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In this episode, I sit down with Lucy, a brilliant autistic young adult with a deep love of history, for a conversation that flows effortlessly—because when neurodivergent minds connect, there’s no shortage of things to talk about. We dive into storytelling and its impact on learning, how we perceive communication, and the power of diversifying your skills. Along the way, we explore evolution and the undeniable presence of autistic people throughout history. This episode is packed with thoughtful insights, personal perspectives, and plenty of moments that remind us why these conversations matter.

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We are so very proud to release part 2 with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. 

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Have you packed your toothbrush? Never fear, Bianca and Dan take you on a journey of discovery as they discuss what it is like being autistic and going on holiday. To help us we invited special attaché party pooper Sonja as she regales us with her recent holiday with an all-neurodivergent cast of characters, Bianca and Dan provide you with some excellent tips and tricks to ensure your holiday goes smoothly.

And of course we have regulars Neurodivergent Digest, Recommendations, Feedback and Autistic Moments.

You can find the Scott Hicks movie here.

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In this episode of “Late To The Party,” Bianca and Dan drop a bombshell with a shock announcement that you won’t want to miss! But that’s not all—we dive into a fascinating meme about mental health professionals that has been making the rounds over at Spectrumy, sparking some insightful and tense discussions.

We also share an incredible piece of Listener Feedback explaining imposter syndrome that really hit home. Plus, our popular segment “Autistic Moments” features a hilarious and identifiable story from one of our listeners.

Tune in for an episode packed with surprises, laughs, and shocks. This one is all about the big reveal, and trust us, it’s a game-changer!

Check out memes author Dr Glenn Patrick Doyle here.
Is there evidence to support red cordial and hyperactivity? Check this article.

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Bianca and Dan discuss the highs and lows of mixed relationships, those being neurodivergent and neurotypical. We look at the experience from both sides point of view and offer some practical advice on what you can do to maintain a happy healthy relationship.
Listen in to a phone call between producer Chartreuse and Biancas mother as they attempt to resolve their differences and we have a couple of short Autistic Moments. 

Be sure to read this excellent article on loneliness in a relationship when one partner is Autistic.
Learn more about Bionic Reading
Check out this book by Scottish comedian Fern Brady about her autistic diagnosis.

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In this episode we are excited to share with you an interview with Autistic and ADHD diagnosed Provisional Psychologist Lynette Dickenson.
Lynette shares with us her many interesting jobs that led her to become a psychologist.   Lynette combines her professional expertise with personal experiences. We delve into her journey, debunk misconceptions, and uncover practical strategies to navigate the unique challenges of someone with additional needs.  Lynette also answers some interesting Party Pooper questions. 
She also shares invaluable tips and resources to help you thrive. And of course, there is always the general chit chat between Bianca and Dan pre and post interview.  Enjoy.

Here are some videos of Lynette doing guided yoga.

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🔔 Trigger Warning
This episode discusses topics related to Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD), which may be distressing for some listeners. Please take care while listening.

In this important episode, Dan sits down with Christine Brooks, Director at NOFASD Australia, to shed light on the often misunderstood and under-recognized condition of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD).

Christine shares her insights into:

• Why FASD remains largely unknown in both the general community and among therapists.
• The challenges families and individuals face in getting a diagnosis and appropriate support.
• The new Australian Guidelines for Assessment and Diagnosis of FASD, released on May 13, 2025, and how they aim to:
  • Improve diagnostic services across the lifespan.
  • Support practitioners in identifying and diagnosing FASD more effectively.
• Visit NOFASD Australia for information, resources, and support services.
• If you or someone you know is affected by FASD, seek support in your local area or contact NOFASD’s helpline.

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On this episode, Dan speaks with author and perfumer Rini Puccetti about her groundbreaking planner, designed to merge logical layout with emotional well-being. This planner is a game-changer for anyone seeking to bring clarity and balance into their daily routine. 

Key Topics:

• Rini's inspiration behind creating the planner.
• The unique integration of a logical layout with an emotional well-being focus.
• Introduction to the exclusive Emotional Vocabulary Chart, which helps users track their moods, identify triggers, and articulate feelings with precision.
• Practical tips from Rini on how to use the planner effectively.

Dan also welcomes a surprise guest you may know quite well.

Guest Information:
Rini Puccetti: Author and perfumer known for her innovative work.

• Social Media: Facebook
• Book Availability: Find the book at Amazon.com.au: Miss Rini: books, biography, latest update

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This week’s plans derailed in a very on‑brand way. Mostly because I’m knee‑deep in getting everything ready for Neurospicy 2026 on March 19th, so I’m handing the mic to another podcast whose episode on long‑term ADHD research genuinely deserves your ears. 

I'm sharing an episode of the Hyperfocus podcast with Rae Jacobson, which features in-depth conversations challenging conventional views on neurodivergence. On each episode, Rae discusses key questions and headlines with experts, scientists, doctors, and researchers, exploring both the barriers and the beauty of neurodivergence.

You can find all episodes of Hyperfocus here.

