This week, Jason finally gets his turn to geek out over something he loves: underwear. And who better to join us than Tim from Brief Talk Podcast and Underwear News Briefs (UNB), the man who helped inspire The Kinky Bros Podcast in the first place!

From the first pair that made us feel sexy to the return of classic BIKE jockstraps (and some hilariously questionable childhood memories), we're pulling back the waistband on everything underwear. Why are more straight guys embracing thongs? Why do men feel so much shame about wanting to look sexy? And how do you explain your underwear obsession to your partner?

• Thong Story Short: Why more straight men are embracing thongs, jocks, and sexy underwear.
• Men Deserve to Feel Sexy, Too: Breaking down shame, masculinity, and the confidence that comes from what's underneath.
• The Underwear Confession: How to talk to your partner about your underwear choices and why sharing photos doesn't necessarily mean you're looking for a hookup.
• But Is It Comfortable? Tim and Jason explain what makes a great thong and why not all underwear is created equal.
• Free the Bulge: Why Tim wants guys to wear what they love without worrying about what anyone else thinks.

By the end, one thing is clear: underwear isn't just about what you're wearing. It's about how it makes you feel. And whether you're rocking a thong, a jock, or your trusty boxer briefs, there's no shame in feeling sexy.

And now we want to know… What's your go-to underwear style? And how many pairs are hiding in YOUR drawer? 👀

• Instagram: @unbtim
• Podcasts: Brief Talk, Brief Talk After Dark, and Stretching the Truth
• Podcast Hub: unbblog.com
• Shop: UNB Store

Have a kinky story, secret, question, or discovery you'd love to share? We want to hear it!

DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession might just make it into a future episode, anonymously, of course!

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If you're enjoying the show, please follow, rate, and review! It helps more curious minds discover our conversations. Yes, we're shamelessly begging. 😏

Disclaimer: This podcast contains explicit adult conversations about sex, kink, relationships, and personal experiences. Intended for mature audiences (18+). We're sharing our own experiences and perspectives, not offering professional advice. Remember, we're not experts. We're just two brothers figuring it all out, one conversation at a time.

This week, we’re joined by Jaime M. Grant and Jack Harrison-Quintana, the authors of Kink for Dummies, for a conversation that somehow manages to make us feel both smarter and even more like dummies.

We talk about why understanding why you’re kinky may not actually matter, why some fantasies are perfectly fine staying fantasies, and why there’s no single “right” way to do consent, aftercare, community, or kink itself.

And Jason gets some advice we didn’t expect: “This is a need you have, not a problem.” 

In this episode:

• How Kink for Dummies actually came to be
• Why even experienced kinksters can still have a lot to learn
• Giving yourself permission to explore what turns you on
• The difference between understanding your desire and giving it meaning
• Why not every fantasy needs to become reality
• Why trying to be the “perfect kinkster” can make you lose sight of yourself
• Consent as an ongoing conversation, not a one-time transaction
• Why aftercare doesn’t always mean cuddles and tea
• How kink, identity and desire can change as we age
• The role online spaces can play in finding community and discovering you’re not alone
• Why being kinky does not automatically make you cooler
• And what a really good kink life should actually make you feel

So we want to know: What’s one “rule” about kink you used to believe that you’ve since thrown out?

Jaime M. Grant
Website: justsexpodcast.com
Jaime also offers poly, kink, desire and relationship coaching. 

Jack Harrison-Quintana
Instagram: @j_c_h_q

Kink for Dummies is available wherever you buy books, including independent bookstores through Bookshop. 

Website: thekinkybros.com
Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

The Kinky Bros are not experts. We’re just two real-life brothers figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time. This podcast contains adult conversations intended for adult audiences.

This week, Gryff and Jason sit down with Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to dig into the psychology behind kink and figure out whether there really is a “why” behind the things that turn us on.

Then the Bros make the questionable (but GREAT) decision to let Amanda analyze them. Why do two very different brothers both love edging? What’s really going on with Gryff and rubber? Is Jason’s underwear obsession actually about underwear? And what happens when Amanda makes a connection that leaves Gryff’s mind a little blown?

Turns out the same kink can have two very different whys.

