<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Cognitive Dissonance Diaries]]></title><description><![CDATA[Welcome to a digital audio journal for the messy and the curious. In psychology, cognitive dissonance is the tension of holding two conflicting beliefs. In real life? It’s the struggle to make sense of a world that rarely does.
From deconstructing "Alpha" dating myths to the unwritten rules of being human, nothing is off-limits. This isn't self-help; it’s a deep dive into the "glitches" of our brains and the chaos of our choices. Expect psychological facts, personal rabbit holes, and uncomfortable truths. Stop being a stranger to yourself. Open the diary.]]></description><link>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tpep</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 08:00:12 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/AGIKeUTw.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[MOON]]></author><pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 18:06:24 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 MOON]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Personal Journals]]></category><itunes:author>MOON</itunes:author><itunes:summary>Welcome to a digital audio journal for the messy and the curious. In psychology, cognitive dissonance is the tension of holding two conflicting beliefs. In real life? It’s the struggle to make sense of a world that rarely does.
From deconstructing &quot;Alpha&quot; dating myths to the unwritten rules of being human, nothing is off-limits. This isn&apos;t self-help; it’s a deep dive into the &quot;glitches&quot; of our brains and the chaos of our choices. Expect psychological facts, personal rabbit holes, and uncomfortable truths. Stop being a stranger to yourself. Open the diary.</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>MOON</itunes:name><itunes:email>saramohamed932@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Personal Journals"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/39446411-1775373176619-22bcd160f934d.jpg"/><item><title><![CDATA[The Doomscroll Disconnect: Empathy Fatigue And THE 2-Second Pivot ]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Today, we are unpacking <b><i>"The Doomscroll Disconnect."</i></b> We are going to look at the psychological mechanics of <b>compassion fatigue</b>, why your brain uses <b>emotional numbing</b> as a desperate survival tool, and how to <b>navigate the intense cognitive dissonance of witnessing the world's atrocities while trying to live a normal life.</b></p><p></p><p>Because the truth is, you aren't a monster. Your brain is just trying to protect itself from drowning.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">043a65e6-b58d-4702-95f4-e9bf542ebf6b</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MOON]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 19:07:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/0a3725b16121d77796421442d54878dae9728d995c4247f19493105d9212c2c1/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNDNhNjVlNi1iNThkLTQ3MDItOTVmNC1lOWJmNTQyZWJmNmIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWY3ZTJmZjZhYjcxNThiYjVkOTFjMTkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmFiMTc0MDFjMmM1ZjUxYzljMWM0NjFjL3NhcmFjaHVfbG92ZXMtc3R1ZGlvLTIwMjYtOS0yMV9fMTktNy0xNS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="52730714" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/episodes/043a65e6-b58d-4702-95f4-e9bf542ebf6b/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Today, we are unpacking &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;The Doomscroll Disconnect.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; We are going to look at the psychological mechanics of &lt;b&gt;compassion fatigue&lt;/b&gt;, why your brain uses &lt;b&gt;emotional numbing&lt;/b&gt; as a desperate survival tool, and how to &lt;b&gt;navigate the intense cognitive dissonance of witnessing the world&apos;s atrocities while trying to live a normal life.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Because the truth is, you aren&apos;t a monster. Your brain is just trying to protect itself from drowning.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:27:28</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/39446411-1775373176619-22bcd160f934d.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Doomscroll Disconnect: Empathy Fatigue And THE 2-Second Pivot </itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Stranger You Grieved: Why We Mourn People Who never Knew We existed.]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome back to <b>Cognitive Dissonance Diaries.</b> I'm your host, Moon and today we're diving into<b><i> Parasocial Relationships</i></b>- what they are, why your brain builds them without your permission, and why losing one can hurt as much as losing someone real.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1c797efb-0d17-44fa-ad49-b21a93e49653</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MOON]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2026 18:11:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/30a22bd0fbaab57467ef98ee3e378a116a6bba033907768a1bb964375868b3e5/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxYzc5N2VmYi0wZDE3LTQ0ZmEtYWQ0OS1iMjFhOTNlNDk2NTMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWY3ZTJmZjZhYjcxNThiYjVkOTFjMTkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmFiMTcxYTU4Njg3Y2ExZWE2OTc5MzMwL3NhcmFjaHVfbG92ZXMtc3R1ZGlvLTIwMjYtOS0yMV9fMTgtNC0yMS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="36747852" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/episodes/1c797efb-0d17-44fa-ad49-b21a93e49653/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Welcome back to &lt;b&gt;Cognitive Dissonance Diaries.