<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Bottoming]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Sex coach and educator Alexxx Gay (@heyalexgay) takes on life and the pursuit of a happy hole.</p><p></p><p>Tune in for weekly-ish episodes filled with humor and real insights to help you live your best bottom lifestyle.</p>]]></description><link>heyalexgay.com</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2026 05:13:42 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/2rbTrERe.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[Alexxx Gay]]></author><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2026 19:41:16 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 Alexxx Gay]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Comedy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Sexuality]]></category><itunes:author>Alexxx Gay</itunes:author><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Sex coach and educator Alexxx Gay (@heyalexgay) takes on life and the pursuit of a happy hole.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tune in for weekly-ish episodes filled with humor and real insights to help you live your best bottom lifestyle.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Alexxx Gay</itunes:name><itunes:email>alex@alexxx.gay</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Comedy"/><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Sexuality"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/logos/c2b51f51-7b98-4ade-a142-f21054cafc61.jpeg"/><item><title><![CDATA[Bottoming Pod: Episode Five: The Hole Enchilada!]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>What are we getting to the bottom of this week? </p><p></p><p>Alex takes a look at some inspirational quotes from Instagram. They're nice and all, but they don't really go deep enough, you know? We spill the tea on how to avoid getting burned when your friend spills ALL the tea on their relationship. Sometimes gurl, that can feel like a trap, cuz what if they stay together and you've said her manz is basically trash? Don't worry, we've got you. Also, we dispel the myth that you need super expensive underwear or products to properly pump that dump. You can bake those buns with some simple adjustments to your lifestyle, so he can break your back instead of you breaking the bank. All this and so much more await your seggsy little ears.</p><p></p><p>Take that tip and pleasure us with a like and subscribe! Our episodes are all about your good time, and if you want your question answered here on the pod, then send it to Alex (@heyalexgay): <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:Alex@heyalexgay.com" target="_blank">Alex@heyalexgay.com</a> </p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8125f96d-40c8-42cb-9793-4cf3ae161e6f</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexxx Gay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2026 18:59:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/0a9ceaeaebff36aa702e565293dc83f088b74cbbf7b73cc63c427f78f1edfbcf/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI4MTI1Zjk2ZC00MGM4LTQyY2ItOTc5My00Y2YzYWUxNjFlNmYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI5Y2Q1YjlkNS0yMDE5LTQ0NTQtYTYyNi02ZWJiZTA0MTZiNjAiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWYyNGZjNWQzYmM2MGRkNDg5YWE1ZDgiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE5MzJjMDFlZjJkZTM5YzJjY2ZlNDBmL2FsZXgtZ2F5cy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi04LTI5X18yMC01OS0xMy5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="50297356" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/episodes/8125f96d-40c8-42cb-9793-4cf3ae161e6f/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;What are we getting to the bottom of this week? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Alex takes a look at some inspirational quotes from Instagram. They&apos;re nice and all, but they don&apos;t really go deep enough, you know? We spill the tea on how to avoid getting burned when your friend spills ALL the tea on their relationship. Sometimes gurl, that can feel like a trap, cuz what if they stay together and you&apos;ve said her manz is basically trash? Don&apos;t worry, we&apos;ve got you. Also, we dispel the myth that you need super expensive underwear or products to properly pump that dump. You can bake those buns with some simple adjustments to your lifestyle, so he can break your back instead of you breaking the bank. All this and so much more await your seggsy little ears.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take that tip and pleasure us with a like and subscribe! Our episodes are all about your good time, and if you want your question answered here on the pod, then send it to Alex (@heyalexgay): &lt;a rel=&quot;noopener noreferrer nofollow&quot; href=&quot;mailto:Alex@heyalexgay.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Alex@heyalexgay.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:26:12</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/logos/c2b51f51-7b98-4ade-a142-f21054cafc61.jpeg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Bottoming Pod: Episode Five: The Hole Enchilada!</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bottoming Pod: Episode Four: Hands Free Hot Takes!]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hey there bottoms, sides, and fries. This episode might be giving a little Short King energy, because sometimes us gurls just wanna have fun! On this episode of "The Bottoming Pod," we're just sitting bareback, relaxing, and getting down (and dirty) with some wild and steamy Reddit stories. The easily scandalized better go to bed for this one, because a lot of these users are spilling the tea on their best times bottoming ever. Believe us when we say they don't spare a single detail. Sip, sip, SIP!