In this episode:

• Why we’re so determined to find an origin story for our kinks
• Why what your kink makes you feel may matter more than where it came from
• Amanda analyzes Gryff and Jason’s shared love of edging
• What Gryff’s rubber fetish and Jason’s underwear obsession may actually be giving them
• What dominance taught Amanda about empathy, boundaries and vulnerability
• Why fantasy and reality don’t always match
• How shame can keep us from exploring what we really want
• Why good kink leaves room for mistakes, laughter and trying again
• The question Amanda thinks everyone exploring their kinky side should ask themselves

And now we want to know: If nobody else would ever know, what would you give yourself permission to explore?

Find Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant

Website: amandadames.com
Instagram: @the_kinkconsultant
Facebook: The Kink Consultant Facebook Page
TikTok: The Kink Consultant on TikTok
YouTube: The Kink Consultant on YouTube
Podcast: The Kink Consultant Podcast

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The Kinky Bros are not experts. We’re just two real-life brothers figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time. This podcast contains adult conversations intended for adult audiences.

This week, Gryff and Jason are pulling open the drawers and talking toys. From plugs and cock rings to Bluetooth controls, slings, chastity cages and the things they still haven’t worked up the nerve to try, the Bros compare favorites, failures and a few purchases that may have gotten slightly out of hand.

Why do some people see toys as competition? How do you introduce something new to a partner without making it sound like a performance review? What happens when the thing you were convinced you’d love turns out to be a complete disaster? And when does your body tell you it’s time to stop?

Because sometimes your eyes really are bigger than your hole.

In this episode:

• What’s actually inside Gryff and Jason’s toy boxes
• Their favorite toys and biggest toy-buying mistakes
• Why quality, materials, lube and patience matter
• The toys they expected to love but didn’t
• The toys they never expected to enjoy
• Getting past the “my dick should be enough” mentality
• How to introduce toys into a relationship without bruising anyone’s ego
• Why experimenting, laughing and occasionally saying “nope” are all part of good sex
• Kinky Confessions involving grocery stores, offices and toys in public

And now we want to know: What’s in your toy box? Tell us your favorites, your unexpected obsessions or your spectacular failures.

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The Kinky Bros are not experts. We’re just two real-life brothers figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time. This podcast contains adult conversations intended for adult audiences.

Gryff and Jason sit down with two experienced Dominants from very different corners of the kink world: Miss Lace, a straight-ish female Domme with roughly 15 years of experience, and Sir Patrick, a gay male
Dom and longtime friend of Gryff’s.

Together they unpack what dominance actually looks like when you get past the leather, floggers and stereotypes. And it turns out the biggest tools in a good Dom’s arsenal might not be restraints or impact toys at all.

The conversation gets into 24/7 power exchange, the difference between a submissive and a play partner, safe words, body language, vulnerability on the Dominant side, psychological play, erotic hypnosis, long-distance dynamics and what happens when a scene simply doesn’t work.

In This Episode

• What Gryff and Jason assumed Dom/sub relationships looked like before learning more
• How Miss Lace and Sir Patrick each discovered dominance
• A straight female Domme and gay male Dom on how their experiences differ
• What 24/7 power exchange can actually look like
• Why dominance is often far more relational than outsiders realize
• How gender and sexuality can shape kink spaces
• The fetishization of female Dominants
• The conversations that should happen before a scene begins
• Why communication and trust are non-negotiable
• Safe words, check-ins and nonverbal signals
• Why reading body language matters just as much as hearing “red”
• Who actually holds the power in a Dom/sub exchange
• Why Dominants can be deeply vulnerable too
• What ongoing power exchange looks like alongside jobs, spouses and everyday life
• The unexpected kink nobody warned us about: Calendars
  

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Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

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The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults and contains frank conversations about sex, kink and relationships. We're two real-life brothers sharing our experiences and learning along the way—not experts, therapists or medical professionals.

This week, Gryff and Jason dive into rope, bondage and Shibari with Houston rigger Travis and rope bunny Carson. And pretty quickly, the conversation moves beyond knots and restraints into something much more interesting: trust, art, meditation, communication and the surprisingly intimate headspace that can come from giving up control.