&lt;/b&gt; I&apos;m your host, Moon and today we&apos;re diving into&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt; Parasocial Relationships&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;- what they are, why your brain builds them without your permission, and why losing one can hurt as much as losing someone real.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:19:08</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/39446411-1775373176619-22bcd160f934d.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Stranger You Grieved: Why We Mourn People Who never Knew We existed.</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Alpha Illusion- Why Behavioral Blindness is the New Epidemic]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever met someone who seemed to have it all- success, confidence, the "perfect" life- yet they were deeply, inexplicably alone? In our series premiere, we’re looking at the "Good Catch" paradox and why we are living through an epidemic of behavioral blindness. </p><p>We’re diving into:</p><ul><li><strong>The Alpha Myth:</strong> Why the scientist who coined "Alpha Wolf" spent 30 years trying to take it back- and why "Alpha" actually applies to <strong>chickens</strong>, not leaders.</li><li><strong>The Social Dunning-Kruger Effect:</strong> Why the people who are the worst at relationships are often the least likely to realize they are the problem.</li><li><strong>The External Locus of Control:</strong> How blaming "modern dating culture" or "algorithms" is actually a defense mechanism to protect your ego from the truth.</li></ul><p>Stop being a victim of your own unchecked patterns. It’s time to stop pecking at the world and start looking at the coop.</p><p><strong>Stop being a stranger to yourself. It’s time to listen to the dissonance.</strong></p>
]]></description><link>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tpep/episodes/The-Alpha-Illusion--Why-Behavioral-Blindness-is-the-New-Epidemic-e3heulf</link><guid isPermaLink="false">b26828ee-b6c3-49bf-ab97-ab96e24aad77</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MOON]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2026 06:51:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/0a1bce1be07d937c18a99bc14b28ab1e3d2c38fdd38a5177a74a15e341848b32/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzY2IwYmQ5ZC04NzY4LTRiYjQtYjgxNy03NWFkOWQ3NzliY2MiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWY3ZTJmZjZhYjcxNThiYjVkOTFjMTkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy82NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUvZXBpc29kZXMvM2NiMGJkOWQtODc2OC00YmI0LWI4MTctNzVhZDlkNzc5YmNjLzQyMTQzNzAzOC00NDEwMC0yLTViYjVmZDUwZGU1NTEubTRhIn0=.m4a" length="18277176" type="audio/x-m4a"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Have you ever met someone who seemed to have it all- success, confidence, the &quot;perfect&quot; life- yet they were deeply, inexplicably alone? In our series premiere, we’re looking at the &quot;Good Catch&quot; paradox and why we are living through an epidemic of behavioral blindness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We’re diving into:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Alpha Myth:&lt;/strong&gt; Why the scientist who coined &quot;Alpha Wolf&quot; spent 30 years trying to take it back- and why &quot;Alpha&quot; actually applies to &lt;strong&gt;chickens&lt;/strong&gt;, not leaders.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Social Dunning-Kruger Effect:&lt;/strong&gt; Why the people who are the worst at relationships are often the least likely to realize they are the problem.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The External Locus of Control:&lt;/strong&gt; How blaming &quot;modern dating culture&quot; or &quot;algorithms&quot; is actually a defense mechanism to protect your ego from the truth.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stop being a victim of your own unchecked patterns. It’s time to stop pecking at the world and start looking at the coop.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stop being a stranger to yourself. It’s time to listen to the dissonance.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:18:50</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/episodes/3cb0bd9d-8768-4bb4-b817-75ad9d779bcc/39446411-1775373176619-22bcd160f934d.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Alpha Illusion- Why Behavioral Blindness is the New Epidemic</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Cringe Factor]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This episode explores the psychological roots of <strong>"cringe,"</strong> looking at how it evolved as a social survival mechanism and how modern <strong>"cringe culture"</strong> has transformed it into a tool for social policing.</p>