</p><p></p><p>We hope this episode allows you to live vicariously through some very lucky bottoms. And who knows, you might just pick up some inspiration or even a tip. We can't promise more than the tip though. After all, we're just a voice in your ear. </p><p></p><p>If you have stories of any kind relating to your erotic connections with this great, green world, then you should totally share with Alex! Hit him up on Instagram (@heyalexgay) and maybe we'll read your story on the pod. Our DMzzzz are wide open for questions too, and the ones we've been getting have been terrific. Don't stop... Please... Don't stop! SLIDE IN!</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1413d52d-ef03-44c1-a6f5-322af4fe67fb</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexxx Gay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2026 03:15:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/9384e4b4a365b0fef57d44cee9e40a5f8c87f05eb03015f8359ffa3f6abc135c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxNDEzZDUyZC1lZjAzLTQ0YzEtYTZmNS0zMjJhZjRmZTY3ZmIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI5Y2Q1YjlkNS0yMDE5LTQ0NTQtYTYyNi02ZWJiZTA0MTZiNjAiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWYyNGZjNWQzYmM2MGRkNDg5YWE1ZDgiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE4NjcxNjA1M2E5MDk4MWQyZDE3NDQzL2FsZXgtZ2F5cy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi04LTIwX181LTE1LTQ0Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="45296056" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/episodes/1413d52d-ef03-44c1-a6f5-322af4fe67fb/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Hey there bottoms, sides, and fries. This episode might be giving a little Short King energy, because sometimes us gurls just wanna have fun! On this episode of &quot;The Bottoming Pod,&quot; we&apos;re just sitting bareback, relaxing, and getting down (and dirty) with some wild and steamy Reddit stories. The easily scandalized better go to bed for this one, because a lot of these users are spilling the tea on their best times bottoming ever. Believe us when we say they don&apos;t spare a single detail. Sip, sip, SIP!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We hope this episode allows you to live vicariously through some very lucky bottoms. And who knows, you might just pick up some inspiration or even a tip. We can&apos;t promise more than the tip though. After all, we&apos;re just a voice in your ear. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you have stories of any kind relating to your erotic connections with this great, green world, then you should totally share with Alex! Hit him up on Instagram (@heyalexgay) and maybe we&apos;ll read your story on the pod. Our DMzzzz are wide open for questions too, and the ones we&apos;ve been getting have been terrific. Don&apos;t stop... Please... Don&apos;t stop! SLIDE IN!&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:23:35</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/logos/c2b51f51-7b98-4ade-a142-f21054cafc61.jpeg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Bottoming Pod: Episode Four: Hands Free Hot Takes!</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bottoming Pod: Episode Three: Can't we all just get a Thong?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>What's turning the pod on this week? Get up close and personal with Alexxx Gay to learn the ins and proud outs of asking for what you want most in bed. </p><p></p><p>Your best bottoming days are just a click away. On this episode we get practical about how to open up, and not just emotionally. We've got you covered (and uncovered) when it comes to what finger positioning best opens up your anus, which lubricants are best suited for which erotic activities, and so much more. </p><p></p><p>Don't worry, we won't stiff you, unless you consent of course... we also have some very juicy questions from our anonymous listeners you'll have to hear to believe. Enough foreplay. We know you're gonna put that thick, hot index finger on that subscribe button. I wonder where you'll put it next? Happy bottoming! &lt;3</p><p></p><p>If you've got questions of your own, then hit up Alex on Instagram: @heyalexgay</p><p></p><p>Please fill his DMzzzzzz! PLEEEEEEEEASE! STUFF THEM GOOD!</p><p></p><p>P.S. - Strict Tops, if you want to know how to really please your bottom, our show is also very much for you. ;-)</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dab051f8-1358-4f36-97e7-3f5134ff73ac</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexxx Gay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2026 15:35:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/0bf25ba73f1a805fa1f2177156c267bef66180fdd28bbf97836f9fecd88e141c/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkYWIwNTFmOC0xMzU4LTRmMzYtOTdlNy0zZjUxMzRmZjczYWMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI5Y2Q1YjlkNS0yMDE5LTQ0NTQtYTYyNi02ZWJiZTA0MTZiNjAiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWYyNGZjNWQzYmM2MGRkNDg5YWE1ZDgiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE3ZGU1MDEwYjYyYTFkZGQzZWVhMDRmL2FsZXgtZ2F5cy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi04LTEzX18xNy0zOC00MS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="54518743" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/episodes/dab051f8-1358-4f36-97e7-3f5134ff73ac/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;What&apos;s turning the pod on this week? Get up close and personal with Alexxx Gay to learn the ins and proud outs of asking for what you want most in bed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your best bottoming days are just a click away. On this episode we get practical about how to open up, and not just emotionally. We&apos;ve got you covered (and uncovered) when it comes to what finger positioning best opens up your anus, which lubricants are best suited for which erotic activities, and so much more. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Don&apos;t worry, we won&apos;t stiff you, unless you consent of course... we also have some very juicy questions from our anonymous listeners you&apos;ll have to hear to believe. Enough foreplay. We know you&apos;re gonna put that thick, hot index finger on that subscribe button. I wonder where you&apos;ll put it next? Happy bottoming! &amp;lt;3&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you&apos;ve got questions of your own, then hit up Alex on Instagram: @heyalexgay&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Please fill his DMzzzzzz! PLEEEEEEEEASE! STUFF THEM GOOD!