<![CDATA[Let Me Ask You This: Wedding Planning for the Logic and the Love]]>https://www.birdcageandblushers.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Wed, 22 Jul 2026 21:56:32 GMTWed, 27 May 2026 18:48:00 GMT60Alyson ThompsonPlanning a wedding is emotional work. Nobody really tells you that — but I will. I'm Alyson Thompson, Chicago wedding planner and host of Let Me Ask You This. The logistics are real, the decisions are endless, and the emotions that show up alongside all of it? Nobody prepares you for those either. This isn't a tips podcast. It's a thinking space. So let me ask you this — what would it feel like to plan your wedding and actually enjoy it?episodicAlyson Thompsonalyson.thompson@birdcageandblushers.comno<![CDATA[Bonus Episode: Price Is Only Half the Story: Rethinking Value in Wedding Planning]]>The wedding industry has been having a lot of conversations about pricing transparency lately.

Should vendors publish their prices? Should couples have to inquire before knowing an investment? Is sticker shock a transparency problem?

In this special bonus episode, we're stepping beyond the debate over published pricing and exploring something much deeper: the difference between price and value.

We'll talk about why today's couples aren't just asking "How much?"—they're asking "Why?"—and why I believe that's a fair question.

I'll also share three real client stories that completely changed how I think about value, along with a practical framework to help you evaluate wedding professionals beyond packages and price.

Whether you're planning your wedding or simply trying to become a more thoughtful consumer, my hope is that you'll leave this episode feeling more confident asking better questions—not just about weddings, but about any meaningful investment.

Because maybe the goal isn't to spend less or spend more. Maybe the goal is to spend well.

Connect with Alyson:
🌐 birdcageandblushers.com
📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings

]]>0ba9c2a7-27f4-4f40-8e3c-20f5a2bfa44bTue, 14 Jul 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>The wedding industry has been having a lot of conversations about pricing transparency lately.</p><p>Should vendors publish their prices? Should couples have to inquire before knowing an investment? Is sticker shock a transparency problem?</p><p></p><p>In this special bonus episode, we're stepping beyond the debate over published pricing and exploring something much deeper: <b>the difference between price and value.</b></p><p></p><p>We'll talk about why today's couples aren't just asking <i>"How much?"</i>—they're asking <i>"Why?"</i>—and why I believe that's a fair question.</p><p>I'll also share three real client stories that completely changed how I think about value, along with a practical framework to help you evaluate wedding professionals beyond packages and price.</p><p></p><p>Whether you're planning your wedding or simply trying to become a more thoughtful consumer, my hope is that you'll leave this episode feeling more confident asking better questions—not just about weddings, but about any meaningful investment.</p><p></p><p><b>Because maybe the goal isn't to spend less or spend more. Maybe the goal is to spend well.</b></p><p></p><p><i>Connect with Alyson:</i><br />🌐 <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://birdcageandblushers.com" target="_blank">birdcageandblushers.com</a><br />📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings</p><p></p>no00:13:342Bonus Episode: Price Is Only Half the Story: Rethinking Value in Wedding Planningbonus<![CDATA[Why You Feel Behind in Wedding Planning (Even When You're Not)]]>Within days of getting engaged, most couples are already wondering if they're behind. The venue isn't booked yet. The vendors aren't locked in. And somewhere between the checklist you found online and the third person who asked if you've picked a date yet — the panic set in.

But here's what I want you to know: that feeling of being behind is one of the most common and most misunderstood experiences in wedding planning. And most of the time it has nothing to do with where you actually are in the process.

In this episode we're unpacking where that feeling actually comes from, what happens when you plan from a place of panic instead of clarity, and how to reset — whether you're just getting started or already six months in and second guessing everything.

You're probably not as behind as you think. Let's talk about it.

Connect with Alyson:
🌐 birdcageandblushers.com
📲 @birdcageandblushers

]]>b34dbfa4-7963-4808-8882-ca9658cc973dTue, 21 Jul 2026 13:30:00 GMT<p>Within days of getting engaged, most couples are already wondering if they're behind. The venue isn't booked yet. The vendors aren't locked in. And somewhere between the checklist you found online and the third person who asked if you've picked a date yet — the panic set in.</p><p></p><p>But here's what I want you to know: that feeling of being behind is one of the most common and most misunderstood experiences in wedding planning. And most of the time it has nothing to do with where you actually are in the process.</p><p></p><p>In this episode we're unpacking where that feeling actually comes from, what happens when you plan from a place of panic instead of clarity, and how to reset — whether you're just getting started or already six months in and second guessing everything.</p><p></p><p>You're probably not as behind as you think. Let's talk about it.</p><p></p><p><i>Connect with Alyson:</i><br />🌐 <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://birdcageandblushers.com" target="_blank">birdcageandblushers.com</a><br />📲 @birdcageandblushers</p>no00:09:5429Why You Feel Behind in Wedding Planning (Even When You're Not)full<![CDATA[Wedding Design: It's Not Just About How Your Wedding Looks]]>Most couples come into the design process with a visual in mind. A color palette. A Pinterest board. An aesthetic they've been collecting images for. And that's a great starting point — but it's only the surface.

The most intentional, most memorable weddings aren't designed around what something looks like. They're designed around how something feels. In this episode we're going deeper than the aesthetics — into the emotional and logical layers of wedding design, how every visual decision carries an emotional consequence, and how to approach your own design process in a way that results in a wedding that doesn't just look stunning in photos but feels stunning to be inside of.

This one is for the couple who wants their wedding to feel like them — not just look like them.

Connect with Alyson:
🌐 birdcageandblushers.com
📲 @birdcageandblushers

]]>b61835d2-699a-43bb-bbad-aa8d8a86f309Tue, 07 Jul 2026 13:30:00 GMT<p>Most couples come into the design process with a visual in mind. A color palette. A Pinterest board. An aesthetic they've been collecting images for. And that's a great starting point — but it's only the surface.</p><p></p><p>The most intentional, most memorable weddings aren't designed around what something looks like. They're designed around how something feels. In this episode we're going deeper than the aesthetics — into the emotional and logical layers of wedding design, how every visual decision carries an emotional consequence, and how to approach your own design process in a way that results in a wedding that doesn't just look stunning in photos but feels stunning to be inside of.</p><p>This one is for the couple who wants their wedding to feel like them — not just look like them.</p><p></p><p><i>Connect with Alyson:</i><br />🌐 <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://birdcageandblushers.com" target="_blank">birdcageandblushers.com</a><br />📲 @birdcageandblushers</p>no00:10:5128Wedding Design: It's Not Just About How Your Wedding Looksfull<![CDATA[What Wedding Planning Reveals About Your Relationships]]>One of the most common conversations happening among engaged couples right now is this: wedding planning revealed something about the people in my life that I wasn't prepared for. The friend who went quiet. The family member who made it about themselves. The person you expected to show up who just... didn't.

