<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Joy & MESS]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to Joy &amp; MESS, the podcast where we talk about what it really looks like to build a life, a business, and a family when everything doesn’t always go according to plan. We’re Kalilah and Mikaela, moms, partners, creatives and entrepreneurs navigating the joy, the mess and everything in between. Let’s get into it.</p>]]></description><link>https://riverside.com</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2026 02:52:55 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/42a8LvJn.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[Kalilah Wright & Mikaela Pabon]]></author><pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2026 19:53:08 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 Kalilah Wright & Mikaela Pabon]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Entrepreneurship]]></category><itunes:author>Kalilah Wright &amp; Mikaela Pabon</itunes:author><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Welcome to Joy &amp;amp; MESS, the podcast where we talk about what it really looks like to build a life, a business, and a family when everything doesn’t always go according to plan. We’re Kalilah and Mikaela, moms, partners, creatives and entrepreneurs navigating the joy, the mess and everything in between. Let’s get into it.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Kalilah Wright &amp; Mikaela Pabon</itunes:name><itunes:email>aloha@mikaelapabon.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Business"><itunes:category text="Entrepreneurship"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/e7901a8f-2dbe-4608-9287-ec72522e1dfc/logos/d840aa05-d199-43c2-ab57-a35a0b3a0b6c.png"/><item><title><![CDATA[Men Lie, Women Lie, Numbers Don't]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>Men Lie, Women Lie, Numbers Don’t</b></p><p>In this episode of <b>Joy &amp; Mess</b>, we’re talking about the numbers behind the business, both the ones we love to celebrate and the ones that keep us up at night.</p><p>We get into revenue versus profit, cash flow, financial pressure, the milestones we’re proud of, and the reality that a business can look incredibly successful from the outside while telling a much more complicated story behind the scenes.</p><p>Because numbers can be exciting, humbling, encouraging, and sometimes a little disrespectful. 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We also talk about what it means to build as Black women in a time when so many Black-owned businesses are struggling to survive.</p><p>This isn’t about glorifying struggle or pretending resilience makes everything easy. It’s about being honest about what survival can cost, what we’ve had to learn along the way, and the fact that sometimes the win is simply that you’re still here.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fb3b883b-96f5-46fb-ae17-1700496e8ea4</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kalilah Wright & Mikaela Pabon]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2026 13:43:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9eb8fc7ef0de686a9f869cf572d2c67d4cb32fe8921e0857aa0c95812a587166/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmYjNiODgzYi05NmY1LTQ2ZmItYWUxNy0xNzAwNDk2ZThlYTQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJlNzkwMWE4Zi0yZGJlLTQ2MDgtOTI4Ny1lYzcyNTIyZTFkZmMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2YTYzZjEyMmUzZGI1YjdlY2ZhZDA3NTgiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4N2FkOTk0NjI1YWI4MGI5NDAyNzY5L21pa2FlbGEtcGFib25zLXN0dWRpby1jb21wb3Nlci0yMDI2LTgtMjFfXzMtNDQtNTYubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="37943318" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/e7901a8f-2dbe-4608-9287-ec72522e1dfc/episodes/fb3b883b-96f5-46fb-ae17-1700496e8ea4/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;But Did You Die, Though?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;b&gt;Joy &amp;amp; Mess&lt;/b&gt;, we’re talking about the seasons in business that stretched us further than we ever expected.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The moments when things felt uncertain, exhausting, financially scary, or just plain hard, and somehow, we still had to keep showing up. 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