]]></description><link>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tpep/episodes/The-Cringe-Factor-e3irb6r</link><guid isPermaLink="false">74330002-ecf2-4676-87f6-1934c6e601f2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MOON]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 01:05:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/f51e2cd368d5e406570dab7ad230a7b23b680049ff2bf8d449075c37c36094b0/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5YTI2YTA0ZC02YTg1LTQ1NWEtOGVlOS01YmYwOTQ5MzgwZWUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWY3ZTJmZjZhYjcxNThiYjVkOTFjMTkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy82NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUvZXBpc29kZXMvOWEyNmEwNGQtNmE4NS00NTVhLThlZTktNWJmMDk0OTM4MGVlLzQyMzM5ODMzOC00NDEwMC0yLTVmMTA2OWUxZDdmOWYubTRhIn0=.m4a" length="15734903" type="audio/x-m4a"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This episode explores the psychological roots of &lt;strong&gt;&quot;cringe,&quot;&lt;/strong&gt; looking at how it evolved as a social survival mechanism and how modern &lt;strong&gt;&quot;cringe culture&quot;&lt;/strong&gt; has transformed it into a tool for social policing.&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:16:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/episodes/9a26a04d-6a85-455a-8ee9-5bf0949380ee/39446411-1775373176619-22bcd160f934d.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Cringe Factor</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Green-eyed Monster: Envy vs. Jealousy ]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This episode explores the evolutionary roots and distinct psychological mechanics of <strong>envy</strong> and <strong>jealousy</strong>. It clarifies why we often use these terms interchangeably even though they represent completely different social dynamics and emotional <strong>"triangles."</strong></p>
]]></description><link>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tpep/episodes/The-Green-eyed-Monster-Envy-vs--Jealousy-e3irdft</link><guid isPermaLink="false">fa92698d-b865-4c1a-9bdc-d15a9ba84472</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MOON]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 02:07:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/e635cf6ae24ee91046db4379ef5a06dd17c66127eb21cc8983508677520936a3/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmMDQ1NWQ4NC05ZDI4LTQwOGUtYmM4OC03YTFiYWU0NjM3OGEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWY3ZTJmZjZhYjcxNThiYjVkOTFjMTkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy82NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUvZXBpc29kZXMvZjA0NTVkODQtOWQyOC00MDhlLWJjODgtN2ExYmFlNDYzNzhhLzQyMzQwMTQzNy00NDEwMC0yLTU3ZWY4ZTc2YmRlMDcubTRhIn0=.m4a" length="16125123" type="audio/x-m4a"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This episode explores the evolutionary roots and distinct psychological mechanics of &lt;strong&gt;envy&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;strong&gt;jealousy&lt;/strong&gt;. It clarifies why we often use these terms interchangeably even though they represent completely different social dynamics and emotional &lt;strong&gt;&quot;triangles.&quot;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:16:36</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/episodes/f0455d84-9d28-408e-bc88-7a1bae46378a/39446411-1775373176619-22bcd160f934d.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Green-eyed Monster: Envy vs. Jealousy </itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Weaponization of Therapyspeak]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This episode of <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=cognitive+dissonance&amp;kgmid=/hkb/1684691993&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiNg9ny-9WTAxWiJkQIHb4qD_sQ3egRegYIAQgCEAI" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow"><strong>Cognitive Dissonance</strong></a> takes a hard look at "Therapyspeak"—the modern trend of using clinical psychology terms in everyday life. While these words can help us understand ourselves, they are increasingly being used to control others, avoid responsibility, and even mask emotional abuse.</p>
]]></description><link>https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tpep/episodes/The-Weaponization-of-Therapyspeak-e3hfufd</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ddd2469-c0b6-45f2-88fa-da8383a9f2a2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MOON]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 02:56:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a553af8d8f5b6469d6a1106b33698af323ddbbee65ec55b0930a0657f2573c8a/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxOGQzZmQ3MS1jNDE4LTRkNWUtYjgxYS03MjdkZTRhZjQ0NjQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI2NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWY3ZTJmZjZhYjcxNThiYjVkOTFjMTkiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvaW1wb3J0cy9wb2RjYXN0cy82NmE2ZGE2ZS04MmNiLTRmMWMtYThkNi04MzBjNDBmZjc1ZjUvZXBpc29kZXMvMThkM2ZkNzEtYzQxOC00ZDVlLWI4MWEtNzI3ZGU0YWY0NDY0LzQyMTQ3OTg2MS00NDEwMC0yLTJhMGZmMzk0OTc2ZWUubTRhIn0=.m4a" length="22761643" type="audio/x-m4a"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This episode of &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.google.com/search?q=cognitive+dissonance&amp;amp;kgmid=/hkb/1684691993&amp;amp;sa=X&amp;amp;ved=2ahUKEwiNg9ny-9WTAxWiJkQIHb4qD_sQ3egRegYIAQgCEAI&quot; rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cognitive Dissonance&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; takes a hard look at &quot;Therapyspeak&quot;—the modern trend of using clinical psychology terms in everyday life. While these words can help us understand ourselves, they are increasingly being used to control others, avoid responsibility, and even mask emotional abuse.&lt;/p&gt;
</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:23:27</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/imports/podcasts/66a6da6e-82cb-4f1c-a8d6-830c40ff75f5/episodes/18d3fd71-c418-4d5e-b81a-727de4af4464/39446411-1775373176619-22bcd160f934d.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Weaponization of Therapyspeak</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>