In this episode we're talking about why wedding planning is one of the most revealing experiences you'll ever go through, what it tends to surface in friendships and family dynamics, and how to navigate what you're seeing without letting it derail your planning process or your relationships.

This one is going to hit close to home. And that's exactly why it needed to be said.

Connect with Alyson:
🌐 birdcageandblushers.com
📲 @birdcageandblushers

]]>7dc269b9-6b34-422c-bc8f-9878a0edf03aTue, 30 Jun 2026 20:21:15 GMT<p>One of the most common conversations happening among engaged couples right now is this: wedding planning revealed something about the people in my life that I wasn't prepared for. The friend who went quiet. The family member who made it about themselves. The person you expected to show up who just... didn't.</p><p></p><p>In this episode we're talking about why wedding planning is one of the most revealing experiences you'll ever go through, what it tends to surface in friendships and family dynamics, and how to navigate what you're seeing without letting it derail your planning process or your relationships.</p><p>This one is going to hit close to home. And that's exactly why it needed to be said.</p><p></p><p><i>Connect with Alyson:</i><br />🌐 <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://birdcageandblushers.com" target="_blank">birdcageandblushers.com</a><br />📲 @birdcageandblushers</p>no00:10:2327What Wedding Planning Reveals About Your Relationshipsfull<![CDATA[The Truth About the "Weddings Are for the Guests" Mentality]]>At some point during planning, someone is going to say it. "You have to invite so and so." "The wedding is really for your family." "Your guests traveled, you need to think about them."

And they're not entirely wrong — your guests matter. But somewhere along the way that idea gets distorted into something that quietly pushes you out of the center of your own wedding. And that's where it becomes a problem.

In this episode we're talking about one of the most pervasive ideas in wedding planning, where it comes from, what it costs you when you let it drive every decision, and how to stay at the center of your own day without being a bad host.

Because you can be an incredible host and still have a wedding that is deeply, unapologetically yours. Those two things are not in conflict.

Connect with Alyson:
🌐 birdcageandblushers.com
📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings

]]>1ebd18e3-91df-42b3-896b-07b39b8901edTue, 23 Jun 2026 15:55:23 GMT<p>At some point during planning, someone is going to say it. "You have to invite so and so." "The wedding is really for your family." "Your guests traveled, you need to think about them."</p><p>And they're not entirely wrong — your guests matter. But somewhere along the way that idea gets distorted into something that quietly pushes you out of the center of your own wedding. And that's where it becomes a problem.</p><p></p><p>In this episode we're talking about one of the most pervasive ideas in wedding planning, where it comes from, what it costs you when you let it drive every decision, and how to stay at the center of your own day without being a bad host.</p><p>Because you can be an incredible host and still have a wedding that is deeply, unapologetically yours. Those two things are not in conflict.</p><p><i>Connect with Alyson:</i><br />🌐 <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://birdcageandblushers.com" target="_blank">birdcageandblushers.com</a><br />📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings</p>no00:10:4026The Truth About the "Weddings Are for the Guests" Mentalityfull<![CDATA[The Part of Wedding Planning Nobody Warns You About ]]>You got engaged and you expected to feel excited. And you do — but somewhere in the middle of the planning process, something else showed up too. Something heavier. Something nobody really prepared you for.

The decisions are endless. The opinions are loud. The emotions that surface are ones you didn't see coming. And on top of all of it, you're wondering if something is wrong with you for feeling this way.

Nothing is wrong with you. This is just the part nobody warns you about.

In this episode we're talking about what actually makes wedding planning so emotionally heavy, why the weight of it catches even the most organized couples completely off guard, and how to move through it in a way that doesn't cost you the joy of the experience.

This one is for the couple who is already in it — already planning, already feeling the weight of it, and wondering if it's supposed to feel like this.

Connect with Alyson:

🌐 birdcageandblushers.com

📲 @birdcageandblushers

]]>8116bf16-0093-48d7-8636-553443a8d1afTue, 02 Jun 2026 13:30:00 GMT<p>You got engaged and you expected to feel excited. And you do — but somewhere in the middle of the planning process, something else showed up too. Something heavier. Something nobody really prepared you for.</p><p>The decisions are endless. The opinions are loud. The emotions that surface are ones you didn't see coming. And on top of all of it, you're wondering if something is wrong with you for feeling this way.</p><p>Nothing is wrong with you. This is just the part nobody warns you about.</p><p>In this episode we're talking about what actually makes wedding planning so emotionally heavy, why the weight of it catches even the most organized couples completely off guard, and how to move through it in a way that doesn't cost you the joy of the experience.</p><p>This one is for the couple who is already in it — already planning, already feeling the weight of it, and wondering if it's supposed to feel like this.</p><p></p><p><i>Connect with Alyson:</i> </p><p>🌐 <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://birdcageandblushers.com" target="_blank">birdcageandblushers.com</a> </p><p>📲 @birdcageandblushers</p>no00:07:3125The Part of Wedding Planning Nobody Warns You About full<![CDATA[What You're Actually Paying For When You Hire a Wedding Planner]]>The investment in full service wedding planning is significant. And most couples, when they see the number, immediately ask: is it worth it? In this episode I want to reframe that question entirely — because the real question isn't whether you can afford a planner. It's what you're actually getting when you hire one. We're talking about the mental load it removes, the expertise it brings, and the elevated result it makes possible. This one is for anyone who has ever wondered what a planner actually does — and whether the investment makes sense for them.

]]>4a866603-6034-4d22-8e60-aad1c0a1fd16Wed, 27 May 2026 19:29:22 GMT<p>The investment in full service wedding planning is significant. And most couples, when they see the number, immediately ask: is it worth it? In this episode I want to reframe that question entirely — because the real question isn't whether you can afford a planner. It's what you're actually getting when you hire one. We're talking about the mental load it removes, the expertise it brings, and the elevated result it makes possible. This one is for anyone who has ever wondered what a planner actually does — and whether the investment makes sense for them.</p>no00:08:3724What You're Actually Paying For When You Hire a Wedding Plannerfull<![CDATA[How to Tell If a Venue Fits Your Budget, Design, and Priorities]]>Choosing a wedding venue isn’t just about falling in love with the aesthetic — it’s about making sure the space truly fits your budget, your guest count, your design vision, and your priorities.