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Episode 72 of Late To The Party is live, and today we’re going full neuro‑nerd with the incredible Sadie Dingfelder.  
Sadie is a science reporter who discovered she has face blindness, aphantasia, and a handful of other brain quirks and then turned that whole journey into a hilarious, insightful book called Do I Know You?
We talk perception, identity, weird brain settings, and what it’s like to realise your mind has been running a completely different operating system this whole time.
It’s chaotic, curious, and very, very us.

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Website 

Book Publisher page

Twitter 

Instagram 

Washington Post Author Page

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On this episode we go back to our roots with a classic tête-à-tête loosely based around well-known autistic people and those we think could be. We delve back to some old tv shows and movies, none of which seem to be shared by Bianca and Dan. We also prepare for a speech that we both will be making at a party and Dan really needs to provide context a lot more often.

We have listener feedback and another installment of Autistic Moments.  Dan also considered setting up a survey to determine who is the biggest 'hoot' on the podcast but he has a frail ego and may be crushed by the results.

You can see Chloe Haydens acceptance speech here.
The tv show Candy Candy can be found here.
Dans favourite review of Phantom of the Opera is this - "As I was sitting in the auditorium, I kept looking around hoping there was a chandelier above me getting ready to plummet to the ground."

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There is a reason we called the podcast Late To The Party. On this episode we explore the challenges of preparing yourself for an upcoming event. We provide some useful tips on how to get yourself ready for what can be an overwhelming experience.

As usual we have an Autistic Moment, Listener Feedback and Neurodivergent Digest.

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Some of the music on this episode was provided by Music from the middle ages 06 2013-08-10 Douce Dame Jolie - Tocs Occitans

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Dan sits down with his daughter Eloise for a wide-ranging, heartfelt, and occasionally chaotic conversation that spans pop culture, music, neurodivergence, and the state of the world.

Dan calls Different Journeys CEO Mel Spencer with some really special news.

Dan and Eloise take a deep dive into the social media phenomenon The Basement Yard, unpacking why it’s so addictive and what it says about humor. Dan even writes his own slam poetry! Eloise shares updates on her friend’s band — which Dan is recording — and we reflect on the joy of making original music, even when the band talks a lot between takes.

Then we spiral into our shared hyper fixation: the TV show House. From Hugh Laurie’s brilliance to the show’s messy ethics, we explore why it still grips us years later.

Dan opens up about his lifelong love of Brian Wilson, whose recent passing has left a deep mark. He shares a personal musical tribute piece at the end of the episode — a moment of reflection, gratitude, and musical reverence.

We also get fired up about the complacency we see in today’s world. Where’s the rage? Where’s the accountability? We talk about the need for education, awareness, and action, especially around social justice and neurodivergence.

And finally, we share some listener-submitted Autistic Moments — those beautifully honest, funny, and insightful snapshots of neurodivergent life that remind us why this podcast exists.

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Podcast Episode: Embracing Neurodiversity with Kathy Isaacs

Hosts: Dan Kerr and Kathy Isaacs

Summary: In this episode, Dan Kerr and Kathy Isaacs dive into a rich conversation about neurodiversity, focusing on autism and ADHD. They discuss their personal experiences, challenges, and the importance of self-identification and diagnosis. Kathy shares insights from her work with the Sylvia Roger Academy governance program and her involvement in various autism advocacy organisations.

Key Points:

• Diversity and Inclusion: Dan, as a diversity and inclusion ambassador, emphasises the value of neurodivergent minds in the workplace.
• Autism and ADHD: Kathy explains the intersection of autism and ADHD, noting the growing minority of autistic individuals without ADHD.
• Self-Identification: The legitimacy of self-identifying as autistic is highlighted, with Kathy supporting this approach.
• Challenges and Coping: They discuss the difficulties of masking and the importance of finding ways to unmask and be authentic.
• Empathy and Understanding: The concept of double empathy is explored, emphasising the mutual effort required for understanding between autistic and allistic people.
• Work and Advocacy: Kathy's involvement in autism advocacy through various boards and organisations is discussed, focusing on amplifying autistic voices.
• Personal Reflections: Kathy shares her experiences in palliative care and how her autistic traits helped her excel in the role.
• Special Interests: Kathy talks about her passion for sewing, Salesforce, and the joy of engaging in special interests.
• Music and Creativity: The hosts discuss their love for music that blends genres and the use of writing prompts for creative inspiration.
• Future Plans: Dan shares his plans for a live podcast event focused on the journey of autism discovery and connecting with local services.

Conclusion: The episode concludes with a heartfelt discussion on the importance of community and support in the autism journey. Dan and Kathy's conversation is a testament to the power of embracing neurodiversity and finding joy in being authentic.

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Welcome to episode 42 Party Poopers. Welcome to our podcast where we discuss the misconceptions surrounding autistic adults. Autism is a complex neurodevelopmental disorder that affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. Unfortunately, there are many myths and stereotypes surrounding autism that can lead to misunderstandings and discrimination. In this podcast, we will explore some of the most common misconceptions about autistic adults and provide accurate information to help dispel these myths. So, sit back, go for a jog, get medicated, whatever helps you chill, and join us as we explore the world of autism and debunk some of the most common myths.

As usual we have Autistic Moments and this episode a brand-new segment...Autistic Hotline.