In This Episode

• What makes rope and Shibari different from other kinds of bondage
• Why rope can be artistic, meditative, sexual... or none of the above
• The rigger versus rope bunny experience
• Carson’s journey from bondage fantasy to meditative headspace
• Why Travis considers rope his creative outlet
• The conversations that should happen before anyone gets tied
• Numbness, nerve safety and knowing your own body
• What it really feels like to relax into restraint
• What kind of rope beginners should actually use
• The basic skills new riggers need to learn
• How to find rope and kink communities near you
• Bound HTX and building a local rope community
• The upcoming Shibarty exhibition in Houston

Follow Travis & Carson:

Travis: @knot_just_ropes, @bound.htx, @rope.art.htx (all IG)
Carson: @boundaggie.2.0 (IG)
Shibarisession.com
boundhtx.com

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Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

And if you're enjoying the show, give us a five-star rating and review wherever you're listening. It helps other curious people find us—and maybe discover something about themselves along the way.

The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults and contains frank conversations about sex, kink and relationships. We're two real-life brothers sharing our experiences and learning along the way—not experts, therapists or medical professionals.

When Jason hears “pup play,” he pictures a guy in a dog hood crawling around on all fours and barking. He's not entirely wrong. But he's about to find out there's a whole lot more to it.

Pups Varken and Deek join Gryff and Jason for a crash course in pup play - from hoods, tails and moshes to handlers, headspace, identity, community and the surprising freedom that can come from giving yourself permission to stop being quite so human for a while.

In This Episode

• What pup play actually is—and what Jason thought it was
• Kink, roleplay or identity? Why the answer can be all three
• How Gryff, Varken and Deek each found their pup side
• What “pup headspace” feels like
• Why a hood can provide anonymity, confidence and freedom
• The many different ways someone can be a pup
• Moshes, handlers, Sirs and the role each can—or doesn't have to—play
• Community, titleholders and the service work behind the scenes
• The big misconceptions about pup play
• Why gear never equals consent
• Navigating pup identity when your partner doesn't completely understand it
• Starting with cheap gear—and why you don't actually need gear at all
• How pup names become part of identity
• Pup play vs. furry: yes, Jason asks the question
• How being a pup can change the human underneath the hood
  

What starts as Jason trying to understand why grown adults put on dog hoods becomes something much bigger: a conversation about finding confidence, creating chosen family, letting yourself play and discovering pieces of yourself you didn't know you were missing.

Follow The Pups

Pup Varken: @PupVarken
Pup Deek: @PupDeek

Send Us Your Kink Confessions

Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you've been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com.

Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

Follow The Kinky Bros Podcast

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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

And if you're enjoying the show, give us a five-star rating and review wherever you're listening. It helps other curious people find us—and maybe discover something about themselves along the way.

The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults and contains frank conversations about sex, kink and relationships. We're two real-life brothers sharing our experiences and learning along the way—not experts, therapists or medical professionals.

What exactly is a hotwife? Is it swinging? An open relationship? A kink? And if your partner is actively encouraging you to sleep with someone else… where the hell does jealousy fit into all of this?

Jason's longtime friend Nikki joins us to take Gryff—and maybe a few of you—inside the world of hotwifing and ethical non-monogamy.

In This Episode

• What “hotwife” actually means—and what it doesn't
• Hotwifing vs. swinging vs. open relationships vs. cuckolding
• Why Nikki and Dan decided to explore non-monogamy
• The thrill of flirting, being desired and “the chase”
• Why their early rulebook eventually stopped working
• Jealousy, envy and what insecurity can reveal about a relationship
• Why non-monogamy can force couples to keep dating each other
• Navigating feelings when other people enter the picture
• Sexual health, testing and protecting each other
• The surprisingly strong community surrounding the lifestyle
• Why opening a struggling relationship probably won't fix it

It's an honest conversation about what can happen when two people give each other freedom, screw some things up, talk through the ugly parts and keep choosing each other anyway.

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• Smokeshownik IG - https://www.instagram.com/smokeshownik
• Fansly - https://fansly.com/DarlingNikDallas
• Sext Panther - https://www.sextpanther.com/darlingnikdallas
• More Spicy Content - Link Tree - https://linktr.ee/darlingnik

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Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you've been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com.

Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

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Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

And if you're enjoying the show, give us a five-star rating and review wherever you're listening.

The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults and contains frank conversations about sex, kink and relationships. We're two real-life brothers sharing our experiences and learning along the way—not experts, therapists or medical professionals.