In this episode of Handled, wedding planner and bride-to-be Alyson Thompson breaks down the real criteria couples should be using before they book a venue — beyond vibes, Pinterest photos, and curated Instagram grids.

You’ll learn:
• Why beautiful photos don’t tell you the whole story
• The three non-negotiables every couple should identify before touring
• How guest count, priorities, and budget quietly shape everything
• Hidden venue costs couples rarely know to ask about
• How rentals, catering models, lighting, and logistics impact your bottom line
• Why the venue determines up to 70% of your total budget
• How to avoid falling in love with a space that simply can’t support your vision

Alyson also shares why she created her signature Venue Shortlist System — a personalized process that helps couples narrow their search to spaces that truly align with their guest count, design goals, logistics, and budget.

If you’re in the early stages of planning, or if you have no idea where to begin with venue hunting, this episode is your roadmap to making confident, aligned decisions.


Learn more about the Venue Shortlist System:


https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system


Let's Stay Connected:


Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings


Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/How-to-Tell-If-a-Venue-Fits-Your-Budget--Design--and-Priorities-e3c2qes64c537b0-acc1-4509-9ead-ea36be8a6c4cTue, 09 Dec 2025 14:00:00 GMT<p>Choosing a wedding venue isn’t just about falling in love with the aesthetic — it’s about making sure the space truly fits your budget, your guest count, your design vision, and your priorities.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, wedding planner and bride-to-be Alyson Thompson breaks down the <em>real</em> criteria couples should be using before they book a venue — beyond vibes, Pinterest photos, and curated Instagram grids.</p><p>You’ll learn:<br />• Why beautiful photos don’t tell you the whole story<br />• The three non-negotiables every couple should identify <em>before</em> touring<br />• How guest count, priorities, and budget quietly shape everything<br />• Hidden venue costs couples rarely know to ask about<br />• How rentals, catering models, lighting, and logistics impact your bottom line<br />• Why the venue determines up to 70% of your total budget<br />• How to avoid falling in love with a space that simply can’t support your vision</p><p>Alyson also shares why she created her signature <strong>Venue Shortlist System</strong> — a personalized process that helps couples narrow their search to spaces that truly align with their guest count, design goals, logistics, and budget.</p><p>If you’re in the early stages of planning, or if you have no idea where to begin with venue hunting, this episode is your roadmap to making confident, aligned decisions.</p><p><br /></p><p>Learn more about the Venue Shortlist System:</p><p><br /></p><p>https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system</p><p><br /></p><p>Let's Stay Connected:</p><p><br /></p><p>Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings</p><p><br /></p><p>Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com</p> no00:09:07119How to Tell If a Venue Fits Your Budget, Design, and Prioritiesfull<![CDATA[The Biggest Mistake Couples Make When They Start Wedding Planning]]>If you’re newly engaged, the pressure to start immediately is real — venues, Pinterest boards, vendor outreach, all at once. But the biggest mistake couples make in the first 30 days isn’t choosing the wrong vendor.

It’s planning for aesthetics before their priorities are clear.

In this episode of Handled, Alyson breaks down why rushing into decisions often leads to overwhelm, misaligned spending, and unnecessary stress — and what to do instead. You’ll learn how establishing clear priorities early becomes the framework that makes every decision after that feel easier, faster, and more confident.

This episode is especially for couples who want a planning process that feels intentional, grounded, and actually enjoyable — not reactive.


Let's connect!

Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings

Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/The-Biggest-Mistake-Couples-Make-When-They-Start-Wedding-Planning-e3ef6ch51f5f4e2-12ae-4581-9909-fafe33884798Tue, 03 Feb 2026 14:00:00 GMT<p>If you’re newly engaged, the pressure to <em>start immediately</em> is real — venues, Pinterest boards, vendor outreach, all at once. But the biggest mistake couples make in the first 30 days isn’t choosing the wrong vendor.</p><p>It’s planning for aesthetics before their priorities are clear.</p><p>In this episode of <strong>Handled</strong>, Alyson breaks down why rushing into decisions often leads to overwhelm, misaligned spending, and unnecessary stress — and what to do instead. You’ll learn how establishing clear priorities early becomes the framework that makes every decision after that feel easier, faster, and more confident.</p><p>This episode is especially for couples who want a planning process that feels intentional, grounded, and actually enjoyable — not reactive.</p><p><br /></p><p>Let's connect!</p><p>Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings</p><p>Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com</p> no00:13:07122The Biggest Mistake Couples Make When They Start Wedding Planningfull<![CDATA[More Than a Moment: The Emotional Side of Wedding Photography]]>Wedding photos are more than beautiful portraits—they’re emotional time capsules. In this episode of Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast, Alyson sits down with Chicago-based photographer Winterlyn Stebner of Winterlyn Photography to explore the feelings behind wedding photography and what it means to be truly seen on your wedding day.

Together, they talk about vulnerability in front of the camera, the importance of trust between couples and their photographer, and how emotion, movement, and connection shape the most meaningful images.

From first looks to quiet in-between moments, this is a heartfelt conversation about capturing not just how your day looked—but how it felt.


Where to find Winterlyn


Website:Chicago Wedding Photographer | Winterlyn PhotographyInstagram: @winterlyn_photography

Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/More-Than-a-Moment-The-Emotional-Side-of-Wedding-Photography-e396dqg7e221cc0-ca44-4822-bcb0-36be5769f4e3Tue, 07 Oct 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>Wedding photos are more than beautiful portraits—they’re emotional time capsules. In this episode of <em>Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast</em>, Alyson sits down with Chicago-based photographer <strong>Winterlyn Stebner</strong> of Winterlyn Photography to explore the feelings behind wedding photography and what it means to be truly seen on your wedding day.</p><p>Together, they talk about vulnerability in front of the camera, the importance of trust between couples and their photographer, and how emotion, movement, and connection shape the most meaningful images. </p><p>From first looks to quiet in-between moments, this is a heartfelt conversation about capturing not just how your day looked—but how it <em>felt.</em></p><p><br /></p><p>Where to find Winterlyn</p><p><br /></p><p>Website:<a href="https://winterlynphotography.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">Chicago Wedding Photographer | Winterlyn Photography</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/winterlyn_photography/#" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">@winterlyn_photography</a></p><p>Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com</a></p> no00:26:29111More Than a Moment: The Emotional Side of Wedding Photographyfull<![CDATA[What Planners Wish You Knew Before Booking Them]]>In this episode of Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast, Alyson shares the insider truths every couple should know before they book their planner. From understanding what a planner actually does (and doesn’t do) to knowing what makes a great planner-client relationship thrive, this conversation is equal parts eye-opening and empowering. Let’s stay connected!


Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠alyson.thompson@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/What-Planners-Wish-You-Knew-Before-Booking-Them-e3amqb4675cf600-7785-4800-b377-6311b25a836aTue, 11 Nov 2025 14:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of <em>Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast</em>, Alyson shares the insider truths every couple should know before they book their planner. From understanding what a planner actually <em>does</em> (and doesn’t do) to knowing what makes a great planner-client relationship thrive, this conversation is equal parts eye-opening and empowering. Let’s stay connected!</p><p><br /></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠alyson.thompson@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:05:53116What Planners Wish You Knew Before Booking Themfull<![CDATA[Wedding Party Roles: Who Actually Does What (and What They Don’t)]]>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson discusses the essential roles and responsibilities of wedding party members, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and setting expectations. She contrasts traditional wedding party roles with modern practices, highlighting the need for support rather than production. The episode concludes with key takeaways for couples to ensure a smooth wedding day experience.✨ Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠


Work with me: ⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠


Email: ⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Wedding-Party-Roles-Who-Actually-Does-What-and-What-They-Dont-e37gag34731077b-f5b3-438a-92ef-7d1a25dd9615Tue, 30 Sep 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson discusses the essential roles and responsibilities of wedding party members, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and setting expectations. She contrasts traditional wedding party roles with modern practices, highlighting the need for support rather than production. The episode concludes with key takeaways for couples to ensure a smooth wedding day experience.✨ Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com</a></p> no00:11:58110Wedding Party Roles: Who Actually Does What (and What They Don’t)full<![CDATA[What a GOOD Wedding Planner Actually Does]]>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson discusses the true value of hiring a wedding planner, debunking common misconceptions and highlighting the emotional and logistical benefits that come with professional support. She emphasizes that a good planner not only manages logistics but also provides emotional support, helping couples navigate the complexities of wedding planning with confidence and peace of mind. Alyson also shares practical advice on how to choose the right planner for your needs.

✨ Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/What-a-GOOD-Wedding-Planner-Actually-Does-e37gbpj21264781-4b10-4111-9088-33f8f66eaa0bTue, 16 Sep 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson discusses the true value of hiring a wedding planner, debunking common misconceptions and highlighting the emotional and logistical benefits that come with professional support. She emphasizes that a good planner not only manages logistics but also provides emotional support, helping couples navigate the complexities of wedding planning with confidence and peace of mind. Alyson also shares practical advice on how to choose the right planner for your needs.</p><p>✨ Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:09:5918What a GOOD Wedding Planner Actually Doesfull<![CDATA[Venue Contracts Decoded: What You're Really Signing Up For]]>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson delves into the intricacies of venue contracts, emphasizing their importance in the wedding planning process. She discusses key elements to look for in contracts, such as inclusions, timing, vendor restrictions, and cancellation policies. Alyson also highlights potential red flags and smart questions couples should ask to ensure they fully understand their agreements. The episode aims to empower couples with the knowledge needed to navigate venue contracts confidently, ultimately leading to a smoother wedding planning experience.


Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Venue-Contracts-Decoded-What-Youre-Really-Signing-Up-For-e37g8kvf3d1883a-f67d-4753-b802-80d0ae918e73Tue, 09 Sep 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson delves into the intricacies of venue contracts, emphasizing their importance in the wedding planning process. She discusses key elements to look for in contracts, such as inclusions, timing, vendor restrictions, and cancellation policies. Alyson also highlights potential red flags and smart questions couples should ask to ensure they fully understand their agreements. The episode aims to empower couples with the knowledge needed to navigate venue contracts confidently, ultimately leading to a smoother wedding planning experience.</p><p><br /></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:10:5017Venue Contracts Decoded: What You're Really Signing Up Forfull<![CDATA[Lets Talk About Timelines]]>In this episode of Handled, Alyson is pulling back the curtain on how she builds timelines that keep couples calm, organized, and fully present on their wedding day. She talks about everything that goes into a seamless timeline — from vendor load-ins and hair and makeup schedules to photo timing, transportation, and even pre-wedding setup and rehearsals.

Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Lets-Talk-About-Timelines-e3ag83p2bc9fb8a-8721-4d19-b263-2e263c09f49bTue, 04 Nov 2025 15:55:34 GMT<p>In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, Alyson is pulling back the curtain on how she builds timelines that keep couples calm, organized, and fully present on their wedding day. She talks about everything that goes into a seamless timeline — from vendor load-ins and hair and makeup schedules to photo timing, transportation, and even pre-wedding setup and rehearsals.</p><p>Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:09:59115Lets Talk About Timelinesfull<![CDATA[Decision Fatigue: How to Handle Many Choices You’ll Make]]>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson discusses the phenomenon of decision fatigue, particularly in the context of wedding planning. She explains how overwhelming choices can lead to stress and frustration, and offers practical strategies to manage this fatigue.

✨ Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Decision-Fatigue-How-to-Handle-Many-Choices-Youll-Make-e37he5529903b62-1812-469f-bebc-11ac1942ee23Tue, 23 Sep 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of Handled, Alyson Thompson discusses the phenomenon of decision fatigue, particularly in the context of wedding planning. She explains how overwhelming choices can lead to stress and frustration, and offers practical strategies to manage this fatigue. <br /></p><p>✨ Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:08:1719Decision Fatigue: How to Handle Many Choices You’ll Makefull<![CDATA[What Kind of Planning Support Do You Actually Need?]]>Not sure if you need a full-service planner, just a little coordination help, or something in between? In this episode, I walk through the different types of wedding planning support available—what they mean, what’s included, and who they’re best for.

Whether you’re Type A, overwhelmed, or somewhere in between, you’ll walk away with more clarity (and a lot less guilt) around getting help.