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;P.S. - Strict Tops, if you want to know how to really please your bottom, our show is also very much for you. ;-)&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:28:24</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/logos/c2b51f51-7b98-4ade-a142-f21054cafc61.jpeg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Bottoming Pod: Episode Three: Can&apos;t we all just get a Thong?</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bottoming Pod: Episode Two: Booty is in the Eye of who be holdin' it]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><i>DISCLAIMER: There is an audio issue with this episode that connects to the publishing company we work with. Please be patient as we sort out this problem, and please check out some of our other episodes for now. We hope to have the audio available for you very soon. -Producer Collin</i></p><p></p><p>What're we getting to the bottom of this week!?</p><p></p><p>Go deeper with us into what really makes people hot. Let's talk about why cruising is not exactly "in." Join us for an exploration into greener, gayer pastures.</p><p></p><p>You never know what we'll be reacting to, so we can't spoil the surprise for you here. You (and all your queerest friends) will have to like, subscribe, submit (ok, maybe not that), and listen to find out. If you want to talk to Alex (@heyalexgay), his Dms are WIIIIIIDE open, among other thingsss.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">12a89f91-f0e3-4800-8050-cb5d3d2fc707</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexxx Gay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2026 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/c5cac91b07ee8aa51b754afea2622812bf8ef0b96d3eb1b67d0f8f29b5c42178/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIxMmE4OWY5MS1mMGUzLTQ4MDAtODA1MC1jYjVkM2QyZmM3MDciLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI5Y2Q1YjlkNS0yMDE5LTQ0NTQtYTYyNi02ZWJiZTA0MTZiNjAiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWYyNGZjNWQzYmM2MGRkNDg5YWE1ZDgiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE3MzkwN2M0NWU0Y2U2NGU5M2FiMzQ1L2FsZXgtZ2F5cy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi04LTVfXzIxLTM1LTI0Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="54741934" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;DISCLAIMER: There is an audio issue with this episode that connects to the publishing company we work with. Please be patient as we sort out this problem, and please check out some of our other episodes for now. We hope to have the audio available for you very soon. -Producer Collin&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What&apos;re we getting to the bottom of this week!?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Go deeper with us into what really makes people hot. Let&apos;s talk about why cruising is not exactly &quot;in.&quot; Join us for an exploration into greener, gayer pastures.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You never know what we&apos;ll be reacting to, so we can&apos;t spoil the surprise for you here. You (and all your queerest friends) will have to like, subscribe, submit (ok, maybe not that), and listen to find out. If you want to talk to Alex (@heyalexgay), his Dms are WIIIIIIDE open, among other thingsss.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:28:31</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/logos/c2b51f51-7b98-4ade-a142-f21054cafc61.jpeg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Bottoming Pod: Episode Two: Booty is in the Eye of who be holdin&apos; it</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bottoming Pod: Episode One: Where it all Beginsssss]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Join Alex Gay (@heyalexgay) on their virginal "Bottoming" pod episode! That's right, ladies! 'Tis our first time, and we want to go through the experience with you. On this episode, and all future episodes, we help empower bottoms, teach tops, and celebrate the gender and sexual diversity that makes this world so seggsy to live in. If you neeeeeed more, then message Alex on Instagram or send them a steamy little inquiry at podcast@heyalexgay.com.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5531570a-d92f-42e1-ada0-6102d79d7f62</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexxx Gay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2026 20:19:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/6d4892282749997e26513c3ff6439d3f54185973b0e64679aeca6486180a6c34/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1NTMxNTcwYS1kOTJmLTQyZTEtYWRhMC02MTAyZDc5ZDdmNjIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI5Y2Q1YjlkNS0yMDE5LTQ0NTQtYTYyNi02ZWJiZTA0MTZiNjAiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OWYyNGZjNWQzYmM2MGRkNDg5YWE1ZDgiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNmE2NTFjMTE5MDMwZjkwYmM0ZTJkYTY0L2FsZXgtZ2F5cy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi03LTI1X18yMi0yNi01Ny5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="49641160" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/episodes/5531570a-d92f-42e1-ada0-6102d79d7f62/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Join Alex Gay (@heyalexgay) on their virginal &quot;Bottoming&quot; pod episode! That&apos;s right, ladies! &apos;Tis our first time, and we want to go through the experience with you. On this episode, and all future episodes, we help empower bottoms, teach tops, and celebrate the gender and sexual diversity that makes this world so seggsy to live in. If you neeeeeed more, then message Alex on Instagram or send them a steamy little inquiry at podcast@heyalexgay.com.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:25:51</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/9cd5b9d5-2019-4454-a626-6ebbe0416b60/logos/c2b51f51-7b98-4ade-a142-f21054cafc61.jpeg"/><itunes:title>Bottoming Pod: Episode One: Where it all Beginsssss</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>