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On this episode Bianca and Dan talk all things teenager. Specifically, how different is the teenage experience for autistic people. With depression, anxiety and eating disorders being so prevalent for autistic teens, it is not a stretch to say that this period of your life can be the pits. Bianca and Dan also talk to some actual teens and compare their experience to their own.  We also get some insights from one of our own Party Poopers. 

As usual there are your Text Fuckups, Listener Feedback, Autistic Moments and Dan gets a reprieve from having to give a compliment because he is off to see the Hobbits.  

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On this episode we dispel the idea that we need to return to better days. For an autistic person this is not a sensible or likely solution. We read a brilliant article from Kristy Forbes and look at common issues that autistic people experience when trying to just get life done.

We have another excellent review by Party Pooper Sonja on attending a concert as an autistic person.

Dan is doing Steptember (2023), you can donate here if you hurry.

Learn more about Pathological Demand Avoidance here.

Reflections (kristyforbes.com.au)

You can find the article we speak about here.

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Thirty episodes, we are so proud of ourselves. And what an episode we have for you all. We speak to everyone's favourite actor and star of Love on the Spectrum, Micheal Theo. It was an absolute thrill for us, and we had such a fun conversation with him. This is not your boring typical interview. Michael gets to show his amazing acting chops and character voices with us as well as telling us all about what he has been up to. Michael shares some of his favourite tv shows and we get a exclusive glimpse of some rare items in his personal collection. We also start a new interview segment called 'Who Knows Michael Better' which was so much fun we will be using it again for other interviews.

Strap yourselves in because Michael does not disappoint.
You can find Michael on Instagram here at mr_a_plus_michael,

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This episode proves to be a difficult challenge for Dan as he opens up about his body dysmorphia.  Dan, always the resilient chap, drops his guard and invites listeners to share his difficult journey from shame to revelation and hopefully acceptance. Please note this episode deals with eating disorders and may be triggering for some.

The episode also has its lighter moments, such as Bianca's shock at discovering her happiness bubble has been popped. She reflects on how her comfort and solace has been compromised with reality. Listeners will gain insight into how she copes with daily struggles and embraces the joy that autism brings to her life. Also has Bianca set up some kind of meth lab? Thats what the Chemist thought!

Also enjoy our regular segments such as Text Fuck Ups, Recommendation and Autistic Moments. And PLEASE for the love of Cod help Dan with his Facebook messages issues. Please send feedback.

Our recommendation this week is The Art Of Frugal Hedonism by Annie Raser-Rowland, Adam Grubb. Also the incredible documentary The First Inventors on SBS On Demand.
Here is an article on Hypermobility Rib Subluxation.

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Bianca and Dan are enjoying Easter holidays so please enjoy this mini episode. Bianca figures out Dans predilection for leading questions. They also discover some very strange games they played as kids and share tales of loneliness and imagination. They really should be called Bored games.  

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It is Episode 16. Thank you so much for your continued support. This episode we talk about our likes and dislikes and look for commonalities. Dan is given some news about his vocal stylings and Bianca tells us more about her home life than we probably asked for.
We have a killer Autistic Moment and yet another new segment called Neurodivergent Digest, not to forget our Recommendations. Speaking of you can find Kristy Forbes on Facebook here.
Let it be known that the drumbeats in the podcast are Dan's first public performance on the drums.
For those not in the know the Harold audio relates to the TV show Neighbours.

Here is the excerpt mentioned by Dan -
Carl Sagans - The demon haunted world - 1995

“I have a foreboding of an America in my children's or grandchildren's time -- when the United States is a service and information economy; when nearly all the manufacturing industries have slipped away to other countries; when awesome technological powers are in the hands of a very few, and no one representing the public interest can even grasp the issues; when the people have lost the ability to set their own agendas or knowledgeably question those in authority; when, clutching our crystals and nervously consulting our horoscopes, our critical faculties in decline, unable to distinguish between what feels good and what's true, we slide, almost without noticing, back into superstition and darkness...

The dumbing down of American is most evident in the slow decay of substantive content in the enormously influential media, the 30 second sound bites (now down to 10 seconds or less), lowest common denominator programming, credulous presentations on pseudoscience and superstition, but especially a kind of celebration of ignorance”

― Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark

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On this the final episode of Season 1, Bianca and Dan take you on a yuletide journey back into Christmas past, present and future. They discuss how Christmas looks for an autistic family and provide some tips on how to traverse the big day with family and all the sensory overload that comes with it. See you in 2023!

Read some great advice for coping with Christmas over at Autism.org.uk
More great tips from Amaze

Dans Christmas music suggestions -
Gaelynn Lea - Deepest Darkness, Brightest Dawn
Flaming Lips - Imagene Peise - Atlas Eats Christmas
Christmas In Soulsville
The Motown Christmas Collection
Blue Christmas - Blue Note

Our Christmas song - Late To The Party This Christmas
I'm late to the party this Christmas
It's enough just to get out the door
I've forgotten my pills
All the presents are no frills
And I've given the same ones before

I'm late to the party this Christmas
And I wont find any comfort in food
Cause the people are too loud
Im awkward in a crowd 
And my lack of eye contact looks rude

I'm late to the party this Christmas
And my socks wont stop itching my feet
All this small talk is hell
I just can't stand the smells
And I'm allergic to dried fruit and wheat

So I'm late to the party this Christmas
Cause were both still recording a show
And the news is I fear
It's the last for the year
But were back next year raring to go

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Like many other late diagnosed adults, we have to put up with verbal (and nonverbal) accusations of not actually being autistic, and we are up to here with it. Bianca and Dan offer their experiences around why masking is often confused with faking by some people. If you are not sure how to respond to these claims this is the episode for you.
 