✨ Let’s stay connectedInstagram: ⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠

Work with me: ⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠

Email: ⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/What-Kind-of-Planning-Support-Do-You-Actually-Need-e3620b8cbe03402-9f77-41a2-9afa-4e82cc90db8eTue, 05 Aug 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>Not sure if you need a full-service planner, just a little coordination help, or something in between? In this episode, I walk through the different types of wedding planning support available—what they mean, what’s included, and who they’re best for.</p><p>Whether you’re Type A, overwhelmed, or somewhere in between, you’ll walk away with more clarity (and a lot less guilt) around getting help.</p><p><br /></p><p>✨ Let’s stay connectedInstagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠</a></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠</a></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:11:5512What Kind of Planning Support Do You Actually Need?full<![CDATA[We’re in This Together: Planning Our Wedding as a Team]]>In this special episode, I’m joined by my fiancé to share how we’ve navigated our own wedding planning process as a couple. From budget convos and venue visits to decision fatigue and division of labor—this is a real, behind-the-scenes look at what it’s like when a planner gets engaged and suddenly becomes the client. (Spoiler: it’s still hard sometimes.) We talk about communication, compromise, and why having each other’s back is the most important part of it all.


Vendor Shout outs:


Caterer: Food For Thought Catering: Event & Business Catering in Chicago | Food For ThoughtCustom Stationery: The Word Paperie Design

The Word Paperie Design: Elevated Stationery for Memorable Events

✨ Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠

Work with me: ⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠

Email: ⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Were-in-This-Together-Planning-Our-Wedding-as-a-Team-e3621a827b7af63-7d6c-44d9-9e9b-710e16a3256aTue, 12 Aug 2025 14:25:00 GMT<p>In this special episode, I’m joined by my fiancé to share how we’ve navigated our own wedding planning process as a couple. From budget convos and venue visits to decision fatigue and division of labor—this is a real, behind-the-scenes look at what it’s like when a planner gets engaged and suddenly becomes the client. (Spoiler: it’s still hard sometimes.) We talk about communication, compromise, and why having each other’s back is the most important part of it all.</p><p><br /></p><p>Vendor Shout outs:</p><p><br /></p><p>Caterer: Food For Thought Catering: <a href="https://www.foodforthoughtchicago.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Event &amp; Business Catering in Chicago | Food For Thought</a>Custom Stationery: The Word Paperie Design</p><p><a href="https://thewordpaperiedesign.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">The Word Paperie Design: Elevated Stationery for Memorable Events</a></p><p>✨ Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠</a></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠</a></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:23:3213We’re in This Together: Planning Our Wedding as a Teamfull<![CDATA[Why Wedding Planning Decisions Feel So Hard (It's Not What You Think)]]>You've done the research. You've compared the options. You've asked everyone in your life. And you still can't decide. Sound familiar? In this episode I want to tell you why that happens — and why more information is almost never the answer. We'll talk about the real reason decisions feel impossible, what happens when logic and emotion are pulling in opposite directions, and the three questions I ask my own couples when they're stuck that do more work than any spreadsheet ever could.

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Connect with Alyson:

🌐 https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Why-Wedding-Planning-Decisions-Feel-So-Hard-Its-Not-What-You-Think-e3ip9tgb47e9c22-5126-4bbc-9428-13103ee77892Tue, 12 May 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>You've done the research. You've compared the options. You've asked everyone in your life. And you still can't decide. Sound familiar? In this episode I want to tell you why that happens — and why more information is almost never the answer. We'll talk about the real reason decisions feel impossible, what happens when logic and emotion are pulling in opposite directions, and the three questions I ask my own couples when they're stuck that do more work than any spreadsheet ever could.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p><em>Connect with Alyson:</em></p><p>🌐 https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings</p> no00:06:2323Why Wedding Planning Decisions Feel So Hard (It's Not What You Think)full<![CDATA[What I’m Grateful for as a Wedding Planner (And Why It Matters)]]>This final episode of the year is a reflective one.

In this episode of Handled, Alyson shares what she’s most grateful for after a full season of wedding planning — not as a highlight reel, but as a reminder of what truly matters during the planning process.

From couples who trusted the process, to being invited into deeply emotional moments, to the quiet wins that never make it to Instagram, this episode explores the unseen layers of wedding planning that shape how a day feels, not just how it looks.

Alyson reflects on presence over perfection, connection over performance and more. As we head into a new year and a new wave of engagements, this episode is a grounding reminder that you don’t have to plan perfectly — just honestly, intentionally, and with support that makes you feel safe.


Let's connect!

Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings

Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/What-Im-Grateful-for-as-a-Wedding-Planner-And-Why-It-Matters-e3d06cjf2c2e634-ec1a-4161-9cb7-c16175027108Tue, 30 Dec 2025 20:17:53 GMT<p>This final episode of the year is a reflective one.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, Alyson shares what she’s most grateful for after a full season of wedding planning — not as a highlight reel, but as a reminder of what truly matters during the planning process.</p><p>From couples who trusted the process, to being invited into deeply emotional moments, to the quiet wins that never make it to Instagram, this episode explores the unseen layers of wedding planning that shape how a day <em>feels</em>, not just how it looks.</p><p>Alyson reflects on presence over perfection, connection over performance and more. As we head into a new year and a new wave of engagements, this episode is a grounding reminder that you don’t have to plan perfectly — just honestly, intentionally, and with support that makes you feel safe.</p><p><br /></p><p>Let's connect!</p><p>Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings</p><p>Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com</p> no00:15:38121What I’m Grateful for as a Wedding Planner (And Why It Matters)full<![CDATA[The Vendor Maze: How To Choose Without Getting Overwhelmed]]>Choosing your wedding vendors shouldn’t feel like navigating a maze of emails, contracts, and conflicting opinions. In this episode of Handled, Alyson breaks down how to find the right vendors for you—the ones who align with your values, energy, and vision, not just your budget.

Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/The-Vendor-Maze-How-To-Choose-Without-Getting-Overwhelmed-e39rm603f60de1c-3d08-4fe0-988d-c522f364bc89Tue, 21 Oct 2025 16:46:54 GMT<p>Choosing your wedding vendors shouldn’t feel like navigating a maze of emails, contracts, and conflicting opinions. In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, Alyson breaks down how to find the right vendors for <em>you</em>—the ones who align with your values, energy, and vision, not just your budget.</p><p>Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:09:40113The Vendor Maze: How To Choose Without Getting Overwhelmedfull<![CDATA[Trailer — Let Me Ask You This]]>Wedding planning is emotional work. The decisions are endless, the opinions are loud, and somewhere in the middle of all of it, it's easy to lose the thread of what this is actually supposed to feel like.

That's exactly why this show exists.

