<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Tiff Talks]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I'm Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch. Tiff Talks is my show: imperfect conversations with fascinating humans, from dentistry to ADHD and beyond.</p><p>Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com</p>]]></description><link>https://riverside.com</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2026 17:25:42 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/ILSFsWbA.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[Dr. Tiffany Paiva]]></author><pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 19:59:41 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 Dr. Tiffany Paiva]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Careers]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><itunes:author>Dr. Tiffany Paiva</itunes:author><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;I&apos;m Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch. Tiff Talks is my show: imperfect conversations with fascinating humans, from dentistry to ADHD and beyond.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Dr. Tiffany Paiva</itunes:name><itunes:email>tiff@tiffadhddentist.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Business"><itunes:category text="Careers"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/75c9881f-64f8-445e-addc-d61c93c3d3bc/logos/87346eb7-3b87-42d8-8634-4e6ded9daca1.jpeg"/><item><title><![CDATA[Life After Dentistry: What We Wish We'd Known Sooner | Laura Brenner]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Two dentists who walked away talk burnout, boundaries, and what we wish we'd known sooner. Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com</p><p>Laura Brenner practiced dentistry for ten years, then left, and now coaches dental people who feel stuck. We talk about what stuck feels like, why leaving is not the same as failing, why we are so hard on each other, and how caring about your patients and having boundaries can go together.</p><p>Laura Brenner, former dentist and career coach, Lolabees Career Coaching</p><p><a href="https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/</a></p><p>Instagram: @drlolabees</p><p>Facebook group: Dentist Side Gigs</p><p><br /></p><p>Chapters</p><p>00:00 What Laura wishes she had known</p><p>01:35 The way out, and Tiff's story</p><p>04:18 "I'm dying inside"</p><p>07:57 Asking permission to leave</p><p>09:30 Money: the reason or the excuse?</p><p>16:42 All or nothing thinking in dentistry</p><p>18:30 Why we hide how we feel</p><p>21:13 Online attacks and why they sting</p><p>28:02 "Just because someone says it doesn't mean it's true"</p><p>34:03 The revolution dentistry needs</p><p>35:38 Leaving dentistry without hating it</p><p>38:51 Empaths, burnout and caring too much</p><p>44:24 Can you grow boundaries?</p><p>48:06 Some of us have to leave to heal</p><p>50:21 The quarter life crisis idea</p><p>53:21 Learning to dream</p><p>58:13 What surprised Laura most</p><p>1:00:46 Finding worth beyond struggle and money</p><p>1:03:30 Learning to enjoy life again</p><p>1:08:25 Where to find Laura</p><p><br /></p><p>If today is heavy, please tell someone. You can call or text 988, anytime.</p><p>Guest views are their own. Tiff Talks is hosted by Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch, a mentorship site for the whole dental team.</p>]]></description><link>https://youtu.be/NjyG_vf4sPg</link><guid isPermaLink="false">b4b095c5-e500-4250-83c1-61f5a8e0baa9</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Tiffany Paiva]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 21:23:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/e595c08cbacdd97940b62d43f01d02f01e630afc2130b89808948216c34441d9/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJiNGIwOTVjNS1lNTAwLTQyNTAtODNjMS02MWY1YThlMGJhYTkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI3NWM5ODgxZi02NGY4LTQ0NWUtYWRkYy1kNjFjOTNjM2QzYmMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OTBmZTgwNjg4NDBjYjZjZTYzODhmOWMiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmFlMDI1MzdlMDg3YzkzYzg4ZWY3NmUzL3RpZmZhbnlzLXN0dWRpby01OVJCdy0yMDI2LTEwLTI3X180LTE0LTQ3Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="135199077" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/75c9881f-64f8-445e-addc-d61c93c3d3bc/episodes/b4b095c5-e500-4250-83c1-61f5a8e0baa9/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Two dentists who walked away talk burnout, boundaries, and what we wish we&apos;d known sooner. Find a mentor or become one: dentormatch.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Laura Brenner practiced dentistry for ten years, then left, and now coaches dental people who feel stuck. We talk about what stuck feels like, why leaving is not the same as failing, why we are so hard on each other, and how caring about your patients and having boundaries can go together.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Laura Brenner, former dentist and career coach, Lolabees Career Coaching&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;https://www.lolabeescareercoaching.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Instagram: @drlolabees&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Facebook group: Dentist Side Gigs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Chapters&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;00:00 What Laura wishes she had known&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;01:35 The way out, and Tiff&apos;s story&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;04:18 &quot;I&apos;m dying inside&quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;07:57 Asking permission to leave&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;09:30 Money: the reason or the excuse?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;16:42 All or nothing thinking in dentistry&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;18:30 Why we hide how we feel&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;21:13 Online attacks and why they sting&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;28:02 &quot;Just because someone says it doesn&apos;t mean it&apos;s true&quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;34:03 The revolution dentistry needs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;35:38 Leaving dentistry without hating it&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;38:51 Empaths, burnout and caring too much&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;44:24 Can you grow boundaries?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;48:06 Some of us have to leave to heal&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;50:21 The quarter life crisis idea&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;53:21 Learning to dream&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;58:13 What surprised Laura most&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1:00:46 Finding worth beyond struggle and money&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1:03:30 Learning to enjoy life again&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1:08:25 Where to find Laura&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If today is heavy, please tell someone. You can call or text 988, anytime.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Guest views are their own. Tiff Talks is hosted by Dr. Tiffany Paiva, founder of DentorMatch, a mentorship site for the whole dental team.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>01:10:25</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/75c9881f-64f8-445e-addc-d61c93c3d3bc/logos/87346eb7-3b87-42d8-8634-4e6ded9daca1.jpeg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Life After Dentistry: What We Wish We&apos;d Known Sooner | Laura Brenner</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>