Bianca responds to Dan's (supposedly) sexist and misogynistic criticism of her wardrobe. In unrelated news Bianca wins Miss Autistic Universe.

Read Em Rusciano responds to claims of faking her autism here. She also covers the topic in more detail on her podcast.

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In part one of our special on sensory issues Bianca and Dan discuss their vast array of sensory quirks and we also get to hear from Bianca's two daughters. Dan reveals an incredibly embarrassing incident in the segment Autistic Moments. Then on the next episode we have part two in which we have our very first guest, Julie Baker of Sensory Matters and Sensory Friendly Clothing.

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On this episode we welcome Jason Crabtree from Bubble Support, a disability services and support organisation.  Disability support coordinators play a vital role in improving the lives of individuals with disabilities. They assess needs, develop personalized support plans, coordinate services, monitor progress, advocate for participants, and link them with community resources. Their dedication contributes significantly to the well-being of those they serve.

This is a very valuable episode if you have considered if you may need a support coordinatory OR if you would consider doing this work yourself.

And for icing on the cake we have our infamous segment 'Who knows [guest] better.'

You can find Jason here -
https://www.bubblesupport.com.au/
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Bianca and Dan talk about the upcoming holidays, what we enjoy and what we struggle with. Most importantly they provide some excellent coping strategies (well some are pretty weird) to help you get through the silly season. Dan also shares some of his favourite Christmas themed music. See below for the playlist.

 They also review an excellent slideshow on executive functioning thanks to @neurodivergent_lou
And of course there is the crowd favourites Text Fuckups, Recommendations, Listener Feedback and an Autistic Moment.

You can find Dans massively awesome playlist on Spotify here.
You can find the The Imperfects podcast here.

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For this episode we take a look at dating from the perspective of an autistic person. Dan and Bianca speak to their significant others about what it was like to date undiagnosed autistic peeps.  Listeners get to appreciate Bianca and Dans acting chops of full display and we learn about what goes on in the Olympics village.

This episode was recorded at the sublime accommodation and farm retreat Ripples and Tonic, a favourite of the hosts and a few Party Poopers.

Some suggested websites to check out -
https://www.aspie-singles.com/en/
https://www.spectrumspace.org.au/autistic-single-gay-ready-mingle/
https://www.hikiapp.com/

Listen to Paige Layle talk about her experiences with dating
Read this article from the Autism Spectrum website.

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This episode we speak with Occupational Therapist Charlinda Parsons. For anyone late diagnosed autistic or ADHD this is an incredibly informative conversation that provides insight into why an adult needs an OT just as much as any other age.

Bianca and Dan round off the episode with a deep dive into laughter and wait around for a new song from Dan that encapsulates the discussion with a strong kick drum.

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In this our inaugural episode we introduce ourselves and tell a little of our story into how we became aware of our Autism.  And never fear, the sound improves in subsequent episodes. While Dan has been formally diagnosed Bianca is self diagnosed. We also delve into our childhood experiences and how it feels to look back with new insights. And finally, should Dan dole out the cash for another smile from co-host Bianca.

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Late To The Party respectfully acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the lands we record on, the Wurundjeri Woi Wurrung and Bunurong Boon Wurrung peoples of the Eastern Kulin and pays respect to their Elders past, present and emerging.

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This episode Dan interviews his friend and old workmate Shirl. It is an incredibly moving, candid and funny discussion that so many people will be able to associate with.  Shirl was diagnosed Autistic four years ago, around the same time as Dan, and shows another side to the diagnosis fallout. This was not an easy discussion for Shirl however the bigger priority was to share just how difficult it has been for us later diagnosed people, particularly in childhood and young adulthood. 
 
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Welcome to the second season of the podcast. Thanks for all the lovely feedback. Don't forget to keep passing the word and if you could add a review in iTunes or wherever you get the podcast it actually makes a huge difference.

This episode we take a relaxed approach to ease you back in. Bianca and Dan discuss the holidays, tongue twisters, interviews, musicals. All while knocking back Pimms and pretending we don't need to pee badly.
And of course, we have some regular segments like Autistic Moments and a Compliment from Dan.

The theatre group mentioned for the Heathers musical is Out of the wings theatre.
Also here is a good Pimms recipe.

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We are so happy to finally be speaking with Mel Spencer, the Chief Executive Officer of Different Journeys, is a fierce Autistic advocate. As a parent to three Autistic teenagers and an Autistic individual herself, she is committed to creating a more accommodating and accepting world for the Autism community. Mel co-founded Different Journeys to provide meaningful connections and empowerment opportunities for Autistic individuals and their families.

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Welcome to episode 55 of Late To The Party! On this episode we are exploring essential online tools and strategies to enhance executive functioning for neurodivergent individuals. From time management tips to organisational hacks, we’ll cover some practical online and app solutions to help you thrive. Plus, we’ll be sharing listener feedback and addressing another heartfelt apology from Bianca. Tune in for an insightful and supportive discussion!