I'm Alyson Thompson — Chicago wedding planner, creative director, and the person who's going to challenge you to think about this process a little differently. Let Me Ask You This is a podcast for couples who want more than timelines and vendor checklists. Who want to understand the decisions they're making and feel good about how they're moving through the process.

Every episode we'll explore both sides — the logical and the emotional — because you need both to plan a wedding you'll actually love.

This isn't a tips podcast. It's a thinking space.

New episodes dropping soon. Subscribe now so you don't miss them.

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Trailer--Let-Me-Ask-You-This-e3i8vgj3e8ea1a8-f6ac-4345-91f2-dab18cf509c2Wed, 22 Apr 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Wedding planning is emotional work. The decisions are endless, the opinions are loud, and somewhere in the middle of all of it, it's easy to lose the thread of what this is actually supposed to feel like.</p><p>That's exactly why this show exists.</p><p>I'm Alyson Thompson — Chicago wedding planner, creative director, and the person who's going to challenge you to think about this process a little differently. <em>Let Me Ask You This</em> is a podcast for couples who want more than timelines and vendor checklists. Who want to understand the decisions they're making and feel good about how they're moving through the process.</p><p>Every episode we'll explore both sides — the logical and the emotional — because you need both to plan a wedding you'll actually love.</p><p>This isn't a tips podcast. It's a thinking space.</p><p>New episodes dropping soon. Subscribe now so you don't miss them.</p> no00:01:242Trailer — Let Me Ask You Thistrailer<![CDATA[How I Actually Think About Wedding Planning — And Why It Might Surprise You]]>Most people think wedding planning is primarily a logistical exercise. And yes — the logistics are real. But in this episode I want to challenge that assumption and share what I've learned after 13 years of doing this work: wedding planning is, at its core, a decision making experience. And the couples who move through it most confidently are the ones who understand that from the beginning.

This is my philosophy. And it changes everything.

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Connect with Alyson:

🌐 https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/How-I-Actually-Think-About-Wedding-Planning--And-Why-It-Might-Surprise-You-e3ip8n6652657c9-8d77-43b5-9400-284f421b92b0Tue, 05 May 2026 13:00:00 GMT<p>Most people think wedding planning is primarily a logistical exercise. And yes — the logistics are real. But in this episode I want to challenge that assumption and share what I've learned after 13 years of doing this work: wedding planning is, at its core, a decision making experience. And the couples who move through it most confidently are the ones who understand that from the beginning.</p><p>This is my philosophy. And it changes everything.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p><em>Connect with Alyson:</em></p><p>🌐 https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings</p> no00:07:3522How I Actually Think About Wedding Planning — And Why It Might Surprise Youfull<![CDATA[Let’s Talk About Timeline]]>Not sure what to do when—or if you’re already behind? In this episode of Handled, I’m walking you through why a planning timeline matters, what a customized one looks like for my couples, and when to book your key vendors.

I’ll also break down the difference between your planning timeline and your day-of schedule (and who’s managing what). Whether you’re feeling stuck or just want to get ahead, this one’s for you.✨ Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠

Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠

Email: ⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Lets-Talk-About-Timeline-e36frcn7ca0c787-e3ed-4e2c-be49-3f936f2d487aTue, 02 Sep 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>Not sure what to do when—or if you’re already behind? In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, I’m walking you through why a planning timeline matters, what a customized one looks like for my couples, and when to book your key vendors. </p><p>I’ll also break down the difference between your planning timeline and your day-of schedule (and who’s managing what). Whether you’re feeling stuck or just want to get ahead, this one’s for you.✨ Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:16:4116Let’s Talk About Timelinefull<![CDATA[Wedding Budgets: What No One Says Out Loud]]>In this episode of Handled, Alyson breaks down the part of wedding planning no one likes talking about: the budget. Not the line items, not the price tags — but the feelings, confusion, misconceptions, and comparison culture that make couples feel shamey, stressed, or totally lost when it comes to money.

You'll learn why budgeting feels so emotional, the truth about DIY “savings,” where couples overspend without realizing it, and how to make aligned, confident financial decisions based on your values — not panic or pressure. Alyson also shares insider tips on labor, rentals, florals, catering styles, and why “cheap” often isn’t cheaper.

If you’re overwhelmed, conflicted, or wondering why this part of planning feels so hard, take a deep breath. You’re not alone — and this episode will help you handle it with clarity, confidence, and calm.

Book a Planning Power Session



]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Wedding-Budgets-What-No-One-Says-Out-Loud-e3bolga8ff1d3e0-0e54-4a80-b0c3-b643ad4a8a5fTue, 02 Dec 2025 14:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, Alyson breaks down the part of wedding planning no one likes talking about: the budget. Not the line items, not the price tags — but the <em>feelings</em>, confusion, misconceptions, and comparison culture that make couples feel shamey, stressed, or totally lost when it comes to money.</p><p>You'll learn why budgeting feels so emotional, the truth about DIY “savings,” where couples overspend without realizing it, and how to make aligned, confident financial decisions based on your values — not panic or pressure. Alyson also shares insider tips on labor, rentals, florals, catering styles, and why “cheap” often isn’t cheaper.</p><p>If you’re overwhelmed, conflicted, or wondering why this part of planning feels so hard, take a deep breath. You’re not alone — and this episode will help you handle it with clarity, confidence, and calm.</p><p><a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/wedding-planning-power-session" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Book a Planning Power Session</a></p><p><br /></p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠</a></li></ul><ul><li>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠</a></li></ul><ul><li>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com</a></li></ul><p><br /></p> no00:23:31118Wedding Budgets: What No One Says Out Loudfull<![CDATA[Same Show, Clearer Voice — Here's What's Changing]]>If you've been here before, you may have noticed things look a little different. New name, new cover, new energy. In this episode, I'm taking a few minutes to talk about what changed, what didn't, and why this evolution felt necessary. Because the show I kept wanting to make wasn't quite fitting inside the one I had. So I rebuilt it — around my voice, my perspective, and the conversations I actually want to be having with you.

This is still me. Just more of me.

