<![CDATA[Family Fronds]]>Family Fronds is the podcast for independent surrogacy and egg donation. We bring honest conversations to intended parents, surrogates, egg donors, and the professionals who support them all.

Produced by Pineapple Family, the platform helping families navigate independent journeys without traditional agency fees, Family Fronds covers the real side of surrogacy and IVF: the costs, the decisions, the challenges, and the things no one tells you until you're already in it.

Each episode, we welcome a new "frond of the family" to the table. Reproductive attorneys, fertility specialists, experienced surrogates, former donors, and the communities they create, speaking directly about what this process actually costs, how it actually works, and what it looks like from the inside.

No gatekeeping. No sales pitch. Just conversations that make the journey possible.

A Pineapple Family Original.

]]>www.pineapplefamily.orgRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Fri, 03 Jul 2026 08:23:22 GMTTue, 12 May 2026 00:57:38 GMT60Pineapple Family<p>Family Fronds is the podcast for independent surrogacy and egg donation. We bring honest conversations to intended parents, surrogates, egg donors, and the professionals who support them all.</p><p></p><p>Produced by Pineapple Family, the platform helping families navigate independent journeys without traditional agency fees, Family Fronds covers the real side of surrogacy and IVF: the costs, the decisions, the challenges, and the things no one tells you until you're already in it.</p><p></p><p>Each episode, we welcome a new "frond of the family" to the table. Reproductive attorneys, fertility specialists, experienced surrogates, former donors, and the communities they create, speaking directly about what this process actually costs, how it actually works, and what it looks like from the inside.</p><p></p><p>No gatekeeping. No sales pitch. Just conversations that make the journey possible.</p><p></p><p>A Pineapple Family Original.</p>episodicPineapple Familydaniel@pineapplefamily.orgno<![CDATA[The Cost of Falling Into the "Good Surrogate" Trap]]>Surrogacy contracts are negotiated long before anyone knows how the story will unfold. Before the pregnancy. Before the delivery. Before anyone knows what support might be needed later on, down the line. And for many first-time surrogates, the hardest questions aren't the ones they ask. They're the ones they never knew to ask in the first place.

The conversation covers Amanda Jones' experience as a two-time surrogate, including her independent surrogacy experience, agency journeys, and the life-threatening delivery complication that changed how she thinks about surrogate protections.

Amanda shares candid insights on contract negotiations, insurance coverage, compensation, postpartum recovery, and the support she wishes she'd known to ask for before signing a contract.

The discussion explores how first-time surrogates can unintentionally prioritize helping intended parents over advocating for themselves, and why understanding insurance, legal protections, and recovery support is critical before any journey begins.

Takeaways

• Many surrogates don't discover what they need most until they're already pregnant, recovering, or facing an unexpected complication.

• Insurance coverage, life insurance, paid time off, housekeeping support, and recovery benefits should be discussed and negotiated before contracts are signed.

• Agencies often focus on moving journeys forward, which can leave surrogates unaware of protections and benefits available to them.

• Independent journeys can offer surrogates greater autonomy and flexibility when they are supported by the right legal, medical, and educational resources.

• Advocacy is a skill. Surrogates who understand their options are better positioned to protect themselves and their families.