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On this episode we discuss positivity and negativity within the context of autism. How we see ourselves, how others see us, how we view the world and what we can do to change the prevailing negative view of being autistic.
The hits also just keep coming. Bianca finally gets her way and has her own song on what is now an official segment - Compliments from Dan.
We get miffed about celebrities using ADHD to excuse bad behaviour and look at ways to change the perception that autism is a bad thing. And of course, we have another hilarious Autistic Moment as well as a secret hidden track at the end so keep listening.

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I installed an anti-virus on my computer. Now it has Autism. That's right, this episode is all about comedy. Bianca and Dan talk about the kind of humour they love and dispel the rumour that all Autistic people are humourless and do not get a joke. 
The comedy continues with segments like Neurodivergent Digest, Recommendations, Autistic Moments and a Compliment From Dan. 

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 In this episode, we explore how our brains form and hold beliefs, even when they aren't factual. We discuss good vs. bad evidence, Autism and Identity Theory, and how personal experiences shape our beliefs. We also have fun with a fake product and read listener comments.

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In this episode, we sit down with Joanne Seymon, co-founder of Kaiko Fidgets—a trailblazing Australian business born from lived experience and a deep understanding of neurodiversity. Joanne, an occupational therapist and mother to Kai, shares the inspiring journey of how a simple idea blossomed into a thriving enterprise that’s changing lives. From designing elegant sensory tools to empowering young neurodivergent individuals through meaningful employment, Kaiko Fidgets is more than a business—it’s a movement. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about creativity, compassion, and the power of purposeful design.

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Welcome to another episode of Late To The Party with your hosts, Bianca and Dan! 🎉 Today, we’re diving into a fascinating and important topic: the relationship between autism and alexithymia.

Join us as we explore how these two conditions intersect, what it means for those who experience them, and the impact on emotional awareness and communication. We’ll be breaking down the science, sharing personal stories, and discussing strategies for better understanding and support.

So, grab your headphones and get ready for an enlightening conversation. Let’s get this party started!

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We are so very proud to release part 1 of a 2 part episode with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. Here is what was covered during just this episode -

What are pronouns and who cares.
Do only gay people have pronouns?
What is Trans?
Gender fluidity
Is Gender Binary?
What is Non-binary?
Neopronouns and how to use them.
Can a Non-binary person be straight?
What is Queer.
What is Asexual.
Attraction does not equal action.
Hans Asberger and high/low functioning labels.
The intersection of autism and queerness.
How we can help as parents. Koda offers such great advice for us.
Does anyone actually 'grow out of it'?
The power of gender affirming.

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There is a twist this episode that sends tremors through the podcave. Our segment Compiment From Dan is turned upside down. What will be the fallout.
We discuss a post by Kristy Forbes over at Intune Pathways
Bianca reads an email from a wise Buddhist that only serves to boost her inflated ego
We also discuss a superb article from Late To The Party's best friend Jessica Horner, who you may remember from episode 7
And of course there is an Autistic Moment as well as a new (kinda) segment Recommendations.

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Three years after her first appearance, Jessica is back on the podcast for an honest catch‑up about life six‑plus years post‑diagnosis. We talk about what’s shifted, what hasn’t, and how understanding our neurodivergence continues to shape our mental health, identity, and day‑to‑day lives.

We touch on ADHD, dyscalculia, reframing autism and ADHD away from deficit language, and the ongoing work of making sense of our past and present through a more compassionate lens. It’s a grounded, reflective conversation between two late‑identified neurodivergent adults comparing notes on what it actually means to grow into this understanding over time.

If this podcast supports you or helps you feel seen, you can help sustain the work by joining the community on Patreon. Even small contributions make a real difference in keeping these conversations independent and accessible.

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Books mentioned:

Right Story, Wrong Story: Adventures in Indigenous Thinking

By Tyson Yunkaporta

Come As You Are

By Emily Nagoski

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Bianca and Dan have been absent for a few weeks and Chartreuse has something to say about that. Which leads us to this episode's topic. Anxiety. On a previous episode the listeners got to experience Bianca going through a tough stretch with her anxiety, and while she soldiered on it was clear the wounds were still new.  But with time and perspective (and perhaps a little medication) she is ready to discuss that experience with us. We also get to hear from some of the Party Poopers and how they cope when their anxiety gets a bit too much. 

And of course we have some recommendations, text fuckups, Neurodivergent digest and yet another embarrassing Autistic moment from Dan.

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Welcome to season 3 of Late To The Party. What a year it was. Thank you to all our listeners for their ongoing support and a big thank you to all our Party Poopers on the private group for their continued contributions. Everyone is welcome to join us at  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726

On this episode we talk about what to do if someone asks you if they might be autistic. Bianca and Dan offer a lot of great advice for both parties. Dan also shares some big news and they let artificial intelligence write some jokes. 

As usual we have Text Fuckups, Autistic Moments, Listener Feedback and Recommendations.