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Connect with Alyson:

🌐 https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Same-Show--Clearer-Voice--Heres-Whats-Changing-e3ip87v26897b2d-a12c-4daa-945d-f203a0388caaSat, 02 May 2026 03:30:14 GMT<p>If you've been here before, you may have noticed things look a little different. New name, new cover, new energy. In this episode, I'm taking a few minutes to talk about what changed, what didn't, and why this evolution felt necessary. Because the show I kept wanting to make wasn't quite fitting inside the one I had. So I rebuilt it — around my voice, my perspective, and the conversations I actually want to be having with you.</p><p>This is still me. Just more of me.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p><em>Connect with Alyson:</em></p><p>🌐 https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/📲 @birdcageandblushersweddings</p> no00:03:0621Same Show, Clearer Voice — Here's What's Changingfull<![CDATA[The Truth About Arguing During Wedding Planning]]>In this episode of Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast, Alyson unpacks why tension shows up during planning (spoiler: it’s rarely about napkin colors), how to understand the emotions beneath disagreements, and ways to communicate and compromise without losing connection.

Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/The-Truth-About-Arguing-During-Wedding-Planning-e39tng2b2b19702-37af-4713-ba61-91d8cac09defTue, 28 Oct 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of <em>Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast</em>, Alyson unpacks why tension shows up during planning (spoiler: it’s rarely about napkin colors), how to understand the emotions beneath disagreements, and ways to communicate and compromise without losing connection.</p><p>Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:08:07114The Truth About Arguing During Wedding Planningfull<![CDATA[Welcome to Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast]]>Welcome to Handled, a wedding planning podcast for modern couples who want more than checklists and timelines. Hosted by Alyson Thompson—Chicago-based wedding planner, bride-to-be, and founder of Birdcage and Blushers Weddings—this show explores both the how and the heart behind getting married.

Each episode blends real talk and reflection to support you through the emotional, logistical, and very human side of planning a wedding. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or just need someone to say, “yes, that’s normal”—you’re in the right place.

Follow now and get ready to plan with more clarity, more calm, and a whole lot more support.


✨ Let’s stay connected
Instagram: @birdcageandblushersweddings
Work with me: https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-plannerEmail: info@birdcageandblushers.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Welcome-to-Handled-A-Wedding-Planning-Podcast-e3601ek784eda80-9fd0-4759-b158-e132b9ac5060Thu, 24 Jul 2025 23:24:02 GMT<p>Welcome to <em>Handled</em>, a wedding planning podcast for modern couples who want more than checklists and timelines. Hosted by Alyson Thompson—Chicago-based wedding planner, bride-to-be, and founder of Birdcage and Blushers Weddings—this show explores both the how <em>and</em> the heart behind getting married.</p><p>Each episode blends real talk and reflection to support you through the emotional, logistical, and very human side of planning a wedding. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or just need someone to say, “yes, that’s normal”—you’re in the right place.</p><p>Follow now and get ready to plan with more clarity, more calm, and a whole lot more support.</p><p><br /></p><p>✨ Let’s stay connected<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@birdcageandblushersweddings</a><br />Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner</a>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">info@birdcageandblushers.com</a></p> no00:01:03Welcome to Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcasttrailer<![CDATA[Do These Things FIRST When You Get Engaged]]>You got engaged — now what?
Before you make a Pinterest board, book a venue tour, or say yes to anything with a deposit attached… there are foundational steps every couple should take first. And most couples skip them.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the exact process I walk my Birdcage & Blushers couples through the moment they get engaged:
✨ getting crystal clear on your vision
✨ understanding your budget without the shame spiral
✨ learning how to approach the venue search strategically, not reactively

If you want to avoid months of stress, overwhelm, and costly wrong turns, this episode is your starting point.

And if the venue search already feels like too much? I created my Venue Shortlist System specifically to save you time, money, and decision fatigue — so you can start your planning with confidence and clarity.

Learn more about the Venue Shortlist System:

https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system


Let’s stay connected!


Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Do-These-Things-FIRST-When-You-Get-Engaged-e3bf7ro8607066d-b87a-47d1-afbb-fa5f443430d7Tue, 25 Nov 2025 17:41:43 GMT<p><strong>You got engaged — now what?</strong><br />Before you make a Pinterest board, book a venue tour, or say yes to anything with a deposit attached… there are foundational steps every couple should take first. And most couples skip them.</p><p>In this episode, I’m breaking down the exact process I walk my Birdcage &amp; Blushers couples through the moment they get engaged:<br />✨ getting crystal clear on your vision<br />✨ understanding your budget without the shame spiral<br />✨ learning how to approach the venue search <em>strategically</em>, not reactively</p><p>If you want to avoid months of stress, overwhelm, and costly wrong turns, this episode is your starting point.</p><p>And if the venue search already feels like too much? I created my <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank"><strong>Venue Shortlist System</strong></a> <em>specifically</em> to save you time, money, and decision fatigue — so you can start your planning with confidence and clarity. </p><p>Learn more about the Venue Shortlist System: </p><p><a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Let’s stay connected!</p><p><br /></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p> no00:18:03117Do These Things FIRST When You Get Engagedfull<![CDATA[The Emotional Architecture of Wedding Planning]]>Wedding planning isn’t just about logistics, budgets, or aesthetics — it’s about identity, relationships, expectations, and emotion. And that’s why it can feel so overwhelming, even for the most capable, organized couples.

In this episode of Handled, Alyson explores the emotional architecture of a wedding — the invisible layers that make planning feel so big, so personal, and sometimes so heavy. From identity shifts and family dynamics to money narratives, social pressure, and the gap between Pinterest and reality, this conversation validates what so many couples are feeling but rarely hear acknowledged.

If you’ve ever wondered “Why does this feel so intense?” or “Why am I struggling with decisions that should feel simple?” — this episode is for you. You’ll leave feeling grounded, understood, and reminded that you’re not doing anything wrong.

This is your permission to slow down, lead with values, and plan from a place of intention — not pressure.


Let's connect!


Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings


Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com


Learn more about the Venue Shortlist System:

https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/The-Emotional-Architecture-of-Wedding-Planning-e3chmnc27f04ace-638b-4787-b922-bd4dd8c4102eThu, 18 Dec 2025 15:26:20 GMT<p>Wedding planning isn’t just about logistics, budgets, or aesthetics — it’s about identity, relationships, expectations, and emotion. And that’s why it can feel so overwhelming, even for the most capable, organized couples.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, Alyson explores the <strong>emotional architecture of a wedding</strong> — the invisible layers that make planning feel so big, so personal, and sometimes so heavy. From identity shifts and family dynamics to money narratives, social pressure, and the gap between Pinterest and reality, this conversation validates what so many couples are feeling but rarely hear acknowledged.</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered <em>“Why does this feel so intense?”</em> or <em>“Why am I struggling with decisions that should feel simple?”</em> — this episode is for you. You’ll leave feeling grounded, understood, and reminded that you’re not doing anything wrong.</p><p>This is your permission to slow down, lead with values, and plan from a place of intention — not pressure.</p><p><br /></p><p>Let's connect!</p><p><br /></p><p>Instagram: @Birdcageandblushersweddings</p><p><br /></p><p>Website: www.birdcageandblushers.com</p><p><br /></p><p>Learn more about the Venue Shortlist System:</p><p>https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/venue-shortlist-system</p> no00:19:44120The Emotional Architecture of Wedding Planningfull<![CDATA[When Everyone Has an Opinion]]>When it comes to planning your wedding, everyone suddenly has something to say. Whether it’s opinions about your guest list, your budget, or the color of your napkins—outside voices can get loud, fast.

