Giff and Chad talk Christian faith, masculine leadership, and how to build desire in your marriage.

]]>https://www.reforgedmarriage.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Sat, 13 Jun 2026 20:01:45 GMTSat, 04 Apr 2026 19:45:37 GMT60Giff Lasta<p>Giff and Chad talk Christian faith, masculine leadership, and how to build desire in your marriage.</p>episodicGiff Lastagifflasta@gmail.comyesIn this conversation with Benjamin Siter, I share how overcoming pornography addiction forced me to confront a deeper issue: my own passivity.

We discuss masculinity, virility, marriage, leadership, desire, responsibility, and why many men unknowingly sabotage the very intimacy they long for.

At the heart of the discussion is a simple but demanding idea:

Own everything.

Not because your wife is always right. Not because every problem is your fault. But because responsibility is where a man's freedom begins.

]]>3e700e4a-ab18-490b-b839-d91513fd70a2Sat, 06 Jun 2026 18:45:00 GMT<p>In this conversation with Benjamin Siter, I share how overcoming pornography addiction forced me to confront a deeper issue: my own passivity.<br /><br />We discuss masculinity, virility, marriage, leadership, desire, responsibility, and why many men unknowingly sabotage the very intimacy they long for.<br /><br />At the heart of the discussion is a simple but demanding idea:<br /><br />Own everything.<br /><br />Not because your wife is always right. Not because every problem is your fault. But because responsibility is where a man's freedom begins.</p>yes01:17:375Why Doesn't She Desire Me?fullGiff and Chad break down how trying to “correct” your wife’s behavior backfires—and what real leadership actually looks like. They unpack the difference between ultimatums and decisive action, why “holding her accountable” can be just ego in disguise, and how men reclaim respect by reclaiming their own point of origin.

]]>a83e5dd8-3359-456e-9f8f-60351f334764Mon, 06 Apr 2026 16:48:26 GMT<p>Giff and Chad break down how trying to “correct” your wife’s behavior backfires—and what real leadership actually looks like. They unpack the difference between ultimatums and decisive action, why “holding her accountable” can be just ego in disguise, and how men reclaim respect by reclaiming their own point of origin.<br /></p>yes00:41:404Should you tolerate disrespect from your wife?fullMany married men approach sex with their wives the same way: politely asking… and quietly bracing for rejection. Giff and Chad explain why that dynamic quietly kills attraction—and what to do instead. They discuss the fear many husbands feel when initiating, the difference between negotiating sex and inspiring desire, and why confidence, dignity, and leadership transform a marriage far more than “asking nicely.”

]]>433f429e-ab9b-4ccd-a7eb-d0e5738714adMon, 06 Apr 2026 16:47:17 GMT<p>Many married men approach sex with their wives the same way: politely asking… and quietly bracing for rejection. Giff and Chad explain why that dynamic quietly kills attraction—and what to do instead. They discuss the fear many husbands feel when initiating, the difference between negotiating sex and inspiring desire, and why confidence, dignity, and leadership transform a marriage far more than “asking nicely.”</p>yes00:45:513Stop asking your wife for sexfullGiff and Chad explore the complexities of arguments in marriage, using a clip from the movie 'The Breakup' as a case study.

]]>8177eb51-84fe-4927-9c00-03ac9594475cMon, 06 Apr 2026 16:45:54 GMT<p>Giff and Chad explore the complexities of arguments in marriage, using a clip from the movie 'The Breakup' as a case study.</p>yes00:53:412Can you win a fight with your wife?fullGiff and Chad Collins kick off Reforged Marriage looking at “duty sex” vs. cultivating genuine desire. Drawing from years of coaching and Chad’s hard-won story, they explain why negotiated intimacy kills attraction—and how to rebuild your frame, purpose, and presence so your wife chooses you.

]]>a9a20bc9-b6cf-49e8-bbd2-fd39a2d3db20Mon, 06 Apr 2026 16:43:46 GMT<p>Giff and Chad Collins kick off Reforged Marriage looking at “duty sex” vs. cultivating genuine desire. Drawing from years of coaching and Chad’s hard-won story, they explain why negotiated intimacy kills attraction—and how to rebuild your frame, purpose, and presence so your wife chooses you.</p>yes01:11:111Is duty sex better than no sex?full