Chapters

00:00 Amanda's Near-Fatal Delivery

02:03 Becoming a Surrogate for Her Former Boss

08:27 Compensation and Contract Negotiations

09:37 The Delivery That Changed Everything

18:05 Recovery, Medical Bills, and Advocacy

21:25 Fighting for Support and Benefits

31:50 Agency vs. Independent Surrogacy

38:53 Insurance, Life Insurance, and Hidden Risks

45:12 What Every Surrogate Should Know Before Signing

]]>ba6de567-769a-46c3-a06f-2a9398ebb0b7Fri, 12 Jun 2026 21:20:22 GMT<p>Surrogacy contracts are negotiated long before anyone knows how the story will unfold. Before the pregnancy. Before the delivery. Before anyone knows what support might be needed later on, down the line. And for many first-time surrogates, the hardest questions aren't the ones they ask. They're the ones they never knew to ask in the first place.</p><p></p><p>The conversation covers Amanda Jones' experience as a two-time surrogate, including her independent surrogacy experience, agency journeys, and the life-threatening delivery complication that changed how she thinks about surrogate protections.</p><p></p><p>Amanda shares candid insights on contract negotiations, insurance coverage, compensation, postpartum recovery, and the support she wishes she'd known to ask for before signing a contract.</p><p></p><p>The discussion explores how first-time surrogates can unintentionally prioritize helping intended parents over advocating for themselves, and why understanding insurance, legal protections, and recovery support is critical before any journey begins.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><p>• Many surrogates don't discover what they need most until they're already pregnant, recovering, or facing an unexpected complication.</p><p>• Insurance coverage, life insurance, paid time off, housekeeping support, and recovery benefits should be discussed and negotiated before contracts are signed.</p><p>• Agencies often focus on moving journeys forward, which can leave surrogates unaware of protections and benefits available to them.</p><p>• Independent journeys can offer surrogates greater autonomy and flexibility when they are supported by the right legal, medical, and educational resources.</p><p>• Advocacy is a skill. Surrogates who understand their options are better positioned to protect themselves and their families.</p><p></p><p>Chapters</p><p>00:00 Amanda's Near-Fatal Delivery</p><p>02:03 Becoming a Surrogate for Her Former Boss</p><p>08:27 Compensation and Contract Negotiations</p><p>09:37 The Delivery That Changed Everything</p><p>18:05 Recovery, Medical Bills, and Advocacy</p><p>21:25 Fighting for Support and Benefits</p><p>31:50 Agency vs. Independent Surrogacy</p><p>38:53 Insurance, Life Insurance, and Hidden Risks</p><p>45:12 What Every Surrogate Should Know Before Signing</p>no00:45:0312The Cost of Falling Into the "Good Surrogate" Trapfull<![CDATA[Trailer]]>Family Fronds is the independent surrogacy podcast that tells the truth about independent surrogacy and egg donation journeys — what it costs, what it takes, and what the agency model doesn't want you to know. Real voices. Real experiences. From the people who have lived through it. A Pineapple Family Original.

]]>4b73b9c1-60c9-4330-9ab1-6bb23cbcde42Wed, 20 May 2026 08:35:49 GMT<p>Family Fronds is the independent surrogacy podcast that tells the truth about independent surrogacy and egg donation journeys — what it costs, what it takes, and what the agency model doesn't want you to know. Real voices. Real experiences. From the people who have lived through it. A Pineapple Family Original.</p>no00:02:11Trailertrailer<![CDATA[We Paid $45,000 to Learn the System Was Broken]]>"We Paid $45,000 to Learn the System Was Broken"

In 2019, Daniel Malak and Joshua Brost started the surrogacy process the way most people do: they hired an agency and trusted the system. Six years later, they have two kids, a failed match, a $45,000 lesson, and a family-building platform built on what they learned.

This is the episode where they tell the full story — joined by their co-founder and gestational carrier, Sam Martin, who brings the other side of it. Sam carried her first journey through an agency, later discovered that agency owned its own law firm and ran its own escrow, and came out of the experience with a firm belief that gestational carriers deserve to be treated as partners, not inventory.

Together, the three founders cover what the agency fee of $30,000–$60,000+ actually funds, how SEEDS governs (or doesn't) the surrogacy industry, private equity consolidation of three of the largest U.S. surrogacy agencies, and what going independent actually requires — including why it doesn't mean skipping the safety standards.