In this episode, we talk honestly about aging, sex, health, confidence, and what happens when you stop caring quite so much about what everyone else thinks. From testosterone and recovery time to kink bucket lists, intimacy, daddy energy, and the surprising realization that sex may actually get better with age, this conversation is less about slowing down and more about finally getting out of your own way.

In This Episode

• Why turning 50 felt heavier than turning 40
• How kink can make aging feel more expansive—not less
• Testosterone, sexual health, and knowing your body
• Why sex, intimacy, and pleasure can improve with experience
• The difference between being horny and actively seeking pleasure
• Letting go of shame and giving yourself permission to explore
• Jason’s kink bucket list—and Gryff’s emerging daddy era
• What we wish we could tell our younger selves

Send Us Your Kink Confessions

Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest?

DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

Follow The Kinky Bros Podcast

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Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea.

The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

It’s Jason’s turn to take the lead—and Gryff has questions. A lot of questions.

This week, the brothers are talking about pegging: what it actually is, why Jason enjoys it and why the subject still makes so many straight men deeply uncomfortable.

Jason shares how one unexpected finger led to a whole new world with his girlfriend. He explains how they explored pegging together, what they got completely wrong at first and why being able to laugh through the awkward moments made the experience even better.

They also tackle the bigger misconceptions surrounding anal pleasure, masculinity and sexual orientation. Sometimes pleasure is just pleasure—and sometimes the dildo is blue because the person receiving it likes the blue one.

In This Episode

• What pegging actually means
• Why porn gives people a distorted picture of pegging
• Jason’s first experience discovering anal pleasure
• How self-exploration gradually led to partnered play
• Why their first attempts were awkward, funny and still incredibly hot
• What the giving partner can enjoy about pegging
• Why penetration doesn’t automatically create a dominant/submissive dynamic
• Why straight men often connect anal pleasure with shame or fear
• The persistent—and incorrect—question: “Does this make me gay?”
• Why pegging remains surprisingly taboo within parts of the swinging community
• Why preparation, communication and plenty of lube matter
• Why sex should leave room for laughter, mistakes and the occasional little bit of “residoo-doo”

Pegging didn’t change Jason’s sexuality. It expanded his understanding of pleasure, vulnerability and what he and his partner can explore together.

Send Us Your Kink Confessions

Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest?

DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

Follow The Kinky Bros Podcast

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Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea.

The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

Why rubber?

It’s shiny. It’s tight. It squeaks. And, according to Gryff, it can make you feel absolutely untouchable. Metaphorically, at least. He’s actually very touchable in rubber.

This week, Jason finally asks the question Gryff has been answering for years: What is it about rubber that turns him on so much? They talk about the first catsuit that caught Gryff’s attention, the sensory experience of wearing latex, the confidence it gives him and how slipping into a suit helps him become Gryff.

But rubber has given him something even bigger than a very shiny ass: a welcoming, worldwide kink community.

In This Episode

• Why rubber feels—and sounds—so damn sexy
• How gear can unlock confidence and a different side of yourself
• The surprisingly welcoming community surrounding rubber and latex
• Finding kink friends online and attending your first gear event
• Why you don’t have to own or wear rubber to belong
• Choosing your first rubber piece without spending a fortune
• Off-the-rack sizing versus custom-made gear
• The basics of washing, shining and storing latex
• Lube people versus talc people
• Gryff’s favorite suits—and Jason’s growing interest in transparent rubber
• The time Gryff secretly wore a full rubber suit around their parents

Rubber may be what brought Gryff through the door, but confidence and community are what made him stay.

And Jason may be closer than ever to buying his first piece.

Send Us Your Kink Confessions

Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest?

DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

Follow The Kinky Bros Podcast

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Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea.

The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

The Kinky Bros are back—and it takes them roughly eleven minutes to embarrass each other. 

Season 2 begins with a topic Gryff and Jason both know very well: edging. What starts as a conversation about lasting longer quickly becomes a much bigger discussion about anticipation, self-control, headspace, communication and why the buildup can sometimes feel even better than the finish.

The brothers compare techniques, talk about learning your body’s signals and reveal just how long their longest sessions have lasted.