In this episode of Handled, Alyson shares how to navigate the flood of feedback while staying true to your vision. She reflects on why this is such a common challenge for engaged couples, what you can do to stay grounded, and how she advocates for her clients when opinions start to overwhelm.

If you’re feeling torn between what you want and what others expect, this one’s for you.

✨ Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠

Work with me: ⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠

Email: ⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/When-Everyone-Has-an-Opinion-e36esfq56c11097-02a7-47db-a948-734dacba30dbTue, 26 Aug 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>When it comes to planning your wedding, everyone suddenly has <em>something</em> to say. Whether it’s opinions about your guest list, your budget, or the color of your napkins—outside voices can get loud, fast.</p><p>In this episode of <em>Handled</em>, Alyson shares how to navigate the flood of feedback while staying true to your vision. She reflects on why this is such a common challenge for engaged couples, what you can do to stay grounded, and how she advocates for her clients when opinions start to overwhelm.</p><p>If you’re feeling torn between what you want and what others expect, this one’s for you.</p><p></p><p>✨ Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠</a></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠</a></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:09:4715When Everyone Has an Opinionfull<![CDATA[Budget Stress Without the Shame]]>Money and emotions are deeply connected — especially when you’re planning a wedding. In this episode of Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast, Alyson opens up about the pressure couples feel around wedding budgets, from navigating family opinions to comparing costs online.

She shares how to reframe budget stress into clarity and confidence, what to focus on when decision-making feels heavy, and why social media’s “what you should and shouldn’t spend on” advice often does more harm than help.

This episode is your reminder that budgeting isn’t about restriction — it’s about alignment. You deserve a wedding that reflects your priorities, values, and peace of mind, no matter the number.

If you’ve ever felt anxious about what you’re “supposed” to spend, this episode will help you breathe again..

.

.

Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠


Work with me: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠


Email: ⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Budget-Stress-Without-the-Shame-e39ha0kbf03faa2-66f6-445b-ba04-8e913f859ea2Tue, 14 Oct 2025 15:51:34 GMT<p>Money and emotions are deeply connected — especially when you’re planning a wedding. In this episode of <em>Handled: A Wedding Planning Podcast</em>, Alyson opens up about the pressure couples feel around wedding budgets, from navigating family opinions to comparing costs online.</p><p>She shares how to reframe budget stress into clarity and confidence, what to focus on when decision-making feels heavy, and why social media’s “what you should and shouldn’t spend on” advice often does more harm than help.</p><p>This episode is your reminder that budgeting isn’t about restriction — it’s about alignment. You deserve a wedding that reflects your priorities, values, and peace of mind, no matter the number.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt anxious about what you’re “supposed” to spend, this episode will help you breathe again..</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">⁠⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com</a></p><p></p> no00:09:00112Budget Stress Without the Shamefull<![CDATA[Why I Started This Podcast]]>In this first episode, I’m sharing why I created Handled—and why planning a wedding is about so much more than checklists and color palettes.

As a wedding planner and a bride, I’ve seen how overwhelming this process can be—not just logistically, but emotionally. So this podcast is here to support you through both.

Whether you’re in the early stages or deep in the details, I hope this episode helps you feel seen, supported, and a little more grounded as you plan.

🎧 Listen in and let’s get into it.


✨ Let’s stay connected
Instagram: @birdcageandblushersweddings

Work with me: https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner


Email: info@birdcageandblushers.com


]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Why-I-Started-This-Podcast-e36147710712762-6346-442f-be8e-14a3b46d4a09Tue, 29 Jul 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>In this first episode, I’m sharing why I created <em>Handled</em>—and why planning a wedding is about so much more than checklists and color palettes.</p><p>As a wedding planner <em>and</em> a bride, I’ve seen how overwhelming this process can be—not just logistically, but emotionally. So this podcast is here to support you through both.</p><p>Whether you’re in the early stages or deep in the details, I hope this episode helps you feel seen, supported, and a little more grounded as you plan.</p><p>🎧 Listen in and let’s get into it.</p><p><br /></p><p>✨ Let’s stay connected<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@birdcageandblushersweddings</a><br /></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">info@birdcageandblushers.com</a></p><p><br /></p> no00:05:0311Why I Started This Podcastfull<![CDATA[Guest List First: The Key to Wedding Planning]]>Venue or guest list—which one comes first? I get this question all the time, and my answer is clear: make the guest list first.

In this episode, I walk you through why starting here gives you more clarity, less stress, and way fewer regrets down the road. We’ll talk about how to actually make that list (even when family dynamics are messy), why it’s the real roadmap for your planning, and how it helps you find a venue that actually works. It’s not easy—but it’s worth it.

✨ Let’s stay connected

Instagram: ⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠

Work with me: ⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠

Email: ⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠

]]>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/alysonthompson/episodes/Guest-List-First-The-Key-to-Wedding-Planning-e36eqon2abbdf4c-dce0-45d1-b84b-520883dc831dTue, 19 Aug 2025 13:00:00 GMT<p>Venue or guest list—which one comes first? I get this question <em>all the time,</em> and my answer is clear: make the guest list first. </p><p>In this episode, I walk you through why starting here gives you more clarity, less stress, and way fewer regrets down the road. We’ll talk about how to actually <em>make</em> that list (even when family dynamics are messy), why it’s the real roadmap for your planning, and how it helps you find a venue that actually works. It’s not easy—but it’s worth it.</p><p>✨ Let’s stay connected</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/birdcageandblushersweddings" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠@birdcageandblushersweddings⁠⁠</a></p><p>Work with me: <a href="https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠https://www.birdcageandblushers.com/contact-chicago-wedding-planner⁠⁠</a></p><p>Email: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">⁠⁠info@birdcageandblushers.com⁠</a></p> no00:16:2514Guest List First: The Key to Wedding Planningfull