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Host Dan chats with Maggie Broom about the benefits of equine therapy. Maggie explains how working with horses can improve physical, mental, and emotional well-being. We talk about -:

• How does animal-assisted therapy with horses differs from traditional therapy methods?
• The difference between how a mental health professional uses this therapy compared to a provider that just happens to be good with animals.
• We also explore what a session would look like for an adult who was late diagnosed.

Maggie's business Grey Horse Growth and Learning offers both personal development and therapy through the medium of horses.  Clients can attend Equine Facilitated Learning sessions for personal growth and social skills development, or one hour sessions for counselling/psychotherapy.

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This is a special extra mini episode leading up to our final episode. It is a short piece written by Dan and inspired by a great comment from party pooper Sonja on a recent dating disaster. We hope you enjoy.

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On this episode Biance and Dan talk games, particularly The Last Of Us, and Bianca offers up a classic 'have you noticed.'
Dan also speaks to his daughter Eloise about games, parents and bullies. We are also treated to two Autistic Moments involving Eloise and Bianca.

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Bianca and Dan have much to discuss on this episode, from sex mad SIMS, weird stalkers, upsetting Ben Lee and much more. But most importantly there has been a flurry of activity over on the private Facebook page with some fascinating insights and questions.

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On this episode we discuss the trials and tribulations of school life and we know you will relate to some of these experiences.  Dan also took the opportunity to speak to his daughter Eloise about an issue she was having at school. Biance gives a thumbs down to Dans Autistic Moment so he goes overboard with sound effects to compensate. If you have an interesting Autistic Moment to share via email or even recorded, please send it our way.

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Dan realises he has an apology to make, which is excellent timing given this weeks topic is about friendships. Bianca and Dan delve into their past to try and make sense of friendships lost and maintained. This is without doubt the most Autistic episode that has been recorded. Friendships are hard!

Enjoy regular segments Autistic Moment, Neurodivergent Digest and Text fuckups.

You can vote for Chloe Hayden at TV Week Logie Awards 2023 

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This episode Dan takes you through his journey to getting an ADHD diagnosis.
Bianca asks Dan questions about how it felt as well as how the medication is going.
Also, Biancas 'street' name lasted one week. She has changed it to match her new flower child persona.
Don't forget our usual segments such as Neurodivergent Digest, Text Fuckups, Autistic Moments and Listener Feedback.

You can find Neurodiverse Journeys on Facebook here.
Go You Good Thing from Roy and HG

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Welcome to season 5! In this fun chat with Mark Brown, we immediately get sidetracked with Star Trek, a topic we have been discussing for over 30 years. We explore the podcasts we hosted long before it was cool. Mark speaks about peer support and how it plays a crucial role in mental health recovery. And most important, we tackle the ethics of AI and imagine what the future might look like with AI in our lives. My discussions with Mark have always been deep and complex. I hope you enjoy. 

Mark Brown is a Senior Research Fellow at Summer Foundation Ltd and member of PauseAI Australia.

Here is the video we referenced Bobby Flynn from Australian Idol interviewed on Idol Sparks

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Bianca and Dan re-introduce themselves to our new listeners from all over the world. Dan manages to get a few logical fallacies through the wicket keeper. Bianca's Mum hates Dan's recent video posts. We talk about our Easter break and go more in depth about our masking. 

The logical fallacies discussed - The no true Scotsman. Post hoc ergo propter hoc. 
Different Journeys website.
Look up Jessica Horner here.
Margaret Pomeranz on Married at first sight.

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In this follow-up conversation with Joanne Seymon, co-founder of Kaiko Fidgets, we go far beyond product design and neurodiversity. This episode dives deep into the human experience—touching on love, pain, parenting, grief, death, trauma, and the messy beauty of work that matters.

Jo brings her signature warmth and wisdom as we explore what it means to hold space for others while navigating our own healing. From the raw edges of loss to the joy of shared laughter, this chat is a testament to resilience, connection, and the power of showing up—especially when it’s hard.

Whether you're a parent, a practitioner, or simply someone trying to make sense of it all, this episode offers comfort, insight, and a few good chuckles along the way.

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Dan chats with musician David Hosking about success, creative flow, and the challenges neurodivergent individuals face in their creative pursuits. David shares his journey and insights on releasing eight albums despite these hurdles.

Key Topics Discussed:

• David's evolving definition of success and the role of personal fulfillment.
• Techniques for maintaining creative flow and productivity.
• Challenges like autistic inertia, rejection sensitive dysphoria, and demand avoidance.
• Practical tips for neurodivergent individuals to manage creative projects.

Call to Action: Help support the podcast via Patreon and follow David Hosking's music journey on his website. And if you are in Melbourne get your tickets for the live podcast event. 

Guest Information: David Hosking is an Australian singer-songwriter known for his soulful melodies and evocative storytelling. With influences like Nick Drake and Tom Waits, Hosking has released eight albums, captivating a dedicated following in Melbourne and Northern Ireland. His music explores themes of love, observation, and humor, making him a unique voice in the indie music scene. 

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There has been a longer gap between episodes than usual. And that has a lot to do with our subject this episode. Anxiety and Autism regularly share the same headspace and we discuss our own relationships with it.
Be sure to also go on our socials to see our horrendous attempts at making hip videos like Chloe Hayden has for her new podcast.
As usual we have our ever-expanding segments including Neurodivergence Digest, Autistic Moments and our big new hit .... Text Fuckups.

