p>
<p>
By the end of listening you will have a KILLER tool in your toolbox to begin reclaiming your confidence and your energy. 

Men that don't have boundaries get overused and end up burned out, exhausted, and numb. 

Learning this ONE THING can begin to change everything. 

To join the next cohort of The Rebuild Group Coaching Program, email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Or schedule a free call with me <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">here</a>. </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/reclaiming-self-esteem-energy-as-a-man-ep-9/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/739b8282-fc0d-3557-8486-3689db5ec8f6</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2026 00:18:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/2673513c5b7caa60386e5d21ccd9fc48d0937a997192e923d0cf2fd17d1187f6/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyOTA4MTllZS00ZWQ3LTQ4ZWUtYjZjNC02YWZkMmU5YWJiZmQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvMjkwODE5ZWUtNGVkNy00OGVlLWI2YzQtNmFmZDJlOWFiYmZkL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzk2amRzcy5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="15862436" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This 16 minute episode contains everything most dudes need to know about boundaries. In it we cover 2 main things:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- What is a boundary?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How do I set boundaries?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
By the end of listening you will have a KILLER tool in your toolbox to begin reclaiming your confidence and your energy. 

Men that don&apos;t have boundaries get overused and end up burned out, exhausted, and numb. 

Learning this ONE THING can begin to change everything. 

To join the next cohort of The Rebuild Group Coaching Program, email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or schedule a free call with me &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:16:31</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Reclaiming Self-Esteem &amp; Energy As a Man | Ep 9</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Real Reason Your Relationship Isn't Working | Ep 10]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we discuss:</p>
<ul>
<li>Why relationships feel magical at first, then mechanical</li>
<li>How resentment forms</li>
<li>Why your brain decides who to get close to, and who to pull away from</li>
<li>The hidden danger of expecting too much from one person</li>
<li>How trauma makes you attracted to what harms you</li>
<li>What to do if you keep saying "I shouldn't have to tell them, they should just know."</li>
<li>A simple framework to diagnose ALL your relationships</li>
</ul>
<p>If after listening to this episode you'd like some personal coaching to get to where you are fully accountable in your relationships and getting your needs met, <a href="https://tr.ee/cCge8Ri7a8" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">schedule an appointment with me here</a>. 

For any other comments, questions, or feedback, email <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a>. </p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/the-real-reason-your-relationship-isnt-working-ep-10/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/9238c615-fcde-34fa-be67-8622d1458671</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 22:19:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/43f9816f0a48a1b8bacb40b0abd3b2e85d857a33370a308e58a5366e175c1663/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhZjdhZDA2Ni1mNWIwLTQxZWUtODJjMi1hN2E3ZjAzZDI0OWUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvYWY3YWQwNjYtZjViMC00MWVlLTgyYzItYTdhN2YwM2QyNDllL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzEwXzFfODJrejQubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="22490433" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this episode we discuss:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Why relationships feel magical at first, then mechanical&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How resentment forms&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Why your brain decides who to get close to, and who to pull away from&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The hidden danger of expecting too much from one person&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How trauma makes you attracted to what harms you&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;What to do if you keep saying &quot;I shouldn&apos;t have to tell them, they should just know.&quot;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;A simple framework to diagnose ALL your relationships&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If after listening to this episode you&apos;d like some personal coaching to get to where you are fully accountable in your relationships and getting your needs met, &lt;a href=&quot;https://tr.ee/cCge8Ri7a8&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;schedule an appointment with me here&lt;/a&gt;. 

For any other comments, questions, or feedback, email &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:23:25</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Real Reason Your Relationship Isn&apos;t Working | Ep 10</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Fear of Being Happy & Men's Emotional Support Stress | Ep 15]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In today's episode we cover: </p>
<p>- Why men subconsciously feel unsafe being happy.</p>
<p>- The "emotional support stress" that men carry even when times are good.</p>
<p>- How over-identifying with "provider" causes increased stress and decreased resilience. </p>
<p>- Escaping constant stress</p>
<p>- Discovering identities that permit joy as a man

For questions or conversations email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a> </p>
<p>Or <a href="https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here</a> for a free Emotional Education Course.</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/the-fear-of-being-happy-mens-emotional-support-stress-ep-15/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/1aff17eb-9d2a-35ae-9f6a-5db053722fa2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 02:52:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c6c5e5000b1c7b2bf119c970f8ef2eac82459c61c376eba1e5e7c8e6442e28c9/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3NTYxY2JhOC04OTE4LTRhODQtODM1Ny0zYWVhZGM2YmFiNTYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvNzU2MWNiYTgtODkxOC00YTg0LTgzNTctM2FlYWRjNmJhYjU2L1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzE1ODExMzgubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="16185519" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In today&apos;s episode we cover: &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Why men subconsciously feel unsafe being happy.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The &quot;emotional support stress&quot; that men carry even when times are good.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How over-identifying with &quot;provider&quot; causes increased stress and decreased resilience. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Escaping constant stress&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Discovering identities that permit joy as a man

