<![CDATA[Moving Words]]>If you struggle with hard conversations, it's not because you lack vocabulary or brains, but because your nervous system collapses at the thought of upsetting others.

We go beyond assertive communication tips, to those hidden reasons why under stress you freeze or fawn (people-please), including triggers, trauma, and trapped tension. No topic is taboo here.

We show you how to work with your nervous system to re-pattern it, so you can finally find your words and speak up, ask for what you want, decline what you don't, and confront others directly (but tactfully) when life calls for it.

]]>clearkind.orgRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Tue, 27 Oct 2026 02:46:49 GMTFri, 25 Sep 2026 21:21:27 GMT60Aldad Cando<p>If you struggle with hard conversations, it's not because you lack vocabulary or brains, but because your <b><strong>nervous system collapses</strong></b> at the thought of upsetting others.</p><p>We go beyond assertive communication tips, to those hidden reasons why under stress you freeze or fawn (people-please), including triggers, trauma, and trapped tension. No topic is taboo here.</p><p>We show you how to work with your nervous system to re-pattern it, so you can finally find your words and speak up, ask for what you want, decline what you don't, and confront others directly (but tactfully) when life calls for it.</p>episodicAldad Candomichgd@gmail.comyes<![CDATA[Episode 1: What Coaching Teaches Us About Tuning Into Emotions]]>A conversation about communication and coaching techniques, using an emotional lens to find hidden patterns and motivators. Along the way, we discover how imposter syndrome is distorting thoughts about out guest's journey in learning how to coach.

00:00 - Introduction and Emotional Check-in
01:28 - Toma's New Path and Coaching Journey
03:27 - Coaching through An Emotional Lense
05:08 - Why Coaching Matters Now
05:49 - Toma's Personal Reason To Learn Coaching
07:23 - Current Learning Journey in Coaching
08:33 - Trying not to Impose Thoughts on Coachee
09:46 - The Fear of Loosing Trust due to A Lack of Skill
11:04 - Toma Reveals his Imposter Syndrome
13:36 - Reflecting Back to the Coachee After Listening
15:13 - Listening Meditation Technique
17:05 - Opening Energetic Knots
18:35 - How Not To Judge While Listening
22:14 - How To Decide Which Feedback Matters And Will Have An Impact
23:46 - Emotional Memory: Trusting Intuition in Coaching
24:47 - Understanding the Emotional Curve: From Imposter Syndrome to Competence
26:55 - The 4 Stages of Learning And Corresponding Emotions
29:35 - When Direct Feedback Ruins Trust and Empowerment
31:23 - Empowering Clients: Tailoring Guidance to their Emotional State
36:29 - Transforming Imposter Syndrome into a Superpower
37:00 - Emotionally Charged Words and How They Lead to Breakthroughs
39:13 - Debunking The Myth of Unrealistic Expectations of a Coach's Impact
41:19 - The Impact of Coaching & Guaranteeing An Outcome Through Specialization
44:16 - Key Takeaways And Reflections
45:28 - The Power of Vulnerability in Being Coachable

]]>3f0bc4cf-6def-4c9e-ad1b-889f3f04066aFri, 25 Sep 2026 21:31:57 GMT<p>A conversation about communication and coaching techniques, using an emotional lens to find hidden patterns and motivators. Along the way, we discover how imposter syndrome is distorting thoughts about out guest's journey in learning how to coach.</p><p>00:00 - Introduction and Emotional Check-in<br />01:28 - Toma's New Path and Coaching Journey<br />03:27 - Coaching through An Emotional Lense<br />05:08 - Why Coaching Matters Now<br />05:49 - Toma's Personal Reason To Learn Coaching<br />07:23 - Current Learning Journey in Coaching<br />08:33 - Trying not to Impose Thoughts on Coachee<br />09:46 - The Fear of Loosing Trust due to A Lack of Skill<br />11:04 - Toma Reveals his Imposter Syndrome<br />13:36 - Reflecting Back to the Coachee After Listening<br />15:13 - Listening Meditation Technique<br />17:05 - Opening Energetic Knots<br />18:35 - How Not To Judge While Listening<br />22:14 - How To Decide Which Feedback Matters And Will Have An Impact<br />23:46 - Emotional Memory: Trusting Intuition in Coaching<br />24:47 - Understanding the Emotional Curve: From Imposter Syndrome to Competence<br />26:55 - The 4 Stages of Learning And Corresponding Emotions<br />29:35 - When Direct Feedback Ruins Trust and Empowerment<br />31:23 - Empowering Clients: Tailoring Guidance to their Emotional State<br />36:29 - Transforming Imposter Syndrome into a Superpower<br />37:00 - Emotionally Charged Words and How They Lead to Breakthroughs<br />39:13 - Debunking The Myth of Unrealistic Expectations of a Coach's Impact<br />41:19 - The Impact of Coaching &amp; Guaranteeing An Outcome Through Specialization<br />44:16 - Key Takeaways And Reflections<br />45:28 - The Power of Vulnerability in Being Coachable</p>yes00:46:42Episode 1: What Coaching Teaches Us About Tuning Into Emotionsfull