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This episode we speak to Jessica Horner about eating disorders and their prevalence within the autistic community. We recommend you read her highly praised article over at ABC Everyday. Jessica is a Regional Storyteller Scholarship recipient for the Australian Broadcasting Corporation (ABC) and is focusing her scholarship on the topic of how autistic adults go about daily life in Australia through writing, audio and photojournalism. She is also a freelance writer, photographer and visual artist with a small art business called Spoonfuls of Whimsy.

Further research

• Read the article Autism, Eating Disorders and Me over at the Butterfly Foundation 
• Amaze website and free national autism helpline 1300 308 699
• Eating Disorders Neurodiversity Australia (EDNA) is an advocacy organisation that supports neurodivergent Australians affected by eating disorders.
• Eating Disorders Families Australia (EDFA) offers an ARFID support group. More information can be found here.  
• Peace (Pathways for Eating Disorders and Autism developed from Clinical Experience) website has a great deal of information and resources for people with autism and eating disorders and their carers and clinicians.  

How to approach someone you’re concerned about

It’s normal to feel scared, confused, frustrated or upset when someone you know is experiencing an eating disorder. But intervening early can have a stark difference on an eating disorder’s severity and duration.

If you’re not sure where to start, download the Eating Disorder Alliance’s factsheet, Early Intervention for Eating Disorders: Conversation Starters. 

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On this episode of Late to the Party, I speak with acclaimed author Kay Kerr to explore the intricate connections between writing, memory, and identity. Kay shares her journey as an autistic writer, from her celebrated young adult novels Please Don’t Hug Me and Social Queue to her latest works, including Might Cry Later and contributions to Someone Like Me (for Australia, for International)

We dive deep into topics like:

• How sensory details shape memory and storytelling
• The impact of aphantasia and alexithymia on creativity and self perception
• The intricacies of being part of social groups
• Movement, stimming,  and the search for authenticity
• The act of making generational change

This conversation is a thoughtful look at neurodivergence, acceptance, and the ways we create meaning in our lives.

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On this episode we discuss the merits of Dan's newly coloured beard against the legitimacy of Barbie with the help of the amazing Blindboy Podcast. Dan is given a new role at work which a lot of our Party Poopers will appreciate.  Most importantly we get to speak to Dan (and Bianca's former) psychologist Laura Addabbo. For anyone about to go through the process of getting diagnosed be sure to check this one out. We get a fly on the wall experience of the process a psychologist goes through to determine whether you are Autistic or not, it really is an eye opener. 
Get ready for another installment of Who Know (Laura) Better, we have another round of Text Fuckups, Recommendations and an Autistic Moment.

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Recorded live at The Round on March 19th, Neurospicy 2026: Accessibility in the Arts, is a special live podcast diving into what genuine inclusion looks like for neurodivergent artists, audiences, and creative communities.

I was joined by pianist and composer Nat Bartsch, whose reflections on sensory experience, performance, and neurodivergent creativity brought depth and warmth to the room. We also spoke to Arty Owens, creative director at Arts Access Victoria, whose leadership continues to shape a more accessible and equitable arts sector.

Hosted at The Round, a venue committed to creating welcoming, accessible environments, this conversation blends music, lived experience, humour, and honest discussion about what needs to change and what’s already working.

This was a candid and fun conversation for anyone invested in neurodivergent creativity and the evolution of accessible arts spaces.

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In this milestone episode, hosts Bianca and Dan reflect on getting to our 50th episode relatively unscathed and with a troupe of Party Poopers joining the party (in their own time of course). Thanks to you all for your continuing support and encouragement.

Remember, the Late To The Party podcast offers a unique perspective on autism, blending personal stories with informative discussions. For more episodes and engaging content, check out their public Facebook page and private Facebook group. Happy listening!

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Join hosts Dan Kerr and Tismo Terrasson, a social justice advocate and Disability Consultant as they dive into the world of neurodiversity, sharing personal stories, expert insights, and candid conversations. In this episode, Dan and Tismo discuss their late diagnoses of autism and ADHD, the challenges of navigating a neurotypical world, and the importance of creating inclusive spaces. From humorous anecdotes about family life to deep dives into the science of neurodivergence, this podcast offers a unique and engaging perspective on what it means to be neurodivergent. 

Whether you're neurodivergent yourself or just curious to learn more, Neurodivergent Narratives is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding and celebrating neurodiversity.

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This episode contains more than your daily prescription of memes. Dan considers releasing an album of segment music given he seems to be writing a new one each week. This time it is a segment called Social Stories.
On this episode we talk about what we hate to wear, and Bianca offers up a description of a particular body part that once heard you will never forget.
We uncover who keeps their inboxes ordered and Dan tries his best to write from a womans perspective.  We consider Prince Harry and his apparent diagnosis offer up another Autistic Moment.  And finally Bianca commissions Dan to write a musical about Dogs and you get the first taste of what is surely to become a major musical triumph.

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So you got your diagnosis or you have finally self diagnosed, either way there are consequences both positive and otherwise. In this episode we talk about our experiences post diagnosis.  Along the way we discuss whether you should openly acknowledge your autism during a job interview,  who should try medication and offer some book recommendations... even ones we have never read.