For questions or conversations email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; for a free Emotional Education Course.&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:16:51</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Fear of Being Happy &amp; Men&apos;s Emotional Support Stress | Ep 15</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Do You Need To Be Understood | Ep 17]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Today's episode was requested by a follower, if you'd like to request an episode email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a></p>
<p>In today's episode we cover:</p>
<p>- The problem of trying to be externally understood </p>
<p>- What happens inside the person trying to be understood</p>
<p>- My experience trying to be understood</p>
<p>- How to escape the need to be understood</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If you have comments or questions about today's episode feel free to email me - Iove chatting with listeners. </p>
<p>To book a free call with me <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here. </a></p>
<p>To access a free curriculum that teaches men about emotions, <a href="https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">click here.</a></p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/do-you-need-to-be-understood-ep-17/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/5697046b-8349-3366-b02d-e284df05358e</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2026 23:41:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/8f6c0150cf76c41eb502fdf724d4871f72f4c0b2611133d2ce1ce356a19c8229/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5NGViNDFkZS0yOTAxLTQ5ZWEtOWE2OC0yMGQxNDU1MjAzNTUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvOTRlYjQxZGUtMjkwMS00OWVhLTlhNjgtMjBkMTQ1NTIwMzU1L1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzE3OWlrOGcubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="14929970" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Today&apos;s episode was requested by a follower, if you&apos;d like to request an episode email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In today&apos;s episode we cover:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The problem of trying to be externally understood &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- What happens inside the person trying to be understood&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- My experience trying to be understood&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How to escape the need to be understood&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you have comments or questions about today&apos;s episode feel free to email me - Iove chatting with listeners. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To book a free call with me &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To access a free curriculum that teaches men about emotions, &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;click here.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:15:33</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Do You Need To Be Understood | Ep 17</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Smart Men Stay Stuck for Decades | Ep 13]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we cover:</p>
<p>- Why men repeat the same patterns for years without realizing it</p>
<p>- The hidden role of “shoulds” and how they disconnect you from reality</p>
<p>- How your beliefs quietly keep you stuck in careers, relationships, and identities that don’t work</p>
<p>- The emotional price of facing reality (and why most men avoid it)</p>
<p>- The mindset shift that unlocks new paths, better decisions, and real progress</p>
<p>- How to start questioning your limiting beliefs without blowing up your entire life

For direct 1on1 support, email me@natejohansen.com</p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/why-smart-men-stay-stuck-for-decades-ep-13/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/5752eb2b-76f0-3be3-a199-b988eb1bd72c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 01:03:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/80a6308351643103b952a13013be010ff1ff2c6576c1b981ada13ca24ced3f9b/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhNGQ5Y2VjYi00NzYyLTQ1NTQtOWYxOS00OTYyMzY1YTkzOWIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvYTRkOWNlY2ItNDc2Mi00NTU0LTlmMTktNDk2MjM2NWE5MzliL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzEzXzlqdmFiLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="16585506" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this episode we cover:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Why men repeat the same patterns for years without realizing it&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The hidden role of “shoulds” and how they disconnect you from reality&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How your beliefs quietly keep you stuck in careers, relationships, and identities that don’t work&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The emotional price of facing reality (and why most men avoid it)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The mindset shift that unlocks new paths, better decisions, and real progress&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How to start questioning your limiting beliefs without blowing up your entire life

For direct 1on1 support, email me@natejohansen.com&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:17:16</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Why Smart Men Stay Stuck for Decades | Ep 13</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Thought My Emotions Were the Problem | Ep 16]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In today's episode we discuss:</p>
<p>- The dysfunctional relationship men have been taught to have with emotions</p>
<p>- How fear, sadness, and anger get buried in childhood</p>
<p>- Why “getting rid of bad emotions” actually makes things worse</p>
<p>- How emotional ignorance turns men against themselves</p>
<p>- How men misunderstand themselves when they misunderstand their emotions</p>
<p>- How emotionally healthy men respond to fear, sadness, and anger</p>
<p>- Why understanding emotions changes relationships, parenting, and identity</p>
<p>- The beginning stages of reconnecting with yourself emotionally</p>
<p>- An effective approach to integrating emotions as a man

<a href="https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Click here to access your free emotional education. </a></p>
<p>Email me at <a href="mailto:me@natejohansen.com" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">me@natejohansen.com</a></p>
<p>Or schedule a free call with me <a href="https://natejohansen.com/apply" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">here. </a></p>
]]></description><link>https://therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/e/i-thought-my-emotions-were-the-problem-ep-16/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">therebuildpodcast.podbean.com/04e63ce5-8d34-3d49-bfd7-cf317355be74</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[natejohansen]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 22:17:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c1337af8db03b32f3a68d872b89961bba939dc337b8bcee00c2c258506560e13/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3YmE2MzM3OC05NzQ1LTQ3NGItYjRiOS0zMjQ4ZTMzYzQ0ZjEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiIyYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YWNlMmI4ODBhYmU2MDYyZDUzZmQzM2QiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy8yYjFhNDU0Mi1lNDg1LTQ0ZTUtYmNhZi0wNzk3MjU0MzVlYWMvZXBpc29kZXMvN2JhNjMzNzgtOTc0NS00NzRiLWI0YjktMzI0OGUzM2M0NGYxL1RoZV9SZWJ1aWxkX0VwXzE2OG5oaWUubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="11822443" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In today&apos;s episode we discuss:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The dysfunctional relationship men have been taught to have with emotions&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How fear, sadness, and anger get buried in childhood&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Why “getting rid of bad emotions” actually makes things worse&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How emotional ignorance turns men against themselves&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How men misunderstand themselves when they misunderstand their emotions&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- How emotionally healthy men respond to fear, sadness, and anger&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Why understanding emotions changes relationships, parenting, and identity&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- The beginning stages of reconnecting with yourself emotionally&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- An effective approach to integrating emotions as a man

&lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/access-free-emotional-education-course-page&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;Click here to access your free emotional education. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Email me at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:me@natejohansen.com&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;me@natejohansen.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or schedule a free call with me &lt;a href=&quot;https://natejohansen.com/apply&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;here. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:12:18</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/2b1a4542-e485-44e5-bcaf-079725435eac/THE_REBUILDb753n.png"/><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:title>I Thought My Emotions Were the Problem | Ep 16</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>