Spoiler: one of them measures his record in minutes. The other measures his in work shifts.

In This Episode

• What edging actually is—and why people do it
• Jason’s “practice how you play” approach to lasting longer
• How rubber led Gryff deeper into edging and sensory play
• Using breathing, focus and meditation to control arousal
• Why edging is as mental as it is physical
• Learning where your edge is—and the disappointment of going one stroke too far
• Gryff’s personal record
• A five-hour edging scene involving rubber, restraints, ice and a vacuum cube
• Jason’s experiments with cages, toys and hands-free orgasms
• The surprising gamification of edging
• Giving control to a partner versus maintaining control yourself
• Recognizing someone’s physical “tell”
• The emotional release that can follow a prolonged orgasm
• Whether edging counts as sex
• Sensory deprivation, blindfolds and heightened awareness
• How beginners can start exploring edging safely and gradually
• Why anticipation may be the most powerful part of pleasure

Edging may be about stopping before the finish line—but for Gryff and Jason, the real appeal is everything that happens along the way.

Send Us Your Kink Confessions

Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest?

DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.

Follow The Kinky Bros Podcast

Website: thekinkybros.com
Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
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Email: info@thekinkybros.com

Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea.

The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

Seven episodes.
One podcast.
Countless unexpected conversations.
And somehow… people actually listened.

In this season one finale, we look back on everything that surprised us, challenged us, made us laugh, and brought us closer—from awkward first recordings and “plugged” confessions to hard conversations about spouses, friendships, and vulnerability.

We talk about the feedback that genuinely moved us, what we learned about each other, and how this podcast changed our relationship in ways we didn’t expect.

And yes… we’re talking about what’s next.

Season 2? Oh, we have ideas.

In This Episode:

• What surprised us most about each other
• The funniest moment of the entire season (spoiler: plugs were involved)
• The conversations that were hardest to have—and why
• YOUR feedback that genuinely hit us in the feels
• How this podcast changed our relationship as brothers
• What we learned about vulnerability, openness, and trust
• Season 2 ideas we’re very excited about 

A Real Note Before You Listen:

What started as a wild idea between brothers became something way more meaningful than either of us expected. Whether you listened to one episode or all seven… thank you.

Seriously.

Follow the Show:

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Follow Us:

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

Resources:

Don’t forget to check out the Kinky Bros Resource Guide at:
thekinkybros.com

Books, communities, podcasts, subreddits, and resources we referenced throughout the season—all in one place.

Season 2?

Let’s just say… we’ve got thoughts.

More guests.
More specific kink deep-dives.
More honest conversations.
Definitely edging.

You’ve been warned.

Disclaimer:

This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

After five episodes of two brothers oversharing about kink, relationships, communication, and discovery, it was time to bring in someone who actually knows what they’re talking about.

Enter Dr. Ty Lerman—clinical sexologist, certified sex therapist.

Together, we tackle some of the biggest questions listeners have been asking:
Is kink “normal”?
What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?
Is jealousy inevitable?
Can open relationships actually work?
And why are conversations about sex still so damn hard?

This episode is honest, educational, validating, and probably the one you’ll want to send to someone else.

In This Episode:

• Is it actually weird that two brothers talk openly about kink?
• The surprising stats on how many people are kinky (hint: way more than you think)
• Kink vs. fetish: what’s the actual difference?
• Why sex conversations still feel so taboo
• Open relationships: what people get wrong before they start
• Compersion: the word more people need to know
• Jealousy vs. envy (and why they’re NOT the same thing)
• Dr. Ty’s advice for anyone exploring kink for the first time

A Real Note Before You Listen:

This conversation is packed with information—but it’s still just that: a conversation.
Not therapy. Not medical advice. Just honest discussion with someone who’s spent years helping people navigate these exact topics.

Follow the Show:

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Follow Us:

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

Connect with Dr. Ty:

Instagram: @tdlcounseling
Website: https://tdlcounseling.com

Next Episode:

We wrap this first chapter of the Kinky Bros journey by talking about how to make these conversations easier—for couples, families, friends… and honestly, for all of us.

Disclaimer:

This podcast is intended for adult audiences only. This episode discusses sexuality, relationships, and kink in an educational and conversational context.

In Episode 5, we shift the conversation beyond partners and into the wider world—friends, social circles, and the different “buckets” we keep our lives in.

Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people we’ve known the longest?
What do we gain—or lose—by keeping parts of ourselves separate?

From “bro code” silence to unexpected support, we explore what it really looks like to navigate kink, identity, and curiosity in everyday life.

In This Episode:

• Why some friendships never go there—and others surprise you
• The “straight bro code” and why certain conversations don’t happen
• Keeping separate worlds: kink life vs. “vanilla” life
• How stigma shapes what we share (and what we don’t)
• Finding community in unexpected places 
• What happens when your identity starts to shift—and not everyone comes with you
• The question we all face: is there a cost to staying quiet?

A Real Note Before You Listen:

This episode might make you think about your own friendships—and what you choose to share (or keep hidden).
We’re not here to tell you what’s right. Just what’s been real for us.

Follow the Show:

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Follow Us:

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

Next Episode:

We’re calling in back-up, and we’re get psych-y! Certified sex therapist & clinical sexologist (& kinkster) Dr. Ty, joins the Kinky Bros podcast to answer all sorts of questions! 

⚠️ Disclaimer:

This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

In this episode, we open up about our partners, the conversations we’ve struggled to have, and what it really takes to navigate kink, curiosity, and identity inside a relationship.

From awkward moments and miscommunication to growth, boundaries, and hard truths—this is about figuring it out in real time.

In This Episode:

• Why communication is the hardest (and most important) part of all of this
• The reality of introducing kink into a relationship
• Moments we got it wrong—and what we learned from it
• The difference between rules vs. boundaries
• How partners react (support, hesitation, and everything in between)
• Why ego, fear, and timing play such a huge role

A Real Note Before You Listen:

These are real relationships and real conversations.
We’re only speaking from our own experiences—not giving advice, just sharing what we’ve lived.

Follow the Show:

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Follow Us:

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)

Next Episode:

Next time, the OTHER relationships we have… our friendships outside of kink. Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people who’ve known us the longest?

From rubber and leather to toys, sensation play, edging, and everything in between—we put it all on the table and uncover way more than we expected.

What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into real moments of surprise, connection, and a few “wait… you’re into that too?” realizations.

In This Episode:

• The gear we’re wearing (yes, we recorded this one in gear)
• Toys, plugs, cock rings, and how we actually use them
• Sensation play, electro play, and pushing boundaries
• The truth about edging—and why it’s a game changer
• Kinks we align on… and where we wildly differ
• The concept of compersion and shared pleasure
• Group dynamics, exhibitionism, and voyeurism

Follow the Show:

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Follow Us:

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X)

Next Episode:

We take things in a very different direction—what happens love meets kink...?
Spoiler: it’s not always easy.

From secret magazine discoveries to early internet chat rooms, we unpack the moments, influences, and silence that shaped our understanding of identity, pleasure, and shame.

This episode explores how childhood, sex education, and early experiences shape our understanding of kink, sexuality, and identity.

In This Episode:

• Why sex was never talked about growing up
• The unexpected “education” we actually got
• Early exposure: magazines, internet, and curiosity
• Growing up with (and without) shame
• How our experiences as kids shaped who we are now

Follow the Show:

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Follow Us:

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)

Next Episode:

We finally get into it—our kinks. What they are, how we discovered them, and why they’re not as strange as you might think.

In our very first episode, we share the unexpected moment we realized we’d both been exploring the world of kink—separately—and how that discovery completely changed our relationship.

We’re not experts—just two brothers having real, honest (and sometimes hilarious) conversations about things most people never say out loud.

In This Episode:

• How a random TV show sparked everything
• The first time we opened up to each other
• Our very different “origin stories” into kink
• Why this actually brought us closer

Follow the Show:

Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod

Follow Us:

Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (BlueSky & X)

Next Episode:

We go back to where it all started—growing up in the same house, but learning very different lessons about identity, masculinity, and the things nobody talked about.

You think you know your sibling… until you don’t.

What happens when the biggest secret you’ve both been keeping turns out to be the one thing that brings you closer?

From awkward first moments to full-on honesty, the Kinky Bros Podcast dives into identity, curiosity, and the things most people never say out loud.
Follow the Show:

Instagram: @kinkybrospodcast
BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social
X: @KinkyBrosPod