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References
The Hidden Diffability by Lyndel Kennedy
Growing into Autism article - Professor Sandra Thom-Jones who can also be found at Autistic Professor
Em Rusciano at National Press Club

Late To The Party respectfully acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the lands we record on, the Wurundjeri Woi Wurrung and Bunurong Boon Wurrung peoples of the Eastern Kulin and pays respect to their Elders past, present and emerging.

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In this our third episode our well dressed selves discuss what life is like for autistics in the workplace and offer some ideas particular in the arena of interviews. Join Dan in his total confusion regarding how Bianca gets a workmates attention. We have two brand new segments this time - Autistic Moments and Father Dan's Affetuoso.  We talk about not wanting to be touched post Covid and Dan is completely making up the stealing stuff.

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This is part 2 of our special on sensory issues.  We have our very first guest, Julie Baker who is the Director at Sensory Matters and Sensory Friendly Clothing. Julie is also an Occupational Therapist and brings a wealth of knowledge and insights to the podcast. Bianca and Dan also get to test out some of the products and once again Dan embarrasses himself, this time with an inappropriate description for his sensory issue.

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On this episode Bianca and Dan want to talk about what happens after the diagnosis (this includes self-diagnosis) in terms of how it changes you. Do you behave more Autistic? Are other people saying this? How has it changed you.
The call was made to the Late To The Party private group and we share some of their experiences too, with their permission of course.
We also have a very special Autistic Moment that one of the Party Poopers shared with us. 
The Miya Gouache Paint sets that Dans daughter Eloise speaks about can be found here.

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Join Dan and guest Andy Drewitt in this eye-opening podcast as they delve into the complexities of emotional masking, aggression, and anxiety. Drawing inspiration from Andy Drewitt's thought-provoking article 'How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Making Penis Ladders' as well as his upcoming exhibition 'THIS IS YOUR FAULT', we explore the different types of masking behaviors that lead to emotional blowouts.

They discuss the challenges of acting tough and masking pain or anxiety with a facade of calmness. They also delve into how cultural and societal norms influence aggressive behavior and the unique struggles faced by neurodivergent individuals in expressing their emotions.

From the unsettling experience of not understanding or communicating feelings to the alarming rates of suicide among those on the autism spectrum, this podcast will shed light on these critical issues. We'll also offer insights on choosing a kinder path to self-understanding and dismantling the scaffold of fear and shame.

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how aggression often stems from self-directed emotions and learn strategies for managing anxiety and emotional turmoil in healthier ways.

Find Andy Drewitt at Andy Drewitt (@andydrewitt) • Instagram photos and videos

'THIS IS YOUR FAULT' will be shown at the No Vacancy Gallery, Melbourne, March 11 to April 5. Opening night March 13, with a performance by burlesque sensation Evana De Lune @evanadelune

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On this episode we get to speak to Nicholas McMahill. We have been following his journey on Facebook for a while now and have been so impressed by how much he has achieved in such a short time since being diagnosed Autistic. He is a Special Olympics athlete, a podcaster, YouTuber and is a strong neurodivergent advocate in his community. Dan and Nicholas have a great chat and lots of laughs.

We also have a HUGE announcement that is sure to provide huge relief to the party poopers. And of course, we have Text Fuckups, Recommendations and Autistic Moments.

You can find Nicholas Mcmahill here as well as Nicholas' Journey here.
Nicholas also recommended Finding Coopers Voice, Shannon Penrod, Autism journey with Elijah.

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Bianca and Dan proudly present their unforgettable Autistic Family Spectacular. How our dear listeners choose to interpret the word unforgettable is up to them. This is not our usual format and dare we hazard to say the professionalism this episode is as on-point as getting your husband to wrap the presents. 

So join us and strap in, get your drink on and get your singing voices warmed up because this gets weird. Oh and they offer a heartfelt apology to Jason Donovan and Kylie Minogue. 

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This episode has a smell of success about it. There is an aroma of positivity and friendship in the air as we speak to perfumer Rini, a late diagnosed autistic who owns and runs Wilderness Labs, an award-winning business that sells botanical Solid Perfumes and Lotion Bars. Rini talks about her life and her late diagnosis with such clarity and positivity. There are so many facets to her journey that others will associate with and if you are anything like the hosts, you will be inspired to try making your own perfumes or at least smell the world with a different nose.

You can still give a few dollars to Dan for his incredible STEPtember Month (2023) in which he managed 528030 steps all up, you can donate here if you hurry.

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So you had a big night and you have woken up exhausted. On this episode we explore the challenges of how to take care of yourself after a big night out. Attending big parties can be challenging for autistic individuals due to sensory overload and social demands. We offer some useful coping strategies that will help you deal with those next day blues.

Bianca and Dan also review how they fared at the party they attended and Dan even gets a review from the host.

As usual we have an Autistic Moment and Listener Feedback.

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Welcome to today’s episode, where we delve into the often misunderstood world of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). This condition, closely associated with ADHD, manifests as an intense emotional response to perceived or actual rejection or criticism.

We are joined by writer and editor Lindy Ralph as we explore the nuances of RSD, its impact on daily life, and strategies for managing this challenging aspect of emotional regulation.

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