In this episode:

  • The failed transfer, the agency's response, and the decision to go independent
  • What $30,000–$60,000 in surrogacy agency fees actually buys
  • SEEDS, self-governance, and the enforcement problem
  • Private equity ownership of three major U.S. surrogacy agencies
  • In-house escrow and in-house legal: why they're a red flag
  • The ASRM psych screening standard agencies routinely skip
  • What Sam wishes she'd known before her first agency journey
  • Why an independent surrogacy and/or egg donation journey doesn't mean unsafe — it means choosing your own providers

About the hosts: Daniel Malak and Joshua Brost are co-founders of Pineapple Family. Sam Martin is co-founder and served as gestational carrier for their two children. She holds a law degree and has completed multiple journeys — agency and independent.

FTC disclosure: Sam Martin is a co-founder of Pineapple Family and has a financial relationship with the company. This episode is produced by Pineapple Family.

If you're thinking about carrying: Start an application at pineapplefamily.org. Nobody assigns you to a family — you see the full profile and you choose. Not ready yet? Join The Grove, our free community for gestational carriers and egg donors, at pineapplefamily.org. Free always.

This episode does not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed reproductive attorney for guidance specific to your situation. This episode does not constitute medical advice. Consult a licensed medical professional for guidance specific to your situation.

Family Fronds is a Pineapple Family original.

]]>d095ce14-9f10-4db9-97f3-305851e065b1Wed, 20 May 2026 05:19:37 GMT<p><b>"We Paid $45,000 to Learn the System Was Broken"</b></p><p>In 2019, Daniel Malak and Joshua Brost started the surrogacy process the way most people do: they hired an agency and trusted the system. Six years later, they have two kids, a failed match, a $45,000 lesson, and a family-building platform built on what they learned.</p><p></p><p>This is the episode where they tell the full story — joined by their co-founder and gestational carrier, Sam Martin, who brings the other side of it. Sam carried her first journey through an agency, later discovered that agency owned its own law firm and ran its own escrow, and came out of the experience with a firm belief that gestational carriers deserve to be treated as partners, not inventory.</p><p></p><p>Together, the three founders cover what the agency fee of $30,000–$60,000+ actually funds, how SEEDS governs (or doesn't) the surrogacy industry, private equity consolidation of three of the largest U.S. surrogacy agencies, and what going independent actually requires — including why it doesn't mean skipping the safety standards.</p><p></p><p><b>In this episode:</b></p><ul><li>The failed transfer, the agency's response, and the decision to go independent</li><li>What $30,000–$60,000 in surrogacy agency fees actually buys</li><li>SEEDS, self-governance, and the enforcement problem</li><li>Private equity ownership of three major U.S. surrogacy agencies</li><li>In-house escrow and in-house legal: why they're a red flag</li><li>The ASRM psych screening standard agencies routinely skip</li><li>What Sam wishes she'd known before her first agency journey</li><li>Why an independent surrogacy and/or egg donation journey doesn't mean unsafe — it means choosing your own providers<p></p></li></ul><p><b>About the hosts:</b> Daniel Malak and Joshua Brost are co-founders of Pineapple Family. Sam Martin is co-founder and served as gestational carrier for their two children. She holds a law degree and has completed multiple journeys — agency and independent.</p><p></p><p><i>FTC disclosure: Sam Martin is a co-founder of Pineapple Family and has a financial relationship with the company. This episode is produced by Pineapple Family.</i></p><p></p><p><b>If you're thinking about carrying:</b> Start an application at <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://pineapplefamily.org" target="_blank">pineapplefamily.org</a>. Nobody assigns you to a family — you see the full profile and you choose. Not ready yet? Join The Grove, our free community for gestational carriers and egg donors, at <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://pineapplefamily.org" target="_blank">pineapplefamily.org</a>. Free always.</p><p></p><p><i>This episode does not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed reproductive attorney for guidance specific to your situation. This episode does not constitute medical advice. Consult a licensed medical professional for guidance specific to your situation.</i></p><p></p><p><i>Family Fronds is a Pineapple Family original.</i></p>no00:22:0411We Paid $45,000 to Learn the System Was Brokenfull