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The Season You Didn't Choose and What God Is Doing In It

Jaclyn Lepien — Mon, 08 Jun 2026 10:00:00 GMT

Have you ever looked up from the busyness of life and thought, "who am I anymore?" In this first episode of the Open Hands mini series, Jaclyn Lepien opens up about what it means to live in a "Selah" season. The pauses, the waiting, the quiet grief of a life that feels like it's on hold. Drawing from the meaning of Selah (pause, praise, and to weigh in the balance), Jaclyn shares what she learned through years of homeschooling, stepping back from ministry, and slowly losing herself in the middle of a season she didn't choose.

This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, overlooked, or like their dreams are sitting in a waiting room. You'll walk away with three anchors for surviving and growing through seasons you never planned for.

In this episode:

What "Selah" actually means — and why it changes everything
The quiet grief no one talks about in hard seasons
Why your view of God determines how you survive the waiting
Three practical steps to loosen your grip and open your hands

Mentioned: Knowledge of the Holy by A.W. Tozer

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Two People, One Life

Jaclyn Lepien — Mon, 03 Aug 2026 18:00:00 GMT

On marriage, honest communication, and the seasons that either break you or build you.

In this episode of the Open Hands mini series, Jaclyn shares the story of how her marriage to Michael began — with a cafeteria dare that turned into twenty years of building something real. From the early lesson that taught them the cost of silent expectations, to the season after 2008 when they traded roles neither of them had chosen, this episode is an honest look at what actually holds a marriage together: not ease, but commitment, honest conversation, and the willingness to serve each other even when it's inconvenient.

Jaclyn shares practical tools for having honest conversations that build instead of damage, what service actually looks like day to day, and a word of hope for anyone in a season that feels unfixable.

One episode left in the Open Hands series.

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Learning to Trust Again

Jaclyn Lepien — Mon, 06 Jul 2026 05:00:00 GMT

We don't usually call it a trust problem. We call it being private. Being careful. Being realistic after getting burned. But somewhere between childhood and now, most of us made a fist around our hearts, one finger at a time, one disappointment at a time.

In this episode, Jaclyn gets personal about the slow closing of her own hand: a soccer ball to the face, a relationship that ended in public humiliation, friendships in ministry that came and went, and what it cost her kids to watch it happen. She traces the difference between a wound and what comes after it and how she started, finger by finger, opening her hand again.

This one's about the foundation trust is actually built on, and why the people worth letting in are always on the other side of an open hand.

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The Myth of Balance Part 3: Balancing the Season

Jaclyn Lepien — Tue, 16 Sep 2025 14:00:00 GMT

This week on Lepien Life, we’re talking about seasons.

What does it mean to live fully in the season you're in—and how do you know when it's time to move on?

Jaclyn and Michael share personal stories, parenting insights, and spiritual encouragement as they explore the rhythms of life: from early marriage struggles and financial mistakes to parenting teens and letting go of old expectations.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, rushed, discontent, or just unsure of what God is doing in your current phase of life, this episode is for you.

It’s practical, personal, and full of wisdom for daily living—especially when the season feels hard.

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The Myth of Balance Part 4: Rest

Jaclyn Lepien — Mon, 24 Nov 2025 16:00:00 GMT

In today’s episode, we explore real rest — not the kind that numbs you out, but the kind that restores your soul and brings you back to life. We unpack why rest must be intentional, how different personalities recover in different ways, and why rhythms of recovery, recalibration, and reconnection are essential for healthy living.

Inside the episode you’ll learn:
• What rest actually means (and what it doesn’t)
• Why some people rest through quiet and others through activity
• How recalibration helps you reset your week and your mindset
• Practical ways to reconnect with God, your purpose, and the people you love
• How families can build rhythms that protect peace
• The danger of “false rest”
• What Scripture teaches about rest, Sabbath, and surrender
• Why Psalm 127 reframes productivity for believers

This episode wraps up our Finding Balance series with practical wisdom for daily living. Rest isn’t optional — it’s spiritual, emotional, and physical stewardship.

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Entrusted, Not Owned: Parenting with Open Hands

Jaclyn Lepien — Mon, 20 Jul 2026 05:00:00 GMT

Your kids don't belong to you. They're entrusted to you and there's a world of difference between those two things.

In this episode of the Open Hands mini-series, Jaclyn shares the most personal surrender of her life: her children. From a kitchen-floor moment of panic at twenty-two, to a prayer that reframed parenting as leadership, to the night a tragedy in their church-planting community forced her to answer the question underneath every parenting philosophy - do I actually believe God is good?

Along the way, she opens up the practical framework she and Michael built over eighteen years: defining a family target, connecting correction to values instead of rules, meaning what you say the first time, and shifting from boundaries to conversations as your kids grow. Rules without roots don't survive independence, this episode is about planting roots.

Whether your kids are toddlers, teenagers, or already out of the house, this one's for you. It's never too late to parent with intention and open hands.

In this episode:

Why parenting is the longest, most consequential leadership assignment you'll ever hold
The one question every intentional parent has to answer: what kind of adult do you want to send into the world?
The Lepien Family Values and how to define your own
"Consider Abraham" — trusting the Gardener with the fruit
Four practical steps to start this week, no matter your kids' ages

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The Myth of Balance: Can We Have It All?

Jaclyn Lepien — Sun, 13 Jul 2025 09:00:00 GMT

Episode 1: Can We Have It All?

The Myth of Balance – Part 1 of 4

Can you really have it all? In this kickoff episode of Lepien Life, we explore the pressure to be everything to everyone—and what it’s costing us.

We unpack:

Why “balance” is a cultural myth
The emotional weight of hustle culture
How to shift from overload to alignment
What Scripture and classical wisdom say about living with purpose

This is the first episode in our four-part series, The Myth of Balance. Whether you’re a young adult, couple, or parent trying to live well in a noisy world—this one’s for you.

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Calling vs. Career: The Mix-Up That Burned Me Out

Jaclyn Lepien — Mon, 22 Jun 2026 10:00:00 GMT

Most of us were taught to figure out our career before we ever thought about our calling and somewhere along the way, the two got fused into the same thing. For Jaclyn, that confusion cost her the better part of a decade: a children's pastor role, a homeschool launch, a Mother's Day Out program, and a slow slide into burnout and depression.

In this second episode of the Open Hands mini-series, Jaclyn untangles the difference between calling and career, why it matters, what it cost her to learn it, and how a driving school lobby finally showed her that fifteen years of quiet, unglamorous obedience had been the calling all along.

Whether you've set aside a dream to be present for your family, or you're carrying the weight of providing and wondering if faithfulness is enough, this one's for you. The assignment isn't the one you wish you had. It's the one already in your hands.

Three questions to sit with, one open hand, and permission to put down a picture that isn't fitting anymore.

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The Myth of Balance Part 2: Learning Self-Management

Jaclyn Lepien — Sun, 17 Aug 2025 15:00:00 GMT

The Myth of Balance – Part 2 of 4

Balance isn’t just about keeping all the plates spinning—it starts with managing yourself. In this episode of Lepien Life, we talk about what it really means to steward your time well in a world full of noise and demands.

We unpack:

Why time management is really self management
How personality differences shape the way we plan and prioritize
The tools and systems we use (and skip) to stay focused
Why knowing what matters most is the starting point for managing your time

This is the second episode in our four-part series, The Myth of Balance. Whether you’re a young adult, couple, or parent trying to live with intention—not just survive the chaos—this one’s for you.

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